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I got married this year. Michael and I have been together for 4 years. I love him. He is my best friend. He makes me laugh and accepts me for exactly who I am. Yes, there are things that annoy me such as how he is messy. He doesn’t really pick up his clothes. He doesn’t Lay’s put things away right away. Sometimes he expects me to do things for him , nothing major, things like recently we had to take our dog to the vet. I told him to call the vet and make the appointment. He got a bit annoyed that I asked him to do it and I wouldn’t just call. I reminded him that I’m at work when they open and I work during the day, when he is home at that time. He then called the next morning and took him to the vet. I blame his mother because she coddled him a bit whereas my parents made me do things myself more. But I put my foot down and explain why he should do it and not me, he will do it. And now he is taking our dog to the follow up appointment and he is taking him and didn’t try to get me to, so that is really good. I love micheal and accept him for all he us.

We got married in September. I was in wedded bliss through November. Now I keep seeing social media posts and memes and people breaking up or not really being in love but staying because they are afraid to leave. Its odd, and of course made me anxious tonight when I saw a TikTok unexpectidly saying “be honest with yourself. Do you really love them or are you terrified of being alone.” I was 🍃💨 and it made me Hella anxious and scared that I didn’t live Michael and we just got married. Then I told Michael and he comforted me a little and I tried 🍃💨more but it made me a little more anxious so I went to bed. I calmed myself down and I feel better. I am kind of coming out of the “just married bliss” and realizing the level of commitment a marriage is and what it means and it kinda scared me a little. This is the most adult thing I’ve done. I am happy of my choice to marry Michael. He is my best friend, my lover and life partner. I love doing life with him. Its okay to get anxious. It is a big step for us. We decided to bring the law and government into our relationship. We decided to commit fully. I am so excited for our future. I have no regrets. It is normal and okay to be a little anxious or scared after getting married. Getting married is a big commitment and a big deal. It doesn’t mean you love your partner any less. Its okay.

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