#stone stud lesbians

[chirxlity]

Good morning, lesbians!

hope y'all have a nice day! 💜 stay safe and remember:

•Israel is not a legitimate state (no country really is but you know what i mean) and should be entirely dismantled.

•Palestinian people must have their lands and homes back and they deserve all of our support in their struggles. FREE PALESTINE.

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[raging-guanche]

for all my mascs out there;

YOU ARE NOT PREDATORY FOR LIKING FEMS AND/OR WOMEN.

YOU ARE NOT UGLY OR DANGEROUS.

YOU ARE LOVED, IMPORTANT AND QUEER ENOUGH

YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY WITH YOUR MASCULINITY.

#tw caps #masc #masc lesbian #stem lesbian #stud lesbian #butch #butch4butch #soft butch #stone butch #butch lesbian #masc gay #gay masculine #masculine men #trans masc #transmasc #transmasculine #masc mlm

[violottie]

shout out to lesbians whose gender is also lesbian

lesbians for whom the only way to describe yourself is lesbian or butch or femme or stud or dyke, for whom you don't identify as a woman but do identify as a lesbian.

i see you, and I understand, and i assure you we are exquisite

❤️🧡🤍🩷💖

#lesbian #lesbian pride #lesbianism #lesbian positivity #lesbian gender lesbian #butch lesbian #femme lesbian #stud lesbian #stone lesbian #trans lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #dyke #dyke pride

[star-princess-princess]

I need people to stop acting like studs are so aggressive and mean or are basically men. You’re racist and misogynistic. Studs are literally some of the sweetest people on the planet and have always acted as protectors of our community, It’s time we protect them back. This includes trans women/trans fems who identify as studs!!!

TERFS FUCK OFF

#high femme #stone femme #femme princess #pillow princess #femme4masc #femme4stud #femme #sapphic lesbian #femme4butch #sapphic love #black femme #femme for masc #sapphic longing #stud positivity #stud lesbian #stud fem #angel princess speaks

[stonetopbutch]

Butch/femme culture doesn't really exist (in a historical context) where I'm from and for the longest time I felt...wrong. Even before I knew English, before I had access to the internet, before I even knew I liked women I felt different, I was different.

Eventually I came to realise I liked women, but even in the sapphic world I was not like the others. I didn't feel the same things as them, didn't have the same needs. I had dear friends telling me "you'll get over it eventually", "you'll feel different with the right one", "you still haven't tried it out?!" when I shared with them that I didn't want to be touched. I felt so alien. I thought something was deeply, deeply wrong with me. When I got with my first girlfriend every time we were intimate I felt greedy, like I was only taking and never, ever giving. I would apologise constantly while the guilt ate away at me.

Then I discovered what "stone" was. Fuck, was it good to find out that not only was I not "wrong", but there is an entire community of people like me and people who exclusively love people like me for the way we are, instead of despite it.

  Stone shaming continues to be very prevalent in the sapphic world, both towards stone tops and stone bottoms. It is so important to have a space where we can exist without being shamed and judged. But the acceptance needs to happen outside of this space too. Being stone is not unusual, it's not bad, it's not wrong, and it most certainly does not make you  "less gay" or a "fake lesbian". 

I understand that not everyone can be satisfied with the strict dynamics of such a relationship, but to call being stone "an ick", "a phase" or to diminish it in any other way is just wrong.

Love and support your stone butches, studs and femmes.

#just a little rant #butch #femme #stud #RESPECT STONE LESBIANS #anyway

[pinkcarabiner]

hello lovely butches and studs! i'm curious to know how many of you identify as stone. i just made a poll for the femmes, but want to ask the studs and butches of our community as well. i would love if you could share more about your stoneness and how you identify (stone butch, pillow prince, etc.) in the tags! no pressure to share, of course. i would also appreciate if you could reblog even if you don't identify as butch or stud to boost the sample size! thank you so much! ♡

#reposting since i forgot to set the poll length to a week!!! #🎀 #butch #stud #stone #lesbian #lgbt #lgbtq #polls polls polls polls

[kissbruised]

oh to be a femme vampire having an enemies to lovers experience with a butch vampire hunter

#mine #butch #lesbian #femme #stone femme #femme4butch #butch/femme #stone butch #butch4femme #femme/stud #stud/femme #stud4femme #femme/butch

[prettyguardian-prettygirl]

Mascs, Studs, and Butches are an amazing gift to the world

#queer masculinity #masc positivity #stud lesbian #black femme #femme4butch #femme4masc #femme4stud #femme for masc #femme for butch #butch positivity #stone butch #sapphic love #sapphic longing #sapphic yearning #masc lesbian #lesbian

[lavender-femme]

i just want to be a safe place for butches and studs. i want for you to to know i see you completely as you are, as you want to be, and as you tell me you are. you are safe, wanted, desired… there is no love more sincere. butches and studs i love you.

#femme4butch #femme4stud #femme #butches are a blessing #studs are a blessing #lesbian #stone femme #stone butch

[forthelostones]

when i was in high school i was androgynous and wanted to be called they/them. i would bind my chest and walk around with short hair and it was a really nice feeling. 7 years later i would be perceived as a femme. i’m not sure i feel close to that title because even when i have long hair, i still wear androgynous clothing. i think because i’m a black women my fear of being double masculinized has gotten stronger as i’ve aged. i’m 5’11 and 290 ibs, i would say i’m fit, but i take up a lot of space and it feels like being feminine will alleviate that.

i’m not sure if i identity with some of my androgynous qualities from the past due to the fact that most people see black women as masculine automatically due to misogynoir. i’m not sure what i identity as. [in some regards labels and identities feel like a feature of white supremacy so i am reluctant to ‘chose’]

my presenting self is a spectrum in my opinion. somedays i wear this or that but don’t like to label myself as a stem. i think that confinement restricts me more. idk.

recently i started going to the gym and only lifting weights. and while it may place me in a category from the outside it feels like a very genderless or title-less edition to my life/identity.

all this to say as i’m writing i am considering the possibility of exploring identities out of the femme space. because while that resonates with me, so many other things do too. this is in my professional writing as well.

if any lesbians want to share their story with identity and maybe the loop that they go through please feel free to tell me. i want to learn more and work towards literature that has inclusive language and identities.

#jstar!yapz #butch lesbian #butch dyke #black lesbian #black stud #masc lesbian #femme4masc #femme4butch #femme lesbian #high femme #stone butch #butch appreciation #lesbian books #lesbian novels #lesbian writers

[violottie]

to celebrate lesbian visibility week, all lesbians have legal immunity and thus are allowed to, and encouraged to, freely kill every man and lesbophobe who dares open their steaming gob to spew lesbophobic bullshit inside and outside the wider community, and especially around our own.

stay safe, protect each other, and have fun out there ❤️🧡🤍🩷💖

#lesbian #lesbian visibility week #lesbian pride #lesbian joy #lesbian positivity #proud lesbian #lesbian safe #lesbianism #i hope jakey dies #butch lesbian #femme lesbian #stud lesbian #stone lesbian #aro lesbian #ace lesbian #aroace lesbian #les4les #dyke #dyke pride #trans lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #transmasc lesbian #transfem lesbian #t4t lesbian #black lesbian #brown lesbian #lesbian woc #lesbian poc #i love being a lesbian #anti bi lesbian

[star-princess-princess]

reblog to give a butch, masc, or stud a kiss

#high femme #stone femme #femme princess #pillow princess #femme4masc #femme4stud #femme #sapphic lesbian #femme4butch #sapphic love #black femme #sapphic longing #femme for masc #stud fem #stud positivity #stud lesbian #stone butch #angel princess speaks

[chubby-femme-boi]

@mono-517 Tumblr hides your comment from me.

A stone is common term in the lesbian community but not exclusive. It is a boundary for that individual on a spectrum on how little they may give/receive. For example, some stone tops do not want their own erogenous zones touched and only want to touch their partner. Some stone bottoms do not want to touch their partner and only want to receive. It's just whatever they're comfiest with.

And I must stress that this is a boundary accepted and consented to by BOTH parties involved. Stones are not abusive for their boundaries. Stone bottoms especially get flack for "doing nothing in bed" and/or "taking advantage of their top".

My butch is a lovely stone bottom butch I love very very much. While I may be a switch myself I'm very satisfied in our relationship and dynamics. We have our compromises and boundaries made clear. (If you're the crowd that think stones are abusive, am I abusive for never wanting a partner with facial hair? Especially to touch my face or stomach with their facial hair? It's rooted in trauma for me. What makes stones different?)

@stonebottombutchblues ily 😘

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[butchkeito]

butchfemme lesbians discord server !

this server is a safe space for all butch, femme, stud and stem lesbians ! we are a sfw server for people aged 18-27. please understand that our server is meant ONLY for lesbians identifying with these labels, as there is a lack of spaces exclusively for us! we are trans dominated but you can join us if you are cis as well.

"mspec lesbians" and their supporters ARE NOT WELCOME HERE.

invite : https://discord.gg/ANFAeEcDBw

rts / likes appreciated for reach ^^ and invite your butchfemme friends !!

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