#that is like.. my exact gender

[bcyhoods]

when eddie’s sick, i feel like he does the absolute most to deny that he’s actually sick. the man could be hacking and wheezing all over the trailer, his nose beet-red and chapped, and he would still insist that he’s felt worse. he is doing anything in his power to convince you that he’s fine, doing simple household tasks like see, can a sick person do this ;)) and it’s just him washing a mug.

it’s not really because he doesn’t want you to worry about him, although that’s definitely part of it. but he’s gotten this far. he’s just used to taking care of himself whenever wayne wasn’t home. pushing you away is more of a defense mechanism than anything. as if letting you tend to him meant that he was giving up or that you’d eventually leave when it got too much

once he starts letting you take care of him though…the theatrics are at an all time high. you’d think he was on his deathbed. flailing limbs, and whining, and exaggerating his symptoms, and definitely an entire monologue about the only cure for illness is a lover’s kiss :((( all so he could have you make him chicken soup and play with his hair and kiss his forehead

#contrary to popular belief i think but like. #he’s so used to self-sufficiency that letting you love him feels scary #then we he caves — he CAVES #i love my boyfriend #this was also supposed to quell my need to write a full blurb on this but it did the exact opposite lolzies #eddie munson hc #eddie munson thots! #eddie munson fluff #eddie munson x reader #eddie munson #eddie munson blurb #eddie munson x fem!reader #eddie munson x y/n #eddie munson x gender neutral reader #eddie munson x you #eddie munson imagine

[star-centric]

Dazai as a househusband would make you late to work almost every day.

He really isn’t trying to (maybe), but how could he let you leave so easily just after one kiss? He’s already pouting when you’re dressed and halfway out the door before he pulls you in for a goodbye kiss, your lips soft and inviting as always. It’s always just a promise of “just one more”, but one soon turns to two, which turns to three-

It’s hard to pull yourself away, sinking deeper into his hold as his fingers find and dance their way on your waist. It’s easy to get lost in it-until your phone starts blaring with your “I’m late” alarm, which has you pressing your lips clumsily against his really for the final time, yelling out an I love you before racing out the door, refusing to look back at his cute pout. Just a glance would make your steps falter and end up back in his arms (you would know, you fell for it more than once).

You don’t know how or why you keep falling for this (you do know the reason why, you’re just weak when it comes to him and you really don’t want to leave without some more kisses either).

#this has been sitting in my drafts FOREVER #and I mean it really #like a few days since I made this blog to be exact 😭😭 #writings.txts #bsd.txts #bsd dazai x reader #bsd dazai x gender neutral reader #bsd x reader #bsd x y/n #bsd x you #bsd x gender neutral reader #bungo stray dogs x you #bungo stray dogs x reader #dazai osamu x reader #dazai osamu x you #dazai osamu x y/n #dazai osamu x gender neutral reader

[tvlandofficiall]

HOW DOES IT FEEL TO BE RIGHT ABOUT THE WEATHERS USING MASC TERMS IN A LADY KINDA WAY AND FEM TERMS IN A FELLA KINDA WAY. THEIR NAMES ARE LA NIÑO AND EL NIÑA

truly i cannot believe i have won at gender but i am thankful that i did. me deciding everyone should have gnc swag like i do has paid off. thank you valentine's newsletter for being the gift that keeps on giving.

i am really excited to see the canon weather duo in general! the little bits we got in the valentine are already so good – the line about "let's give this card to Someone Else to show how much we love Exclusively Each Other!" definitely calls to mind how asgore gives rudy giant bouquets despite still singlemindedly chasing toriel, and i'm excited to see both what they mirror from the dreemurrs and (of course) the things that make them their own characters!

#ooc #weather duo #deltarune #very excited to see what happens next! #(also i edited the sprite in like. two seconds.) #i'm not sure if my exact guesses will be what we get but! nonetheless. gender.

[imissthembutitwasntadisaster]

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#My issue with side y discourse generally is when they say you shouldn't use queer lables because your identity in Christ should be first. #like yes it should but if you're also comfortable calling someone straight then you're being a hypocrite #because that is an identical kind of lable #and same with other labels! are you comfortable calling yourself your ethnicity? your age? your gender? your job title? #then you're doing the exact same thing and in none of those cases is it considered that you're not putting your identity in Christ first #if I said I'm british people wouldn't be like ooh you're prioritising being British above God #like I COULD but not by using the label itself #I'm British. I'm female. I'm 21. I'm straight. #vs I'm british. I'm female. I'm 21. I'm bisexual. #I think if people have an issue with the latter but not the former that logic just doesn't follow through #and i know some people are more comfortable saying SSA #which I totally respect #but a. I personally am not because it feels stigmatizing and b. that's still a label in the same way #idk man I just don't get this specific approach. #also I know that's not all side y. but it defo is some of them!!!

[gxlden-angels]

On today's episode of Holy Shit My Childhood Was Not Normal:

Kurtis Conner being thrown off by the girls'/boys' bibles with the random "Dream Girl" and "Grossology" passages and shit like that in them

#I didn't have that exact one but I had a girls' bible with the lil dream girl passages in them #mine was purple and green #There was a specific one I read over and over because it was about thinking about your best friend #and I thought about my best friend that way #except it wasn't actually in a friend way I flat out just had a crush on them lol #I later went on to id as a lesbian and that specific story made helped me realize it #so maybe that bible was good for something #I'm now a lil bi boy who might be ace but still #Im 21 now actually Im a Man in the U.S. /j #it's just #always so funny watching people remind me that I grew up Not Normally #like I genuinely got so into reading those lil bible dream girl passages #but I also preferred the gross out shit of the boys' one #cause I was one of those cartoon network poop fart joke funny tweenagers #I loved gaming stunts and all things gross or whatever #I wasn't allowed to actually do that because I was a lil lady so I enjoy it now #I tell people I'm going to shit their pants if they don't leave me alone and think I'm the funniest human alive #anyways go watch kurtis's new video about gendered products it's good #ex christian #religious trauma

[aro-culture-is]

Fandom aro culture is wanting to be obnoxious about your arospec headcanons but the idea of anyone coming after you for them makes you want to scream

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#citnamora #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod alexander #honestly i just don't understand getting mad at ppl for hcs #it's literally just. having fun with ur blorbos??? #and it's so easy to just. follow the old YKINMKATO (kink tomato) type of policy with anything (not just kink) #(for those who may not know: Your Kink Is Not My Kink And That's Okay) #(meaning: you like your thing - and it's not for me! - and that's fine.) #(this is not a moral failing. this is not a personality flaw. this is just called 'we are not the exact same person.') #also especially with queer headcannons like???? bruh. #if we're totally real 90+% of gender/orientation types of hcs are self projection #and mayyyyybe 10% have more textual evidence if i'm super generous #and even then!!! look. people are COMPLICATED. we are not some sort of monolithic group. we have interconnected identities #what reads to one person as 'oh that's a Bi person behavior' is entirely informed by their specific interactions with bi-ness #and - for example - white american culture around bi-ness is almost certainly not the same as han chinese culture around bi-ness

[rearranging-deck-chairs]

short hair 13 but in a way that makes it clear shes doing this manually. regenerates with longer hair, wakes up on the sinclairs sofa and after nuking ryans phone goes "come on lets catch an alien! no hang on" and then shes like "grace do you have scissors" "yeah here but wh-" already has choppily cut off half her hair

at the end at the funeral it looks like someone (we dont know who) (it was yaz) tried to tidy it up a bit to make her look presentable. then it's short for the rest of s11 and s12 until revolution where it's like past her shoulders. then flux until the end it's short again

#small purposeful timelord gender choices #you can even do different types of short #you can have her have a buzzcut in halloween apocalypse i wouldnt complain #you can even dye it if you want more exact timings #like bright blue one ep faded the next you can tell how long its been approximately #dimitri is this just so you can timekeep the time between seasons/episodes #maybe so! #but mostly its about small purposeful timelord gender choices #though of course whether its a gender choice isthe question #i think its mostly a Dont Want Hair In My Eyes choice #which is more valid than gender anyway #but i do think that like doylistically its a gender choice #so maybe its small purposeful writer gender choices more than timelord gender choices but it woudl reflect......Something #idk

[notmoreflippingelves]

#kristoph gavin #krisnix #ace attorney #esteban flores #elena of avalor #this is my recommendation for the kristoph girlies (gender-neutral and affectionate) to watch Elena of Avalor #so we can all simp over Esteban together #I think once you know him; you will love him like I do #he is a similar type to canon kris (not fanon kris so much) and he gives me all the feelings #also they are both tall and thin and hot in a very particular way #as in somehow the most beautiful man i've ever seen AND somewhat weird looking at the exact same time #they contain multitudes #and my heart

[saym0-0]

hello jmart is t4t martin is no op jon is post top surgery. just letting u know. they told me themselves.

#because if i can project half my sexuality/romantic attraction onto jon #then i can surely project half my gender feels onto martin right #<- which is ofc no top surgery but transtape is my best friend 🫶 #im also nb and got that ken doll ideal figure completely smooth but thats not his vibe #i actually do not think about bottom surgery ever so thats like ambiguous in my headcanons lmao #i feel like both of them r like post transition they r happy with their bodies aside from Bad Days yk #idk transgender ramblings in the tags ya love to see it #also the sexuality thing w jon is that he in my headcanons has the exact same flavour of ace as me #i love 2 project my queerness onto my silly guys #jmart #jonmartin #trans jonathan sims #trans martin blackwood

[uncanny-tranny]

Trans people 🤝 transsexuals 🤝 transvestites

Being siblings in arms against those who'd rather bury us (and being mad hot while doing it)

#trans #transgender #transsexual #transvestite #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #lgbt #lgbtq #this is directed especially for those who are triple T people (transgender transsexual transvestite) #like we don't have to be the exact same at all to have similar goals and to defend each other #part of me is sad how much trans+ vocabulary has eroded or has been taken advantage of and twisted #by that i mean the amount of people who've said transgender/transsexual/transvestite like it's a slur or a horrible thing to be #when it is ALL part of gender diverse history. like genuinely if you can't stand the sight of a transsexual or whatever else then... #...that isn't our burden to carry. this pride i hope we can all be co-conspirators. we will always be stronger as one #like how far has strict barriers and scorn for one another gotten us? because i've not seen a ton of progress that way in my experience #anyway. i think the gender diverse community is stronger when we all band together and claim ourselves

[aroacedavestrider]

anyway i was gonna make a big long post about this but its 1:30am and im tired lmao. so has anyone noticed the insane similarities between all this anti-transmasc stuff and the entire aspec exclusionist movement or is that just me on my aroace trans dude shit

like. i dunno. the misconstruing of the concepts of transandromisia and aphobia in general being made out to “oppress other identities”, or just the downplaying / dismissal of our group-specific issues altogether, or insisting that these specific issues are just the results of some broader, equally shitty concept, or saying that we have “privilege” comparable to majority groups (cis men, straight people) despite being excluded / ridiculed / persecuted by those same groups, or the fact that when we talk about these issues were reduced to like “whiny little white teenage uwu tumblr blogger” instead of taken seriously, or that while real people in our communities are getting hurt or killed people are focusing on whether the terms we use are #unproblematic enough instead

idk is that just me? am i hallucinating or am i experiencing the 2018 exclusionist movement all over again except make it #trans

#transgender #trans #ftm #transmasculine #transmasc #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbt+ #transphobia #transandrophobia #are you people fucking hearing yourselves #people who call us ‘transandrophobia truthers’ are the same people who say `its just transphobia` #ok so instead of addressing the transphobia youre making fun of us for saying its a specialized form of transphobia #newsflash fuckheads ‘transmisandry’ or ‘transandrophobia’ or ‘anti-transmasculinity’ or whatever the fuck #can peacefully coexist with the concept of transmisogyny!!! #because they are not nor ever were exact mirrors of each other!!! #sure ok there is no systematic androphobia so you cry out ‘theres no intersection!!11!!!1!11!!’ #but let me ask you why THATS what matters to you rather than. like. real peoples safety lmao? #trans men and cis men are the same gender but that does NOT mean we exist in the same all-male vacuum #my experiences will NEVER be those of a cis mans #society does NOT cater to me NOR does it cater to any other trans people #and if you have to insist its cause of cis passing privilege then shut up and listen to yourself #cis passing privilege? you mean if i tell anyone im trans its immediately gonna go the fuck away? #you mean i only get that privilege while im in the closet? you mean i have to hide an aspect of myself to be treated the same as a cis man? #and do NOT construe that shit with me saying trans women have male privilege #i am fully fucking aware that trans women dont have male privilege im fully aware of how often trans women are attacked #but these two things are NOT mutually exclusive and im so fucking tired of people acting like it IS #you people have actually fucking managed to find a woke version of transphobia im absolutely astonished. appalling. horrible job #my post #dave speaks

[runawaymun]

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#cw personal #tbd #I neeeeeed to stop scrolling through Instagram #it’s full of people I used to know from high school and it is insane watching all of these girls I grew up with follow the #exact life path which was expected of me due to my environment and gender #when I did…not that #idk I’m yelling into the void about it tonight #it’s almost a surreal feeling bc I used to look like that and that used to be me #but I got out y’know #I wish them the best & all the happiness and if it works for them great I guess?? #but man it’s so wild #and when I say gender I do really mean sex lol bc my grasp on my gender is uhhhhh tenuous

[cornerful]

Sméagol and the Gift

'Now!' said Sam. 'At last I can deal with you!' He leaped forward with drawn blade ready for battle. But Gollum did not spring. He fell flat upon the ground and whimpered.

'Don't kill us,' he wept. 'Don't hurt us with nassty cruel steel! Let us live, yes, live just a little longer. Lost lost! We're lost. And when Precious goes we'll die, yes, die into the dust.'

Devastated by this. Just a little longer, he begs. Even though his existence is a torment. Even though the will that holds him to life is barely his own anymore. He has long outlived his time but it's such a cruelty that now the only freedom for him is in death. I'm glad Sam didn't kill him but the whole scenario is awful.

When a mortal keeps a ring of power he does not gain more life, he continues, denied natural mortality as the fear of death is amplified and twisted into fear of separation, nothing matters anymore but the keeping, the continuing. In that miserable existence there is no peace, and at its end there is no graceful goodbye to life, there is only dust. Sudden, empty, and final.

It would take murder to spare him that. Or falling with the ring into the fire.

Bilbo let it go in time (did he feel anything when it was destroyed?) Frodo is freed of it now, though the toll it extracted for the separation was at very least a finger. It was too late for Gollum for the price to be anything other than it was, and that's brutal.

If you live long enough, death is no longer the enemy. What Sauron did to Gollum ensured that it would always be the enemy, to be feared and avoided for ever, once time and the ring had fashioned it into the only escape left. Evil.

#lotr newsletter #suicide mention in tags #haunted by the au in which gollum goes into the fire with the ring On Purpose #bc he still couldnt separate himself from it but frodo's compassion had somewhat released him from its evil #in a way an honor to frodo's quest and in a way an act of mercy to be able to give up the self-torment #which gives me shrimp feelings bc of the everything but also back to the original point that it is so tragic that death is all that awaits #bc death is natural and that was taken from him. what is the will to live in the absence of natural death? #smth deeply horrible about that #matt bugg screaming we'll be dust. so famous and rent free #lotrn325 #damn it im having more thoughts #wraiths vs gollum: discuss #the nature of the ring kept affects the nature of its possession no? those rings were made FOR thralldom #sauron has power over gollum but not That Much and his own ring is all abt the domination #what would a 2000 year old gollum even be like ._. #the wraiths are probably even more tragic bc at this point they're like...undead. even death isn't freedom #on that topic what happened to the witch-king's spirit fr #I'm pretty sure he isn't ever actually called that in the book but it's epic and gender and way snappier than lord of the nazgul #anyway shoutout to i think yambits for breaking the lore and giving them peace that was sick #where's my gollum rehab fic #i know he's a horrible little man who is constantly trying to murder my boys but i love him so #the au...gollum gaining the willpower to destroy himself because he was given trust and kindness and companionship for once. FUCKED UP. #fucked up horrible i need a minute. being shown compassion and then becoming more self-compassionate. epic #that compassion entailing seeking the freedom of death your soul was denied bc this is fantasy and somehow the exact #arc that usually leads to fighting to live is now flipped. HUH. #yeah jirt alluded to his motivation being For Frodo but i maintain that the willingness to die is HUGE there and extremely relevant #me and my red string keeping me company #ugh tag championships i win i think but at what cost #who wants to spin around miserably in a pool like franknfurter with me as we listen to gollum's song #tam you're already invited i have a floaty for u

[skitskatdacat63]

I don't think I'll ever reach the peak gender again of wearing a 3 piece suit to prom

#CATIE MOMENT OF ALL TIME ACTUALLY #god i want my own suit so badly #it had suspenders and everything....god.... #catie post covid gender is great actually. suit for prom. mens type grad pics #it was all very scary to be like uhhhh yes suit please! and have the workers be like oh okay! np :) #most slayful actually was me picking a tie to match my bestie's dress and we're both like hmmmm idk if its exact #and then the pics its literally exactly the same shade 😎 #and gah the other prom w all my male friends and all of our suits is just very :) #i look at those pics prob every month and im like wow :) they're my fav pics ever i think #and then the gender of my friend being tired of wearing her heels so she made us swap shoes 😭 #there's no reason now to wear a suit so :/ next grad i guess! #catie.rambling.txt

[mrsmarlasinger]

Cis femme she/her lesbian but in a stoner dudebro frat boy loser kind of way

#does this make sense #like yeah i wear a shit ton of jewelry and makeup and i like dresses and have long-ass hair and my favorite color is pink but #i lowkey get gender euphoria from wearing men's clothes and cologne and acting specifically like some loser dude #like smacking my partner's ass and drinking beer and talking all ''fuuuck dude. sheeeeyit'' like i just hit a joint. lmfaoo #sometimes i just love wearing gym shorts and a wifebeater or a big-ass ugly t-shirt and no make-up and calling myself some dude #idk why it HAS to be a loser of a man but nothing gives me gender envy like Just Some Guy smoking a cig outside a college party #with like a beer and a beanie and ripped jeans and a shitty old hoodie and he has big-ass bags under his eyes. a line cook dude #that's literally me sorry #if i were to be any other kind of lesbian it would be rue from euphoria 1000000%. she is my exact gender #oh and kurt cobain also gives me gender envy lmao #personal #gender #gender identity #lesbian #butch #femme #wlw #adventures in gender

[townofcrosshollow]

I think if you flatten the relationship of trans people to their gender as either universally "trans people are the same as cis people of the same gender" or universally "trans people are different from cis people of the same gender" you are missing out on all of the deep complexities of the trans experience and also creating a system that denies people's realities. Both can be true in different ways for different people at different times! Nothing is real gender is fucky!

#like i am a man but my gender is not the same as cis men #my experience of being trans inherently changes my experience of being a man and that's okay! #and it's also okay for people to be the exact opposite! #IT'S THE BOX THAT'S THE PROBLEM #incoherent rambling