#things to accomplish in life

[monicascot]

Means to Achieve My Life Goals

To achieve life goals, individuals often engage in a process of self-reflection, planning, and taking deliberate actions. This can involve setting specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals that align with their values and priorities. It may also include overcoming obstacles, staying motivated, seeking support from others, and continuously learning and adapting along the journey.

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[kyouka-supremacy]

Yeah having infinite alternative universes where the same two people love each other no matter the world no matter the time is nice but have you considered dedicating your entire existence to find the only universe where your loved one is happy, even if they're going to hate you in that universe, even if you yourself have to die in that universe, because their happiness always came before everything else? Because you never mattered as long as they were happy? Have you considered it??????

#I'm having feelings over Beast odazai like what the hell. seriously what the hell. #Like Dazai‚ literally‚ unarguably the most selfish character in the entire thing‚ gives up //everything// for one person?? Uh?????? #Dazai who never found meaning in living dedicated his whole existence to make the world beautiful to one person? #Found his meaning in making that person happy‚ and found it agreeable to die once that was accomplished?? #“But I do have one regret: I’ll never be able to read that novel you complete one day” GIRL??????????? #Bro I love everyone and I can't for the life of me get truly invested in a Dazai ship for self-explanatory reasons- #but man that might really be the most romantic ship of them all. #what the hell. what the hell. hello #osamu dazai #odazai #bsd #bungou stray dogs #bsd beast #mine #q. #21/01/23

[stuckinapril]

I’m happy for the little life I built for myself

#there’s a lot of ways to go #i am nowhere NEAR the dream life I really want to attain #or the dream person I want to be #but high school me #hell even freshman in college me #would GAWK at the life I have so deliberately made happen. #the solid network of friends I have #the confidence I’m slowly but surely growing into #the discipline I’m harvesting bit by bit. i do not claim perfection but I am 100% improving #I’m just happy idk! i don’t compare myself at all now bc I know I’m on the right track #especially compared to where I was like 5 years ago. such a different mind state from now #and no one can take that away from me #there’s a lot more to go. a lot more. but I thought I’d pause and be intentionally grateful for what has been accomplished #bc it actually puts things into perspective to look at the past rather than just look to the present. it creates contentment #i get so caught up being hard on myself for not accomplishing certain things yet #that I forget I pulled myself out of such a deep rut by the skin of my teeth #and that’s important to keep in mind even as you progress to your goals #anyway <333 happy content in my own lane etc etc #p

[astrangergivingthestrangewelcome]

I do not think evangelizing on the double standard of women being expected to wear makeup everyday to grown women is actually productive or respectful (provided they are not judging me for not wearing makeup), we can all make our own decisions on how to walk through this world, however, it is true that whenever a woman in my daily life equates making themselves decent and presentable with having a coat of natural makeup on, I do have to viscerally repress the urge to shake them by the shoulders and scream that they've been had.

#to be clear this is not me being against makeup or even against wearing it everyday! #i know it's an important part of self-expression for lots of people and also an accomplishment to have excellent makeup #this is specifically about my roommate who will constantly say things like #'and I completely forgot that I had to pick up a shift at the bar and I had to SCRAMBLE to get my makeup done' #or my mom who doesn't feel like going to work is even an option without a light coat of mascara #it just makes me internally go feral #i can get behind loving makeup as an addition #though I never will bother #but there's so much evidence around me of women who see makeup as a necessity and it just makes my skin itch like #like the world does not deserve that from us. truly. #if men don't have to we don't have to and it genuinely just eats me up inside when I hear makeup equated to personal hygiene. #like no it's Not Fair that you don't feel right leaving the house without makeup! #I'm sorry that you feel that way #i wouldn't say that to someone's face in real life bc that's condescending #but I do think that in a just world no woman would feel lazy for leaving without makeup

[onlyswan]

incase someone haven’t told you this lately <3 i’m proud of you for getting out of bed today even if you had to drag your body off it. i’m proud of you for speaking even if you had to clear your throat before doing it. i’m proud of you for making it home safely. i’m proud of you for lying on your bed and allowing yourself to rest before you have to do the things you’re scared of tomorrow. i’m proud of you for existing and for trying to live. 🫂

#been thinking a lot about #there are so many little things that take so much of us to accomplish #but u don’t need to do something life-changing or mindblowing to hear the words ‘i’m proud of you’ #living day-by-day and celebrating those little accomplishments #is changing your life and creating a more positive environment for ur 🧠 #it might feel a lil silly at the start to say these words to urself everyday so let me be the first to do it for u 🫂 #hehe that’s all for today’s word vomit :D #brb i need to study #art rambles

[mumblesplash]

someone tagged the hope poem post 'the words of the prophets are written on the subway walls' excuse me while i cry in a corner forever

#[guy at a party meme] they don't even know about my lifelong obsession with that song...... #man okay the thing about that post right #is i browse the replies for a bit basically every time it pops back up in my notifs #bc every time there is a not insignificant number of new tags saying something along the lines of 'i really needed this today' #and more than once people have left tags in there about how that poem helped keep them ALIVE #and like goddamn i did not set out with that intention but if i accomplish nothing else in my entire life #i did once write something that helped #and there's been some days i've really needed that #mumbling

[mymarifae]

i'm the birthday millie today

i'm super old now.

#^_^ I THINK TODAY IS GOINF TO BE A NICE BIRTHDAY #i'm not like. doing anything special. but! i was thinking about it last night and i've come a long way... #all things considered i'm doinf a pretty good job at like. living life! #i've accomplished quite a bit! i've grown! i know lots more about myself! i'm figuring it out!!!! #i'm going to go to lunch with my mom and then later this evening i'm going tooooo get Not Sober and just have fun 💖 #thanks for sticking around with me for another year of my life !!!!!! #i know i haven't been posting here a ton lately. lots of reasons for that. but i think about you all my tumblr only friends lots... #i hope you've all been well! love you lots. if any mutuals want my priv twitter feel free to ask :3 #if you read all of these here's a present for you: 🐦 #doodles #felix

[n3ongold3n]

Ever since i saw the thongTM i could not stop thinking about this 🐳

#käärijä #häärijä #khäärijä calendar #diary bit coming up in the tags bear with me since this is #also my diary kind of; this blog #this thing has fought me every step of the way - and it shows i know #but i needed at least /some/ tiny little crumb of standing up for myself against my own defeatist thoughts #not just drawing. just. in general there are so many tiny and medium obstacles to accomplishing tasks that i just feel #like such an idiot for not just getting rid of the obstacles and moving on #at the same time i know how very unfair this kind of thinking is towards me since i #literally have the neurodivergence of cannot set priorities for my life or coordinate several things unless under strong duress #and then i feel sad for not even living my life unapologetically #((and disappointing jere :') - you have not read this that would be way WAY too embarrassing for me) #and yes i know you shouldn't trust yourself after - what was it? - 19:00? Well. If I didn't have to struggle until 3 pm to get through #the wall of anxious paralysis we wouldn't have that problem but here we are #anyway. off to bed. for what it's worth #got to figure out how to electronically validate my ID :''') and/or call the job center - fun! #my own stuff

[herestoburiedsecrets]

There are so many incredible scenes in Ghosts but one that always gets to me is the scene from 3x3 when Thomas is standing with Alison in the morning and saying his whole ‘tis no fault of the sun if the eye sees not it’s beauty’ speech because it truly encapsulates this gorgeous, tender moment of acknowledging the beauty in the mundane. Being stuck in a house for centuries is obviously very difficult but there is so much beauty in watching the sun rise every morning and the leaves change colour and the birds fly about. It’s the Captain and his insects, it’s Robin and his mouse family, it’s a day of Mary’s life being Pat’s perfect holiday, and it’s Thomas being transported by a sunrise he has seen a thousand times. Life and nature is so breathtakingly beautiful and I love how much the show illustrates the value of the mundane cycles of life.

#cat.txt #once again i am having intense feelings over this show #i feel like one things this show does so well is saying a lot without saying much at all #it is a group of ghosts in a house who have petty arguments while the two owners are trying not to go broke accomplishing their dreams #and it is also about life and existence and beauty in the mundane and family and loss and grief and joy and liberation and finding a family #literally thinking about this show just makes me go absolutely insane #bbc ghosts #bbc ghosts spoilers

[dundeelemonade]

cause like there’s something screwy with my brain or whatever that makes dying in a game scary, to the point that i can’t even proceed far enough in botw to figure out how to handle my first guardian, and i have a long list of games that i own and haven’t played more than an hour of because i just really don’t like dying! and i just want to know how get over that hurdle.

#please reblog and/or leave advise on how to not care about getting killed in video games #if i could get past my fear of fictionally dying i could accomplish so many things #i think it’s like #people who are ice skating who have to learn how to fall #but the act of falling on purpose is still extremely fraught #let’s be real it’s also a very real fear of Failure #TERRIFIED of failing. #i’m insecure and so i hate taking risks and so i fail inherently because i can’t rise to the challenge #this isn’t just about video games #it’s about art and jobs and taking control of my life #i’m scared of being unable to meet the conditions necessary and so i don’t even try #but what if i could begin to try starting with just one little thing?

[river-demon-slayer]

Study Diary #8

Guys, I DID IT!!! I finally have a DISTINCTION - my score for the last essay assessment came and I got a score of 72🌟. It might not seem like much but in Literature courses at University level you are not awarded marks above 74-75 (University Policy in UK) as anything above 75 is considered to be worthy enough of being published in literary journals. I am literally so happy right now that I can't stop smiling 😁. The professor really liked my research and remarked that I interacted with the brief, research, and analysis materials very deeply. I guess part of the happiness comes from the fact that I focused on Multilingualism amongst students in India - as there are not many research materials that are focused on my country and this in a way validates my efforts in studying and researching about my country - that too in a foreign place.

Song recommendations: Go Big or Go Home by Enhypen

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[shiominato]

one thing that does piss me off is removing difficulty and calling it a quality of life change

#remakes and mods alike do this #its not quality of life it’s just any semblance of a challenge #quality of life: adding the demon compendium #(you can accomplish the same thing regardless of inclusion but it’s annoying without it) #not quality of life: changed a character’s niche entirely to make them overoptimized/horrible as hell to play #(p3r i’m looking at you. i’m not forgiving you for what you did to akihiko) #like that’s not a quality of life change. that’s just changing a fundemental part of the game

[aurosoulart]

I posted this to tiktok and it only got 7 views LOL anyways here’s the footage from my Marriott trip!

this is the biggest success EVER in my entire artistic career and I am celebrating the hell out of it 🥳 it honestly still doesn’t feel real, but I’m hopeful I’ll get more work like this in the future 🍀

follow me on TikTok!

#vr #video #art video #tiktok #vr art #performance art #tilt brush #open brush #artists on tumblr #art #digital art #seriously though i DO NOT know how anyone gets views on tiktok #the answer seems to be ‘actually use tiktok and learn the culture there’ #but i just cannot bring myself to it’s too depressing #anyways i will be my own hype man if it’s the last thing i do #i’ve spent my whole life chasing the dream of being an artist for a career #and i’m finally accomplishing things i’m proud of!!!

[kaatiba]

i guess i should just accept that i am primarily a fanfiction writer. i've completed one (1) long-form original work in my whole life and it's increasingly feeling like a fluke. i've written two "collections" of prompt fills, which are very like fanfiction as you take someone else's idea and run off with it, but they're not short stories really, as they're not complete narratives, just expansions. fanfiction I can write quickly and easily and well and I almost always finish them. but I can't do the same with og work no matter how hard I try. And maybe that'll change in the future but I just feel like a failure and a fraud and a flop

#Not to brag but ive been told my whole life I have a gift with writing and everyone has eagerly anticipated my writing something incredible #And *i* have eagerly anticipated my writing something incredible and original (I.e. not fic) and I feel like I CAN I feel the potential #I KNOW how to write and write well! Well enough to make me happy anyway! #But I just CANT for og works!!!! #And it's not really about the comments and motivation from readers (I don't think) bc I don't wake up thinking about my og writing and wher #I'll go next with it I'm not excited and eager and hyperfocused on it like I am with whatever fic I'm working on in the moment #....but maybe I get that way bc I write a chapter and post and then get responses and so I am always thinking about it bc someone's out #There waiting for it and loving it and that gets me excited???? But no that can't be #Because I don't get readers right away and I'm still so excited about my fics the way I never am about og works #Maybe the lesson here is actually I just can't write alone. That writing is meant to be communal #So it boils down to my utter lack of social life like so many other things in my life which is #Incredibly depressing #Anyway I don't feel like a real writer even tho I don't think the same of other fic writers even though I love my fic #There's a poll going around about the longest works ppl have written #And seeing people I follows tags on it is so incredible and I'm so in awe and yeah yeah #Comparison is the thief of joy but I have never written the way everyone else seems to have #I've never been so into or attached to an idea and then written for it as much as other people have #What's wrong with me? #Why can't I write #Anything other than prompt fills and fic #Why don't I want to write my og works #Why aren't I interested in them and inspired by them #I have all these ideas and like everything else in my life just.....fail to execute them #Fail to go anywhere with them #Like my photography and my language learning #Everyone's so impressed with me and my potential but it all just fizzles out and I never #Accomplish anything #I never make anything of any of it #I start and then just. Linger. In the goddamned purgatory of it all #Through lack of effort? Perseverance? Ability? Idk but somethings wrong with me

[sylvies-kablooie]

do you think i want to be here?

a big part of sylvie’s character that gets overlooked is shown in one particular line in s2 ep3 when she explains to loki why she has to kill victor: do you think i want to be here? do you think i’m gonna get any joy out of killing that man?

because that is what she has done, for centuries, is bring death. she’s run from one end of the world to the next, watching the connections she makes fall apart. what good would more killing bring to her? how would ending this trembling man before her repair any of the damage she has sustained? the minutemen she burned to get to he who remains were all variants, too, but she needed to do it. like she needed to kill hwr, like she needed to kill victor. what pleasure would more death give her at this point, after it has so thoroughly stained her it’s almost baptismal? what she wants is the softness of the ordinary, a uniform, a job- but her moral compass requires her to be a blade, and so she will. there is no joy in the ending of lives, especially in the name of freeing the destinies of the multiverse. she feels no love for death despite it raising her. her whole life has been more a means to an end more than that of an individual experiencing the universe. so if that means she must once again plunge her sword into a chest, she feels that she has been summoned once again to do her duty, and she must. even while she trembles at the thought, paces back and forth, and cries at what she knows she must do.

except, this time, she can’t.

#characters who see themselves as weapons dedicated to a cause more than individuals are so special to me #It’s about the loyalty to the mission to an extent that it erases your humanity #That doing the right thing can come at any cost and that cost can be yourself #and i find Sylvie to embody this perfectly #The setting aside of any sort of desire to accomplish The End Goal of free will #sylvie you are more than a blade. you deserve softness and to learn who you are outside of death. #there’s more to be said about the innocent face of victor being the only thing after centuries to break her willpower #and i have said things about it in the past and will likely say more things about it #but there is this nebulous complexity to her that fan characterization has denied the complexity of #it makes my heart ache. it is a life of sacrifice she leads. #anyway. #loki series #sylvie #sylvie laufeydottir #loki s2 #loki #loki tv show #loki meta #juni analysis

[go-see-a-starwar]

I wish everyone a very Merry Christensenmas

#thanks for indulging me and my Hayden hyperfixation #my accomplishments this year include watching all these movies for Hayden’s face #and yes his face is the only thing saving a good number of them #hayden christensen #anakin skywalker #jumper #life as a house #shattered glass #awake #virgin territory #factory girl #takers #american heist #little italy #I’m extremely biased but really I’ve enjoyed all these movies #long post #smoking cw