#tw: pda

[kankrii]

Loveposting? On a tumblr blog? <: I love you so much Cro <33 To the furthest reaches of the entire endless universe and back again. You make me feel so happy and warm inside every time I simply see you sending me a message in the morning when I wake up. I wish I knew the right words to be eloquent and charming as I wish I could be but, hand in hand I know we're always going to be okay, through thick and thin, through anything that may come at us. Thank you for loving me, for taking care of me, and for always making sure I'm okay. I finally found someone I know I will always be safe around, and it's you. <3

-Kan

#tw: pda #tw: <3 #pfthehe #love you #im high and its 4am lets do this

[neomarsh]

two alien babas kissin credit to SapphireStx for the character Alma Calmanita

#alma calmanita #Void Reiji #alien characters #OC artwork #artwork #drawing #doodle #weirdcore #light horror OC #PDA #kissing #tw: pda #lovehearts #neodrawsart #Saphirestyx

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)

Autisticality

#autism #actually autistic #pathological demand avoidance #pda profile #pda autism #about pda #Autisticality (Facebook) #tw bright colors #tw eye strain #feel free to share

[wanna-be-your-brat]

ahhh!

#bd/sm brat #cnc k!nk #daddy's good girl #brat #daddy k!nk #cnc free use #corruption kink #daddy’s brat #0rgasm denial #0rgasm control #tw degradation #degrading k1nk #degrade and humiliate me #degredation kink #praise and degredation #aftercare #praise #praise k!nk #praise me #ownership #desperate #pda #lips #beautiful lips #luscious lips #juicy lips #mouth #makeup #tongue #beauty

[svejarph]

emma mackey gif pack

CLICK THE SOURCE LINK BELOW and you will find #238 245x150px gifs of Emma Mackey as Maeve Wiley in Sex Education Season 4 (2023)! These were created from scratch by Sveja. Do what you want with these, just don't repost/claim as your own, don't use them to play Emma, don't use in any smut/smut-based blogs, and like/reblog if using. If you like what I'm doing, feel free to commission me or donate to my ko-fi. Emma was around 27 during filming and is white (French, English, Irish).

tw: alcohol, drinking, funeral, hugging, kissing, pda

#emma mackey #emma mackey gif pack #fc: emma mackey #fc: 20s #fc: cis woman #fc: white #gif pack #**Sveja #alcohol tw #drinking tw #funeral tw #hugging tw #kissing tw #pda tw

[ensemblesongs]

No need to answer this but i love when youre professionsl i need to come drop by work and give you your linch box and a kiss on the cheek

Sending this ask is like dropping by my workplace and giving me my lunchbox and a kiss on the cheek (ノ_＜。) I miss you after you fell asleep during our date sleepyhead! I'm working right nowwwwww....

#My boywife TW: PDA!!!!! #email

[our-arospec-experience]

I'm like 100% aromantic and relatively open about it to almost anybody but my family. But now a friend of mine is in a romantic relationship and it weirds me out. Not the concept per se, they are of course free to do what they want, but seeing them and their partner together in a romantic way (holding hands, kissing, overall touching each other) just feels icky to me. Sometimes even the stories that they share of activities that they and their partner did together irks me. I've put a bit of thought into being romance-repulsed, but never really considered it, cause I'm mostly fine with romance in books, movies and other media. I can also mostly ignore couples on the street and sometimes even feel happy if I see a queer couple out and about. But the closer the romance is to me (i.e. friends or otherwise people in close physical vicinity) I get just a bad, weird feeling...

And I don't really know how to deal with this, cause I just feel like a villain if I bring up to my allo friends that they sometimes just irk me with their PDA. The one time I brought it up it wasn't really recieved to kindly and now I think now I'll just grow apart with those friends.

Mostly needed to get this of my chest, but any advice or experiences with being romance-repulsed are very appreciated <2

are there any romance repulsed arospecs out there with some advice?

#our arospec experience #arospec #aromantic #aro #lgbtqia+ #queer #tw romance #Tw pda

[im-not-here-im-dead]

my PDA saying i can’t do it or i will DIE

vs.

my OCD saying i have to do it or i will DIE

FIGHT !!!

#it is. torture. #not utdr #neurodivergent #pda autism #pathological demand avoidance #ocd #obsessive compulsive disorder #moral ocd #all caps warning #tw death mention

[themogaidragon]

Pathological Demand Avoidance

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA): an autistic profile that describes those whose main characteristic is to avoid everyday demands and expectations to an extreme extent. This demand avoidance is often (but according to some PDA adults, not always) accompanied by high levels of anxiety. 

The distinctive features of a demand avoidant profile include: 

resists and avoids the ordinary demands of life

uses social strategies as part of avoidance, for example, distracting, giving excuses

appears sociable, but lacks some understanding

experiences excessive mood swings and impulsivity

appears comfortable in role play and pretence

displays obsessive behaviour that is often focused on other people. 

People with this profile can appear excessively controlling and dominating, especially when they feel anxious. However, they can also be confident and engaging when they feel secure and in control. It’s important to acknowledge that these people have a hidden disability. 

Flag meaning:

Based on the general autism flag. Color's meanings are:

Black: fighting against ableism

Green: panic, distress and anxiety

Dark green: avoidance, manipulation and executive dysfunction

Yellow: autism and PDA

Dark yellow: meltdowns, violence, shutdowns, flight

White: pride and community

Symbols: autism, ASD

Source. Aufinity pastel symbol.

[Image ID: a flag with seven horzontal stripes of the same size. Their colors are, from top to bottom, black, green, drak yellow, white, yellow, black green and black. The central stripe is forming a round in the middle of the flag. Insisde this round there is the rainbow aufinity symbol ( an "A" forming an infinity symbol). End ID]

[Image ID: a flag with seven horzontal stripes of the same size. Their colors are, from top to bottom, black, green, drak yellow, white, yellow, black green and black. The central stripe is forming a round in the middle of the flag. Insisde this round there is a pastel rainbow infnity symbol. End ID]

#PDA #pathological demand avoidance #autism #autistic spectrum #autistic pride #mad pride #disabled pride #disability pride #tw long post #avoidant personality disorder #avpd #autism spectrum #autism spectrum disorder #autistic

[rorywritessmut]

How do I get my spouse to understand my PDA?? It’s taken two years for him to understand that I am autistic and things won’t change. Now that I have a PDA profile, which has always existed, he refuses to believe it’s real and it something I can change.

Take today for example:

Him:What Are you doing today?

Me: I’m not telling you my plan because then it’s a demand and I won’t do it.

Him: you really need to grow up and get over this.

Like, I can’t??? I’ve talked to him about PDA and sent him articles but the man, I have to admit, is ableist as hell. He won’t even support me in accommodations because it’s “a crutch.”

#tw ableism #tw ableist language #autism #actually autistic #autistic #actually audhd #me #pathological demand avoidance #pda #persistent drive for autonomy #pda profile #spouse help #my husband is stuck in the past and refuses to change #he doesn’t believe in invisible disabilities #he’s kind of a jerk

[audhdnight]

Got muted in three of my Facebook groups this week alone for pointing out ableism because they call it “armchair diagnosis”.

Like bro I didn’t say “this person definitely has pda profile autism” I said “it’s ableist to moan incessantly about how gross it is when people don’t brush their teeth and how disgusting people who struggle with hygiene are, whether this person has a causal condition or not”.

I have since left all three groups because FUCK THAT but also one woman responded to my comment simply saying “yeah as someone who struggles with hygiene I probably shouldn’t have read these comments” and THAT is exactly who I’m speaking up for. I am so sick of getting silenced for defending my own fucking community.

For context: the group I’m specifically referencing in the above example is dedicated to making fun of the trash men who send unsolicited pics and get really really upset when you aren’t impressed. Someone shared a post in that group where a woman told a man she would expect him to brush his teeth multiple times a day, and his response was, verbatim: “That doesn’t work for me. I suggest you find someone you think is better than me. Good luck.”

Like… that’s not even what this group is for??? He said they didn’t click, respectfully cut contact, and wished her well?? He wasn’t even rude! WHAT THE FUCK IS THE PROBLEM WITH ANY OF WHAT HE SAID??????

And everyone was in the comments with puke emojis and saying things like “no one should have to ask for basic hygiene” or “there is no excuse for this” or “men are so fucking disgusting”. Like hello casual ableism? Also, men are not the only ones who could struggle with caring for themselves. There are SO. MANY. reasons someone might not brush their teeth often. I personally have a hard time with it because with my adhd I genuinely just forget and with my autism the sensory experience can be a LOT so it’s hard to make myself do it on the rare occasions when I do remember. And I’m definitely not a man, cis or otherwise.

#fucking over it #ableism #casual ableism #fuck facebook #ableism tw #hygiene #invisible disability #actually neurodivergent #autistic #adhd memory #sensory issues #pda autism #depression #memory problems

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Autism and PDA Profile

#autism #actually autistic #pathological demand avoidance #PDA #autism & PDA #PDA profile #feel free to reblog/share if you’d like #source: neurodivergent insights #tw bright colors #tw eye strain

[wanna-be-your-brat]

#bd/sm brat #cnc k!nk #daddy's good girl #brat #daddy k!nk #0rgasm control #daddy’s brat #corruption kink #cnc free use #0rgasm denial #tw degradation #degrading k1nk #degrade and humiliate me #degradation k1nk #bd/sm degrader #degrade her #praise #praise k!nk #praise and degredation #praise me #aftercare #ownership #desperate #pda #amazing body #curvy body #fuck my body #beautiful body #outfit #outdoor

[svejarph]

hari nef gif pack

CLICK THE SOURCE LINK BELOW and you will find #81 245x150px gifs of Hari Nef as Cal, Barbie, Anna, and Talia Hirsch in Bad Things, Barbie, Extrapolations 1x07, and The Idol S1 (all 2023)! These were created from scratch by Sveja. Do what you want with these, just don't repost/claim as your own, don't use them to play Hari, don't use in any smut/smut-based blogs, and like/reblog if using. If you like what I'm doing, feel free to commission me or donate to my ko-fi. Hari was around 30-31 during filming and is Ashkenazi Jewish. She is also a trans woman. Cast her accordingly.

tw: eye contact, flashing lights, kissing, pda, shaky camera, violence

#hari nef #hari nef gif pack #fc: hari nef #fc: 30s #fc: trans woman #fc: ashkenazi jewish #gif pack #**Sveja #eye contact tw #flashing lights tw #kissing tw #pda tw #shaky camera tw #violence tw

[lillovingsoul]

Shadow "how tf do u kiss" The Hedgehog

#shadow the hedgehog #sonic the hedgehog #pda tw #sonadow

[that-audhder-with-pda]

Apparently it’s too hard to find Recipes for lunch/dinner/strong food?) that are quick to made (under 30mins) and that take these things into consideration:

No eggs, no milk (of any kind), no nuts (and I’m also picky eater so that’s complicated)

No cutting stuff (cutting stuff means 15mins extra that I don’t have)

Portions for one person (this is the hardest and I really can’t eat reheated food)

Ok now this is turning to a real vent because I’m tired

Im tired of being an audhder adult that have to feed themself with a lot of stomach issues, plus being picky eater but also I have to constantly change what I prepare because what I love one week I can’t even think about it the next. Also not eating regularly triggers my migraines but reminders are the worst (yes notification I know I have to eat but Fuck you you are not my boss I won’t do what you say)

I thought I had found the solution (it was these prepared food that were packed and frozen and that you just have to boil it in water for 15mins) but I forgot I get bored quickly and now I really don’t want any of those so I’m back in square one!!

…

ok

I think that was it

:)

#pda autism #vent #actually autistic #adhd autistic #autism #being autistic #autistic experiences #living with adhd #adulthood #adhd problems #autistic problems #food mention #tw food #food #i don’t what other te to add