#BC HER MOM NEVER WANTED TO OR HAD THE TIME

[tippenfunkaport]

Momaport and I watched more She-Ra. We have now watched up through Princess Prom.

Some highlights and lowlights (because she didn't like these episodes as much as the last ones we watched)...

"Catra puts on a cocky attitude but she's just a scared kid." So true.

"Why does Castaspella have Goofy ears?" Truly a thing I ask myself constantly.

She has become a walking cliche because she can never remember Glimmer's name and calls her something different every time. She spent her entire discussion of Princess Prom calling her "Crystal" which pains me deeply.

She also keeps forgetting Mermista and calls her "fish one" which is just really funny.

Because of her complete inability to remember anyone's name ever, the whole Light Spinner is Shadow Weaver reveal was a legitimate plot twist to her which amused me.

She is a Glimbow truther, was on ship team day one even without my influence despite not liking Glimmer and not knowing what "shipping" meant, mostly because she loves Bow. I was given a passionate speech about how obvious it was that Glimmer and Bow love each other and only you, Tumblr, can appreciate the irony of someone else giving ME that speech and not the other way around. I mentioned that a lot of people claim they "came out of nowhere" and she was absolutely indignant and refused to believe that was a thing.

Relatedly, she doesn't believe Bow had a crush on Sea Hawk, she said he was "just fangirling." (She knows he's bi, that's just her read on that episode.)

Long impassioned speech about what a horrific childhood Catra and Adora had and how it's no wonder Adora is a stressed disaster.

She started talking about Princess Prom totally on Bow's side and mad at Glimmer and by the end of her speech somehow talked herself onto Glimmer's (oh, excuse me "Crystal's") side and was annoyed at Bow which was just funny to witness happen in real time.

"Entrapta reminds me of that one character... you know? The science lady? With the glasses?" I never found out what she meant by this. For all I know it means Entrapta reminds my mom of Entrapta.

"I don't understand why people these days are so obsessed with shipping, Why can't you just watch the show and enjoy the nice friendships?" (Mom is judging us)

She likes Catra and Adora a lot individually, but there is some naysaying about them becoming a couple, we'll see if she comes around. (She has never watched before, but knows most of the endgame ships just bc of hearing the kids and I talk about it.)

She's mad at me for showing it to her grandkids, because it's too violent and she doesn't approve. (I've been cancelled.)

*me explaining that Entrapta is autistic and people read Adora as ADHD* "Does everyone have to be something these days?" (alas, mom is still a cranky old person who wants us to get off her lawn but honestly she's far less cantankerous than I thought she might be about this show so I'll let it slide)

After Princess Prom, she said, "It's cute but I don't understand why you're all so obsessed with it. To me it's exactly like every other cartoon I've ever watched." which is an ARROW directly to my HEART but we'll see if she comes around once the plot really gets going. She generally doesn't like animation and is a straight boomer lady so I figured we'd have an uphill climb but STILL. Pain. We're going to keep watching it either way though because she said she likes hanging out with me and we're having fun. (I am a delight)

#spop #shera #she ra #i guess I need a tag for these #uhhh #watching spop with mom #how's that?

[dorcasmckinnonn]

Nico di angelo learning how to braid Hazel's hair, and hazel almost crying when he asks her if she wants him to bc that would mean the world to me, neeks

#BC HER MOM NEVER WANTED TO OR HAD THE TIME #AND SHE NEVER HAD ANYONE LOVE HER AS MUCH AS HE DOES #im crying #no seriously hazel ily #hazel levesque #nico di angelo #hades kids #heroes of olympus #percy jackson #percy pjo #hoo #rick riordan #too cute #percy jackon and the olympians #percy series #percyjackson

[bhaalsdeepbat]

i really, really love that lae'zel is DISGUSTED by the idea of ever having to deal with pregnancy, but like. genuinely loves being a mom to Xan. and just loves that baby so much.

#bat plays bg3 #there are four companions i could see enjoying having and raising a baby #and that's wyll halsin lae'zel and minthara #gale and karlach would be good parents if they had to be but they both strike me as like #karlach just got her freedom back she needs time to just. live life and be free #i think she'd have one or adopt one eventually #astarion would be a terrible dad at first but eventually be decent lol #but never be actually good at the raising part just the #taking care of the brood and making sure they don't die #he'd be a terrible role model #shadowheart is in the same boat as the other two #i just think she needs some time to figure shit out and exist before even considering that #she wants her animal sanctuary and to chill for a bit #also minthara would raise little hellions but like #just bc she's evil doesn't mean she wouldn't be a good mom #her children would be raised like royalty and treated as such bc they're future conquerors

[imthursdaysyme]

Robin Buckley and her Mother

#stranger things #drawing #robin buckley #you know when drawing this one I was comparing it often to my Steve Harrington one and his mother #bc stobin are inseparable and that's the facts #but anyway in steves you see his mothers full face multiple times #she is there and present #confronting and yelling at steve #but in robins you don't really see her mother #you see her eyes and her back #and in the photo of her back she's only in her underwear #and I did this bc well I wanted to show her moms body in the sense that you can tell she had a child “a mom bod” if you will #I don't know I just thought it was interesting to explore the relationship between them in an audio from tt or a song where the words #are saying something obvious about their relationship but then adding little things in the composition and details that also explain how #I personally view their relationship #there's the idea that Steve and his mom are cofrontational and also there's a easy way they face each other or stare each other down #but robin never really looks at her mother or the “camera” and neither does her mother #and they also are never seen in the same frame together #cause there's a shame and a way robin I think would hide from her mother if she always tells her what she's doing wrong or how she looks #and also if the mother is saying things like that there has to be unease in herself #in her own body that mimicks robins just older #I just think mother relationships are fun okay #also I made the mothers eyes green and I always make robin wear green and what kind of thing can I pull out of my own head canons but the #idea that she avoids her mother and claims she hates her mother but still gets the most comfort in wearing the color of her mothers eyes? #I mean loving someone and finding the most comfort in them while also having the most discomfort with them is so I interesting and I think #it only really works with that mother-child relationship #anyway #art #digital art

[crownrots]

#oc txt. #c: hattie #c: mary ellen #hattie being able to make it back to her own vault just in time to be with her mom in her final moments is 🤕 #she’s not the overconfident self assured put together person she was when she left however long ago it was #and her mother isn’t the hyper independent stoic emotionally constipated woman that didn’t even hug her before she left #her mother really did believe that this colony that had supposedly been growing since she was a girl WAS her kids’ only hope at a future #they knew for years that the vault was running out of supplies and falling apart #she was getting older and really didn’t think a future above ground was for her or her husband or the other adults that had grown up there #it was for their kids. #bc the vault wasn’t going to be able to sustain them for much longer #it’s why she pushed her kids so hard and pushed them away even harder #bc it made sending them into that world ‘easier’ #she wouldn’t miss them as much and they wouldn’t miss her #sending her twins up there (her first borns) years prior was HELL #and she dreaded the day hattie was old enough to be thrust out there and even debated whether or not she’d even go through with it #so seeing her now … especially in the state hattie is in when she returns #she feels guilty but at the same time proud? because despite it she knows hattie had and HAS what it takes to survive up there #and seeing tj??? she doesn’t know if the twins made it to the colony or whether the colony was even real operating ect ect #so she’d never get to see them with her grandkids if they had any #she at least gets a slice of what could have been if things were different #it’s good that hattie gets to tell her truth of everything #it’s good that hattie gets to reconcile and be the last thing she sees before she passes #it’s all mary ellen ever wanted … to see her girls again #and in her mind if hattie made it … then she knows the other two did too #and i think for hattie she was just on the cusp of giving up and throwing in the towel #but she’s got people relying on her and she’s not a quitter … was never allowed to be #and i think by now she’d be searching for them less for herself and more for her parents #the least she can do is find out if their sacrifices (and the sacrifices of everyone else) were warranted

[lobotomyladylives]

people often assume when we all go out together that I'm my half brothers mom (I'm 20 years older than him) & that his parents are his grandparents & it's so funny bc I know it bothers them. old ass idiots

#my dad was 49 & his wife was 45 when they had him #the story behind his birth is actually extremely fucked up like everything else about their relationship #so my dad left her like a million times to try to go back to my mom (who kept telling him no unless he sorted out his issues) then he #would always run right back to her & she always took him back. anyways i guess he said smth along the lines of #''my wife (he was still married to my mom) will always be the love of my life bc shes the mother of my kids'' #and...she went off bc & on fertility treatments without telling him. then shes pregnant & he is still saying he wants to come back to us #so she said he will never see their kid & her son from a previous marraige THREATENED MY DAD AT GUNPOINT #and said if you ever leave my mom again ill fucking kill yoi #so then the divorce was finalized & they got married & my half brother was born. rest is history #for the record i dont feel sorry for my dad at all it was his fault too. the fucking hypocrite was having sex before marriage #and he knew she was nuts & far too attached to her #what a fucking idiot. all he had to do was get on meds & in therapy & admit he was wrong & he could have stayed with us #but he needed constant validation & to be in charge of everything & thats what his new wife gives him. she converted to his cult & now they #raise my brother in it. and she just does whatever my dad wants & lets him treat her like shit. i would actually feel sorry for her if sh #if she werent such a fucking awful person. and she tries to be all nicey nice w/us despite being a literal homewrecker. #and doing things like telling my dad he cant spend more than 50 dollars per year on each of us #while having him buy her a third car & a 1500 dollar fur coat. lol #theyre so much better off financially than us that its unreal. my mom doesnt get a penny despite how much we are struggling #but if i want a relationship with my half brother i just have to pretend none of this is weird or wrong. #anyways i just hope he never finds out the circumstances of his birth bc god can you fucking imagine

[friendofthecrows]

they gotta make nap-length sleep mediations. Also ones where the speaker doesn't sound like the world's most annoying yoga intructer or perhaps therapist.

#hal rambles #meditation #miscellaneous #i'm spoiled bc my mom was really into meditation #and she was taught by some very good martial arts instructers as well as her dad #so she really had SUCH a knowledge base by the time I was around #and since I started learning early I've really developed a 'style' of meditation that works for me (or rather a few different ones that eac #have many many options/variables for the meditations themselves) #but like since my mom taught me that whole time #she's very familiar with how i meditate best & so when she wants to teach me a new one her guided meditations are perfect for me #i've never had luck with sleep meditations before (and only found out about them online a few years ago) #i don't know if the scientific basic for them is as strong either (haven't looked into it much) #but I really want them to work so I'm trying to find one that I would actually use & enjoy using #because the videos I found so far irritate me SO MUCH #no wonder so many of you are like 'i suck at meditation' and 'i tried but meditation never worked for me' if THAT is what you had to work #with #like. bestie i'm sorry. wish there were better resources out there #(there probably are and by satan i will find them)

[poeticsapphicism]

healing my inner child by imagining gloria teaching barbie how to bake cupcakes using the the lil easy bake oven from her childhood that she has DEFINITELY kept after all these years and barbie obviously has no baking skills whatsoever and this just seems like the most appropriate way for her to learn okay and ofc sasha makes a huge show of teasing her mom for still “playing with toys” until gloria lures in her by saying she can lick the frosting bowl and POOF sasha’s inner child is restored once again bc who in their right mind can resist frosting. just happy cute family stuff yk 🩷

#barbie #OK STORY TIME: my mom once got me an easy bake oven for my bday when i was like seven #and i was SO EXCITED bc i had wanted one for so long #AND SHE NEVER LET ME PLAY WITH IT BC SHE THOUGHT I’D BE TOO MESSY 😡😡 #so it just sat around collecting dust #and eventually i outgrew it (her words) and she gave it away :(( #so yes i’m using barbiegloria to heal the sad lil girl in me that never got to make lil cupcakes with her lil easy bake oven #don’t judge me lol #barbiegloria #lesbian #sapphic #cinema #lgbt #wlw

[zykamiliah]

episode 3 hit me right in the feelings

REI PAPA

look at them, already a happy family

and he said he wouldn't be to sleep -snorts-

#buddy daddies #idk what to feel about miri's mom bc on the one hand it's really awful to be force to have a child when you don't want it #specially for the child #on the other she slapped kazuki after he defended her from her abusive boyfriend #girl has a fucked up life i pity her #also the fact that kazuki never had parents but instead has some idealized notion of how parents should behave #rei's father is fucking awful and rei is so traumatized #when he said he was miri's papa 😭😭😭 #btw miri is as annoying as she's cute and funny and i say that fondly #she's so chaotic #at the same time it's really sad that she treasures her mama's hamburgers when they are nothing but fake love

[bunnighost]

#i miss her so much #she's getting older and more and more tired and sick #both my mom and i feels like she's started giving up #and you can really tell #she aged so much so quickly. it was like she just didnt have it in her anymore and now it's accalerating #we havent visited her that much both bc we've been sick and dont wanna make her sick #but also bc my mom and she has a very strained relationship and it makes my mom tired #but now when it just feels like we dont have much time left and she's gonna leave us soon #i just feel so fucking sad #both bc of circumstances and my mom having had a difficult and complicated childhood and in turn it's been a bit strained with all of us #but also bc i have avpd and connecting even to my relatives is hard for me.. #im not really that close to her. and now she's dying so i never will be #im just thinking so much abt how life didnt turn out the way i wanted it to. and that i never got to know her as much as i wanted to #and how connected we all are. daughter. mother. grandmother. generations. #i wish it all had been different. i wish it so much. #im so scared and worried bc i feel like it could happen any time now. i dont wanna lose her i just dont

[the-rogue-mockingjay]

O'ravi with her mother and sisters! (Technically half-sisters, but I don't think Sunseekers care to make that distinction.)

Back row, left to right: Xolne, Feerkima, Tahja Front row: Vaulsi, Ravi, Zarha (Ravi's mom!), Dyalani

Xolne and Vaulsi are full sisters, as are Feerkima and Tahja. Ravi and Dyalani are their mothers' only daughters.

Lore fun facts and extra shot under the cut!

O'vaulsi is a huntress, treasure hunter, and adventurer in her own right, and she sometimes joins O'ravi on her quests (such as the Mhach raids).....usually uninvited, but hey.

O'xolne is something of a big game hunter, frequently does clan hunts, and she was also one of the first of the tribe to make the move from the Sagolii to Dravania during Shadowbringers.

Feerkima is a very bubbly energetic person, and a huge social butterfly. She teases O'ravi for her crush on Aymeric, teases Aymeric for his crush on O'ravi, and is generally mischievous. She spends most of her time teaching O tribe children various life skills such as reading, lighting and tending fires, skinning animals, and maintaining weapons.

Tahja is studying red magic, though she also does alchemy and weaving.

Zarha is one of the tribe's premier weavers. She is famously calm and levelheaded in every situation, which balances out her husband O'lirhu Nunh's impulsive tendencies.

Dyalani is a seamstress and jeweler, and the orphaned daughter of the nunh's brother. (Her dad was a tia and idk when or why he died, but I'm thinking it was a hunt gone wrong. Not sure what happened to her mom.)

#they're almost never in the same place at the same time so zarha had to do some god tier wrangling to get them together for this LOL #o'ravi doesn't keep in touch with them they have to hunt her down if they want to talk to her and even then good luck #she sends like 1 letter to them during msq and visits only once #granted i think she used to write to her mom every few months or so but she stopped after the attack on the waking sands #she left home bc she didn't fit in and now she still doesn't fit in but instead of it being bc her autism it's bc she's a storied veteran #even so she starts visiting them sometimes after ultima thule. and her family welcomes her back more or less like she never left #she still feels ehhh abt some ppl in the tribe but things with her family are mostly mended #o'ravi soltholia #ffxiv #gpose

[iloveyouitisruiningmylife]

you ever hangout with someone and their company is actually much worse than being alone?

#she came over and we watched hasee toh phasee together okay #bc she said she hadn't seen it and i was like huh wtf!!!!! #terrible idea she doesn't deserve to see that movie it was so perfect she didn't ruin it exactly bc it's my fav #movie ever and she's not important enough to change that #but god it was annoying having her next to me i wanted her to go away and watch it on my own😭😭 #she kept looking at her phone on super important scenes and she kept saying arey she should find out about them where is the spice #and i kept saying this isn't about spice it's sweet heartwarming story about love and doomed relationships and father daugter rships #but she didn't appreciate it #i need to watch the movie again on my own to cleanse myself from the negativity ew #and she said i had so much fun let's do this again help😭😭 meko nahi karna never again #time to subtly start ignoring her so she gets the message and leave me alone #i already got the ick from her when she acted that way over parents but i was like ivy no ppl aren't perfect give her a second chance you #friends you're really lonely your internet friends are great but they can't sit next to you and talk to you #but i was wrong being lonely is better she's just so. wrong😭 #i kept thinking she's literally worse than everyone in my life i would have had more fun watching it with my MOM😭 #and my sis loves this movie and my bestie loves this movie and my cousin sis also loves this movie #UGH

[dreamcast-official]

huh.

#eli.txt #idk i think ive been slowly forgiving my sister for how deeply hurt i felt when she moved out bc now I Get It. like I Get It #when she moved out i was. 9. and in my head i thought she had left because of me. because i wasnt the easiest kid in the world and i know- #-she had a hard time dealing with me when we were alone. we're so far apart in age we couldnt connect for most of my life. and in my head #that was the reason she left home. bc of me. bc she was tired of *me.* #i know now thats not true. and i understand now why she had to leave because if she felt the way im feeling then goddamn im glad she got ou #this feeling SUCKS. nd like #yeah this probably has to do with my father's daughter and the fact that she refused to even meet me until our dad died. #it took my dad dying for my sister to even be in the same room as me. that really messed with me as a kid. like it REALLY did. #so when my sister left home i just kinda went. oh okay neither of my sisters want anything to do with me! i will be alone forever! got it! #AND I KNOW NOW THATS NOT TRUE ON EITHER OF THEIR ENDS. I DONT HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP W MY DADS DAUGHTER AND I PROBABLY NEVER WILL #BUT I DONT HOLD ANYTHING AGAINST HER ANYMORE BC GOD HER MOTHER WAS AWFUL AND I GET WHY SHE DIDNT WANT TO MEET ME BC OF EVERYTHING #BUT LIKE. THAT MESSED ME UP AND I JUST STRAIGHT UP ASSUMED BOTH MY SISTERS HATED ME FOR SO LONG. #AND NOW THAT I ALSO FEEL LIKE I NEED TO LEAVE I CAN SEE SO CLEARLY. MY SISTER NEVER HATED ME I WAS NEVER THE REASON SHE LEFT. #I CAN LET GO OF HOW HURT I FELT BECAUSE I ALSO NEED TO LEAVE #god i dont wanna hurt my mom though. #dont think i could leave her completely alone in this apartment. i dont think i can do that. #anyway. hi tumblr did you like todays oversharing episode

[mars-ipan]

If you could relive any memory of your past, what would it be?

great question! it’s hard for me to say. past a certain point, my memory just starts getting… vague. i remember that important events happened, and i remember how i felt, but i don’t remember the physical experience of having been going through them.

i think i’d like to just relive a normal day at elementary school. i remember the words people used to describe me when i was that age, but i don’t remember what it felt like to BE me at that age very well. i know i was able to hold conversations with my mom’s scientist coworkers (which they were all impressed by), i know i was frustrated when, in the bathroom, girls who knew my twin brother would walk up to me and go “oh! are you [name]’s sister?” because i was referred to as his sister more often than my own name after a certain point (just what happens when your class is the same group of kids for 4 years ig). i know i was sensitive, and prone to tears. but i don’t remember what it felt like to just. go to class. and do my homework. and Exist. yanno?

i think being able to remember what it felt like to just be 8 years old and going about my 8 year old day would give me a lot of insight into why i am who i am now. i want to remember the little girl that i was better

#ask #fabulousnomatterwhat #can you guys tell i’ve been doing a lot of introspection lately #had to for multiple assignments. it’s wild when you don’t really know or remember exactly who you are #i actually made one of those assignments ABOUT that. my performance art piece :] #anyways!!! #another part of it is like. i was a happy child. but i know i’ve had anxiety for my entire life #and i want to know if baby me was just. scared. all the time. and went forward anyways #if she was she was fucking strong as shit bc she barely had any idea about her anxiety #i mean. my mom was always like ‘i think you may have inherited my anxiety kiddo’ but i never like. thought about it more than that #not until middle school at least. it was just ‘i might have anxiety! anyways’ #yeagh

[mainfaggot]

i had a really terrifying sleep paralysis slash bad dream situation last night so 1) i, half asleep and freaked out out of my mind, went to my mom's bedroom asking for water while trying not to fall over 2) got water and also my mom did a bunch of duas for me LMFAO 🤕😔 3) woke up 45 mins after my alarm and was 15 mins late to class

#i never go to my parents when i have nightmares or sleep paralysis #like i stopped doing that once i turned 14? 15? #because it became so fucking frequent and bc i started distancing myself from them near the end of middle school and especially #at the beginning of hs #anyway theres a lot. of. um . parental figure troubles history that i have .... theres a lot of lore #all that to say. i guess i have subconsciously come to trust my mom in the last half year or so bc instead of #half sleepwalking downstairs to the kitchen i just went to her room across thr hall #it wss super uncomfortable once i realised what i had done tho #like i was 1/2 reeling from yhe effects of a really trippy dream in a dream in a dream in a dream (nightmare ver.) #and i was 1/2 like “omg my mothrr is holding me and praying for my well being and she used to do this for me all the time until i was like #11 or whatever and this feels wrong im not supposed to hsve this this isnt right i dont deserve this i want to crawl out of my skin“ etc etc #anyway! #lol #z.post

[bunnyb34r]

Two medium, two topping, pizzas should not cost $50 with tip 😭 wtf is this shit

#marquilla #i mean mom got extra everything on hers so it was a full $7 more but like come on man 😭 its not even good pizza #the place that makes actual handmade pizzas with (nasty to me) Wisconsin cheese and is CHEAPER actually is carry out only #and mom said 'fuck that ill get what youre getting i guess :( ' #it's $50 including the tip idk if i was clear there #i add 'please' every time i add a request lol like 'make the meat crispy please' 'side door please' bc im overly polite (try ordering at a #sit down restaurant with me ill put you to shame with all my pleases) and i just hope that we dont get a stalker delivery guy bc of that #again. we had one guy who would recognize our name on the order and volunteer to deliver it himself 😬 stopped getting it there for ab a #year at least after that hoping to wait him out... #anyway i put please after every special instruction thing bc i know they get treated like shit and i wanna not be another asshole #oh i remember why he kept delivering to us like that it was bc i said please and i put in the delivery instructions #to have a nice day or 'drive safe' and he thought that was so nice. like well im a nice person... and i want you to deliver my pizza w/o #you risking an accident trying to be quick like dominos (look up why it's no longer 30 min or less) #dominos is such nasty ass pizza too omg sgsggsgs we got it ONCE bc DogCousin likes it and god never again #it was like $70 or something for 3 people yuck id rather nasty ass papa Johns cardboard shit than that #anyway shshshhs