i mean its not really fair that people get a ton of ocs and not let others have the chance
Cry about it to someone who gives a fuck, because I don't.
It's not my fucking problem that other people get to adopts before you do. It's not my problem that I don't want to sell OCs that you want. It's not my problem that you feel cheated by not having as many characters as someone else.
Literally nothing is stopping you from having a bunch of characters yourself. Creators not selling? People buying adopts before you get to? Why not just go and make your own damn characters? There is NOTHING stopping you from making as many of your own as you want.
Stop comparing yourself to other people. Stop begging people to give you their shit. Stop complaining and trying to guilt trip people into giving you shit. Nobody owes you a damn thing and you're not entitled to other people's characters. Life's not fair; get used to it. You're not always going to get what you want.
"love every trans woman you meet before it's too late" is a tumblr post that is very close to my heart because it was inspired by a friend of mine attempting suicide.
like a lot of people seem to assume it's about the banning and stuff and i mean like it can be. love the trans women in your life before the structures around them isolate them. love them before they feel like they're unloved. yk.
but like.
love every trans woman you meet before it's too late is particularly strong to me because it's literally about a friend of mine i thought it was too late for.
i was too scared of making her uncomfortable to let her know how much i love her and how wonderful it is to know her and how happy i am to have met her. and i thought she was gone.
love every trans woman you meet before it's too late is a reminder to me to always push past that discomfort. to always try to make the trans women in your life feel loved. because we so often feel unlovable.
even if you think your actions speak for themselves, push beyond your fears. tell them directly.
"i love you."
"you're a wonderful force in my life, you make me happy."
"i would miss you when you're gone."
"please come to me with your problems."
"i love you."
let the trans women in your life know exactly how much you care about them. let them know you love them. let them know they're your best friend. let them know you'll always be there for them.
they will doubt they're good enough they'll doubt they're loved they'll doubt everything that gives them value. but take them into your heart and make them feel it.
There’s something extremely heartbreaking about Nicos cameo/first words in the show being him looking for Bianca. He’s always going to be the little boy looking for his big sister. Season three is going to be the end of me.