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#but that’s a whole nother can of worms lmao
I really like this blog cause it's supporting of transmasc lol! So I think I want to share my story with this one annoying kid 😊 (expect the worst the kids delusional) so I had eventually decided to come out to this thing, next day? "Oh My mOm ToLd Me ThAt YoU cAnT cHaNgE yOuR GeNdEr!" tried to explain to him that he shouldn't believe his mom all the time and hes like "NO! SHE'S MY MOM!! I HAVE TO BELIEVE HER!! RAGHHHHH AGGHHHH DJKSIAJDKSOSHF" so yeah, now I know how transphobic kids come from transphobic parents. May come back with more experiences idk
how old is this kid? if it’s a kid under the age of 10 or so, then it makes sense for them to believe their parents since most kids still idolize their parents at that age.
but either way, i’m sorry that happened to you
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kallypsos · 11 months
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top 5 football fanfics?
let me preface this answer by saying i dont read y/n fanfics so this is gonna be gay. amen lets go
You and Me by hpdm4ever: a leo messi/sergio ramos soulmate au that got me into football fanfics. i read this twice and i cant wait to forget about it a bit so i can read it again lmao
Wrong Door by bytheriverblue: this one isnt slash, its basically a long conversation between leo and kylian (about sexuality, motivation, football) and i love it
Heart on Fire by JamesJoints: neybappe, kylian isnt famous and they meet playing call of duty au. this fic made me feel joy and pure happiness like few others.
our horizons meet by crys_crys: neybappe coming together after the divorce era. if i remember correctly this takes place during one evening and it was like being there in the room for the whole time
Carnations by Chance by kyluill: neybappe time travel au. if i see carnations i cry and its bc of this fanfic so that should tell u everything
thank you for your question!! <33
(i have more but these are probably the top5)
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danny-chase · 2 years
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I know a Tim stan, and we have come to a conclusion: Dick and Jason were taken for granted. Tim, because Bruce now knew his kids could die, was given compliments and such
I feel like Bruce also kept his distance from Tim, but maybe that's because i read Tim's solo and stopped reading the detective comics and batman comics after Tim's initial arc, but it kinda felt like Bruce just let Tim do his own thing rather than being a team with him, and called him when he needed help going through like camera footage and stuff (from what i recall of the batman comics). Also it seemed like he spent less time training tim (he sent him off to Dick for a period of time, and then to Europe he kinda just offloaded the work). It was also a different relationship with Tim from the start - even though Dick pretty much immediately considered him a brother, Tim already had a dad (and while Jack wasn't winning any awards, he took Tim fishing, disciplined him, housed him, and covered the dad role after he woke up from his coma), and it doesn't really seem like Bruce considered Tim his kid like he did with Dick and Jason. Tim didn't live with Bruce. He was only there to be Robin, he wasn't there to be Bruce's son. Eventually Tim is adopted, but it's as a publicity stunt to catch a kidnapper of rich kids, whereas for say Cass and Dick, it was the culmination of their relationships with Bruce. I think you can't only contribute Tim's different treatment by Bruce as to the fact he knew his kids could die - because when you look at his relationship with Steph, he's super hard on her partially because of how much she reminds him of Jason. Like he literally takes Cass to Jason's grave and draws comparisons to Steph to make a point to her that Spoiler shouldn't be a hero. When Cass loses her ability to read people, Bruce stops letting her out with Jason as his justification. He doesn't really do this with Tim - and I think the reason he does with Steph is because he sees similarities between her and Jason, and that with Cass because he sees her as his daughter, whereas with Tim he's distanced himself enough and doesn't see the similarities between Tim and Jason. I think that distance and having to be present in the double role of parent and mentor is why he does better with Tim (and out of text, some of it's definitely the sexism of the writers when you look at how Steph is treated vs how Tim is treated, plus Tim's kinda written as a self insert power fantasy for nerdy boys so he can't be getting dunked on).
Now on the other hand, this is only really taking modern era stories into consideration, and we don't really have too many examples of how Bruce parented Jason in the modern age (when Jason was young). We have plenty of examples for Dick (Robin: Year One, Batman/Scarecrow: Year One, Teen Titans: Year One, Dick's origin getting retold 5000 times, flashbacks in Nightwing stories, Robin & Batman, etc. etc.) where it's pretty clear Bruce was not the best parent (in mild terms). With Jason we don't really have the same thing - so that begs the question - what was Jason's relationship with Bruce like in the modern era of comics? Are the original comics with him as Robin still mostly canon? Because Bruce wasn't really a bad parent in those. To which then it seems like he learned from the mistakes he made with Dick and did better with Jason as a father before Jason died, and then after Jason died just went to absolute crap and Tim was only spared because Bruce didn't consider him his son. Idk, food for thought
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animefr0do · 1 year
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everyone always jokes about the most popular permanently 17-yr old Tim Drake and he's the first one to get brought up when ever someone's criticizing characters who don't age BUT the thing thats worse imo is like. every batgirl. literally babs, cass, AND steph all at once. they didn't just stop ageing they literally deaged.
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I don’t really think I am aro because as rare as it is, my sexual attraction (very obvious with clear signals, lmao) does go hand in hand with a desire to do stuff that’s traditionally considered romantic — but there definitely is something to be said about that romantic attraction being different than a non-ace allos, the same way a cishet woman’s attraction to a man is different from mine
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stevebabey · 3 months
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You don't have to answer this I'm just gonna bitch in your inbox about the x reader post you made because I felt this in my bones.
Like you really can't go in the tag for quality stuff lately. Everything is about sex. I'm not a prude. I read occasionally stuff, but omg, not everything has to be like this. Sometimes stories begin hopeful, but they end the same way. I'm just sick of it because it's all there is. And because it's so oversaturated, "normal" fics don't stand a chance because people don't click on that anymore. So yeah, as a creator, if I wanna get attention for my work, of course, I will produce stuff that people will read.
Also what you said about minors, how are they supposed to interact with fics if everything is porn.
In general, people are sooo fixated on "spicy" content. On tiktok, all people read is smut, or they can't handle other stuff. Literally, smut destroyed their brains. How is it any different than guys having a porn addiction?
Also, the tumblr tagging and searching functions are shit. I wanna find new fics from like 2020 or 2021 (before s4 bc I miss those vibes). When you go to the popular tag thing, the earliest you get is 2022. Like tumblr needs to fix that, so content from years ago can still be found. People also need to start tagging accordingly. It's such a pain.
Again sorry for the rant.
HOHOHOHOHO NO APOLOGIES NEEDED NONNIE i love having a bitch and being on my hater shit and i think more people than you might think agree with all of this + its a whole buncha opinions under the cut u have been warned
to some degree to decrease in quality fics will be due to the lull between seasons which always happens- some of the fantastic writers move onto other obsessions for the mean time and truly, i can't fault them for that.
but yet somehow i know it's more than just that - a smut piece will get more attention and notes regardless of the quality of the fic. it's so tough to complain about cos like sigh its all free writing produced by someone so to moan and bitch about stuff getting more attention than others is like. not very nice and being hypercritical but also
not everyone wants to read smut!! and its fuckin everywhere!! wouldn't it be darling if there could simply be a tag that was smut free but noooooo every post gets tagged with as many fuckin things as possible for 'reach' which is the stupidest fucking thing i've ever heard before
and ur absolutely right, because of it fics with no smut get drowned before they get a chance to get noticed. and sorry to say it, but its very rarely that i've read a fluff piece and been like ah, that seemed like it was just thrown together like no its always crafted to some degree- but i cannot say the same for smut in the least. again, often u can mentally sub in different characters and the fic still works which to me = bad writing (if its a steve fic i shouldn't be able to slot in eddie and have it work? ok cos then its not a STEVE fic its just a porn fantasy which is like fine but GOD this is a whole nother can of worms but if u just write smut and then cycle thru joe keery characters its like half a step from writing rpf cos its obvious u just think he's a hot guy and not so much into his characters 😭 maybe im being autistic levels of protective over my lil guy but i also think im right lmao)
and ough trying to write for an audience is so hard, its a vicious cycle of: wants to produce content ppl will read and interact with -> doesn't enjoy writing it as much -> writing isn't as good as u know it could be -> if it flops for whatever reason u feel like asshole. anon babey please dear god write the ideas you want to <3 i can promise you they will be 100x better than trying to cater to an invisible audience ! ppl follow you for your writing !!! and feel free to tag me!!!! i always want to read good steve x reader fics!!! (i just can't be assed hunting them down half the time)
the minors thing is just. god its - i remember hearing the phrase 'virgins write the best smut' and it was when i was 14 and now im like god don't say that they write like porn cos they have fuck all idea what they're talking about. i read so much fanfic when i was 12 years old and what u said is so true, it just used to sneak up in stories and ruin things. its the internet tho so its impossible to truly moderate
omg ur tiktok comment so fucking true babe. when smut is prioritized over plot, u can tell and so many of the booktok rec's they have are just that. there are ways to write smut and have it still be a story. there's also ways to write pwp and still craft it and yet, u dont see that often. also what happened to being excited when two bitches hold HANDS??? AND KISS FOR THE FIRST TIME?? it's appalling the way they thirst for that content but write their captions like "and they have s3x!!! and f@&k in the bathroom hehehe" like what. its such sanitized and shit content honestly
god ur so right i hadn't even thought about hunting down old fics - and it would make such a difference if you could do that because otherwise SO much weighs on when u post it and if it shows in tags and yada yada
this is so much omg u don't have to read all that but genuinely the reason i started writing more steddie and less x reader is the difference in reception and general support. i dont feel like i'm competing against my mutuals, but more like we're here to just hoot and hollar at each other and unless u have a tight knit group of friends on here, u don't get that on x reader fics ://
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midnxght-sweet-time · 11 months
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it's nice to see someone else whos into the beta ver of characters! i wish more would be released on them or, and this is very wishful thinking, even a "what if" type event where we'd see at least beta/prototype riddle as he had the most written for him irc
Yesss!!!! I really wished there was more beta charac reveal from Yana. So far we only have the beta designs of characs like Silver or Malleus but the biggest hidden lore drop for beta characs was mainly beta Riddle. Though Riddle had more reveal and even almost became 'canon'. Its kinda sad he was scrapped and just gone qwq
OHHHHH but beta Jade is a whole nother can of worms to deal with.
SO—
I imagine punk Jade was some kind of edge phase he had when he was younger before his suave professional look lmao
I hced Jade likes to play as the villian. Like he probs has those 'playlist that makes you feel like a villian'. I find it funny how he tends to play out like the most professional badass but also still acts pretty gullible sometimes.
Yall think Floyd is the creepy one??? Bruh Jade is more on playing with the psychological tactics which I find much more scarier—
Im pretty Jade at some point probably wants to best Floyd. I hced him to be the younger twin, and of course all younger siblings like to try and one up the other. Maybe thats why Jade used to be a punk kind of guy, probably a delinquent as well and prefers more physical violence like Floyd.
Until my guy find out that villians who have a more polished and courteous style tends to be the most prefered and appealing (and in most cases— attractive 7w7). Which results into the kind of eel we all know and love now ♡♡♡
I want punk Jade to exists in the canon universe!!! Do you know how interesting that will be??? But atleast we can indulge in sweet- make believe headcanons and say punk Jade was a past memory. Unless for whatever reason the tweels' backstory has been fully explained and Jade confirms doesnt have a punk phase I will hold onto this belief for dear life-
Omg but Punk Jade and Delinquent Deuce combined????? PLEASE-
Speaking of which: punk baby eel Jade vs momma's boy deliquent Deucey. Who'd you think would win??
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targentis · 12 days
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- What's your favorite character arc?
- What's your favorite details you noticed about the game?
- What's your favorite character design?
- Do you have any hcs/things you'd like about less popular characters ( the church staff, students like Raphael or Caspar, random npc )
- Idk if you particularly care about shipping, but do you have any rarepair? ( Ok, tbh that one is because of your Rodrigue fic because it was delightful. And because I saw you liked Ferdinand/Dimitri- )
- Do you have any hcs around the characters family? ( This one might also be because of your Rodrigue fic- )
- ALSO is there any platonic dynamic, especially less popular, that you care about?
- Group dynamic too! I'm pretty sure your favorite is the blue lions, but is there anything particular you enjoy/notice about the houses? ( including the Church staff! And it can consider recruits too, as well as either pre or post time-skip )
- This one is a bit cheessy but is there any song you associate with three houses in some way?
( Sorry I know it looks a bit like an interview, feel free to only answer the question you want! And I might not like/reblog your answer bc I'm shy but I'll garantee you that I will have read it! Thanks you if you decided to answer :) )
wowa sure i’ll answer all these why not HDSNDJSN
gotta say dimitri has my favorite character arc 💪💪💥💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥👆👆👆 they literally gave him a trauma recovery arc and it wasn’t even bad. we love the psychotic rep in this game 💪💪💪💪 the healing 💥💥💥💥💥💥 the sexy also 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
THE FACT THAT YOU CAN JUST. WALK AROUND ON BATTLE MAPS TO EXPLORE THEM. I’M STILL NOT OVER THIS, THEY DIDN’T HAVE TO DO ALL THAT, AND YET…
oogh. this is a Hard One. all the character design in this game slaps so hard. i’ll probably have to say post timeskip Edelgard takes the cake for me though because like…that headdress…the gravitas of the whole getup…never seen anything like it before
I LOVE CORNELIA 💥💥💥💥💥💥 i know i already talked about my trans headcanon for her but like genuinely…..she is so fascinating to me…what is trans Agarthan culture like…one must wonder…
LMAO the Rodrigue fic was a commission but i am a Rodriguela supporter forever 🫡🫡🫡 other than that yeah i like Diminand (but i’m a Cymitri truther and Yes this counts as a rarepair to me), Ashelix, whatever Ferdinand and Felix is called but Specifically as exes…i think that’s it off the top of my head. i also ship Cornelia with Valter from Sacred Stones but that’s a whole nother can of worms
OUUUU tbh i think All of my family hcs came out in that one Felix fic that everyone sleeps on HDBSBDJS i just i just i love thinking about Glenn……..and what would happen if Felix just went to therapy ONCE……… Rodrigue is a good father idc what anyone says
yes i think we were robbed of Claude and Hubert supports and i’ll die on this hill. they would have been such incredible worsties. i also really like Lorenz and Ferdinand as the most insufferable friends on the planet. and Annette and Dimitri have such cute supports that i never hear anyone talk about…faerghus four my ass, Annette is Dimitri’s REAL sibling figure ‼️ speaking of the faerghus four i hate that dynamic. Dedue and Dimitri have thee most beautiful friendship and ppl want me to believe he has a comparable relationship with the snotty rich kids he grew up with? get real. that being said Felix and Sylvain have that Exact lasting childhood bond that everyone seems to want Dimitri to have with the rest of them so. i like those two as besties i have a lot of feelings about that.
its so interesting that the Blue Lions come off as my favorite group dynamic because like…i gotta say they’re probably my least favorite as a group AKDKSNSKSA i LOVE the Black Eagles for this. (i am totally neutral on the Golden Deer. i have like zero opinions on them and i am sorry 😔) specifically though i think what gets me about the Black Eagles is that they have this…communal vibe, i guess? it makes it easy to imagine them all like hanging out with each other even though they all have such STRONG personalities. the Blue Lions…i just get the sense that they’re not all very compatible with each other if that makes sense??? it feels like i’m at an awkward family dinner every time i see them all together. it could just be that i like almost all the BE whereas there are quite a few BL i strongly dislike HHDBWNDN because recruiting my faves makes this less unbearable. also i fucking love the church staff…i especially love how supportive all the professors are of each other, and how Byleth really feels like they have a community around them while working at Garreg Mach… Gatekeeper i love you………
yes i do actually and it’s PVP by Amaranthe. i don’t actually know WHY that song makes me think of this game, the lyrics aren’t really applicable, but i have such a vivid animatic in my head every time i hear it so there you have it.
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terraliensvent · 14 days
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Hi mod it’s Cass
I am also YOUR number one fan!!! I don’t plan to stay in Terras, just hanging around until I get my art for my trade and then I’m running for the hills basically. The NSFW jokes and the general atmosphere are too much. I’m an adult in a server full of children, and atp given the nonchalance of other members I don’t plan on being in a space that encourages that kind of behavior towards children. I’ll probably make a ticket about it and that’s that, honestly.
I hope you don’t stay any longer than you have to, that place is just a cesspool of toxic positivity. Good luck in there bud 🫡 you’re so much braver than I am. I never really looked at this blog until recently but you seem pretty chill so you’re cool in my book!
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omg im having my “senpai noticed me” moment lmao
glad youre taking the initiative to gtfo, it just sucks how that shows more evidence that the terra server is not an environment conducive to critique or serious discussion whatsoever.
the nsfw/suggestive “jokes” have apparently been a continued issue just going based off the stuff i get in my inbox, and mods dont seem to give a fuck since theyre all around 18-20 themselves and dont have the foresight to see how there is true danger in things they think is no big deal.
and actually i wanna elaborate on my issues with mods being so young; when youre a very young “adult” yourself (adult in quotes because imo 18 is only adult in legal terms and most 18-year-olds do NOT have the level of maturity that comes with the title of adult, something amazingly exemplified in the terra server) you kind of blur the lines on minor and adult. what i mean by this is: when youre 18, you tend to think of minors as 16-17 or older teens since thats the stage you were just in, you dont really think about the 13, 14, 15 year olds being as super-young as they are because you were just in high school with some of them. because of this theyll brush more things off as “not a big deal” because, hey, i would make jokes like that with my friends in high school, its not that bad. they dont really realize the different dynamics there are when its online, and just how bad it ACTUALLY is. again, it goes back to that immaturity thing. (theres also something to be said about the way that 17 year olds online are really infantilized while 18 year olds online are treated as just as mature as older adults, AND theres something to be said about the way 18 year olds are constantly pushed into believing theyre more mature especially in art and furry spaces by beginning to create and post NSFW the SECOND they turn 18, but thats a whole nother can of worms)
anyways, maturity rant aside and back to the actual topic of the ask, i appreciate the kindness abt me and my blog :) i plan to stick around in terras because i love watching a trainwreck, but if push comes to shove ill start disconnecting myself from it again. the community always annoyed the fuck out of me lmao theyre insanely terminally online
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After reading the last few asks, I thought you'd like to know your blog is actually what made me like Brian. I used to be very blinded by his defense of the movie and some out of context quotes (also weirdly spiteful about his love life as if the other three didn't also cheat on their partners but that's a whole 'nother can of worms). I was never a Mary stan tho, so I don't think there's much hope for every Brian hater out there lmao.
Oh, glad I could give you a new perspective, I suppose. People do take what he says out of context a lot, which is easy to do for any public figure but especially someone who rambles as much as he does and who says some strange shit sometimes lol, but the more you read and watch interviews of him, the more you kind of see how he works. None of us know him, of course, but I think someone as eccentric and open as he is can give people the wrong impression sometimes, because those two traits can be easily misread. I think a lot of people's hostility would fade if they realized he's simply kind of a desperately earnest weirdo (affectionate)
(Yeah, that's a can of worms I've opened from time to time. I've found that people don't really have an answer for why they think Brian's cheating was uniquely bad while all three of the others' wasn't. It's just that he's been the most open and honest about it in interviews and in his music. They all hurt their partners and were probably nightmares to be in relationships with, but at least we know Brian felt horrible about it for a long time and took responsibility for failing his first marriage. I also like to draw people's attention to the fact that his first marriage was kind of doomed from the start and his relationship with Anita was actually a lot more complicated than people typically think, too.)
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rusted-clocks · 4 months
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i only just saw aviva seems genuinely upset i wanted to say im not and blurry is jjst being blurry and idk if u were actually upset or what but i wanted u to know at least im not lmao thoight we was in character but i get spooked 😰😰😰
(Nah I aint, dw! Orph was just being a bit sarcastic.
Finn's a whole 'nother can of worms though. Spiteful bastard. 💀)
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shaftking · 1 year
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There's a major case of pretending to be trans for clout going on brazilian youtube rn and it's wild. This femboy who described himself as an androgynous person who uses he/him was revealed to be biologically female, so you'd think "oh ok he's a trans man". Which might be right, but also when people digged deeper into his social media (because of a different discourse, which is a whole nother can of worms), they found out that he used to say he was a trans girl. So this AFAB person who dresses femininely in all of his videos started out saying "I'm a trans girl", then switched to "I'm an AMAB androgynous", and now it's "I'm a trans man".
So yeah just wanted to share this weird shit with someone whose concept of trans trending isn't a brainrotten one lmao
What the hell. Reminds me of that one model from a few years ago that lied about being a trans woman (she was just a cis woman) and i think she ended up actually being a part of a trans positive or inclusive fashion campaign or something before the news got out. Lots of attention seekers out there unfortunately.
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tiktaalic · 2 years
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those things are all dope on paper I agree with u there like the concepts were good. the execution of it all tho. the actual experience of watching it. got worse. and like I do get that this fandom is barely about actually watching the show and so for the purposes of discussion dabb era can hold its own. but it’s literally worse tv. also bringing up the naked lady torture rack is a whole nother can of worms which I don’t think is worth arguing about because literally every moment of spn has a bunch of problematic shit u could point to and we all know it the only thing that changed was kripke era had 2000s type bigotry and dabb era had late 2010s type bigotry. that’s not why any of us are here. anyway i didn’t really mean to get this up in arms about it I guess I just wanna push back against the attitude that I’ve been seeing a lot that everyone who likes kripke era the best is insufferably pretentious and doesn’t know how to have fun. or people automatically assuming it means I hate jack. like I love the concept of jack. the meta soul of him. hes just written worse then every character that had been around longer than him through no fault of his own. anyway im realizing this wasn’t about changing ur mind I guess I just needed to speak my piece. sorry for doing it in ur inbox lmao hope u have a lovely day
> claims not to be pretentious starts talking about how no one but you actually watches the show and is instead playing telephone with the concepts. and how you love the meta soul of a character but not the character himself (unpretentiously)
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pencilscratchins · 4 years
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do you have any ideas about what skause&effect jeongdao’s first interaction in 1988 might be like?
watch as i rise out of a deep sleep to talk incessantly about jeongdao
so piandao is in the fledgling stages of his PhD and he very much separates between his academic life and his personal gay life 
he’s living with his best friend, wu (as in Aunt Wu not Prince Wu lmao whyd they do this to us) who’s the editor for a dyke magazine and super active in the community-- also under a pseudonym, he’s writing for protest & gay rights periodicals
jeong jeong at the time is the bouncer for a lesbian bar, and in his free time writing for punk rags but very recently published a rebuttal to something piandao had written
probably along the lines where piandaos talking about barney frank and other out elected officals having a space in the system and jeong jeong is like “dismantle the system” you know, typical stuff from the periodicals 
wu drags piandao out for pride, because he never goes out anymore (heres some pictures of 1988 san fran pride btw just for fun)  but wu obviously going to lesbian spots 
piandao is very much like... the one gay friend in the hoard of lesbians he hangs out with. we all have one, mines name is brandon. yours is probably called sam.
she drags him to the bar jeong jeong works at and instantly abandons him because wu is a popular lady
jeong jeong notices him immediately because okay, hot george micahel otter and goes up to put the moves on
before he even says anything, piandaos like “are you the prick who had a hell of a lot to say about my gays in government article???”
jeong jeongs like well stop being mean to me or im going to fall in love with you
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bfndndndnd ive only seen like. 4 batman movies. including the lego batman one. and there's a musical that starkid made and that batman and robin are def tony and peter
oh I could see that!! rich philanthropist superhero and his dumbass honorary son?? that’s a trope I can get behind
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fictiongeek · 4 years
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thinking about how I never got the chance to come out to anyone because my parents took my phone and looked through my texts and found out I had a girlfriend (I’d been so careful too. they still found out) and my mom had a huge meltdown and blamed me for everything and claimed she didn’t even know me anymore (all with that good religious guilt!!) and then after a while she decided she ’was okay with it’ and then outed me to my family and all my friends without me knowing and I didn’t find out she told them until years later and to this day she tells me ’how hard it was’ for her to accept me liking girls. anyway that’s why I’m never coming out as nonbinary to my family and why I’m making sure they never find out
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