#full circle bisexual

[buddiemybeloved]

texts sent literally seconds before disaster

#like i keep circling back to it in my head #sent this and literally not a full minute later.! #911 spoilers #911 abc #evan buckley #bucktommy #bisexual buck

[sleepanonymous]

About the Take Me to Church soundcheck; I had a couple of lovely people tell me where it was filmed. It was not, in fact, from this most recent tour in North America. It actually wasn't filmed in North America at all, lol.

Since I also had a friend of the owner of the video/audio reach out to me, I won't state exactly when or where it was filmed, but I will tell you all it's about two years old and Vessel most definitely was wearing black nail polish when he was playing that piano.

Also! I found the doors that I was originally looking for. Like, there was absolutely no reason for the Google Maps car to drive 10 meters down a tiny dead-end alleyway but they did and I am eternally grateful to that driver.

#anon asks #sleepanon answers #sleepanon rant #sleep token #vessel sleep token #vessel #take me to church cover #take me to church soundcheck #both asks were anon so i can't @ you #but i hope you both see this #and tysm for letting me know🖤🖤 #i feel like i've come full circle btw #with the nail polish thing lol #i'm never getting over vessel with black nails #it's my new sexuality #i am no longer bisexual i am vessel with black nails-sexual #(that's a horrible joke i am so sorry)

[cloud-based-and-rainpilled]

They/them pronouns when mfckers hit 30

#before anyone freaks out no ofc if you identify they/them forever or just a little bit that’s fine #but as a ✨ kweer ✨ with mostly ✨ kweer ✨ friends most of us ended up in cis marriages #i’m a bi gnc woman and according to my gay guy friends i look like a faghag. which i self ID’d as a child. we’ve come full circle #idk if it’s societal pressure or w/e but it will most likely happen to you & it’s. whatever #gay #lesbian #lgbt #lgbtqia #bisexual #<- it me! no one cares #trans #nonbinary #transgender #asexual #i’m curious if cis has colors so imma tag it too lmao #cis #gnc #antm #america’s next top model #shitpost #cannot wait for the 2 people who read this to take it super cereal (no one will care about this) #queer

[coffeeteaitsallfine]

anyone else watch heartstopper and flip out when they show euros lyn as the director and/or executive producer in the credits.

#and then one of the eps gave us bisexual lighting... #its full circle

[labyrinthofcrystals]

I find it so funny how my brain has hatter brainrot when in fact my self inset oc is based upon the cheshire cat && cheshire is one of my all time favorite characters ever (hatter too, obviously). I guess it's because my main oc verse already has a talking cat cursed with immortality and a shit ton of trauma. But my all time favorite oc is also a bisexual magician so idk what happened there 😭 like we all know I have a Type a this point right lol.

#* mine / txt #* mine / ocs #all i do is think abt my ocs. i have chronic brainrot for them. #anyway aiw/book!hatter inspited cali & cali inspired liw/my version of hatter #so it came full circle. in a way. #and TECHNICALLY cali is also a self insert so i do have one based on hatter too #hand holding meme w vinny & cali and the middle says ''inspired by aiw characters'' #there are so many paralles between aiw & phanta (oc verse) that i didnt really realize #until i noticed the similarities between emory & cheshire. tbf tho that was lowkey intentional. kind of. #aasldfkj sorry didn't mean to ramble about my non fandom ocs on here whoops!! #tldr my bisexual magician brainrot / propaganda extends to all my works

[spitefularoandbi]

There is literally nothing more annoying than a lesbian with bisexual and/or aromantic figures.

#the way we cant have bisexual rep is disgusting #& i mentioned aro figures because theres literally no other interpretation and yet the tags are full of 'theyre lesbians. hope that helps!' #im at the point of wanting to say 'die. thanks.' #im so mad. i hate this. i never want lesbians in my real life circles ever bc yall dont know how to even respect characters #how the fuck could i believe yall see me as a person - oh wait. you wont because youre assholes. #my posts #my tags #i guess im going on a blocking spree bc i cant fucking stand yall

[imfinereallyy]

Eddie’s on the couch shirtless, and Steve is having a full-on crisis.

Eddie’s bare chest is on full display on Robin and Steve’s couch, and Steve is having a full-blown, how did this not click til now, crisis.

Steve knows he’s staring. Knows he needs to stop staring. Eddie is going on a rant to them, something about society or something metal (he got distracted when Eddie whipped his shirt off), and Steve should really pay attention because he knows Eddie is going to quiz him after.

For someone who hates school so much, Eddie sure likes to test Steve.

Robin comes up behind Steve, slurping her slushy. “Oh no. I know that face. It finally caught up to you, didn’t it?”

Steve breaks his state to give Robin a wide-eyed look. “What—how—I—“ Steve’s shoulders sag; there is no point in hiding from Robin. “How’d you know?”

“Please, babe, I’ve been waiting. Glad to know you actually sped-run this. Was thinking you were going to pull a me and wait til Jenny Rodriguez asks to practice the stage kiss with you before you realized.”

“I have so many questions.”

“Don’t bother; nothing happened except me falling off the stage at rehearsal.”

Steve laughs but then chokes when he glances back at Eddie. “I think my brain just exploded, Robs. What do I do?”

Robin pats his back sympathetically, “There, there. Nothing you can do, bud. Just got to ride the gay thoughts wave.”

Steve makes a distressed noise. Robin rubs circles on his back.

Eddie interrupts their moment (clueless to the evident lesbian bisexual solidarity happening), “So what do you guys think? Should I get the sword here?” Eddie drags his hand slowly down his sternum.

“I need you to take it back.” Steve whips his head torwards Robin.

“Take it back?”

“The crisis, take it back.” Steve all but begs Robin.

“Sorry, there is a no refund policy. You can use it or push it to the side; it’s up to you. But either way, that baby is yours.” Robin uses her straw to emphasize her point.

Eddie tilts his head confused, “Uuuh guys? The tattoo?”

Steve waits a moment before responding. “Good.”

“I’m going to need more than that Stevie.”

“Good. Will look good on you. Anything looks good on you.” Steve has to resist shoving his face into his hands. He can feel the rush of heat up to his cheeks.

Eddie’s face breaks into a brilliant, and a little smug, smile. “Awe, thanks, sweetheart. Glad to know I got the Harrington approval.”

“You don’t need my approval to look good.” Steve was going to throw himself off the roof of their apartment. That didn’t even make any sense.

Eddie snorts, “Okay big boy. Whatever you say.”

It comes off flirtier than Steve thought a sarcastic comment could be. This time instead of responding, Steve just caves into the embarrassment, turns around, and starts lightly thumping his head into the wall.

“Eddie, c’mon, you broke him! Now I’m going to have to reboot him…again.”

Steve doesn’t see his face but doesn’t have to look to know that Eddie’s face is downright giddy. “Sorry.”

Steve doesn’t think he’s very sorry at all.

#steddie #this is silly but it got me through work #Eddie only has the upper ground for now #later Steve gets confident and it throws Eddie for a loop #they are both disasters #I need a fun name like fruity four but just when it’s the three of them #but in love #platonic soulmates stobin #bisexual steve harrington #gay Eddie Munson #ficlet #steve harrington #eddie munson #my writing #stranger things #pre relationship #fluff #lesbian bisexual solidarity #stobin #robin buckley #coming out

[rasairui]

Full set done! The glaze settled weird on the loop in the trans symbol so I'll probably have to drill a hole in order to get it on a necklace. It also settled weird on the lesbian symbol and kind of obfuscates that the circles are meant to intertwine, but overall I'm really happy with how all of these turned out! I like how rusted they look! The bisexual symbol is so cool looking why don't I see it around more??

#ceramics #transgender #bisexual #lesbian #gay #pride #my art #rasairui

[stairs-feooff]

An Open Letter to White Emo Kids

When I was thirteen years old, I googled ‘how to be emo.’ The music, the aesthetics, the darkness of it all captivated me. There was transgression there, with boys in makeup and girls who weren’t ashamed to be bisexual. The online emo community on google plus (anyone else remember google plus? Just me?) took me in with open arms. I was allowed to be depressed, I didn’t have to hide my burgeoning sexuality or the starts of my struggle with depression, something I now know was caused by intense amounts of dysphoria and life in an abusive and queerphobic household.

Only, there was one problem. I wasn’t white. 

Certainly, nobody would say they had an issue with me being Latino to my face. Most people in the scene genuinely believed they were not racist. After all, they loved Latino people, they thought the guys in Pierce the Veil were so hot. They appreciated the culture too, sombreros and maracas were the full extent of Mexican culture, right? 

But to be emo, you had to be pale. I remember Onision saying that Black people couldn’t pull off emo, and while everyone I knew talked about how horrible he was for saying that, they all secretly believed it. The emo kids I knew stayed out of the sun, they wore long sleeves to stay whiter and some on the more goth side carried around parasols. It was just part of the gothic, to stay white and dead looking. I hid myself from the sun, my skin tanned quickly and well, we couldn’t have that. 

Every guide on emo aesthetics emphasized stick straight hair. Every emo kid I knew reinforced that idea. I begged my mom for a relaxer, she refused. It was alright, I figured out how to damage my hair well enough on my own. Pete Wentz kept his hair straight, spent his time with a flat iron to press down the curls that made him inpalatable to white suburban teenagers. I could too. The burns, the split ends, the fact that my hair didn’t start to return to its natural texture until I cut several inches off this year, that was the sacrifice kids like me needed to take to come into the scene. If not, you would be made fun of. You’d be compared to Ray Toro, everyone’s favorite ‘princess fro fro.’ He was Puerto Rican, just like me. No one talked about that, beyond whispering it around like a dirty secret. No one acknowledged his pride in his country, mirrored by my own pride instilled in me from my mother. Every piece of him, every feature identifiable as nonwhite was sneered at. His hair, his nose, his lips, the white kids said he was the ugly one because of them. I was too, I suppose. 

That was back in 2014. I remember it vividly, still.

Turn back the clock to the early 1980s. Dischord records has just signed seminal emo group, Rites of Spring. There is change in the humid Washington DC Summer air. A new genre would be born from it, branching from the existing hardcore movement. To say Dischord records created emo would be no exaggeration. Without them, the music all of us in the scene know and love would be nonexistent. Dischord was seminal in the scene, Dischord was also founded by Ian MacKeye, vocalist for Minor Threat and later, Fugazi. 

Minor Threat is not emo in the tradional sense. Musically, it’s similar to punk and hardcore groups of the time, lacking the distinct musical flourishes of MacKeye’s later emo group, Fugazi. Still, Minor Threat helped shape the hardcore scene emo was born from and created the record label that signed Rites of Spring, the first emo band. Fugazi is legendary in first and second wave emo circles, influencing bands like Thursday. MacKeye’s stamp on emo is inescapable, even in the third wave. MacKeye also penned the song: Guilty of Being White. 

Guilty of Being White is a minute of MacKeye complaining about systemic racism - or rather, being blamed for systemic racism. He’s sorry for being white, he’s so so sorry, don’t you feel sorry for him, a white man in the 1980s? Isn’t it horrible that white people are blamed for systemic inequality? Isn’t it horrible that he actually has to put work into allyship with people of color? 

MacKeye says he never meant for the song to seem racist. Surely, the fact that it’s become a favorite of white power groups is a coincidence. 

All that is to say, racism was baked into emo from the very beginning. The label that created the genre was founded by white men with very clear issues with racism, even if they did not see it that way. Pete Wentz flat ironing his Black hair and Tyler Joseph refusing to say he’s influenced by rap aren’t bugs unique to the third wave. Instead, they’re features of the genre. 

Now, I’m not writing this to ‘cancel’ emo. I love emo dearly, I still consider myself emo. It, in every wave, is my favorite genre of music. Rites of Spring, Jawbreaker, My Chemical Romance, these bands have shaped my life like no other. Through emo I have met some of my best friends, white and nonwhite alike. Emo allowed me to express my gender and sexuality freely. Emo changed my life for the better, and it continues to do so. No, I am not writing this to cancel emo, whatever that means. Instead, it is because I love the genre so much that I feel the need to point out its flaws, its shielding and harboring of racism since Dischord herself began. 

They say you should end essays like this with a call to action. Personally, I don’t know what I can say that hasn’t been reiterated a thousand times. Really, what am I supposed to say here? Stop being racist? I, like so many other people of color both in and out of the scene are tired of telling white people to do just that over and over. We are tired of seeing white people stop saying what isn’t acceptable anymore, not due to any sort of active unpacking of white supremacy on their part but simply out of a wish to not be ostracized. I am tired of going to emo spaces outside my friend groups and explaining to white thirty year olds what racism is, over and over and over again ad infinitum. I am tired of seeing white people try and take the lead on discussions of racism, whether it is to rapidly assert ‘im not racist but-‘ or to be on the opposite extreme, to jump the gun and form a dog-eat-dog circus, where the end goal is not to actually form a safe place for people of color but to prove how not racist they are. I am tired of watching white people jump on whatever they can to demonize people of color in the scene. I am tired of watching nuanced conversations about racism and complicitness in racism be overshadowed by people upset their pet white man isn’t going to kiss their other pet white man anymore. I am tired of watching children be called slurs. 

Perhaps my frustration is coming loose. It’s hard to be in the middle of all this and not be frustrated. At this point, I am disillusioned. These conversations are seemingly brought up every month, and yet, there is no systemic change. All I can say is I hope that one day, emo becomes actively hostile to racism and racists. Perhaps being aware that racism has been integral to the scene since the beginning is a good place to start. 

#*swings bat at hornets nest*

[the-eldritch-it-gay]

Since I ended up doing a full body piece of Majexatli in their camp clothes, I couldn't resist trying to mimic an in-game screenshot of Majexatli as a companion.

Majexatli (they/them) is an indigiqueer neutral(ish) zariel tiefling circle of the moon druid. They're a Malarite (though they try to hide it). They're also bisexual and polyamorous. In my main playthrough with them, they romance Wyll and Karlach :)

#Eldritch IT Speaks #bg3 #bg3 tav #art #salam plays bg3 #oc: majexatli #eldritch it art

[blanketforcas]

one day jensen will say something about being an introvert and he'll turn to misha and ask "what about you? introvert or extrovert?" and misha will simply say "me? i'm just bisexual" and it'll be a full circle moment and new universes would be born that very moment or whatever that vfx guy said about destiel smooching

#cockles #kinda

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

AITA for ghosting my girlfriend?

So, this happened years ago, and is extremely niche and online, but it still kind of weighs on me. I'm AFAB, and when I was younger (10-14yo) I would "pretend" to be a boy on the internet. Most of my time was spent playing Animal Jam and Minecraft, as well as being involved in the Animal Jam-related Google Plus/Blogger circles, all the time presenting as male.

I should also mention that I was raised in a very conservative and anti-gay religion. My parents knew that I was pretending to be a boy, they figured it would help "protect" my identity online. I didn't know what "transgender" meant until this whole incident was over.

Around the time this all happened I was heavily involved with a blog dedicated to posting Animal Jam users who would scam others out of their items, in hopes that our readers would avoid them. I and the four other people who ran the blog (between 13-16 y/o) had all become very close friends, but our interest in Animal Jam and in running this blog was waning. It was around this time I (14Complicated) began dating my fellow moderator V (13F). We had grown close over the course of many months invoved with the blog, and she had confessed her feelings to me over email. I responded that I felt the same way. Truthfully, I did. I felt things for her that I'd never felt before. Things that scared me.

V and I continued dating for many months. Over that time, our friendgroup had made the decision to shut the blog down for good. Us moderators stayed friends, and opened up a Minecraft server so we could still play together. V and I accomplished the all-important milestone of putting our beds together in Minecraft. The seriousness of our relationship weighed heavy on me, for two reasons: One, I was a girl dating a girl, and that was a sin. Two, I had been "pretending" to be a boy while I was dating V, and I had no idea how to tell her the truth. Looking back now, that second point was kind of stupid. V was openly bisexual and actually knew what transgender meant.

Because of these conflicting feelings, I just up and ghosted V one day. Logged out of every account associated with that friend group and went full no contact. I thought it would stop the feelings of guilt. It didn't help, and in fact, hurt a lot. I'm 20 now, openly nonbinary, and I still feel guilty about leaving V in the dark like that.

TL;DR I ghosted my online girlfriend because I was having gay thoughts and felt guilty for "lying" about my gender. AITA?

What are these acronyms?

#aita #am i the asshole

[posting-stuffies]

Original | Exclu comments

Exclus went full circle.

"I'm attracted to one gender" -> "I am bisexual". Lolgic!

#transmultiphobia #multigender issues #mogai discourse #bisexual #bi discourse #tw discourse #tw exclus #exclu takes #exclusionism #tw exclusionist #lgbt discourse #straightbian #straight lesbian #lesbian discourse #lesboy #bisexuality #monosexism #bisexism #bigender #trixic #nblw #feminamoric #vixenamoric #tucute #screenshot #facebook comments #regardless of gender #all genders #lolgic #sjw logic

[gougarfem]

i know this is cliché and there are a million posts like this but i'm getting so tired of the pointless infighting on here. and before you accuse me of anything, i'm a lesbian who practices complete female seperatism with the exception of having to interact with male healthcare staff. yes, i'm far from a perfect radfem, and yes, we should all try but I don't think anyone on here meets that ideal. seeing misogynistic slurs and insults thrown at women who are bisexual, het-partnered, or god forbid need a fucking abortion is so saddening when tumblr is one of the only places i feel a sense of community with other feminists. most people on here have at some point been isolated and ostracized for our politics. we're lucky to have a space on a site like this where we can express our beliefs and form a community and have nuanced discussions (look at what's happening to other apps! look how quickly radfem pages are termed on instagram and tiktok!) and instead of using this platform for constructive discussion some of you are spending 4+ hours a day in petty arguments over semantics, attacking vulnerable women for needing medical procedures and cyberbullying anyone who happens to feel attraction to men. we are not going to form a movement like this. no progress will come from this! outsiders see us picking each other apart and are discouraged from radical feminism, men use the holes in our community to tear us apart and make us look like a joke. people go back to liberal circles because their first day on radblr gets them an inbox full of insults and slurs and they quickly see how other women are treated on here.

i can't believe this needs saying but spending your day online calling osa women traitors/c*nts/c*cksuckers/brainwashed, telling detrans women we're deformed and damaged goods and throwing around the r slur is not activism nor is it feminist. some of you need to watch a primary school cyberbullying powerpoint about how there's another person at the end of the screen because i know no one on here would say those things to a woman's face. radical feminism fights for the liberation of EVERY woman, no matter if you personally dislike them or disagree with their choices - and even so, it's common sense that people will be more open to conversation and willing to change if you treat them with kindness, instead of denouncing and dogpiling everyone who doesn't meet your standards. i'm a radfem because so many women aren't. i'm a radfem for the women who wear makeup and insist it's for themselves. i'm a radfem for women who have been "happily married" 10 years and still do 100% of the housework. is that you? are you fighting for these women? or are you on here to boost your superiority complex and put others down? because if that's the case our movement doesn't fucking need you.

i hope some of you think about why you're on tumblr and how exactly you're aiding female liberation or even helping women to begin with. where the majority of other communities are toxic echo chambers, we need to be able to accept differences of opinion and fight for the bigger cause. anything else will alienate the same women we claim to be fighting for.

#lav.txt #long #radblr #radfems do interact #radfems do touch #radblr drama

[80sdragonbreath]

LGBTQ+

It's finally come full circle.

Today I read a post that confirmed it for me, but first I'll need to give some language lessons, as the terminology used has gotten complicated and unnecessarily specific to the point (I think) of absurdity.

L=Lesbian G=Gay B=Bisexual T=TransVESTITE, and Transgender (later addition) Q=Queer (not fitting into any of the above) +=Something that does not fit into any of the above above ....there's more but that's already too much

Cis= Cis-gender = the gender you were born with Het=Heterosexual Cishet = Cis-gender, Heterosexual (i.e. most "normal" people)

Fluid = genderfluid = your feelings change from moment to moment Aro= Aromantic (i.e. not romantically inclined) Asexual= Not interested in sexual encounters Aspec= Not fitting neatly into any of the aforementioned "not fitting in" categories (so that's THREE "not fitting in" categories)

So here's what the post said (paraphrased):

"Aromantic and Asexual CisHet Men ARE LGBT!!!"

Okay, so let's unpack that: Aromantic - i.e. men who aren't romantically inclined, which describes most men I've met; Asexual - i.e. men who have no interest in sex (almost all men over 50, and any man directly after sex).....are LGBT.

So pretty much ALL straight men are LGBT.

You heard it on Tumblr first. The LGBT community have mainstreamed themselves so much it literally doesn't mean anything any more.

If you're human, you're LGBT. It's nothing special anymore.

#lgbtq #cishet #asexual #aromantic #gender confused #gender #sexuality

[vole-mon-amour]

"Kerry had a crush on Johnny"

I'm sorry but Kerry tried to leave the band twice but came back because of Johnny.

Kerry waited fifty years for Johnny to get back even though it was semi of a common knowledge of Johnny dying at Arasaka tower. Even if it wasn't released to the public (I remember that some citizens doubted that Johnny actually stormed Arasaka & the story became somewhat of a myth), Kerry and Rogue were really good friends. Do you want me to believe that Rogue told Kerry that she has no idea what happened? She probably did and wanted Kerry to move on, but Kerry kept waiting.

Most likely, Kerry just couldn't get over Johnny and move on with his life. His feelings for Johnny and Johnny himself probably haunted him in a way. Even when Kerry kisses V for the first time, knowing that Johnny is in his head, he asks, "Is Johnny..?" aka "Is Johnny with you? Is Johnny watching?"

The devs literally erased Kerry's bisexuality because Kerry still loves Johnny so much, he chooses male V because it reminds him of Johnny more. His voice, his body type. He doesn't want V, not really. He still wants Johnny. He probably fucks V and thinks of Johnny and what they once had.

You call that a crush? A crush is something that comes and goes. Maybe it stays for a while, but it is still a crush. It's not really serious. These two? They've been friends for years. Toxic, weird, but they truly cared and still care for each other.

What Kerry feels for Johnny is a full on obsession. Love, in a way, too. But definitely not as simple as a crush where Johnny changes his hair or whatever and its suddenly gone.

Kerry was the only person in the band and within Johnny's friends circle that truly cared. The others would see Johnny high as fuck and numb and be, "Yeah, of course you are." They'd given up on Johnny. Kerry? He couldn't stand the sight of it because he cared. At the same time he couldn't be mad with Johnny for long because he also loved and wanted him.

Back in the day, Kerry was full on in love and smitten. Then it turned into a mix of grief and obsession for what could've been but wasn't. In this essay, I will—

#silverdyne #kerry eurodyne #cyberpunk 2077 #cb2077 #johnny silverhand #i am so not normal about them