#guess who's not transfem!

[transgenderturnip]

why does transandrophobia have to suck. y'all fucking misguided me. I wish trans men could speak in community about our specific issues without shitty transmisogynists and confused idiots (to be clear including myself in the latter) making shit worse. I didn't want some meninist shit I'm not oppressed for being a man but I thought y'all were talking about like. the specific flavor of transphobia stirred with the honestly regular flavor misogyny we transmascs experience (it's not, but in the sense we're 'seen as women'). Maybe I'm just not physically transitioned far enough and what I'm feeling is just social dysphoria but like I'm not going to fucking call that trans misogyny yk??? there needs to be some way to talk about this and how it layers on top of toxic masculinity (because when you're trying to be a man and you weren't born with the equipment that shit is even more unavoidable) specifically without being AWFUL to trans women. why does everything circle back to being awful to trans women???!!!? I feel so alone being transmasc already. I don't even know how to talk about this.

I'm very frustrated because of the continual and frankly ridiculous treatment of transfems on this website that's being discussed heavily as of late... like I don't know. I wish we could just communicate. All of us. Maybe that's the optimistic autistic in me. It feels like everything gets ruined in a way. I remember getting an ask about "circumgender girls" all the way back in like 2017 and it made me so uncomfortable. Everyone who sent anyone that disgusting copypasta should be exploded by car hammers. And yet I mourn the flawed idea, wish it could just. Not be this way.

#there shouldn't be like #a violence or oppression threshold for having a closed circle of community #to discuss our issues and experience solidarity in peace #and also #two things can be true #trans women just get an unfathomable amount of shit #i don't need to be invited to that cookout #and i definitely don't want to be in an oppression olympics pissing competition #i just feel like the whole tired inexorable experience of #trans women get attacked and trans men get erased and pushed to the side #(very generally) #a whole lot right now #I'm also frustrated with myself because I want to fully empathize with how shit it is to transfems #guess who's not transfem! #I don't fully understand the situation and it just feels like everyone is fighting #I don't really know how to educate myself on this or if it's even a shittiness I can really understand #but if not like wtf can I do as a transmasc #rant

[whaliiwatching]

a rendezvous beyond

and a halfway closeup just bc im rlly happy with how the bg turned out lol

#spider man: across the spider verse #spider punk #spider noir #hobie brown #noirpunk #SPIDER LESBIANS!!!!!!!!!! #they are both trans by the way #rebluvio also draws lesbian noirpunk go check that out!!! #but ive been wanting to do my own fem designs for a while haha #then. finally. brown-spider gave me the perfect inspiration #FAT BUTCH TRANSFEM NOIR CANON (im lov her) #i wanted to keep hobie’s usual wicks but then she just looked like. regular hobie #she got her hair down for a date but yall better know its in a pineapple most of the time lol #i like the power move of not changing their names for genderswaps so they’re still hobie and peter #maybe short for something longer idk #anyway they are the wlw couple of all time #classy girls who kill fascists… like what more could you even want #theyre still also nerdy dorks tho its intrinsic to their characters #cw alcohol #i guess?? since theyre in a bar?? sure #spiderdykes

[sleepsucks]

hai haii i'm also trans and living in france, your comics are super cute and relatable and me and my french trans friends love them 💜

haw hell yeahhhh glad u enjoy them

#thanks for existin #french trans people are so elusive 2 me #( <- has never had a transfem friend irl ) #( <- <- has like one transmasc *acquaintance* i guess bc friend's flatmate (who's moving away i think) ) #it's a (social) skill issue bc i never meet or see anyone but. idk i'll figure it out eventually dw #bla bla bla

[juney-blues]

homestuck in a unique position of being an extremely transfem narrative, yet almost everyone involved with its continuation, and in the fandom is somehow unaware of this

#juney.txt #the fandom cannot be normal about transfems just in general #and i'm sure there's someone out there who gets something from transmasc roxy #but like ''taking one of the most overt transfem narratives possible and then saying actually wait no this is a trans dude actually'' #strikes me as. odd. to say the least #...okay now that i've said that out loud wow no wonder the fandom is the way it is about june egbert #just following the writers' example i guess

[firefa]

hi jack fans hi jack fans I'm putting you both in 1 room

#art !! #homestuck #marikinonline4 #mo4 #silly #lalalalalalalala #lala #jack noir #bec noir #jack mo4 #transfem #trans woman #transgender #trans #I only like one of them #guess who

[mikeyonaise]

love love loveeee drawing Airi

#guess who my favorite character is hehe #we love our transfem icon #airi momoi #project sekai #mmj #art #doodles

[daphnalia]

was recently called ceo of yeet and killa and my ego has never been bigger

#if u saw this posted a few hours ago no u didnt #biggest 'yeet and grant stayed in touch' truther over here!! #anthony please☹️ #ANYWAYS YAYY MY KIDDSSSSS #this drawing took so fucking long and i hate thw way it turned out literally kill me😒😒 #real talk theyre probably dead #like that sounds crazy and even more crazy cuz irs coming from me #but guys...☹️🕊️ #💯 the most colorful drawing ive evr made tho and i guess that deserves some kind of award too #BTW TO THAT ONE PERSON WHO REQUESTED TRANSFEM TERRY JR I AM WORKING ON IT!!! #but yeah no shoutout to those three people who called my yeet and killa designs canon i love u guys so much #u fuel my will to live!! #absolutely would be fun as hell if they were mentioned #(mr burch please??) #dndads #dungeons and daddies #yeet bigly #killa demall

[punkeropercyjackson]

'[Insert feminine term/behavior/fashion/etc here] transcends gender!!!'Well,maybe i wanna be a girl anyway.How about that.Bitch

#genuinely this is one of the most annoying mentalities ever when applied to strangers💀it's always fem stuff too never masc stuff #i'm not a trans woman but i am a biracial black one who was raised by the white side of their family and had ONE girl black friend as a kid #and i'm autistic too so you imagine how deprived of appropriate femininity for someone like me i was and yes i was a big tomboy back then #but now i'm super femme and it brings me so much healing and comfort and fun and even-you guessed it-gender euphoria!!! #which is why i id as transmascfem instead of just transmasc because my womanhood is instrictly tied to literally every part of me #i fucking like that being femme means i'm a girl!!!i'm also a man but i refused to crack for so long because i thought i had to give that up #i got this shoved onto me directly for the first time on a fic about a transfem egg hc too you 'transan///drophobia' bitches are sick #misogyny cw #transmisogyny #transmasc #transmasculine #trans men #demigirl #bigender #genderfluid #femme #femmegender #xenogender #catgender #dragongender #ghostgender #softgirlgender #momgender #autigender #plantgender #transmascfem #trans women #herogender #💌 #summerposting

[raineofthedragons]

Did y'all hear what they're teaching kids in school these days?

Well, my best friend's aunt's boyfriend's brother's florist said that they're teaching kids that *gasp* there are more than three states of matter!! This simply cannot stand! I learned in basic science that there are only three states of matter! They cannot be allowed to spread this misinformation around impressionable young minds! What if they start identifying as plasmas? Soon there will be no more solids or gasses. Just plasmas and liquid crystals and whatever shit they're coming up with now.

This is the future liberals want.

#satire #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtqia #transgender #trans #transmasc #transfem #nonbinary #queer #politics #guess who had an original thought for once :)

[real-total-drama-takes]

This take pisses me off.

You wanna know why? Because it implies that Sierra's harassment of Cody was okay because she knew that Cody is trans. It sounds like this. "Hey Cody! Sorry for harassing you <3 I just knew you were transgender. It's so cool that we fell in gay love now!"

It's apart of the mentality that some people have where making things gay makes it better. No. Making Cody transfem and still putting him in a romantic relationship with Sierra ignores EVERYTHING that he went through with Sierra. Why would you want that for him? Coderra is bad. It's as simple as that. Unless this is your fanon Sierra where she is completely different from canon, coderra is still bad because of the way Sierra treats Cody.

I'm not trying to be transphobic or homophobic. God no. That's the last thing I want. I believe in the lesbian Sierra headcanon myself. You can headcanon Cody as transfem. But having Cody and Sierra still be together, after everything Cody went through with Sierra, I have to ask why? Why would you have Sierra act like that around Cody and then say that she just knew that Cody was trans the entire time and they fell in gay love. LET CODY FIGURE THAT OUT ON HIS OWN. Sierra "knowing" that Cody is trans just makes is worse. Why is she harassing Cody? Because she knows that he's trans? Because she wants him to come to realization? No! Let Cody figure that out on it own time, and let him come to terms with it on his own!

And can we PLEASE stop bringing up Cody whenever we talk about Sierra? Anon, I was on board with that take until you brought up Cody and said they fell in gay love. Why would you say that? Why would you look at World Tour, the way Sierra acted around him, how she talked about him, and then say that they fell in gay love? Just because you made it gay now doesn't mean it's better. It doesn't make it cool. You took a toxic, bad ship and then made it queer. That's all you did. You took a straight toxic relationship and then made it into a queer toxic relationship.

I'm all for lesbian Sierra. God, I had that headcanon for years at this point. But can we PLEASE not make this about Coderra. Coderra is bad for both of them. It's bad for Sierra, because it only allows her to keep acting like that around Cody, and it's bad for Cody because it excuses all the abuse and harassment he received from Sierra. Anon, if you are talking about your own fanon Sierra where she acted nothing like the way she did in canon, PLEASE make it clear. Because you sending that, it doesn't sound good. It doesn't look good.

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#td sierra #td cody #I think you’re right and while I’m not the OP of that take I can make a guess as to what they meant by it #I think the transfem cody bit in relation to codierra is more of a response to lesbian sierra truthers who believe sierra’s obsession #with cody comes from comphet #you get what I mean? #but idk maybe that wasn’t the intent of the original ask idk

[theygender]

The more I think about it the more I really feel like the recently coined term mesosex might fit me and it's been shared by several intersex education/advocacy blogs I follow now so I know there's support for the term but I'm still like. Scared I would be Intruding™ on intersex issues if I started using it. Like I mean. I'm an afab & (afaik) perisex person with a reproductive disorder that's likely caused by a (non-intersex) hormone imbalance which I'm now essentially having to take feminizing HRT to fix, and as a result I'm now growing tits and undergoing female-pattern fat redistribution at the age of 25 after years of having little to no secondary sex characteristics. I've always identified with intersex issues but now that I'm essentially having to undergo HRT to make my body match my asab that connection to intersex issues feels even stronger. And like that's what the term is for. But my anxiety is still like "but what if you're intruding tho" lol 🙃

#rambling #for the curious the specific disorder is endometriosis and recent research has shown that endo is most likely linked to #estrogen dominance which is where either your body makes too much estrogen OR not enough other hormones (progesterone & testosterone) #and given that the only thing that has helped me at all has been going on full progestin-only treatments #and the fact that everything ive researched about estrogen dominance and low progesterone matches up with my symptoms #it definitely seems like low/no progesterone is the issue for me #(although the docs didnt test my levels beforehand and now i cant get them tested unless i want to go off treatments 🥲) #and like. this progestin treatment has changed my fucking life. legitimately #like it didnt just stop my (pretty severe) endo it also fixed like. all of my physical health issues. stuff i didnt even know was related #dont wanna get off topic talking about my other health issues but. going on progestin has easily been the best health thing to happen to me #but it also feels so fucking weird to be going through the same type of changes that like transfems go through on hrt essentially #as an afab perisex person. its not a bad weird but like its just a strange phenomenon and it would be nice to put words to it i guess? #like im a person who has lived the last 10+ years disabled by a reproductive disorder that prevented my body from developing 'normally' #and now im going through feminizing hrt at the age of 25 to fix my reproductive disorder #thats not exactly like. the normal perisex afab experience lol. but at the same time my specific reproductive disorder and hormone imbalance #dont classify me as intersex (no hyperandrogenism just some mix of too much estrogen/not enough progesterone or testosterone #typical anatomy (afaik) aside from the uterine abnormalities resulting from endometriosis) #and its just. such a weird position to be in. i share a lot of common ground with intersex issues but im not intersex myself #and the whole purpose of mesosex was to create a word for people who arent quite either. 'people who identify with but not as intersex' #and i think that describes me. but also like.... do i count?? 😭 #tmi #request to tag

[crispycreambacon]

I just wanna draw the Genie becoming a trans woman and maybe hold hands with the Professor while she's at it, why do I have to memorize how to calculate gearing ratios

#GUESS WHO JUST FINISHED STUDYING FOR BUSINESS EXAMS #i've been thinking about transfem!genie all week and yet i already have so much to draw hAGH #if you wanna learn more about her -> #yazrin #she's. everything to me #I really wanna make a comic of her story but I don't think I should do that just before I head off to college 💀💀💀 #but I will be drawing her!!! #haughsodhwodhwow #lowkey kinda have a crush on her what who said that #puppet history #chris p fried what?!

[divine-construct]

honestly i dislike the words ‘transmasc’ ‘transfem’ ‘transneutral’ ‘transneumasc’ ‘transneufem’ ‘transfemmasc’ ‘transneumascfem’ and, if there’s more, those too. they imply that you transition to a binary masculinity/feminity/neutrality/mix of those, and many trans people i know don’t.

the male body i want is not inherently masculine. even if i want a male body, i don’t actively want to dress masculine. transmasc and transfem are just new words to reinforce the same male = masculine, female = feminine binary again. my little brother (amab) has long hair and a sidecut, wears ‘masculine’ clothes, and still keeps getting read as a girl because he’s short and has a rather high-pitched voice (because he’s a kid!). not even a masculine presenting amab person is inherently masculine.

in the end, my transness means that i want a male-looking body, but not neccessarily a masculine one. and, apart from that, i as a whole am not and do not wish to be masculine. i am neither only masculine or only feminine—i am both—but if i had to choose just one? then i’d be transfeminine. i enjoy dressing mostly fem, appearing mostly fem, looking mostly fem. in a male-looking body. but i cannot call myself transmasculine for the wish of a male body, if there is no masculinity i am transitioning to.

#this is NOT about people who like and/or use those labels #i love you folks and i am happy for you. i am glad that you have terms to describe yourself that fit #but i do not. and ik there’s enough others who don’t either #the closest to transfem and transmasc i am is transmalefem i guess #but i just. do not like these trans labels #i am trans. that’s it #my existence is inherently queer and inherently not binary #and i will always be both masculine and feminine. and unable to choose just one #i am not a feminine transmasc i am not a transmasc i am just trans #trans #transgender #queer #transmasc label #transfem label #transneu label #divine rambles. ` 🕊 #the divine — basil. ` 🕊

[riviclouds]

"oh, pretty woman~"

we really just lettin ranboo take all the genders now huh

#also GUESS WHO'S EMPLOYED NOW #ranboo #origins smp #ranboo art #mcyt #fanart #ranboo fan art #transfem ranboo #o!smp #osmp #digital art #digital painting #medibang paint

[xxlovelynovaxx]

[Img ID: post reading "it doesnt matter if we're feminine or masculine or androgynous. they'll want us dead anyway. THIS POST IS ABOUT TRANS MEN AND TRANSMASCULINE PEOPLE. DO NOT DERAIL. MAKE YOUR OWN POST." /end ID]

I think actually we've reached terminal selfishness and self-centeredness when "look basic transphobia. THIS IS ONLY ABOUT SOME TRANS PEOPLE. MAKE YOUR OWN POST" is considered acceptable behavior, like

1 this is the reblogging posts site. if you don't want it "derailed", turn off reblogs

2 it's not "derailing" to talk about experiencing the exact same type of oppression for the exact same reasons. like, this is tagged transandrophobia. y'know, the word coined to talk about oppression UNIQUE TO or MORE TYPICALLY EXPERIENCED by trans men and mascs? Like I know we're all super sensitive to "it's just transphobia" because bad faith actors use it to shut us up about our own oppression, but even if transandrophobia is ANY transphobia experienced by transmascs, this one is SO not unique and SO universal that calling other trans people "derailing" for daring to acknowledge they experience it is honestly transphobic itself

3. Are you being transmisogynistic or exorsexist it both? Do you find it offensive that a group even more erased than transmascs (trans people who are neither transfem nor transmasc) might "take the spotlight" by experiencing the same pain as you? Are you just mad that transfems suffer from hypervisibility (a key factor in transmisogyny, no less) that you're wrongly viewing as some sort of privilege?

Like this is the logical end conclusion of exclusion, separatism, and the idea that it's immoral or even just dickish to talk about SHARED experiences of oppression. Even those who aren't convinced that there's no overlap and oppression fits into neat little boxes based on your actual identity (and that people with multiple identities experience each oppression as discrete separate forms of violence OR a new unique form of oppression that no one else ever does) are like "I have the right to shut people out of a discussion of their own pain and trauma just because *I* experienced it for THIS reason

Like, I draw the line at someone saying anything more exclusionary than "oh I didn't name all groups that experience this because this was a more personal vent post, but please share your experiences because this isn't exclusive to us".

Idk I can't even articulate what's so gross and off-putting about this. But whatever, this intersex transneufemmasc is making their own post so they aren't (implied) transandrophobic by, idk, being transmasc but also other things and experiencing this same thing based on those other identities, or acknowledging that those other identities share these experiences in the absence of transmasculinity.

Also, nontransmasculine/non-trans-men experience transandrophobia, you fucking asshole. Transneutral, abinary/atrinary, neutrois, maverique, and other trans people that are seen as transmasc by bigots experience no material differences in the oppression they face. Their experiences are almost identical to yours - except they have to either be misgendered to be acknowledged or get erased. What functional difference do you think there is between an afab person pursuing what you forcibly label a "masculine" transition facing this exact shit, and you, other than that they respect your gender and you don't return the favor. Or you do, only to shut them out of a conversation that they have less of a voice in than you do.

That's just fucking transphobia. Fuck off.

If you're being so defensive over past trauma you bite people BEFORE you know they're unsafe, maybe you need to get a fucking grip.

#cw discourse #the logical end course of “no ME MINE ONLY MY OPPRESSION NO TOUCHY GO HAVE YOUR OWN CONVO SOMEWHERE ELSE” #is the total destruction of any community #like sorry actually it's impossible to do community building if you're gonna throw a tantrum about SHARED TRAUMA #fuck off #I do not have the energy to extend any good faith rn tbh #I'm so fucking tired of the experience of being multiple things and being shut out of all involved communities for being multiple #only with sometimes 'well you ARE x so you're allowed I GUESS but NEVER TALK ABOUT BEING y' #like x and y aren't inextricably intertwined #I am not transfem. and transmasc. and transneutral. I am transneufemmasc. #I know I sometimes only include some for convenience but like. the truth is I will always be all those things #so I have a right to speak #and I just KNOW they would consider it derailing to even talk about how I experience it as a TRANSneufemMASC #because they don't actually mean it's about trans men and mascs #they mean it's about people who are EXCLUSIVELY trans men and mascs #well actually it's about just them but they can't pretend it's praxis to tell other people it's derailing to join the conversation #if they just say 'this is about me. other people shut up' #funny enough if it just said 'personal vent post. please make a new post if you want to talk about your experiences' #I'd respect that FAR more

[ransomdemands]

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#i'm having very weird and complex emotions about the fact that as a child i primarily experienced homophobia #and transmysogyny and the fact that as someone who is afab those experienced don't belong to me #i'm deeply conflicted by the fact that i am afab and also #culturally feel more aligned with the trans feminine experience #and i'm constantly caught on the fact that transfems experience a very different and very much more painful oppresion #it may be dumb but i feel so guilty about the fact that i feel more trans feminine than anything #but that's not real because i actually was born with feminine aligned genetalia #gender is weird #but this one hurts me #and i know it's unfair to genuine transfemenine people #and i am deeply sorry i truly am #but i can't stop the feeling that i'm more transfem than tranmasc #but my genitals tell me that thst makes me cis and not trans #this is dumb #but i can't stop thinking about it #sorry to trans women i guess #i can't help but feel appropriative of your experience #i promise i'm working on it #i am