To the allistics and neurotypicals of the world:
Fuck you for daring to try to police my experiences and expressions of joy.
Every one of you who has ever seen someone expressing joy, happiness, whatever you want to call it in an unconventional or ‘over the top’ way and alienated or chastised them for it.
I’m talking to the parents and the teachers and rest of our peers, if you think someone is acting ‘childish’ or whatever in public, maybe just…stop.
In this day and age y’all are really going to disapprove of the way I interact with life and experience the world around me? Something I literally cannot change? In this economy? With the state of the world right now, you’re really gonna spend your time actively displaying how weirded out or disapproving you are about something I’m doing that literally affects you in no way?? Aight. You do you boo.
I am very very good at ignoring it.
I notice you, pointing it out to your friends. When you tell me to calm down, when you tell me to be silent, when you tell me to be still. I hear you. I heard you. My entire life has been filled with voices just like yours and you have to realise I don’t care. I simply don’t . Give a fuck.
You can glare at me all you want, you can move away, you can throw your two cents at me all you fucking like. I don’t care. But shame on you all the same.
( this rant is sponsored by my experience commuting on public transport for the last year)
Signed
A person with ADHD, ASD, and a lot of stims that are really rather benign.
(Ps. Get the fuck over it. I’m writing and dancing in my seat and trying to prepare for a shift at work that will destroy my body because this is basically the only time I have to myself. Leave me the fuck alone.)
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ML crack fic where someone makes a “idk ask ur mum about it” joke to adrien, forgetting about his situation, and Adrien deadpans and pulls out a ouija board, with no emotion on his face
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it starts with me making him pull over so we can talk about where we are going and it ends with me giving him sloppy car head and that’s that
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been thinkin about how my ethics professor back in undergrad was like.
look. there’s no such thing as perfect altruism. you’ll always get something out of helping or being kind to others, whether it’s a stronger relationship or returned kindness or just the feeling of having done good. there’s nothing inherently bad about getting something from doing good either, especially since it’s completely unavoidable. people being rewarded for putting love into the world doesn’t make the world a worse place. so just do as much good as you can and don’t worry about being “selfless” while doing it, because being truly selfless is in fact impossible.
and like man did that take the pressure off of Being A Good Person!! you’re allowed to enjoy helping people! you’re allowed to be kind without worrying that you’re maybe secretly just doing it for yourself!! it’s okay if you are doing it for yourself because you’re still being kind to others!!!!!
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This took me 2 hours to make i almost passed outn2 tikmes I’m so tirfed
edit: do not repost my art to a different site/platform/app. if sharing on discord/etc, just directly linkback to the post. thank u! oc redraws are fine, just credit me!! and tag me in those id like to see lol
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it’s so funny to me that people used to try to warn me “if you go on t it won’t make you androgynous it’ll just make you look like a man” because 1) i do want to look like a man, that is famously a major part of being a trans man but also 2) t literally has made me androgynous?? like they were wrong on both counts. i got most of the looking-like-a-man changes that i wanted (deep voice, broader body, hair all over my body including my face) and i also give every single cis person in a five mile radius a stroke every time they try to figure out my gender. the assumption that trans men wouldn’t actually want to look like men and the assumption that cis people are good at correctly gendering us once we’re on t are both weird as hell.
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“actually the term you’re looking for is pansexual” actually i’m dying right now. i am dying right now before your very eyes and those are the last words i had to read before my soul vacates this plane of existence forever. Are you proud of yourself
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