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autisticlee · 10 months
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it kind of sucks when all your friends and family, everyone you know, are all pairing off and getting married and havinf families, except you. you're the only one that doesn't have a partner and probably can/will never get one. especially if one around you has time for you anymore, they never reach out, never get back to you, because they're only focused on their partners and families. you're stuck alone and drift away from everyone through no fault of your own. you have no hope of finding your own partner or no motivation to look for one for whatever reason. the lack of connections while seeing everyone around you having their own can get overwhelmingly lonely at times....
#autism#autistic#asexual#aromantic#these are probably the two factors that put me in this position#im undateable because im too autistic to form any connections with people and cant even make or keep friends around for long#so how would i ever try to date anyone????#and also asexual which makes it harder. and aromantic (not sure what kind if its like demi and i just need to meet “the one”#and form a connection first to actually have any feelimgs for anyone or not sure if I simply cannot experience romantic attraction#either way its a lonely existence in a world where 99% of people pair off or obsessed with trying to partner up#and theres less value/time/effort put on friendships#ON TOP OF being autistic and forming any connections at ALL is an extremely difficult task that seems to always fail on me!#lee rants#lee rambles#im actually visiting a friend and her gf (who is also friend but we are less close) so i know not everyone partners and shuns friends#but they live in another country and i cant visit all the time so it doesnt help this lonely shit feeling all the time D: to have ~1 friend#would be nice to have all the close benefits and of a dating partnership without the physical stuff and pressure of “dating”#if thar makes sense. best friends but life patners. the person is obligated to help me and bw there for me at all times#someone who chooses me first instead of others. someone that doesnt make me their last choice all the time#their very comfortable to be around and we relate and get along perfectly and make up for each others weaknesses#my favorite person and im their favorite person#they usually always say yes to me and include me and im their first choice for eveything#they respect my needs and boundaries and work with me if we have a misunderstanding or disagreement.#its so hard to find people like this. someone who matches me well enough to fit all these picky things i want#someone who would like me enough to be like this. someone im comfortable with and like who fits the energy i want#even if someone liked ME enough and was these thjngs if they arent comfortable or match my energy then i dont want them#im not desperate enough to take Anyone ans im extremely picky about it#being aroace makes any kind of datimg very hard because theres ~less fish in the sea~#but being autistic makes it EVEN HARDER becuase i cant even make and keep FRIENDS so how would i have a /partner/ ?????#sighs. i think im meant to live a lonely life and need to learn to accept it
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vanishingcherry · 1 year
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heyy could you do an instagram au with a beabadoobee face claim? thank youu💞💞 bonus points if y/n is a student :)
of course!!! hope you like it <3 (you didn't specify with whom, so i assumed harry, so sorry if thats not who you had in mind)
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unsaidcurses · 2 years
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hii, can i request a fluffy fic with felipe where he's been telling everyone he has a gf but they don't believe him so one day he brings her in to the paddock and everyone's surprised (also bonus point if she's very smart college student lol) thank u sm in advance<33
why I feel like this could be an actaul thing? anyways, sorry for the eventual mistakes and enjoy<3
pairing: felipe drugovich x fem!reader
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"hey ines. i haven't seen you in a while, how are you?"
felipe questioned clement's girlfriend, who just joined him, clem, marcus and dennis at a table in the hospitality where they were discussing the free practice they had earlier.
"im good, how about you?" she asked back giving him and the others a small hug.
"living the life, i guess." he answered offering her the chair where he was sitting near clem, going to the spare one next to marcus.
the couple shared some kisses, and the new zealander decided to tease them about it.
"get a room you two."
"or we can continue and you can go find yourself a girlfriend." the frenchman retorted with the approval of the whole group.
"no but seriously guys, when are you getting girlfriends? don't get me wrong, you're funny, but i would like some company when you're on track." ines added. she wasn't close with any other driver's girlfriend, beside the fact that they weren't present at every race, so she was often alone.
the boys started chatting about some girls they were talking to, and didn't noticed felipe's eyes darting from side to side in anticipation.
"actually-", he cleared his throat getting everyone's attention, "i have a girlfriend."
mouths agape and glances were flying around him after the confession. he waited for someone to break the silence, and dennis did.
"nah, you don't." the boys expressions relaxed, and ines pouted, believing more dennis' words than felipe's.
"what?! of course i do, why wouldn't i?" he was sure they would have made fun of him, but not that they wouldn't believe him at all.
"man, you were literally talking about farting in the car five minutes ago." clem pointed out resembling the conversation they had before ines arrived.
"yes, cause you asked me to!" the brazilian threw his hands in the air. he really didn't expected this kind of reaction.
"okay okay-", marcus stepped in when his friends started arguing about the existence of this fictitious girlfriend. "let's give him the benefic of the doubt, he does have a girlfried. then why we never saw her to races?"
"she goes to college. and she has compulsory attendance, thus it's usually me visiting her during week days, and her visiting me weeks off so we can spend more time together. she planned on coming to see the races next week. they are pretty close to her home, and her session ends in a couple of days." the boy explained the situation as it was, hoping to finally convince his friends.
"it make perfect sense." dennis simply replied.
"it does cause it's the truth! but you refuse to believe me." felipe crossed his arms as a sign of frustration. he felt incredibly fortunate and delighted to have found someone like you, who made him light-hearted, happy and that was always so supportive of him, and he couldn't share this joy with the closest people he had because they were as mature as kids.
"let's postpone this conversationt to next week then, uhm?", ines tried to smooth the waters changing subject. "but just for the record, i really hope not to be alone next friday." she concluded winking at the boy.
"count on her."
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it was friday, the day you were coming for the first time to see one of felipe's races in person. him, clement and ines were in their motorhome doing nothing, or better, patiently waiting for you to show up.
"oh come on man, just say you don't have a partner so we can all go back to our lives." clement almost shouted, tired of just sitting tight.
your plane was supposed to arrive at the airport hours ago, and felipe would have picked you up if only the company from where you bought your tickets wasn't famous for its delay. the main problem was that felipe had to be in the paddock when your plane was expected to land, which meant you had to reach the track and get past security all the by yourself. but after a solid half an hour, you finally arrived and started looking for an orange suit.
"drugovich!" you exclaimed when you saw him in front of his car with other two people you couldn't recognize. he turned around and approached you, embracing you warmly.
"y/n! you made it." he moved back a little to look at you properly. moving a strand of hair out of your face, he leaned down to leave a sweet kiss to your lips.
"i missed your face, you know?" you whispered with your hands on his cheeks, before getting on your tiptoe to give him another kiss on the tip of his nose.
"i hope you missed more than just that." he joked, your laugh following.
you detatched and made your way towards the couple, who was now accompanied by other two boys. all of them were staring at you with wide eyes, except the girl who was broadly smiling.
"well, everybody meets y/n, y/n these are marcus, dennis, clem and his girlfriend ines" you could clearly tell how thrilled he was to introduce you to his friends from how his voice became slightly high pitched.
you talked a bit and caught up before an engineer called the teammates in orange, as they had to get ready for the free practice. the brazilian hold you close and whispered to your ear "I'll be back in a hour or so"
"drive safe, I want you in one piece" you responded with an hand in his hair to ruffle it.
when all the boys left, you remained with ines, who locked her arm with yours to bring you to the motorhome where you could watch the race and get to know each other a little better. you were glad you found someone to spend the time with, especially since she seemed great company.
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once close to the cars, ready to get in, clem gave voice to his first impression of you to felipe."she looks cute. are you sure you didn't pay her to play the part?"
"really funny clem, but no, I did it all by myself, imagine that." he said proudly.
"mh. but I still don't believe you got a girlfriend" he ended the conversation getting in the car after their last call, only to be met with felipe's grin.
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hi cas :)
im not sure this is me asking for advice because i don’t think there’s really a recipe for getting over someone but i just need to rant into the void
so there’s this girl. let’s call her lucy. we went to the same high school but never really met. she was a year older and one of those “popular” girls i guess, so we never really crossed paths, but we knew about each other. she was one of those girls who made the room brighter just by being in it. like calling her gorgeous is an understatement. and she was always super kind to everyone. like all the boys in school had a crush on her at some point.
so fast forward a bit, first year of uni. i moved into a big city and enrolled into the same university as lucy’s best friend. let’s call her cathy (lucy lives in a different city about 4 hours from us). cathy and i quickly become really close and of course she starts mentioning lucy a lot. she also talks about me to lucy. cathy starts telling me how we should definitely hang out, how we have so much in common and how lucy would love to get to know me (we both loved taylor swift read the same books etc) but as we lived in different cities it was kinda hard to arrange. quickly we developed this kind of weird parasocial relationship through cathy. like lucy would tell cathy to ask my opinion on something, she would send cathy voicemails to forward to me when she wanted to discuss something, she also invited me to a harry styles concert but i was busy so i couldn’t go and so on. i should maybe point out that she didn’t really use social media so that’s why she didn’t dm me or something.
at one point i discover that lucy is a lesbian. cathy never really mentions it but it becomes quite obvious from some stories. and at this point, i kinda start crushing really hard. my little lesbian heart is only so strong and here’s this drop dead gorgeous girl who is so amazing and we have so much in common and god what is a girl to do.
i learn that lucy has a girlfriend and get kinda sad but can’t really complain so i try to get over my little crush and move on. however, one day lucy deletes all pictures with her gf from instagram she briefly had. a few weeks later she messages me and tells me she wants to visit me and cathy, and that there’s this big 1989 tv release party in the city i live in and she would love for us to go together. i’m of course smiling into my pillow.
so she comes in october for the party. this is our first time officially hanging out. and god, we have the best night ever. nothing explicitly romantic happens, but we just have so much fun. we go out for drinks and talk and then we go to this party and dance and drink and have the time of our life. and at this point i’m really thinking about this as a date, because we’re both queer and she hugs me and holds my hand and we actually cuddle in front of the club. and then. it’s really late and we’re both kinda drunk and want to go home so she calls her ex (?) to pick us up. i agree as i’m pretty tired but i’m also so confused as i have no idea what’s going on here. anyways, the night ends and we have brunch tomorrow and talk about how we had a great night, but don’t mention anything else.
long story short, she gets back together with her girlfriend and kinda stops contacting me as frequently, but half a year later, i’m still hung up on a girl i literally spent 24 hours with. and sure, i’m interested in other girls, have other crushes i guess, but somehow my mind always comes back to her. the reason i’m writing this today is because i haven’t listend to taylor in a while, but ttpd came out and suddenly i hear her in every song and she still told cathy to ask me my favourite song as soon as it came out. and she still talks about wanting to visit me and god i want to just move on so bad. but i know i’m gonna text her as soon as another party comes up when we’re both free. and it’s just gonna be the same thing over again.
Hi! <3
damn, this is...this sounds so difficult.
Honestly? I think Lucy needs to make up her mind. It sounds like she's trying to have her cake and eat it too by being with her girlfriend and flirting with you, and either she doesn't know what she's doing (which isn't great, but it happens) or she's not thinking about anyone else's feelings (which is worse).
I know it is so easy to get hung up on someone like this- there's like...such a fun aspect of a romance like this where it's drawn-out and a bit forbidden and kind of dramatic. But the problem with something like this is it hardly ever ends well and you deserve someone who wants you wholly.
Of course, this is all easy for me to say, as I'm not the one to experience it. But I think if I were you, I would take this album release as an opportunity to think about what you deserve and how you can use the songs to process your feelings. Because the important thing is, you deserve more, and you're not getting it, whether it's on purpose or not.
<3 <3 <3 <3 Sending you all the love!
Also, naming you deserving anon in case you want to update/write back!
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If the dude never texted your friend the details, and his gf who was off-put around you wasn't even going to be there, then I feel like that fucker was just setting you up for drama (if not worse). Fuck that guy; I hope other friends around are better and that they respect what you and your bf have going on. Also hope you have an immensely good and worry free day to make up for it.
Like dhdhhs yeah there was definitely something weird going on. And i genuinely feel like im way too old for this highschool drama thing
But just to give you the whole story:
Guy invites both me and my friend to a house party in person on Monday, we both say yes
Guy only texts me about plan changes (which i didn't know), but i kept updating my friend as well
Me and my friend both get pissed off because the Guy changed plans like six times and i straight up told him that im not sure if i can make it anymore since everything changes from the location to the time
Guy immediately gives me a concrete plan of the night and even asked me if i wanted to reschedule the whole party
And mentions that we could totally continue the party at their house and i could totally sleep there if i end up missing the buses home - i straight up just said no and didn't give it a second thought
Meanwhile my friend still doesn't get any info on the party even when he asked, which makes him super upset since the Guy is his friend, not mine (i've only been talking to him for a single week now) and he also needed a concrete plan since he was hanging out with his girlfriend all afternoon/night so he wanted to know when he had to leave obviously
We agree on a pub at 10pm
Guy texts me at 8pm that he and his crew are already there (no girls apparently!) and how i should join them (actually texts me like at least three times about this and i declined each time)
He never texts my friend about them being already there and how he should come earlier too, my friend only realized this because i texted him immediately
He gets pissed off understandably and cancels the whole thing, i was already getting a bad feeling about this so i texted the guy that i won't come since my friend isn't coming either and i refuse to drink with people i literally do not know
Guy gets pissed off
Meanwhile i asked my friend if the Guy actually invited him to shop for plushies last week (because he asked if i wanted to join him and help him choose a present for one of his friends since my friend wasn't available and hw didn't want to go alone)
My friend says no the Guy never asked him
My friend's girlfriend took his phone and fhhd for the rest of the night i was texting with her which i found a bit fhjdj but apparently my friend went to the bathroom and she was too invested in this little detective play we had going on
So turns out that the Guy isn't really chatty with other people but he always texts me like every two hours or even more frequently
We (my bf, my friend, his gf, me) came to the deduction that the Guy might be hitting on me even though i explicitly stated many many times that i had a boyfriend, like i even told him about how excited i was to finally go to the states this summer for a visit
So now i feel awkward as hell because idk if he's hitting on me or he's just super friendly with me, this is the first time i actually have male friends in person because i've always been a bit too anxious and paranoid to approach them before. Like i was so happy that im slowly getting over my fear since my friend is super nice and the Guy was pretty nice too (he even gave me his copy of ghost of tsushima to play) but now idk. Fhjd
I've always been extremely uncomfortable with people hitting on me, again, might be because im aspec but i just feel disgusted/uncomfortable just from the thought alone and the only person who is more than welcome to do anything he wants to me is my boyfriend obviously. Like i just jfjf can't comprehend that people can find me attractive when im incapable of developing those feelings myself (again, obviously my boyfriend is an exception) . Bht yeah i just dont want anyone (but him) to perceive me like that ever . Babe if you're reading this wake up and start perceiving me immediately please
So uhhh yeah that's it! The whole story. Gf turned out to be nice, i might go drinking with them sometime!
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m1kedefendr · 2 years
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is my (15m) best friend (15m) gay and in love with me too??
so basically my best friend and i have been friends since kindergarten. He walked up to ME and asked ME to be his friend. We made two other friends over the years but he always seemed to be closer to me, i thought it was just because we’ve been friends longer. A few years ago when we were 12 some scary shit happened and i was missing for a week, and apparently in that time he looked for me but he also met this girl that he seemed to have a crush on but she seemed to have disappeared? After i was found everything went back to mostly normal for almost a year until halloween, when i had a ptsd attack (cuz he can’t talk ab the upside down obviously). He immediately wrapped his arms around me and didn’t let our other friends touch me. He said he would take me home then took me to his basement. We had sort of a heart to heart and i said i feel like im going crazy, and he looked at me and said “if we’re going crazy, we’ll go crazy together right?” and OF COURSE MY BABY GAY ASS AGREED?! Anyways after that i have a really bad time with my ptsd and he stays by my side, even telling me about how asking me to be his friend was the best thing he’s ever done.
Then the girl he liked came back. Some more stuff happened but we all went to the snowball dance and that’s where him and her started dating. Ever since then he was acting completely different, he was hiding away with his girlfriend, ignoring our friends, but mainly he was ignoring ME. His gf dumped him and I thought we could all play dnd to cheer him up, but he just mocked and made fun of me the whole time. When i finally stormed out of his place we got in an argument, i called his ex stupid and he shot back “It’s not my fault you don’t like girls” which is like, woah man. he knows i’ve been called slurs before, he doesn’t know i’m gay for sure but he should have an inkling on it. So i ran away, but he ran after me. We didn’t actually get to reconcile correctly because something came up again, and by the end of everything i was moving away. oh and he got back with his girlfriend who now became my adopted sister and had to move with me.
Now this is where it gets super interesting. He didn’t write me ONE letter. He called a couple of times. He sent multiple letters to my sister, though. So i was very much upset. He came to visit during spring break and at first it looked like they were a perfect happy couple, until i realized my sister was lying to him. why was she lying? anyways we all went skating and my sister got thoroughly humiliated in front of everyone, and my best friend was arguing with ME? He was yelling at ME for not telling him she was lying? He was pointing out how I sabotaged the day?? As if his GIRLFRIEND didn’t get humiliated? Then we found my sister and she had hit the bitch in the face with a roller skate, which was such a serve. girlboss. but Mike acted like a DICK. Ever since there relationship was hella off? they got in a big fight and then she ran off. After she was gone he turned into the person he was before?? Like during the ptsd attacks and everything. He apologized to me, told me that home isn’t the same without me, even with our other friends still there. He also told me that my sister was mad at him because he couldn’t tell her something?? We had to go look for my sister, and He was awfully close to me again. He was staring a lot. He seemed worried about his girlfriend so i tried to reassure him but he went on a weird rant?? Like he kinda compared her to superman and him to lois lane. And said meeting her was dumb luck. So i chucked it up to him being afraid of losing her, and i decided to give him this painting i made him but tell him it was from her. He looked super happy when he saw the painting but his smile faltered when i said it was commissioned by my sister. I kinda confessed my feelings for him under her name, and he looked absolutely mesmerized by me?? but we didn’t talk much after that.
Anyways after we found her another big thing happened and she was in danger, and my best friend was freaking out. I told him he had to be the heart, so he goes to confess his love to her. apparently he’s never told her he loves her?!? anyways he says all this bullshit that contradicts what he said to me about how asking me to be his friend was the best thing he’s done. He also says a lot of shit that doesn’t make sense to me because he literally said meeting her was dumb luck but told her he knew he loved her the moment he saw her?? that’s when i got kinda suspicious. Now we’re back in our hometown because the big deal that had my sister in danger originated in our home town. My sister broke up with my best friend and she won’t tell me why, only that she’s perfectly okay and so is he but he might need comfort on something else. So i hung out with him and he was really touchy and clingy and now i’m super fucking confused help me??
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hey girlie, i'm in a situation so i would like to hear your opinion on this, it's also kind if chaotic so beware😭
so 2 days ago the town festivities started n i went with my brother and 2 of his friends, one is a girl and the other is a guy (he's 40, she's 32, I'm 24).
so i noticed the guy paid a lot of attention to the other girl and they were talking a lot and wasn't really paying attention to me. i started talking to another guy that was really nice and closer to my age and we were hitting it off and then my brothers friend got annoyed and told us he wanted to go somewhere else and it was really fast so i couldn't get the guy i was talking ig or anything.
fast forward we left to another place and then the guy started talking to me too, i thought he was super handsome and i was the one who had the idea to invite him. so i started flirting and he flirted back and then we made out. but the other girl got super annoyed and wanted to leave and said she didn't want to be in this situation(which the situation was 2 of her "friends" making out, like i don't think it was that serious or bad? and she met him like 2 hours ago)
she ended up leaving and i told her i didn't want her to go alone and that i would go with her but she didn't want to and i was rlly drunk and having fun tbh (the walk to her house was like 5 min)
the guy and i kept making out for hours and it was fun but the friend that left kept calling like every 10 minutes to tell me that i should go back she told my whole family that i had made out w him and lied and said that my family was mad at me but when i got back they weren't and they were actually glad that i was having fun cause i never really do stuff like this.
she told me that the guy had been flirting w her and that he only got w me cause she did not want him. she also said that the guy had a gf which i didn't know at all so i asked him and he said he was in an open relationship, but I'm not sure cus u know guys lie abt that a lot lol. he said he liked me but didn't want to talk to me out of respect to my brother which i found kind of weird cause we ended up making out in the end, he also said he respected me cause he has known me since i was little and that he didn't flirt with the girl he was just making small talk but im not really sure if i should believe that.
and then the next day the girl told me that she didn't want to make out with him and that she didn't like him at all and that she was cool with it, but then she also told me that she was looking for a roommate and that she was going to ask him?lol😭
i left town cause i don't live there and i was only visiting for the parties and the guy texted me and said he liked me and that he wanted to see me again, he said he was going out today too and he wished i was there and i told him that i wished i would've known that i'd meet him n would have stayed longer and he left me on seen and it's been like 8 hours lol.
tbh i don't really care if he has a gf as long as he's being real about being in an open relationship because i don't think our personalities match enough to be in a relationship, like i just wanna fucc n have fun lol cause he is handsome as hell, like the hottest guy i've ever been with. but i wouldn't like if he ended up hooking up w that girl cause i know she's saying she didn't like him but I'm getting the vibe she did, they live in the same town and i live in another one 4 hours away, so they could be hooking up rn at this moment as far as i know lol.
what do you think? should i just ignore this guy n find another or just wait and see if anything happens?
To answer your question I think you should drop him.
To be more specific on my thoughts, I do think he was into you the whole time because he clearly was bothered by you bonding with another guy buuuuut he should've made that clear. Him lowkey excluding you in the beginning tells me he either was trying to make you jealous or was just being a bit of a dick who maybe was trying to play both fields. Either way, both are red flags to me. As well as him saying he wants to respect your brother but also proceeding to do said thing that he feels is disrespectful to your brother. He seems all over the place and like a headache.
I personally take people as face value so if he says he's in an open relationship I wouldn't doubt that but with that being said, him and girl 2 seem messy and complicated I'm sorry. Her being in your business like that and telling your family your personal matters (because for why and why would they care) is weird af. I don't understand how that's any of her business and then she's talking about becoming roommates with him? Both of them are too old for these antics and speaking of old...
Girl he's 16 years older than you and knew you since you were little? So he was definitely an adult when you were a literal child and around him??? Seriously???? That's not concerning to you at all???
He's 40 and weird and a huge walking red flag like all of this just gave me a headache
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espers-n-espurrs · 3 months
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okay time to try to make a master list about my [checks notes] 21 pokemon
please bare with me as i try to talk about them in order from when i obtained them!
Ozzy the Braviary:
ozzy is my first pokemon! the way we met was about a week after i had settled into my dorm. i was cooking myself dinner when suddenly a nearly eight foot tall braviary crashed through my dorm window!
he was already badly hurt when he came crashing in, we think he was fleeing from a battle with another braviary, and ended up hurting himself even more with the broken glass. i caught him with a healball i had been gifted by a friend and thats how i caught my first pokemon!
now, if you dont know anything about braviary, they are not eight feet tall. they are actually rather short in my opinion. so it turned out that my new friend was actually an alpha and was also of hisuian descent as can be told by his feather colors! he is also no longer nearly eight feet tall. because he ate some herba mystica. he is now 12’05”.
he also has two sons! both of which also ended up being alphas!
im putting the others under the cut because this is a really long post!!!
Lady Ma’am the Persian:
ladys story is less chaotic! i was having a picnic with a friend by the beach and suddenly in came this maned persian snatching my sandwich from my hand and booking it. i ended up battling her and caught her! got a dna test done for her cause i was curious as to why she had a mane and its because her dad was a pyroar! but anyways shes a lil’ spoiled girl <3
she also ate a severed finger once but thats not important
Bucky the Sawsbuck:
bucky!! he is actually one of the only pokemon i sought out to catch! it was back when he was a deerling and he was hanging around cortondo a lot! i decided i wanted to try and befriend him so i kept coming every other day to just exist around him for a little while. he was very skittish in the beginning but after a couple visits he began to warm up to me and i was able to catch him!
he evolved into a sawsbuck later on and when he did i realized two things. one: my friend at the time (who is now my gf <3) was in fact allergic to tree pollen. something sawsbuck produces when in spring, summer, and autumn form. and two: bucky actually overheats a lot and is incredibly uncomfortable when he has leaves and flowers growing from his antlers.
so, i tried something! i gave him a necklace/collar with a never-melt ice attached to it and it caused him to stay in his winter form. which helped with all the problems we were facing with allergies, his overheating, and his discomfort! hes a lot happier now and his never-melt ice is considered a medical item for him!
Evie the Umbreon:
evie was given to me as an eevee to be my service pokemon! she helps me with my emotions and panic attacks and other stuff! she evolved into an umbreon while i was on a trip in alola with friends, we were on the beach at night and it was just such a pretty scene to watch her evolve with the full moon reflecting on the waves
she was actually specifically bred to have a higher chance to evolve into an umbreon because her glowing rings would be helpful with my phobia of the dark! there was still a chance she could have evolved into something else but it all worked out in the end!
Ouppy the Stoutland:
ouppy was obtained as a lillipup while i was on the aforementioned alola trip! lady had vanished off in the midst of a Situation happening and reappeared by climbing in through my airbnb window with a lillipup in her mouth! i caught her and i let my girlfriend— who was high at the time because i accidentally gave her weed brownies instead of normal ones— name her. and she named her ouppy.
ouppy them evolved i to a herdier during my gym battle with gym leader brassius and then into a stoutland during my gym battle with gym leader kofu!
Mio and Miette, the Espurrs:
mio and miette have a lot simpler story! they were gifts from my aunt— who is now my maman! neither really wanna evolve right now so theyre just hanging around! miette is a battler while her brother would rather just cheer her on!
Mobius the Lucario:
i got mobi when he was a riolu and to be quite honest id rather not go into too much detail about how i got him or how he evolved, both of those instances are rather personal and a lot of people already know so id rather not increase that number if i can help it. all i will say is i took him from my brother and he evolved as a result of something my brother sent me.
anyways, hes very protective of me— a bit to protective to be honest— but that has to do with the fact that he doesnt trust practically anyone but myself? he can also be aggressive to anyone he sees as a threat to me in anyway which could very from someone being a killer to just someone who shoplifted once. we are trying to work through that
he looks a bit different than the standard lucario, for one he is taller by about a foot or so due to his meowscarada father. he has quite a few markings to call back to his dads species in some way or another and its really interesting
Kippy the Delcatty:
i got kippy when i was in kalos meeting a lot of my family for the first time— well not the first time, i just didnt remember any of them including my mamá. anyways, i got kippy back when she was a skitty. she had climbed up to the second story window of the main building of the estate to my bedroom and kept clawing at it till i let her in. she hung out for a bit and began playing with some of the pokeballs i had before accidentally catching herself. i ended up keeping her!
she also really likes to lay on rocks. which leads me when she evolved into a delcatty. she found a rock, she laid on it, and suddenly my itty bitty kitty was no longer itty bitty!
oh also she is blind! which is really interesting i think since her dad was a luxray and luxray are known for being able to see through stuff.
oh also my friend maple peer pressured (/j) me into naming her kippy because of ouppy being named ouppy
Maya the Plusle:
i acquired maya while on the aforementioned kalos trip! i went on a little roller skating date with my girlfriend and we came across a plusle riding on a tech deck and a minun riding on a home-made skateboard! the two were on their own little skating date <3! i caught the plusle and my girlfriend caught the minun and they have matching names, maya fay and franziska von karma <3
maya and franz are just the cutest, theyre so silly and love each other so much <3
Chilly the Absol:
chilly! i got her once she was old enough to be away from her mamá! i got her from my aforementioned friend, maple! shes big for an absol and thats cause her mamá is also big and her dad is an arcanine so big ole girl. yet she is kinda gangly
her bangs dont go the normal way an absols bangs go, the go straight over both her eyes and she has these longer bits on the side that kinda have the zigzagoon tail pattern of a scene kids hair
she is the only one of my pokemon that i do mega evolution with and she is quite the battler!! she loves fighting!! she isnt violent she just loves besting the shit out of others /hj
Gizmo the Rotom:
got gizmo how you would get any other rotom— it broke into my dorm and jumped around from device to device before landing in my phone and not leaving. tbh not much to say, its mischievous and silly like most rotom and its a lil shit /aff
though it did help save my life and i appreciate it greatly for that
Lemony Lime the Leavanny:
i got her as a sewaddle from a trade i did with my friend scribe when i was giving him a rowlet i had hatched!
she evolved into a swadloon a bit after i had lost my eye, she had been going missing at random points in the day alongside one of my other pokemon before randomly showing up again. i was worried and confused about this until she popped back up— freshly evolved into a swadloon— and offering me an eyepatch she had made out of leaves and twine. it was so sweet— sadly i cant wear it because ive found eyepatches to be incredibly uncomfortable— but i keep it safe and close!
she then evolved into a leavanny after i came back from a trip i took to galar to visit my mum and to explore the region with my girlfriend and friend. i hadnt taken all of my pkmn with me because this trip was to be a destresser from certain events so lemony was one of the ones who stayed in paldea with my mamá. but once i came back and she saw me she just immediately began to evolve, it was so sweet and was really something i needed to see after so much stress
Crescent the Gothitelle:
crescent was actually meant to be one of my first pokemon ever, she was pretty much my nanny when i was little back when i lived in kalos and once i was to get my starter i was suppose to have also been officially given her as a pokemon. that! did not happen! neither did me getting a starter happen! for reasons, i was.. removed.. by my dad from my family in kalos and as a result was also taken away from crescent
but about a half year later after i reunited with my dads family she decided to leave my mamans (formerly aunts) team and join me after a specific incident that made her grow a bit more protective of me
so now shes my “handmaiden” again! essentially consider her like a caretaker for me i guess? she helps around the dorm and house, along with my service pkmn, makes sure im taking care of myself
Scobie the Houndoom:
i got scobie after i lost my eye and my knee got banged up beyond repair, he was a birthday gift from one of my closest friends grandmother who happens to be a family friend! its actually really special to have gotten scobie because hes a specific kind of houndoom that only my friends family breed!
anyways hes my physical support service pkmn! he helps me get around and fetchs things for me when i need them!
hes bigger than the standard houndoom and a lot more built, hes also very fluffy and has four horns instead of two, and his tail also curls up! over all 10/10 handsome boy
Alchemy the Galarian Ponyta:
im not going to go into how i got her because it was kinda scary. but she was a victim of some people trying to poach. i got her during my trip to galar that mentioned earlier when talking about lemony
anyways! shes a sweetheart and is very intelligent and curious! she loves investigating things and exploring whenever she can and typically her sister (who is a hatenna my girlfriend has) is not too far behind her
oh also shes shiny
Grumpy Gramps the Drampa:
the old man, grumpy gramps, was acquired on the same trip i got alchemy on! we first initially met at the dragon lake in the wild area of galar and he just started following me i suppose? it took me a week to realize it was him and then he just. wouldnt leave until i caught him. so now i have a drampa!
he, like any drampa, is pretty protective of me yet gentle. he really adores my younger pokemon and does wonderfully with them
Sleepy the Wooloo:
i got sleepy late one night while staying in an inn on the same galar trip as the above too. i had woken up and couldnt remember my dream which was unusual because i normally remember those types of things— then i look out the window and saw a pink wooloo with red eyes and its braids made of black mist floating ominously outside the window.
scared the shit outta me for a moment before she just came into the room and made herself right at home, i soon remembered that wooloo and munna and breed and that she was likely a mix of the two and that she had been the one to eat my dream. i then caught her and shes been munching on my dreams every other night since then
Cream Puff the Fidough:
i found cream puff digging in the trash in an alley during the galar trip, she was sick and didnt look like she was doing too hot. scobie managed to scruff her and we took her to the pokemon center where they took care of her. we found out that due to an unfortunate event her trainer was no longer with us so she needed a new trainer. after a bit of time i decided to take her in.
she still has a weak immune system but shes doing a lot better now! shes also a fidough and alcremie mix!
Ezra the Rockruff:
another pokemon that i dont want to talk about the complete origins of but she was my dads pokemon and for reasons she is no longer my dads pokemon. she staying just generally with my family for a few months before it was decided to entrust her to me because i was the one she bonded with the most. she is reactive and im so far the only one she seems to be able to calm down the most around.
i guess some notes about her appearance is that she is shiny but shes very.. dull? her blue is very desaturated
Orion the Fennekin:
orion! he was a christmas gift! in my family its tradition for every to get a fennekin on their tenth birthday as their starter, a fennekin that is part of a specifically bred line of fennekin that is exclusive to my family. i!! did not get that for reasons such as i wasnt around!! so i got mine five years late but thats okay!!
anyways, hes the son of my maman delphox! because its tradition to have the childs fennekin be the child of the parents delphox— though at the time my maman wasnt my maman yet but thats not the point
oh also his dad was a thievul! and also hes shiny like his grand-mère which is my grand-mères delphox!
okay im done thank arc my fingers hurt
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4n4q · 7 months
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hi
i am finally back:) its been a while haha. im gonna (trauma?) dump a bit here so if you dont wanna read it then dont read it this is mostly for me.
tw - dr^gz, p1llz, 3at1ng d1s0rd3r, n3gl3ct
so i just logged back into this acc and the last time i posted was the day before i had to leave my dad bc of his relapse.
my dad was pretty much neglecting me and my brother and he was barely home, which was great for my ed but not really for anything else. i also wasnt going to school and over all i was in a pretty bad place. then he and his girlfriend took a bunch of drugs and it was just chaos. i had to take care of me, my dads girlfriends daughter and the dog while my dad and his gf were out doing god knows what and the house was a mess and the dog wouldnt stop barking bc she was scared. it was bad for a couple of months but it was like suuuuper bad the last three days. the night before me and his gfs daughter stayed up until like 4 am trying to get the dog to stop barking and my dad came home a couple times totally out of his mind on drugs and he did a bunch of weird things like putting food in the oven and the forgetting he did that and then saying he already made food and then naming the food he made like four days before that. when we finally got to go to sleep my dad and his gf still werent home and we had no idea where they were. the morning after i got woken up at 5 am by a call from my dads gf and she asked me to throw down the keys bc they didnt have any (my dad had already taken my keys and his own keys bc he had forgotten where he put them the night before) so i got out of bed to do so but then they called again and said they got let in. they went into our apatment and his gf was screaming and saying a bunch of stuff abt my dad being a junkie and she was saying that she didnt care if the kids woke up and that he stole her meds. then she told her daughter (who was now awake obvi) that they were going to leave and that she had to pack her things. she then proceeded to take all the pills in our house and dump them out on the floor in our apartment and in the hallway. she screamed a bunch more and then she left (i was in my room so im not sure) and so i called my mom and i didnt have any rides on my busscard and my card was conected to my dads account so he was the only one who could put money on it so i had to meet up with a family friend who lived nearby to be able to go to my moms. i started packing my clothes and then me and my brother left. we couldnt take my dads gfs daughter with us cuz she had a foster home where she lived and yea (her mom didnt have custody over her she was just visiting cuz her mom got like phsyco mad if she told her she didnt wanna see her anymore). after i got home i later got to know that my dad had driven his gfs daughter to the place she lived at (yes while he was still on drugs) and he had forgotten abt the dog but then my mom called and reminded him so he went home and like gave it food and stuff. then his gf got back and got mad at him for driving her child to her home so she made him drive her there and she beat up the mom who was taking care of her child. she then went to the police and told them she had been robbed. (the kid is living with her 20 smt sister now and her mom is not allowed to see her so yeah shes okay now)
i later also found out that one of them had switched my adhd meds for something else and they dont remmember anything so were not sure who or with what.
so yeah that was my trauma dump! im okay now so yea i just wanted to rant a bit ig? im not living w my dad anymore and my mom is really amazing:) but im back on my ana bullshit now! and the only downside abt living w my mom is that she actually cares lol
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lesbiantabes · 1 year
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on a day like today 1 year ago me and my friend arge went to this little anime con and downtown to have some lunch on a maid cafe, we talked about random stuff like we always did and it was the 1st time i ordered ramen instead of takoyakis like i always did, i sang a bit to a cringe song and she looked weird at me and i laughed. We walked a bit and i told her i was starting demon slayer, she told me she liked it and her guess was that i wan gonna like tanjiro (right) , and that o was gonna ship him w someone that will be killed right away (not so right) , on the line to the event i saw some of my coworkers, they were Chinese girls and recognized me and to this day idk how i was supposed to react tbh
We went there, i asked her who jimin was out of the Kpop merch and she told me to pick something for my sister, we walked 3 times in the small place watching all the merch and she took pictures of the chinese show whose name i still don't know bc she anf her gf liked it so much
I bought an deltarune mask that i wear to this day, we spent the afternoon trying to reach our other friend but she couldn't made it, so we walked some more, i was actually out of money but she offered me an starbucks and we sat there for a while while we talked about stuff im trying to remember, then her parents called and we had to walk back to the pig pigeon statue that was our regular meeting place. We watched a Christmas parade on the way there and i asked her about how she felt about work, i remember she said that she was struggling and stressed trying to do something new, and i also asked about her girlfriend mitj and if her family suspected about them dating since it she was in the closet and it was a long distance relationship, but she said she just wanted to tell them about her when its serious or she had the opportunity to travel and meet her, we joked about how her homophobic aunt was talking about how everyone should be like her, no bf until old enough and that she was definitely not invited to her wedding
Then her parents picked her up and i hugged her, and i honestly can't remember if i told her that i loved her, i hope she knew, i hope she does
That's the last time i saw her, i couldn't have known, no one could ever guess she will leave her loved ones the very next month, she's not longer here and i miss her so much, i haven't had the courage to visit her family bc in my mind she's just unable to reach us online or she's busy, i feel stupid for being still in denial while her family is aware of her absence everyday
idk, i will cherish that day a lot, and it's that conversation we had,i hope she knew how much people loved her too
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harryfeatgaga · 1 year
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Ok well actually it’s a whole story so idk if you remember me telling you about my cousin and her rich as boyfriend and when I visit them we go on yachts and fancy shit…anyways obviously I decided to fly to see them for new years so me and a few of my other cousins went and we last minute decided to find what places around were having parties and we found this beach club so we bought tickets to get in and went, however (important to the story later, my cousin and her bf decided to stay home). So we get to this beach club partying drinking etc and a very drunk me is looking at this man and like….I know you? So I’m staring and I’m telling my cousins I know him I know him and they’re like ok..anyways. So I facetime my best Harrie friend and I’m like is this who I think it is. And I turn the camera and she’s like FUCKING XANDER? and anyways I literally was in the middle of this party searching his gf to see if the girl with him was her and it was and it literally was xander😭😭 as I got closer I 100% knew it was him I was just like. Ariana what are you doing here. So basically just spent the whole night into the new year at this party with him…and then we get back home and MY COUSINS BF PROPOSED TO HER WHEN THEY WERE ON THR BALCONY WATCHING THE FIREWORKS😭😭
OH MY GODKJFNBHGHUJNDBH HELLO!?!??!?!?!?!? IM CRYIGKJNJIGNV HOW ICONIC AND ALSO OMFG SLAAAAAAY
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destinyc1020 · 3 years
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Anon. Im actually shocked like I've been on the ship again for awhile but I wasn't as convinced as before and thought maybe it was wishful thinking BUT NOPE. Its one thing visiting a friend on set but during night shoots?! Thats a little more intimate imo. He knows plenty of people in LA and could be out drinking with them but nope hes watching her do her thing🤧 this also confirms to me that he was looking after noon too which is such a boyfriend thing to do👀 the antis are MAD MAD
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Lol! 😂
I'm not THAT shocked tbh, because we've been saying since August that smthg seemed to have changed btwn them. 👀
Anyone who's been following the Tomdaya signs closely knows that SMTHG shifted last year back around late July/early August. 👀 And Tom's swift breakup just kind of solidified that for me. I think they would have broken up eventually regardless honestly, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to start putting two and two together.
I've always felt that there was some "unfinished business" btwn them (esp after seeing the events of Feb 👀), so I'm not surprised actually lol.
The only thing I'm surprised at is that they reconnected as soon as they did tbh. Cuz I thought they would be with their SO's for a while, and I assumed that SM3 filming would be awkward. 🥴
And yea, if a guy has flown thousands of miles away from a foreign country and is spending hours with you on a night shoot for several days, I'm thinking that's MORE than "just a friend" 😏 Keep in mind too that Tom is her EX. But even if he weren't, this is all still pretty telling imo.
In fact, if Tom were doing this with ANY other actress, we all know fans would be swearing up and down that their dating. 😏
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And maybe I'm being very presumptuous for even bringing this up so soon, but I highly doubt Tom has some phantom gf back in London that is okay with him flying off to LA to spend nights on set with his ex gf. 👀
And recall, many of us have been saying since Atlanta that Tom doesn't seem "single" to us....
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I'm just going to continue to eat my popcorn....
I still want a photo lol, even though we already know he's in LA. 😉 But this is all very interesting indeed lol.
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miastideclock · 4 years
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3RACHA Reaction To Their Girlfriend Speaking A Different Language
heyyy? could i request a 3racha reaction to their gf being from a diff country, and how theybreact to her talking her native language on the phone or when she's upset or something??? thank youuu
hEAVY WARNING, i speak NONE of these languages fluently, so like- bear with me, and please let me know if I’ve made any mistakes ehehe thanks y’all, i like barely understand two of them, ehe
Major thanks to  @stoysolaxd​ for helping with the Spanish part! 
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CB97 (Bang Chan)
NORWAY
Sitting in the studio while your boyfriend was working was one of your favorite pastimes, which worked out quite well, as that was where Chan spent ninety percent of his freetime. You sat on the floor, your back leaning against the couch, your arms resting on the coffee-table in front of you as you noted on the pieced of paper you had.
“What do you think?” Chan asked after a few minutes of silence, turning around to look at you. The sheet you had at your hands, was lyrics and notes Chan had written, waiting for your approval.
“I love it, I absolutely do. Just give it-” You started, but your phone soon went off. You quickly apologized to Chan and picked up, seeing as it was your mother. Chan instantly nodded, it not being a problem. It was a very casual studio session, so there was no hurry or stress around anything.
You greeted your mother, who cut right to the chase, asking if you were bringing Chan home for christmas.
“Ja, jeg kan snakke med ham om det. Okay, mamma- men har du tenkt på at kanskje han vil feire jul hjemme? Nei, det er greit, jeg skal spør han senere. Vi snakkes senere, glad i deg.” *”Yeah, I can talk to him about it. Okay, but mum? What if he wants to spend Christmas at home, did you thing about that? No, okay, I’ll ask him later. Talk to you later, love you.”
Chan had told you this before, but it never stopped being the truth- he could listen to you speak Norwegian forever. The way you rolled your r-s and how different it sounded to both Korean and English. He also admired that you could speak so many different languages so effortlessly.
After you hung up, you turned to look at your boyfriend looking at you with a dreamy look in his eyes. “Are you okay?” You asked him as you placed your phone back in your pocket and got to your feet, walking over to him.
“Yeah. I just can’t believe I’m dating a bilingual queen.” He said, smiling, making you laugh.
“Actually, there is something my mum asked about.” You started, sitting down on his lap as he had leaned back in his office chair. He hummed as a way to make you continue. “She wants so meet you. You have any plans for Christmas?”
Chan turned his head so he was looking directly at you, his jaw having dropped by now. “Really? She wants me there?” His words were happier than you had ever heard them before. You nodded with a chuckle, pulling your phone back out and going onto SnapChat. You quickly snapped a picture and started typing.
“Han sa ja. Plis vær greie når vi er der!” *”He said yes. Please be good when we’re there!”
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SPEARB (Seo Changbin)
GERMANY
The couch in the studio was the most comfortable thing you had ever sat on, which was great, since you seemed to find yourself here all the time. Especially now, right before a comeback. You would spend day and night in here, helping Changbin and the boys. 
But today, it was only the two of you. He was sat reading over some note she had gotten from another JYP producer, trying to figure out who he could incorporate that into their new song. 
“Babe, it’s been a few hours since we last ate. How about I go down to that place you like on the next block, and I bring back some food to enjoy while we take a little break?” You suggested after a few minutes of silence. He looked at you with a smile and nodded, about to say what he wanted, but was cut off by your phone blaring a familiar ringtone. You quickly excused yourself to answer it.
“Hey, ist es wichtig? Ja, ich bin gerade mit meinem Freund im Studio. Kann ich dich zurück rufen? OK, tolle! Tschüss!” *”Hey, is it important? Yeah, I’m at the studio with my boyfriend right now. Can I call you back? Okay, great! Bye!”
It had been one of your friends from back home, but you could call them back later when you walked to the shop. When you turned back, Changbin was looking at you with a big smile. You gave him a look, essentially asking him what he was smiling about. But without him having to say anything, you connected the dots.
i’ve connected the two dots, you didn’t connect shit i’ve connected them
You and your boyfriend had talked about it time and time again, that he loved listening to you talk in your mothertongue. His biggest dream was going to Germany with you, and listen to you order dinner, talk to you family, or just listen to you sleep-talk in german. 
“You sound good, baby.” He smiled, and right after those words left his lips, his eyes lit up.
“That’s it! The backing! The speaking- who says it has to be in Korean?! They should be in german! Babe, you could do that, right?” He was ecstatic, so much so that you completely forgot how nervous you got in the booth- but that was a problem for later. Right now, you and your boyfriend decided to go to the restaurant and eat there, as a way to get their mind completely refreshed.
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J.ONE (Han Jisung)
SPAIN
Jisung had been sitting in the studio since this morning, not having gotten the chance to eat, promising himself he would as soon as he got the track just perfect. But being the perfectionist he was, he had issues with that. 
Luckily for him, he had you as his girlfriend, who always made sure he was okay. So as soon as you realized he hadn’t eaten or drank any water in what is presumably way too long, you went to town. 
You picked up different types of meats and carbs, not knowing what he was in the mood for. When you had gotten back, he was in the bathroom, so you took the opportunity to make the spread pleasing to the eye. You used the coffee table in the room, and placed the different dished out, making it look as yummy as you could. 
“Oh hey, I didn’t realize you were back- Woah! What’s all this?” Jisung spoke as he entered the room, not seeing the table at first. 
“Well, I didn’t want my little musical talent to go hungry, so I brought you a little something.” You smiled, proud of the presentation. 
“First of all, never call me that again ew. Second, this isn’t a little something- this is a buffet!” He said, making you laugh at both his first and second statement. He then hugged you tightly, thanking you from the bottom of his heart. You hugged him back, letting your head rest on his chest.
However, your moment was ruined when your phone started ringing, the sound coming from your purse. You pulled away from the hug and saw it was your co-worker. You quickly picked up, already being asked if you could cover their shift.
“Oye, acabo de ver tu mensaje. No puedo hacer eso ya que estoy en Corea en este momento, visitando a mi novio. Lo siento. ¡Vale adiós!” *”Hey, I just saw your message. I can't do that since I'm in Korea right now, visiting my boyfriend. Sorry. OK, bye!”
You then hung up, placing your phone back in your purse. “Let’s eat!” You spoke, sitting down on the floor by the coffee table, not caring for the couch. Jisung followed suit, giving you a grin as he did so. “What?” You finally asked.
“You’re so hot when you speak Spanish.” He grinned, making you chuckle and roll your eyes. He had told you this before, so it wasn’t anything new. 
“Just eat you dork.”
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Hope you like it!!
-Bentley
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idkagoodnameman · 3 years
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I’m actually curious - you said you lived in Korea correct? How would you even get married? It’s not legal there or recognized. Yes, you could in theory get married but it’s not legal, so nothing would even happen. You could travel to another country but it’s a pandemic and near impossible.
You would be listed as ‘roommates’ on everything housing settlement purchased, only one of you would be allowed to adopt a child (if they let you since it would be a ‘single-parent’ household in their eyes). And even then your gf having a baby - you wouldn’t be listed as the other parent because the hospital won’t let you.
I’m genuinely curious too (if you’re comfortable) with how your gf is pregnant? If I’m assuming correctly that you went through a whole insemination process with doctor help. But again, Korea isn’t very modernized with LGBT+ because the older Gen is still in power.
As someone who lives in korea, im not even sure how you could do anything and be ‘okay’ with it? I’m constantly upset that I can’t have full things with my wife because they won’t recognize us.
no hate to this anon but this is the only time i will answer questions like this
So me and Mia are engaged but we aren’t going to get married until we are able to go to America because we both want to get married in America. We have been talking about it for months and we are both willing to wait until we can actually get married and be together.
And as for living together, we really don’t mind being listed as “roommate”, because it would be confusing to explain how a black and korean girl, a japanese and korean girl, and a white and korean toddler are all living together 😂. so most people just assume that everlee is one of our sisters and we just let them (normally they think she is Mia’s sister)
As for her pregnancy, we were able to get one of our childhood friends to donate sperm. He also happens to be mixed (with black and korean like me) so there is a chance that the child will look slightly like me. We have already worked out how we are going to do visits with him (because we don’t want him to be completely out of the babies life), and we agreed when the child is old enough to understand where babies come from, we will tell them everything.
Also about not being listed as the other parent, hopefully if things (covid) clear up some in time, we want to try and have the baby in america (which is a slim chance). If not, our friend said that he will be willing to be listed as the other parent, or that we shouldn’t have anyone as the other parent.
(sorry if this doesn’t make sense, it’s one am😂😂)
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myriadimagines · 3 years
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Oh god, men who are saying we misinterpret... 😂 Brought me a funny memory.
When I first had a irl crush 7.5 years ago, I actually came forward to him (he was my classmate) and told him I really like him/said it straight to his face that I have a big crush on him because we had had fun together and for example, he always waited for me at the train station when I came to school and literally RAN to me when I got out of the train and he always wanted to walk with me back to the class after lunch etc so my friends told me to go for it and see what happens. He got super confused, but the next day he messaged me being like "I'm sorry for getting confused yesterday. But I have feelings for you too."
Well we had a very nice time for a couple of months which included a lot of staring, blushing and smiling at each other and goofing together and having Facebook messaging with stuff like "I missed you at lunch ❤️" from him (after I couldn't go to school because train operators were on a strike) and EVERYONE IN OUR SMALL SCHOOL SHIPPED US, students and teachers and even the school cleaning lady, they called us JJ because his name also began with J 😂 (there was about 30 people total in our school) And my teacher told me afterwards that he saw that there's something going on between us and purposefully paired us for assignments etc.
Then my crush apparently developed a crush on our class assistant (at least that's what it looked like) and shortly after that he sent me a very frustrated toned message claiming that his sister had written that message to me where he confessed he has feelings for me too, and I had just misinterpreted all that cute behavior and wanted me to stop talking with him. 😅 Yeaaaaah right. So his sister apparently took over his body too and he couldn't help it????
I guess that was a psychological kick to my gut because I haven't been crushing on anyone real since that one.
I saw him at a pizza place 2.5 years ago on his birthday btw and he just stared at me and I just tried so hard to keep my face static so I wouldn't show that I recognized him... I don't know what he was doing here because everyone is like "where the frick is that???" when I tell them where I live and then J just appears at the local pizza place on his birthday??? He lives 70 kilometers away from me in a city so I doubt he came all the way here just to eat pizza 😂 This place literally doesn't have anything else than that, two small grocery stores, a small gym and pharmacy.
Just telling you this for peer support and maybe for laughs 😅
JENNI PLSSSSSSSSSS omg first of all i am so sorry men are so confusing and this is just such a prime example sakjdhsajk but also this is almost the same as what happened to me and this guy???? im putting this under the cut bc its so long and messed up BAHHAHA
granted we never explicitly confessed feelings for one another but we would hang out at school all the time, sit next to each other on the bus (AND HE’D LET ME REST MY HEAD ON HIS SHOULDER) and he lives like 2 streets behind my house so he’d walk me home and everything. he’d get weird when i hung out with other guys and would incessantly tease me about it to the point where i was just like ok maybe i shouldn’t. and i ended up going over to his house all the time because we were studying for our exams together but we’d just watch tv and lay on the couch and talk. i met his dad and even my mom asked if we were dating and our english teacher also asked my friend after we all graduated if we got together and it makes me scream!!!!! but then right when we graduated he started dating another girl in our class (i had to find out from mutual friends which was so shitty akjsdhaksd bc he never talked about it with me, even long after i found out). and i was like damn that sucks but whatever, i never told him how i felt. but we still kept in touch and when i moved away for college he hugged me and told me how much he’d miss me, and i just start to move on bc we obviously cant get together. 
fast forward to a semester into college, he’s messaging me all the time about how he misses me and asking when i’ll be back, i come home for break, and its radio silence. dude doesn’t message me until the end of break where he asks to hang out, and i find out later that the day he asked to hang out was the day after his girlfriend left to go back to college. we hang out, i leave to go back to college, and we text for a bit more before he stops talking to me completely. we don’t talk for like a year and a half and i find out it’s because he girlfriend didnt want him talking to me anymore and he freaking deleted my number. 
we somehow get back in touch through our mutual friend but he’s still with his girlfriend and whenever we hang out he lies to her about where he is. im super uncomfy and debating if i should cut him out bc i dont like him sneaking around his gf like that for no reason since we’re just friends. but at this point he starts getting weird and affectionate and telling me he wants to go to nyc to visit me, and always randomly asking me if i have a boyfriend. he gets on my case all the time about not replying to his texts fast enough and eventually he hits me with the whole ‘i love you so much’ situation after he got a good grade in his exam and was sharing it with me (which is so weird bc why would u say that while celebrating your grade). at that point i start really distancing myself, and eventually stop talking until recently :)
his gf even reached out to me to talk the whole situation through but honestly they’ve both got issues and im terrified of them both. 
i recognise my own part in this situation about sneaking behind his gf’s back but i just.................................................................. it was a lot. 
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wesevas · 4 years
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so ngl I went a little ham on her intro so if you tough it out and read the whole way through??? amazing. legendary. iconic. but im hype for this so slap that like and we can get to plotting! also I think we can all agree that discord is far superior or messaging so hmu ( vee#9986 ) ! 
( mishti rahman, 21, cis female, she/her ) did you just see EVA ROMANOV on the quad ?? aren’t they an ARCHITECTURE major or something ?? i swear the JUNIOR hates me because they ignored me in the dining hall. if i had to describe them i’d say something like: a mess of clothes covering a white arm chair, a fresh bouquet wrapped in newspaper, soft smiles & layered gold jewelry.
lbr her pinterest will describe her better then i ever will so why not save some time and check out her vibe
thems the facts
the youngest of four children with three older brothers.
her parents met in russia. her mom was an american student studying abroad on an exchange program and met her dad at uni and they fell hard and fast. after graduation he basically followed her back to the states
while her dad was on track to become a professor in the russia, school was much more expensive and competitive in america and his english was pretty much non existent. he took a job working construction to hopefully save enough to finish his education but as the kids started coming around it became more of a pipe dream then a reality for him
mom got a job as a language teacher
all the kids speak russian bc both parents speak it and it’s just easier for their dad bc it’s his native language
two of her brothers work in the trades. hvac and a mechanic. the youngest brother, aleksandr and the closest to eva played soccer all the way through college but it wasn’t enough to land him a professional contract so he’s teaching
eva is studying architecture and girl is not only passionate but damn good at it
she spent years dancing growing up and was actually pretty good at it but her passion lies with design and architecture 
personality and bits
she’s basically a combination of soft girl and feisty. she’s vivacious and full of life but she has no problem standing up for herself (3 brothers ppl) or telling someone theyre being a dick. 
can be ruled by her emotions lol if she’s angry you’ll know it. if she’s sad, or happy or in love.. it’s all over her face ok i have a lot of feelings about this
makes her bed every morning but leaves a pile of clothes on the plush arm chair in the corner lol
cries when she’s frustrated. which makes her more frustrated
a romantic. probably falls in love a few times a day tbh lol she just wants to be loved and cared for ok leave her alone
loves being outside. going for walks threw the park or throwing a ball with her dog or just having her morning coffee outside is just.. chefs kiss
def the type to make extra food for her friends. like she’ll bake something sweet and drop it off at their doors.
the type who likes to visit the farmers market and buy up all kinds of fresh fruits and veggies
the type to share food at a restaurant. like she’ll probably steal from your plate but give you something from hers in return
always tries to have fresh flowers on her counter. some come from her performances and others are just ones she picked up from a street vendor when she was out on a walk
has an adorable cavapoo puppy named charlie. he’s so freaking cute ok he’s just so happy and excited his tail is always waging and he’s always trying to cuddle and lick people ok he just thinks everyone is his friend    
lives off campus in one of the apartments 
works at the flower shop so if you need a bouquet?? she’s your girl!
wanted connections:
girls!! give her girls to rally behind and to support and girls to do the same for her. emergency ice cream sessions after bad days and trading clothes and makeup and offering up (sometimes terrible lol) dating advice
skinny love. trading smiles and stealing glances when the other isn’t looking. real cute shit
right person wrong time. gimme the pain.
crush. someone she’s just got a silly crush on lol it doesn’t have to turn into anything but just someone she’s enamoured with lol also someone who’s crushing on her too
ex’s. the most angst the better tbh. also!! maybe someone she dated who she had it bad for but after getting together the fantasy just falls apart bc they aren’t who you thought they were kinda deal?
rivals. not everyone is gonna vibe with you so for whatever reason these two just don’t get along. maybe they do stupid little things that they know will piss the other one off like playing their music too loud or sending each other gag gifts just to see their reaction lol
enemies. someone who really gets under her skin. someone who’s arrogant or cold or mean or whatever really and she’s having none of it
unlikely pairing. whether it’s a friendship or something more (!!!!!!) but from the outside it just seems like they don’t match. they seem to be complete opposites but that’s exactly why it works. i’m not saying i’d sell my soul for this but..
neighbours/roomies. she's in the off campus apartment buildings so maybe they live next to each other or on top of each other or whatever. do they get along? do they ignore the shit out of one another? do they leave their doors open and come and go as they please?
a frequent customer at the flower shop?? like someone who always comes and orders flowers for their mom or gf or friend of even just sends them as pranks and she helps them pick out flowers that mean silly things?? PLS
brotps/ride or die
tinder matches/hook ups. girl’s gotta get fed right?
situationship!!
hateship!!
i’m working on a wc tag bc it’s always for fun that way
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