Everything from Shelby’s vod
It took Shelby 10 months after the relationship to heal
Wilbur cared more about how it looked
It was subtle in the way Wilbur abused
It didn’t start out with Wilbur hurting Shelby out right
Wilbur wanted to make sure that Shelby was ok with the biting so that she couldn’t come back later and say he abused her
As time went on, Wilbur kept biting too hard more and more frequently
Wilbur decided that he didn’t want to keep “accidentally” hurting Shelby so they came up with a safe word
Wilbur made it seem normal and told his friends and made it seem like a bit to take Shelby’s arm and bite it in front of everyone until she has to shot in pain. And she just has to laugh it off
Shelby kept telling Wilbur after these bits happen that she didn’t like it and that he needed to stop biting so hard
Wilbur replied that this is who he is and he wasn’t going to change.
Wilbur would constantly contradict himself and then try and gaslight Shelby, that he didn’t say these things and how do you know that it’s not your memory being false
Eventually, Wilbur weaponized the safe word and used it insure that Shelby was hurt and on a constant basis
Wilbur wasn’t sorry anymore. He had stopped apologizing so long ago that Shelby doesn’t remember the last time he had apologized
Now, sometimes Wilbur would bite Shelby so hard, she would yell out the safe word because it hurt so bad.
Instead of letting go, Wilbur clamped down even harder or he would grind his teeth down.
He would sometimes smile after.
At one point Wilbur had pinned Shelby down and asked her to try her absolute hardest to get him off of her and she couldn’t do it
He said something to make the point that he was so much stronger than her. That she wouldn’t be able to fight back.
Wilbur said he didn’t have time and energy to do the stuff that Shelby was asking for and then would constantly make any sorta time and energy for anything but her
Shelby was constantly anxious, nauseous all the time, gagging daily, occasionally throwing up because of the bit in her stomach
Shelby would tell Wilbur that she felt unwanted and ignored and he would reassure her that he loved her and that he loved her more than she loved him
Wilbur would INSIST that he loved her more.
Wilbur was love bombing Shelby at the beginning of their relationship.
One month into their relationship, Wilbur was talking about them being soulmates, about forever, about how he wanted to be a dad
On the decline of the relationship, Wilbur doesn’t want kids at all and he has NEVER wanted kids
So Shelby brought up marriage and Wilbur said that he still wanted to marry her
Now, he instead says, “I’m not the commitment guy. You know that.”
Shelby did not know that.
By the end, before Wilbur went on tour, he was basically flaunting that he would never prioritize Shelby over anything
Wilbur was never gonna prioritize Shelby over anything that would give him more fame or money.
He said that himself, directly to Shelby.
Wilbur said he wanted to see how much fame and money he could get.
Wilbur admitted that he had grown to resent Shelby
This was the final push to get Shelby out of that relationship
After the relationship ended, Wilbur was “kind” enough to ship Shelby back her clothes
Only her clothes.
Wilbur trashed everything else.
He lived in filth.
Wilbur would spill things and never clean them up
Wilbur got an ant infestation once and was never gonna do anything about because he said bugs are normal in British houses
Wilbur wouldn’t clean his bathroom for months and months and months but would constantly complain about how bad it smelled
Shelby then told him that it was mold.
But Wilbur would insist that it wasn’t mold even though he hadn’t cleaned in months
When they met, Wilbur was washing his clothes without detergent and then hanging it on his filthy kitchen cabinets
Shelby found out after they broke up that Wilbur didn’t clean at all when she wasn’t there because he just waited for her to get there to do it
Shelby was paying for all the cleaning supplies like soap and paper towels
Shelby was paying for food more than half the time because Wilbur would push her to order for them even if she had paid for the previous meals
Shelby was also paying for every plane ticket and every cat-sitter and Wilbur never offered to help her pay
Shelby told Wilbur that she couldn’t afford doing this all the time so he offered to pay for the cat-sitter from now on
He did that once.
And then never again.
Shelby has said all this because Wilbur is dangerous.
He was willing to lie.
He was willing to do harm to the someone he claimed to love more than anyone he had ever loved.
Wilbur’s actions escalated slowly over time and Shelby wont be the last person that he hurts.
This all happened almost 2 years ago.
Please note that this is everything I’ve gather from watching the vod. If I missed something, just add it on in a reblog. If you still support this disgusting excuse of a human being after knowing that he did this, you are a bad person.
Always listen to the victim
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Believe victims and highlight their stories. Do not let perpetrators remain free without consequences.
They are not monsters lurking on the dark or hiding under your bed, they are men and they know exactly what they are/were doing.
They cover and defend each other thinking that as long as they apologize or don't get caught there will be no consequence.
Believe a victim before a possible abuser even if you are not sure. You could be one of them. I know I am. We all are one of them. A Shubble.
A Lexie. A Rue. An Alice. A Niki. A Caiti. An Andi.
The list keeps growing. Do not silence them.
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The Legend of the Notos SMP
Hi hi! In case you don’t know, me and some friends started a pirate themed roleplay smp based on a song of The Oh Hellos, Notos. I wrote the world-building and the legend that make our characters get stranded on an island, and I was so happy with the result that I decided to share it here! English is not my first language but I think it was nice besides some mistakes.
If you are interested on any of the creators here you have all the links: https://linktr.ee/notossmp
Note: this is a rp with friends and we are not experts so if you go from here and you are like, a pro roleplayer or something don’t judge us, we are just having fun lol.
PD: if you know songs like “Savages” by Marina and the Diamonds and “Youth” by Daughter you’ll notice two or three references to them in the text! Hehe
"For a while, the world was peaceful. The four season were pure harmony every year, and no one dared to disturb the quiet place.
The creature that inhabited the earth that never finished, the silent ones, were placid and calm so they wouldn't wake up the superior entities that had given them such a pure and peaceful world.
But no quietness lasts forever, and the human appeared. A ticking bomb about to explode.
No land that the humans stepped on knew peace.
Clenched fists and bloodstained hands marked these creatures that once thought could be gods.
In the sigh of the true deities they were only slightly more intelligent animals, killin only for themselves, and not for any savior,
An endless tale of war and death. Perennial murder, blood staining the grass, red flowers once white.
Sometimes humans would look Death in the eyes and sneer, and Death would answer with emotionless sight, never flustered by arrogance.
"There will come a day when greed and power will destroy them"
The voices of humans, strident and bleeding with dark sorrow reached all the kingdoms, all the starry skies of the world. The underworld and the Elysian fields.
There was no one in the universe who did not know about these warlikes creatures.
But their voices woke her up, the entity of The End, and with her the winds woke up too.
The world was struck with misfortune.
The silent ones trembled in fear, the deities had awakened, and their world had been corrupted by abuse and temptation.
The winds powerful like no other besides Her, surrounded the humans. "You knew power" they said. "You held it in your hands, wielding it like the Player once did with a King, but instead of using the King to heal, you used it to hurt.
You targeted the innocent, and now the innocent targets you.
You have withered this world, and now you deserve a lesson. You'll never fire a gun and run again. We'll force you to behave.
The next time you hurt someone, you will be dragged where you won't be able to escape your actions.
The island will catch you, and you will never be able to escape. You will be left behind to fall. With a mortal body but always living souls.
And in the world only a shadow will settle in the place where you once were.
A silhouette of everything that went wrong.
And it will be repeated over and over again.
An endless loop, humans trapped by pride.
You'll face your sin and take it to your grave"
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