#queer f/m relationships

[queer-ghosts]

if a queer man loves his girlfriend he can be gay for her. i do not accept criticism

#obviously the other wy around too. #queer man #queer men #bi men #pan men #lgbt men #queer f/m relationships

[uselessalexis165]

some more examples of mine

#thank you for giving us healthy queer m/f relationships #my text #rwby #rwby8 #she ra and the princesses of power #helluva boss #steven universe #lie ren #nora valkyrie #renora #sea hawk #mermista #seamista #moxxie #millie #connie maheswaran #connverse

[lazylittledragon]

i'm going to scream i got accused of being a transmisogynist by someone on twitter because of this specific part of my t4t steddie art

#ramble #the thing is 99.9% of people thought it was VERY funny #i've had 1 person genuinely have a problem with it and it was because i kept eddie transmasc #basically they were upset because i didn't make them both transfemme bc i just. didn't want to #twitter hasn't learned that not everything is for you and if you don't like something you don't have to interact with it #and just because you don't like something that doesn't mean it's Bad #and also sometimes queer things aren't made to be understood by everyone #it was specifically because they thought it made them into 'just another straight couple' #as if that isn't a MASSIVE erasure of trans people's queerness #trans people in m/f relationships doesn't make them any less queer or somehow inferior to gay relationships #it boiled down to 'but you could've made them lesbians :((' YEAH BUT I DIDN'T #idk it was just absolutely infuriating trying to defend myself without saying 'idk what the fuck you want from me at this point' #anyway transfemme stevie is very big on twt but i didn't know whether to post it here or not #but i might if people want to see it because i love it a lot #twitter would die if they saw the olden days when we called them genderbends and there wasn't any trans content at all

[raviollies]

Absolutely tickles me that my friends not only came up with a ship name for Blythe/Raha (it's Blaha for the record) but send me memes about them (most of them are very wholesome)

#you know an m/f ship good when it got queers stanning it #makes me FEEL VERY WARM OKAY....their relationship is v comforting to me #very feel good

[up-in-flames-writing]

In lieu of Stuff Your Kindle day, can we talk about the issue of how the m/m genre of books, romance or not, is almost entirely dominated by women? Can we talk about how the most recognisable gay couples in media are written by women? Can we talk about how queer men can't even write about ourselves, how we are only allowed to exist when it's from the point of view of a straight woman sexualising us?

Can we talk about that? Or am I going to get called misogynistic for pointing out the disparity between who gets the writing deals, & who gets their books turned into movies, & whose shit gets popular versus whose doesn't? Can we talk about how m/m fiction is only allowed when it appeals to a cishet gaze, or is that too much for tumblr to take?

Can we also talk about how trans queer men are even more hated by publishing? Can we talk about how we get shit from both sides? Can we talk about how books about the experiences of being a queer man, written by queer men, never get the same recognition as books written by women on this subject (barring academia which has its own problems)?

Can we talk about that? Can we?

#booker speaks #no bloody clue how to tag this #this is for the tags only but #people would get up in arms if the f/f book scene was dominated by cismen only #why are we not extending this same energy to ciswomen writers of m/m? #why did we forget about the original meaning of own voices? #why are queer men pushed out of publishing in the way that we are? #& im not just talking about romance here #like there are fantasy & scifi & contemporary novels about men loving men that are written by ciswomen who have a very narrow view of what #m/m relationships are like. & this extends towards stuff like manga too but im not gonna get into that cause i dont read mangs/comics #can we talk about how hard it is to find queer masc authors nowadays? #saying this both as a reader & as a writer #can we also talk about how lists of queer & especially trans novels almost always forget to include anything by transmascs & gay transmascs #or if they do include us its 1 transmasc book to 1 enby book to 8 transfem books or books about the 'trans experience' in nebulous terms #can we stop reccing detransition baby & start reccing the spirit bares its teeth? #can we look at works written by queer masc people that arent just red white royal blue & stone butch blues? #go read cemetary boys #read alexis hall & max turner #read bloom if you like comics. or nimona #read my shit too! #im gonna be focusing on my writing blog way more this year #& im working on some projects that may or may not end up being published in physical form #read more queer masc stories by queer masc authors!

[starlightinhumanform]

I will always be a romangerri girl (gn) I don't care how delusional I seem. I will lick up every crumb of their weird psychosexual dynamic I don't care. he's a kitten, he's a pervert, he's a kicked puppy. she's a cutthroat bitch, she's the old guard, she's the only person that's ever shown him genuine care!!!! he will tear himself inside out just to get her to look at him again and she's can't look even for one second because if she gives in she will never be able to get that back!!! GOD!!!!

#succession #hbo succession #romangerri #roman roy #gerri succession #succposting #yeah they're an m/f relationship #but their dynamic is very queer #hope that clears things up #starlight chatters

[br1ghtestlight]

sometimes i forget the roudise jealousy/kiss plot in bob actually was like a Real thing that happened. like they kissed onscreen and everything. that feels like fanfic I always have a hard time remembering that they're canonically a semi-romantic pairing

#rewatching bob actually right now and anything w/ louise and rudy has me going like wooow #maybe bcuz in the osc ships are NEVER ever canon or even implied to be canon so the fact that romance as a concept exists in bobs burgers #is a novelty to me #wish they had more queer romance though!! but I get its hard when the main couple is in a m/f relationship and then the others are kids #they should give teddy a boyfriend just for fun. like they COULD #its allowed #txt #bob's burgers

[bookcub]

here's a list full of bi and pan rep in the books i've read and want to read.

#bisexuality #pansexuaity #lgbtqia #queer books #and there are books with m/f relationships #because there are bi people in m/f relationships #book list #listchallenges

[fumifooms]

I'm pan and I ship Marchil. Since when was shipping ever about if it was "gay enough" I have loads of gay ships, but none of them ship just because I want to ship something gay. As someone who is pan, it's all about character dynamics and how well or even just how interesting it would be for two characters to be in a relationship regardless of gender. It's totally unfair to put down one ship, ignore all the aspects that make it an interesting ship, all because it is straight(-passing).

Agreed!

And listen, I’m glad I didn’t put that post in tags lol I want for it to be peaceful in my corner, but also I woke up to this nice ask and not 10 anons with bad takes! Overall success. The dunmeshi discord server I’m in is much better on this issue than tumblr, and for marchil specifically there are even people who doodle for it sometimes but never post it publically! Spreading positivity is so much more important than spreading negativity, and positivity for marchil is spreading indeed 🌟 Their arcs and specific dynamic is so unique I am so crazy about them, I should really get that post analyzing their arc in excruciating details done… Oh shit I knew I forgot to do something for valentines

Whiiich speaking of there’s also a lil marchil doodle I wanted to clean up and post yesterday, so I’m looking forward to finishing that soon. Oh and marchil edits… And marchil fics… Lol they are monopolising my schedule. AND SPEAKING OF marchil fics a new one got uploaded to ao3 yesterday!! By the og marchil fic writer warrior that made the first 2 ones… And while I’m on the topic! There are two fics on Pixiv for them (besides mines) here tagged chirumaru, if like me you re desperate and want to scout out the whole internet for marchil content. Although, artworks are instead tagged maruchiru here for some reason. We are small but we are there 💥 Edit: ANOTHER NEW FIC TODAY?!! Stonks omfg

Happy Dungeon Meshi Thursday!! And Adventurer’s Bible 2 dropping! Expect things to be added into the marchil crumbs masterpost if not full new posts hehe

#Ask #Me when non-marchil shippers like my last meme dump and I get tags about how now they understand the ship 😈 #Also also last bit on the topic promise but I do resent the ‘no m/f ships in dunmeshi bc it has a wealth of good same gender relationships’ #Like…. Like 99% of fandoms? Like all fandoms with good casts? Wdym. Dunmeshi is very queer in vibes and cast and that’s notable but also #Every fandom has a bunch of compelling same gender shipping what is this argument #It means so much every time I see support for marchil. Thank youuuu cab thank you buddies ily’all #marchil #tagging since I went off lol

[awakefor48hours]

I know that most of people who said that they didn't like Huntlow because it was underdeveloped are lying because is this not the same fandom that shipped Hunter and Edric before season 2 came out.

#seriously the fact that this ship was originally called g0ldrick #because hunter only went by the golden guard #(and therefore we didn't even know what his personality was) #really rubs me the wrong way #idk man i think you just hate the fact that queer people can be m/f relationships

[maddy-ferguson]

i kinda have never seen the appeal of bi4bi ships like i get why people like it in theory but whenever it happens (and it happens so rarely the only two times i've seen it like canonically it was fangs and toni in riverdale which..was the most boring couple ever and big red and ahslyn in hsmtmts and like. the biphobia allegations the writers got for the way they wrote big red in s4 were kinda deserved and for me to be saying that it has to be bad. like it was just weird. but anyway just not ships i care about and them being bi didn't change anything at all in their relationship) they're portrayed exactly like any other m/f ship so it's like. it's nice to have characters who aren't straight for sure but if their queerness isn't gonna add anything to the relationship i would rather have a gay couple😭

#like i get it i do making characters queer is always fun and what's more fun than one character being queer two characters being queer. and #them being together.but idk. people do it in fanon generally so you can totally write it in a way where i would like it better/find it more #interesting in a fic because people who write fics do it for like exactly this kind of thing. but i don't know if you see what i mean. i'm #not saying that bi characters should always be in gay relationships either but bi4bi just doesn't do anything for me it really doesn't #also. controversialer? it's so annoying to me when people are like um this m/f ship isn't straight one of them (or both of them) is #literally bi? (people do this with lumax when like.well how can you actually fault people for considering characters who arent not straight #straight) and like. m/f. het ship. straight ship. it's about the relationship. it's a man and a woman. that's what the adjective applies to #would you get mad at me for calling robin and vickie a lesbian ship because amybeth said vickie was bi. bad example some people probably #would. do people who think mike is bi not call byler a gay ship. it's about the relationship like you KNOW what people are talking about #you KNOW. i find it unbelievably obnoxious #and like i say: brf slt

[romanceandshenanigans]

Question for historical tumblr. Are there any good sources for reading up on queer history during the early 1800s in England?

For various reasons my googling has come up short and I could use an extra hand. Anything specifically pertaining to terminology, general attitudes, and symbols used within the queer community during that time period would be much appreciated. Thanks!

#regency era #georgian era #georgian period #regency period #queer history #i'm writing m/f relationships in the queerest way possible #historical reference #writeblr #history #history tumblr

[choices-binglebonkus]

Another infidelity book?!💀 are they so obsessed with ruining a marriage!? and why the wife must be always the bad guy?!

I wish I understood, but I don’t.

#I don’t know #is it a neurotypical thing I’m too autistic to understand? #is it a straight person thing I’m too queer to understand? #because let’s be real #these affair books are M/F coded #so what is it??? #what is pb’s fixation on affairs and cheating and stealing away a member of a monogamous relationship #someone I follow suspects it may be a kink of one or some of the writers #and honestly that’s my best guess too. I can’t think of any other reason #asks #choices stories you play #choices stories we play #playchoices #pixelberry #pixelberry studios #playchoices fandom #choices stories you play fandom #choices stories we play fandom

[bread-that-draws]

COLLEGE APPLICATIONS DONE I’m free from the “no fanart in portfolio” curse. Anyway hits you with my visualization of a scene I wrote a while ago blast

#me when I have so so much work to do and my best friend falls asleep in my bed and that fucks with me so bad that #I can’t sit any closer or farther than the floor beside him #these guys are fucking crazy you know when you like a man and it destroys you inside and out #last year you got toxic doomed yuri this year. you get doomed yaoi #typing yaoi in my tags in the year of 2024 took years off my lifespan (I was on the internet when OMG MY YAOI BOYS was popular) #that’s honestly the only reason I didn’t make the caption HITS U WITH MY DOOMED YAOI BEAM #me proving im not biased and can and do write queer men and not just insane lesbians #guys i swear I write men too guys please #all romantic adjacent relationships in my original story are like. m/m f/f nb/f nb/m #14 year old me literally started this story with the idea that there wouldn’t be a single m/f thing going on #and now i think that idea is flawed but we’ve gone too far now #anyway #take a shot every time i tag something with anyway #it’s just so fun #posts for one audience member (Lorien) (when he sees this specific guy in particular) (IM RAMBLING IN TAGS DONT YELL AT ME) #oc #OCs #original character #original characters #original story #not super super happy with this but like its fine #breads guys

[alexcole1326]

when you get a platonic gf❤️❤️❤️ (qpr)

#aromantic #qpr #queer platonic relationship #wlw qpr #platonic girlfriend #I HAVE A PLATONIC GF IM SO HAPPY RN IM GOING TO CRY #aroace #aro pride #lgbt pride #lgbtqia #BRO I THINK ACTUAL PARTNERS ARE STUPID BUT MY PLATONIC GIRLFRIEND IS THE BOMB #SHE LITERALLY MADE ME A POEM #IM PLATONICALLY IN LOVE #i am aromantic #but if i had romantics feelings this girl man #like i KNOW im aromantic but seriously if i could have romantic feelings i would be swooning for her #but i can still platonically swoon #M Y P L A T O N I C G I R L F R I E N D #❤️❤️❤️ #shes so awesome

[13eyond13]

“it reminds me way too much of when an iconic eccentric/unattached/ambiguously-queer-in-some-way character like L gets matched up in a kinda bland heterosexual arrangement”

this confuses me bc queer people can be in m/f relationships and that doesn’t make them heterosexual :(

Nah I just mean like, when the writers see those characters they often aren't considering or willfully ignoring the vibes that they're maybe gay or something and just like "we need to give this one a proper straight relationship too" type deal

#i am probably not explaining myself that well but #if you grow up relating most to that sort of character in the cast of a bunch of straight couples the most #and then they get written into becoming just like everybody else once they finally meet the 'right' girl or boy or whatever #that always bummed me out growing up and it happened constantly when i was young #not saying you cant be queer and also in a m/f relationship #ask #anon #p