*squuueee* My queer little heart is so flipping excited that you're back on tumblr! I just now saw this so I'm probs late to the welcome back party! Also so much congratulations on Jess and you getting married I'm so so so happy for you both! 💜💚❤️💜❤️💚
Thank you love!!! I just realized that I haven't posted our little wedding video to tumblr yet, so here's us sharing a little bit of our day! <3
Writing a wlw wedding planning fic and I'm curious what advice you would have, whether for my fictional couple or for fic writers who write weddings!
What should all couples know? What is a creative wedding-related thing you've seen couples do? What are you grateful for or regret about your own wedding? What do you see writers get wrong (or something a writer nailed)?
Also feel free to share your stories, reception song recs (especially for a sapphic couple), or anything else you want to!
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I have learned one thing tonight. Sapphic people deserve everything we think we will never get. We deserve loving families. We deserve supportive friends. We deserve happy marriages.
I deserve all or these things.
That wedding was magical. Everyone there was there because they had no judgement for the brides. It was a wedding. It was just a fucking wedding and no one had anything to say about it. They just got to exist without having to fight tooth and fucking nail for their place in the world.
Yes, sapphic people are underrepresented in media. Yes, sapphic people are constantly pushed to the sidelines of our own goddamn community. Yes, we are fetishised over and over and over again.
But there are still people that love us, and that will come to our weddings and celebrate our love with us. I know it doesn't always seek like it but they're there, and they're happy for you