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audrinawf · 19 days

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unpopular opinion but if a man likes you all you have to do is be loyal and pleasant to him. you don’t have to be paying his bills,you don’t have to prove anything to him, you don’t have to be cooking him him 3 course meals every single day or be his maid. A man that has you doing all the emotional, physical and psychological labor in the relationship doesn’t love you

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hypergamiss · 4 months

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I get it, women take a lot more accountability than men (imo) because society is currently set up this way. Women fill up churches, support groups, therapy, they’re purchasing more self-help books and literature than men, and there are a million pages on social media dedicated to women bettering themselves while there are barely any for men. Overall, anything related to self improvement and reflection is dominated by women. Socially and culturally speaking most parents hold their daughter more accountable than their sons. That’s why a 15 year old boy can be out galavanting late with his friends but a 20 year old woman has a strict curfew.

At some point you have to realize (as a woman) that you automatically deserve more from life and the partner that you choose because it is your birth right (imo).

Just because the majority of men are not decent humans, doesn’t mean you have to settle.

And just because you’re constantly being groomed by society to improve as a woman doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you or that you’re not good enough every time a man doesn’t know how to act right.

Lift your head high and accept the power that you hold. Stop questioning yourself every two seconds and accept that men can often do wrong. Be confident.

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sortagolddigger · 3 months

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Always remember it’s not about being head over heels in love, that’s how you get hurt and walked on.

It’s about how he treats you and does he make you feel safe asking for things.

Is he a provider that fits your life goals?

That’s your man.

I’m not saying date an ugly man, I am saying date a man you don’t mind growing old with because he makes you feel safe and pays the bills

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sweet-lil-darling · 7 months

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If a man jokingly says:

"I'm the worst"

"You deserve better"

"I'm trash"

"I know nothing"

"I'm useless"

You had better believe them. No amount of "🤣🤣🤣" or "lmfaooo" makes those statements any less true. Take the statement at face value and walk away. All laughter aside, he knows what he is talking about.

#ohdarling #level up mindset #dating advice #high maintenance #luxe life #text post #high effort men #hypergamy #spoiled gf #high value woman #luxury mindset #level up

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napqueenkae · 1 year

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#princess treatment #dating advice #spoiled girlfriend #spoiled gf #hypergamy #Dating tips for women #it girl

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thedollhousediaries · 2 years

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Soft brown skin 🎀 sweet vanilla scent 🎀 round dolly eyes 🎀 cute personality 🎀 gives good hugs 🎀 has heartfelt advice

🎀Its Me🎀

#doll advice #dollhouse dairies #black femininity #soft black girls #soft aesthetic #spoiled gf

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dreamgirlglowup · 28 days

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🎀 Why Women Should Never Pay on a Date, Part 2 🎀

He asked you out (because we never chase a man and we never ask him out on dates), so he wants your time and your company.

Your presence alone is a gift. You grace him with your feminine energy, and that more precious than you can imagine.

He gets clout from being seen with you. A man automatically becomes more attractive to other women and gets approval from other men when he is next to a beautiful woman.

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Pt 1 / Pt 3

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littlemisshaveitall · 2 years

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Season Secrets: July 31st

If you don’t stick to you boundaries , you will suffer - it’s not a warning , it’s a promise.

This has been said and will continue to be said because it needs to be engraved. This isn’t a dating hacks post , telling you to pretend to be busy so as to put up a front, no baby, this is a post to tell you regardless of what you are doing your boundaries come first . Jobless or not ( but do invest in a hobby ,love, you can’t have time boundaries then do nothing with your time)

Small Boundaries

In my opinion, the most significant boundaries are the small ones because If you break those for someone , they will see you for what you are and they won’t respect you in the long run. If you sleep at 10 and that man calls at 10:30 , what are you doing picking up the phone ? You should be asleep with your phone on DND. He knows you sleep early but chooses to call late without even a text- it’s a no from me. If you workout at 5PM but your girl calls at 4:45 telling you to take her out and you drop all your plans for her right there , then I have to break it to you hun, you not prioritizing yourself and your plans (in terms of bettering yourself because disclaimer, you can’t always be too busy for your partner, check yourself there.) is not attractive and they know it. Partners, especially if your messing with a person who’s been ‘around the block’, can sense it when you crave their validation so much that you don’t respect yourself and your time and they will use it to their advantage. So my love , the next time you’re in the middle of a writing an important essay and they call and ask if you’re free, say no and give them a time that works for you. If plans aren't made in advance they should not get in the way of any plans you had made before.

How to respond in such situations.

At the end of the day , communication is always best and I’m about to show you how to use it.

Situation 1 : Calling after your bedtime.

- Tell them that you don’t pick up calls past a certain time and if they want to reach you , they should call before then.

- If it’s about to reach your bedtime and you are still on the call , please you know better , sleep. The only exception here, is if you know you have no obligations the next day or if your partner is crying on the phone about something ( we can’t lose empathy trying not to get played but do be wary. People out here really know how to tug at your heart strings as a means of manipulation). From experience, if you consistently extend the calls, you will always end up extending the calls and they will know you prioritize their presence instead of your discipline and again , it’s not a good look but also you’re letting yourself down. It’s always the little things.

Situation 2: Asking you out when you’re busy.

- Tell them you are busy , you don’t have to tell them with what if you don’t want to , then include a time in which you will be free .

It’s sounds a little like this: ‘Damn , I’m not really free right now but I will be in the next 30 mins or so . Can I call you back at that time’

In general, it’s okay to be busy but it’s not okay to not put in effort for the person you like hence always give a time in which you’re free or best case scenario, decide a time between you and your partner specifically for the both of you and stick to it.

Big boundaries.

It goes without saying that , these are more than important and the good thing about these, they aren’t hard to miss.

One of my big boundaries is that I would never date someone who’s favourite everyday past time is partying/alcohol/drugs/gambling. I’ve been there and it’s not fun at all.

The issue: They will rarely pick you when it comes down to it. If they do, I’m happy for you but loves , how sure are we that the person you fancy would stop for you. This will lead to more problems along the way because the little money they get ,will be recklessly spent funding the addiction they claim they don’t have or the little time you have with them will be spent with you trying to bond with someone who’s buzzed out of their mind . I don’t know about you but I’m a sucker for attention so that’s definitely a no for me.

This is one of my most significant boundaries, and I used to tell myself that it was fine. I made rules such as "if you don’t do it in front of me it’s okay" or "if you only do it in certain places it’s okay". It wasn’t okay and I’ve learnt that. At the end of the day , they still do it and it will bother you , whether it’s the fact that you can smell it, their decreased attention span, or the anxiety you feel. Compromising to stay with them will lead to resentment and the thought that says "it’s okay" is a liar. So whatever your major boundaries are , honor them.

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When talking about boundaries, it is also important to talk about grace. Sometimes people genuinely don’t know (unless of course you directly told them). I was talking to a friend of mine about red flags within both of us and she said , ‘ a big one for us would be to limit our saltiness when we hear what we don’t want to hear or when our partners don’t respond in the way we want them to. Let say , you tell them about how someone told you got bigger but they don’t see anything wrong with it because to them it’s just a story like any other day since they don’t understand or know your insecurities surrounding your size. We might have a right to get mad of course but not when they don’t understand. Obviously it’s great having someone who always knows what to do or say without you voicing it but they can’t read your mind so you have to give them the grace to learn how to treat you well.’

It is so important to give your partner grace because they give you grace as well but don’t let yourself become a door mat in the process.

‘Once you see that someone would sacrifice for you is when you sacrifice for them’ - My Mother

Everything is always circumstantial but circumstances are rarely consistent. Do with that as you will

Love ,

Quesa

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theereina · 26 days

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#soft life #soft girl #soft girl era #soft girl energy #lover girl era #lover girl #love language #love quotes #true lovers #lovers #romance moodboard #romantic relationships #relationship advice #relationships #princess treatment #spoiled girlfriend #spoiled gf #girlblogging

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a-philanthropistswife · 1 year

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Say more!

I don’t know what they’re putting in these vegan protein powders but I’ve been in a real feisty mood lately so here we go…

If you fumbled the bag, just say that!!!

But don’t sit up here and tell other girls what’s possible for them and what’s not. It’s giving hater, it’s giving jealousy, it’s giving misery loves company.

I saw a post a while ago that said something like these posts telling you to dress cute and go to a grocery store are gonna have you out here looking dumb, rich men don’t go grocery shopping.

Like……WHAT?!?

I swear some of these people just don’t have social skills and are telling on themselves. How hard is it to take a shower and put some clothes on and go do things you normally do but in an affluent neighborhood? But omg noooo, you’re gonna look dumb or people are gonna say you’re a whore!! Which honestly is the real reason a lot of girls fail at this or are not cut out for hypergamy and being spoiled gfs. They care too much what other people think about them.

I’ve lost count of the amount of times I’ve been hit on at Whole Foods, or Erewhon, or Trader Joe’s by a man with money. And to be honest I didn’t even look that cute! At least not in the way these same pages will describe you have to look.

There’s a reason this lifestyle is exclusively for girls comfortable using seggs work tactics. Heauxs don’t care if people think they’re heauxing because those people are either gonna pay your bills or not. And if they’re not paying a bill then they can fuck off with their opinions. If a heaux let everyone’s opinions throw them off their game they’d go hungry.

It all comes back to mindset and self worth. There’s a certain way you have to carry yourself to attract and keep the attention of a high net worth individual. You have to be beyond confident that you will succeed. All this it’ll never happen woe is me 💩 is for the birds. Because it has happened for many many many girls before you and will happen for many after you. They’re not that much cuter or smarter than you. Mostly they just have the audacity. They believed they could do it and didn’t stop until they did while other girls complained about having to go to the grocery store and actually talk to a man.

So which kinda girl are you?

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hypergamiss · 6 months

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Reason #2 why I love men. When you come across a man who was raised really well. They just get it. They open your door, they cover the tab, they send you a car/driver, they send flowers, they are self-aware, they make sure your taken care of, they make you feel safe, etc.

#hypergamous lifestyle #heaux advice #heaux tips #heauxheauxheaux #heauxlife #hypergamy #level up #high maintenance #spoiled heaux #spoiled gf

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sortagolddigger · 1 month

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I get whatever I want because I know how to be quiet

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diamondluxesugar · 9 months

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Hi so I’m really going through it atm and would appreciate some input/advice please💕 so i just found out that the guy I was talking to for a year long distance has had a gf all this time...the girl reached out to me calling my phone and I knew immediately it was weird that a Miami number was calling me...anyway she was wondering who I was because she said she saw my number on her boyfriends phone...I told her everything then sent her screenshots to confirm. While I was sending her them, the guy was texting me and then I called him and was like “you have a girlfriend” and he goes “you had a dating app” then hung up and blocked me...I don’t understand this because why would he cheat with me for a year just to block me when the girlfriend found out?? She said they broke up too...I’m just so hurt. She also blocked me after telling her everything so I can’t ask her if they are actually broken up or not...I tried calling him many times a weeks after from No Caller ID and he texts me “stop fucking calling, how it’s clearly over, to move on, stop being so obsessed” I denied it but I was just so hurt especially because he’s lied to me and led me on for what?? Why do this to me when we’re long distance why hurt me like that? Anyway, like 2 weeks later called me many times kept telling me to call him so did he goes “just wanted to apologize clear the air sorry you had to go through all that” and I was like “ok” then before I could say more he hung up and blocked me....then like 2 weeks after that messaged me “yo, kept calling me and I told him I couldn’t talk that I was at work at he goes “right” and I was like “I am” and he goes “bet” and I was like “what” and he goes “forget it” and I was like “?” Then he emphasized it...then I said I could talk later and he liked the text then I sent him “If you’re going to be rude and upset me then we don’t need to talk. You’ve really hurt me a lot. I didn’t know you had a girlfriend all this time so would have never even come to Miami to begin with to see you...that is gross. you putting me in the middle hasn’t been fair especially being that you’ve lied to me so much, made my anxiety way worse we’ve just hookup and you’ve left me every time being blacked out and all and could have died..... I really don’t understand why you would do that to me...or this girl really. You’ve wasted my time and money and don’t know why you would think that is okay....” then he emphasized that we would talk later but then when I tried to call him blocked again....why is he doing this?? Then I just stopped calling him for 2 weeks then this last Monday he calls me 3 times in a row, texts me “yo” then within 15 minutes blocked me before I could answer him..why is he doing this? I don’t understand and then blocking me....I left him alone so I’m really not understanding I’m also not understanding why he blocked me when the gf found out but would do this to me for a year....

My question is, why haven't you blocked him? He's getting off on being able to contact you. You need to completely remove him from your life. Block him on everything. All social media platforms, his phone number, everything. Whenever a phone call from an unrecognized number comes in, immediately block and delete it from your call log.

I agree with him, you're obsessing over him, KNOWING that he was intentionally hurting you for more than a year at this point. You're only going to keep hurting yourself by interacting with him and by entertaining the thought of him and this girl.

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dreamgirlglowup · 24 days

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💖 Daily Affirmation 💖

I am the most attractive person everywhere I go

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☁️ how to be the prize

☁️ how to get princess treatment

☁️ why women should never pay on a date / pt 2 / pt 3

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