#tdahbposting

[thedevilandhisbride]

ive been doomscrolling for a while so i needed to step-back and do a positivity post for men :]

i love you men

i love you cis men

i love you trans men

i love you man-adjacent people

i love you intersex men

i love you nonbinary men

i love you masc-alligned people

i love you men who are in someway aligned or identify with femininity and woman/girlhood

i love you gender fuckery men

i love you disabled men

i love you abled men

i love you mentally ill men

i love you neurotypical men

i love you fat men

i love you skinny men

i love you chubby men

i love you medium sized men

i love you men with stretch marks

i love you men with scars

i love you men with freckles

i love you men with acne

i love you men with eyebags

i love you men with wrinkles

i love you men with hairy bodies

i love you men with little or no hair

i love you bald and balding men

i love you men with long hair

i love you men with short hair

i love you men with medium hair

i love you short men

i love you tall men

i love you average height men

i love you insecure men

i love you confident men

i love you men who are inbetween insecure and confident

i love you men who struggle with internal misogyny and/or misandry

i love you men who are finally comfortable in their skin

i love you men who are learning to love themselves

i love you men who slowly deprogramming internalized self hatred

i love you men who havent started their journey of self love yet

i love you men who are/have something i didnt mention

i love you men

and i will always love you!!!!!!

THIS POST IS FOR MEN- ANY AND ALL MEN

ily :]

#tdahbposting #i love men #no negativity on this post or i will block you and delete what you said <3 #misandry #transandrophobia #positivity #positivity for men #masculine #men #men positivity #body posititivity #gender positivity #sexuality positivity #terfs fuck off

[thedevilandhisbride]

i love being a man

i love being man adjacent

i love being a man who is connected to girlhood

i love being seen as a man

i love the idea of having a full beard

i love the idea of having a flat chest

i love the idea of having a deep voice

i love the idea of being a father

i love the idea of being a husband

i love the idea of going on testosterone

i love the fact that one day i will get all those things

i love the fact that even though i am not where i want to be in my transition, i am still a man

i am a man

and i love being one

i love loving men and i love being a man who loves men

there is nothing wrong with loving being a man or loving loving men

im hopelessly full of joy and pride and love for men and for my own male identity everytime i go online and see myself addressed as such, or every time my sister calls me her brother, or everytime my mom mentions im going to be an uncle, or whenever my brother brings me into doing inherently men related tasks in my household

and nothing will stop me from spreading that joy

manhood and masculinity are experiences that can be, should be, and are full of joy and love and positivity

i love being a man, and i love loving men

dont derail this post or reblog it changing what i said. this post is about men. nothing you say or do will change the fact that this post is about being a man and loving men!

#tdahbposting #this post does not mean i dislike women. i love women. i have a girlfriend who i would die for and i still identify with womanhood. #do not misconstrue my words #masculinity #masculine #men #men positivity #boy positivity #positivity #positivity for men #misandry #transandrophobia #i love men #i love you men #i love being a man #transmasc #transmasculine #trans men #trans man #transmisandry #transgender

[thedevilandhisbride]

I love you white people

I love you white men

I love you white women

I love you white gays

I love you white trans people

I love you white Europeans

I love you white Americans

This is what you sound like. Men are oppressors lol positivity for them is not needed and is actually gross. Before you call me a terf I’m literally trans

i also love white people! thank you so much for this addition! im very happy i sound like someone who loves people despite things they cannot change like race and who they are!

men are not oppressors :] the patriarchy and societal pressures regarding gender are oppressive!

men need positivity! as a trans person, you should understand that everybody needs positivity. this is how we support each other. you support womens rights and womens wrongs? i support them too! i also support mens rights and mens wrongs. your idea ‘women are perfect in every way’ and ‘men are evil and horrid creatures’ is toxic. you want to break down toxic masculinity? start by loving men for who they are: men. you do the same with toxic femininity. get your double standard out of my safe space!

trans people can be terfs too <3 i think the term floating around is baedeel? or tmerf for transmasculine exclusionary radical feminist.

i hope you realize that men and white people deserve love and positivity! there are so many types of men in the gender category, and so many types of white people in the race category!

being white and being a man, and being both, is not a bad thing.

stop turning your fight for womens rights into a hate parade for men.

stop turning your fight for black rights into a hate parade for white people.

you want to stop forced and community set segregation in our communities, for both race and gender? stop putting the other(s) down. this is not how we make progress. this is how we reverse it.

peace and love in the universe friend <3 i hope you realize that you are spewing terf and racist rhetoric and it inherently makes you a terf and a racist <3

and racism doesnt mean just white people hating black people! it is the discriminatory act of hating/hurting something in anyway because of the color of their skin

thanks for the ask! i love white people and i love men!

#tdahbposting #tdahbanswers #fuck terfs #fuck racists #racism #transandrophobia #misandry #transphobia #omg my first hate anon thank you so much for giving me a positivity post idea!

[thedevilandhisbride]

it hurts going online and trying to find ways to help yourself with your pd and just seeing a bunch of articles talking about how to help other people deal with YOU how to starve YOU of your needs how to ignore YOU

i just want to find ways to help myself and voice my needs properly with my npd and hpd, but all i am getting is page after page of how to deal with people like me. how to make people like me have a narc drop. how to ignore people like me. how to change people like me. how to get rid of people like me.

what about me helping me? why do people think we are incapable of change? we can be self aware. we can want to change. we can want to help ourselves. we arent bad people for having a disorder.

#tdahbposting #npd #hpd #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #actually histrionic #honestly histrionic #histrionic personality disorder #personality disorder #cluster b #im not a bad person #i want to be better #i want to feel better #i want to be able to get help #i want to feel BETTER. i really really do #but nobody else wants me to be better #they just want me to get out of their way #yet im selfish for wanting to change #yet im selfish for wanting to be better #for myself and for others #hypocritical ableism

[thedevilandhisbride]

good morning to everyone but this person

reminder that: - all systems are valid - self diagnosis is valid - no diagnosis is valid - all origins are valid - you&. are. valid. fake claim us all you want, because we are in the spot now where we are past hating ourselves for being plural. but we dont let you target others who are just trying to find themselves. be on the look out, yall. i dont care if you are anti-endo, pro-endo, endo neutral, whatever. syscourse or no syscourse, nobody deserves to be fake-claimed. be safe

#please reblog #especially if you are plural #important #tdahbposting #did #osdd #actually did #actually osdd #plural #actually plural #plural community #plurality #did community #osdd community #be safe #psa #important psa

[thedevilandhisbride]

happy 11th birthday to the first episode of hannibal TV, and happy early hannibal themed birthday to me!

thank you to my mom for being so awesome and getting me my awesomer yaoi cake in the only flavor i will ever eat- red velvet :]

and thank you mom, and all my friends, for dealing with me yelling about hannibal for the last year!

im happy to still be on this earth, and im gonna be happier being back in my hometown for my birthday and for the birth of my niece!

woohoo!

#tdahbposting #one year older #hannibal #hannibal nbc #nbc hannibal #hannigram #apéritif #my actual bday is on april 12th #which is on exactly a week! so birthday time now!!!

[thedevilandhisbride]

please spam me with boobs. bless.

#tdahbposting #boop boop yippee

[thedevilandhisbride]

i think its so funny that this person on my "i love men" post was like "i hate you [everything i said, including trans men]" and then upped it with "i love women" in place of everything i said

??? like cool? slay ig. women r cool too i love women (shout out to my girlfriend shes so hot you should be jealous) but men are the focus of that post

if i went to a post about women and said "i hate women!!!" and replaced all the positivity they said about women with men, i would be lynched.

what a double standard!

#tdahbposting #transandrophobia #misandry #i love men #men are wonderful and i would like to offer every man one (1) hug and/or kiss #or other act of physical or verbal intimacy that shows affection and care that they are comfy with

[thedevilandhisbride]

hey. puts my hand on your shoulder. do you know why a transgender man ate a salad. grips your shoulder with the force of a thousand suns. do you know why. leans in slowly. whispers in your ear. because he was a her before. he was a herbefore. violently sobs

#my mom told me this #i am a trans man #shes fired btw #tdahbposting #lgbt #lgbtq #transgender #trans #trans community

[thedevilandhisbride]

you will never be a real boy, pooner! 💖

everything, from your layout to the way you type, makes you so blatantly clockable as female.

YWNBAM.

L+bozo+nobody cares+nobody asked+mind your own business+you are transphobic+im laughing rn irl

"you'll never be a real boy" mfer do i look like pinocchio?

"clockable as female" ok misogynist, i see you 🙄

sorry im poking so much fun rn ive actually been having the best time of my life right now with my family who loves and accepts me as a trans man

your opinion of me does not matter <3 keep it to yourself, because it will never affect me <3 the only opinion about me that matters is my own, and im proud of myself and i love myself and my identity is me and i am a man <3

get a better hobby than trying to shit on people online lmao

#tdahbposting #tdahbanswering #transandrophobia #transphobia #misogny #misandry #rolling my eyes so hard rn #like fuck off lmao #get a job #get a life #im happy living mine! #okay time to go have my birthday dinner with my loving family who loves me for who i am

[thedevilandhisbride]

the whiplash i get from seeing fnaf movie theories then scrolling down to be hit with hannigram then seeing a shitpost then seeing an ofmd edit THEN seeing TWO HEART THROBBING GOMENS DIVORCE POSTS BACK TO BACK ALL IN ONE FUCKING LINE IS NOT DOING MY HEART ANY GOOD

#i literally cant take it #im losing my mind #why did all the fandom things have to happen in like THE SAME MONTH #gomens fans are still sobbing incoherently and ofmd is adding fuel to the fire and suddenly fnaf comes in and not only adds chemicals #to make the fire a prettier color but also to make it SEEN FROM OUTER FUCKING SPACE #tdahbposting #ofmd #good omens #hannigram #fnaf movie

[thedevilandhisbride]

hey. i need to give you a reminder. you always have room to grow. houses get torn down all the time, and new one get built in their place. the room you are stuck in can always get bigger. if not by tearing it down, then by renovating it.

that old house is not the one you are in now. it might be the same foundation, the same concrete, the same soil looking up to your rafters, but its not the same house. you are not the same person you were before.

no house, and no person, was truly good and perfect in the beginning. thats why houses are renovated. they are torn down. we learn from the mistakes of our past construction, and we make better houses. we learn from our past mistakes, and we do better. you are better. you are not a bad person now, even if you were before. take a look at the room you are trying to grow in.

do you have enough light? do you have water? fertilizer? do you oxygen? carbon dioxide? do you have the right tools you need to grow?

if you said no to any of that, then its okay. whether you are in a basement, or in an attic, or some box you cant get out of- you will be okay.

you will be okay.

break down a wall, and make a window. it doesnt need glass. it doesnt need a frame. it doesnt need to look pretty.

houses in construction are not pretty. renovations in progress are not pretty. it doesnt have to look pretty. it will never look pretty in the building state.

take the dew from the side of the wall, or the water from the gutters. it doesnt need to be clean. it doesnt need to be tasty. it just needs to be water.

go through the window, or the door if you have one, and get your hands in the dirt. grab it. soak it in. connect with it. get dirty. drench yourself in the soul of the soil. it doesnt have to be anything but dirt.

breath in the air. exhale. do it again. and again. breathe. feel it in your lungs. feel it. its air, and thats all that matters.

you are growing. do you see that? do you see that you are growing?

its okay if you cant. i can see you are growing. and im proud of you. did you hear that? im proud of you.

let yourself grow. build your own house. its your house, after all. its for you. your house is not for anyone else. make it for yourself. if that means you burn it down, or change the furninature, or move out completely, then so be it.

its your life. cultivate it into what you desire. and live it.

#tdahbposting #i had a bad day today and everything went to shit and i needed positivity #im not a bad person #but i was #im taking down the walls and im breaking every nail used #im proud of my foundation but im not proud of what was built on it without me #im growing #and im growing in my own home now. the home that i want #positivity #npd positivity #actually npd #borderline positivity #hpd positivity #aspd positivity #bipolar positivity #pd positivity #personality disorder #this is for pw personality disorders mainly but it can be for anyone #it should be for anyone #autism positivity #adhd positivity #disabled positivity #idk! positivity man! #text #love yourself #you dont have a life without you so live it to make the life you want #yknow

[thedevilandhisbride]

Bestie, what was the Hannibal news????

BESTIE I CANT EXPRESS THE JOY I FEEL GIVING YOU THIS INFORMATION

HANNIBAL S4 IS IN THE AIR!!!

mads mikkelsen said fuller has ideas, and that they 'arent getting any younger' (and says it would be reasonable for a post fall time jump) and they 'all want to go back'

the first article i linked was the first one out about this, and SO SO SO many other outlets have picked it up since!

THINGS ARE GETTING SERIOUS

#tdahbposting #tdahbanswering #mandavee #hannibal #hannibal nbc #mads mikkelsen #hannibal s4

[thedevilandhisbride]

im a good person im a good person im a good person i know i was bad but im good now im so much better ive grown ive changed ive learned im learning please im learning im learning please dont leave me dont replace me with someone who hates me you already have why wont you let me be with you you said you love me forever and i am your best friend in the whole world its recorded on the buildabear we traded please please please im sorry what did i do ill change ill change everything just please dont leave me not you please god not you you are all i have left i need you i need you dont leave me i cant live without you

#tdahbposting #vent #npd #hpd #narcissistic personality disorder #histrionic personality disorder #actually npd #actually autistic #actually hpd #honestly histrionic #narcissist #cluster b #narc crash #favorite person #repitition

[thedevilandhisbride]

ive been reblogging our flag means death stuff but i havent watched it. im gonna watch it today. i didnt know it was a romcom first of all, but i will keep you all updated

#tdahbposting #ofmd #our flag means death

[thedevilandhisbride]

my dad got so visibly and vocally annoyed with me talking about good omens and our flag means death he told me to shut up and go start a youtube channel. then started giving me genuine tips on the best way to record my fandom rants.

so anyways thats how my day is going.

#tdahbposting #good omens #our flag means death #this is After this morning where he told me to shut up and to get better interests and made me cry #so. guess i am starting a yt channel