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yinyinggie · 9 months

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things july taught me

if you want it, go and get it

you attract what you need

smile a bit more. sometimes life is more wonderful that way

its okay to be all over the place & to not have your life together

sometimes people let you down. thats okay

forgiving hurts and forgetting is easier but it will be okay. things take time to heal

talking to people actually helps sometimes…

the amount of effort you put into something may not directly translate to the results you want to see

trust your gut. its right.

its okay to be angry at those you once held dear

everything will be better in the end. maybe not alright, but better.

trust yourself > anyone else

cry about it. like actually. its so theraputic. cry about everything and nothing but don’t mope about it forever :-)

do what you love with 100%

dont be codependent on people — people will inadverdently hurt you in some way or another. depend on yourself first and foremost

its okay to be disappointed in those you hold close

sometimes people come for a season and they leave right after. give grace and be thankful for their presence, and don’t fixate on their leaving forever :”)

if it hurts you that badly, its not a small matter

love people so loudly they never doubt that they are loved

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yinyinggie · 10 months

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things june taught me

loving yourself before loving others will always come in clutch

its okay to restart things you've worked so hard for

sometimes friendship hurts, that's normal

people will walk away from you. don't take it personally

sometimes people will choose to hurt you and that's on them, not you

and sometimes you fuck up a little. that's also fine. part of being human is forgiving yourself

find those who are willing to stick with you through stuff, not just tell you that everything is going to be alright

it's okay to doubt. sometimes we need that extra bit of reassurance and that's totally okay

count your blessings. remember those who were there for you, and pay it forward

people change and its not because of you

sometimes, sucking it up is the best option

no need to force yourself into places which you don't fit into

find that place that you fit into. let it come naturally. you attract things you need.

make the effort for the friendships. yes connection is good, but make the connection last

priorities should be priorities.

you cannot juggle more than 3 things on your plate at any given time. actually you can but you will not get it done well

be patient. good things are coming. better things are coming.

emotional maturity will get you places

delusional hours can be fun, actually

stop reading too much into things, you're hurting yourself

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yinyinggie · 1 year

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dropping by to remind you that it is okay to:

♡ not have it all together

♡ not feel comfortable with the people you love 24/7

♡ not feel like doing anything at all

♡ feel upset at yourself ( just don’t dwell on it for too long! )

♡ feel angry / irritated / unhappy

♡ be tired

♡ take a break for yourself

🤍 you are loved / heard / seen / wanted. 🤍

with love,

ying.

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yinyinggie · 8 months

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if you haven't heard it today, let it be known that i'm very very very proud of you!

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yinyinggie · 1 year

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becoming the best you

don't compare yourself to other people

jealousy doesn't breed anything good!

put yourself and your basic needs first, then others ; you have always been there for yourself

trust your gut instinct. if you feel like something isn't right, it usually isn't.

consistency in everything.

if its not a hell yes, it's a no

have at least 20 minutes of active and intentional movement every day!

always keep learning – read the newspaper daily, use wordle or play some word games, anything to keep your mind active and happy

walk with your shoulders pulled back slightly. not in the haughty/stuck up way, but one that you can show your confidence when you walk

find an outlet for your anger and use that instead of lashing out elsewhere. journaling has been proven to be good for you and your thoughts! plus it's a secret ;)

don't look down on others, treat everyone with respect and kindness like you'd do with your friends!

smile at strangers!!! this just makes me incredibly happy even when i'm having a bad day

treat yourself to something once in a while; bring yourself out on a solo date!

listen and keep to your boundaries – if you find yourself wanting to change your boundaries for a person, that's not healthy

always always always self reflect!

don't be a doormat for others – let your stand be known, don't be a pushover and stand firm in your beliefs.

live for yourself, not for the gram! not everything has to be pretty and perfect. life is ugly sometimes and that's alright.

stop idolising people – it hurts even more when they disappoint you.

don't be afraid to call out your friend's bullshit (politely, though). sometimes people need a wake-up call and it might be efficient if it's coming from a friend than anyone else.

cut off people who you know aren't good for you. it's alright to still talk to them, but if you know that you're already falling apart by being with them, cut. them. off. do it for yourself.

be patient with yourself. things take time, you aren't perfect.

stop putting other people's problems above yours. your problems are important too.

wake up early, wake up well

having a small group of close friends are all you need – no need for huge friend groups you see on pinterest/instagram!

use social media intentionally! keep your mind active while it's on, and make sure to consume media that makes you happy – not just depressing news sites

eat three meals a day ; especially breakfast. absolutely breakfast.

drink. water. you should be drinking at least 6 cups a day.

your own company > anyone else's.

make sure to look at your posture every now and then! straighten that back – especially people who work from home.

if you feel like you're starting to get sick, take medication and nip it in the bud. don't wait til it gets worse and you'll be suffering from all the symptoms at its worse stage.

listen to music in the morning and in the shower – those are great mood boosters!

your hygiene is important. wash yourself daily, especially in places where sweat gets trapped!

picking a few signature scents for yourself makes a difference in your mood!

#– ying.talks #– ying.falling in love with the world ♡

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yinyinggie · 7 months

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love exists in my life! it exists when my parents offer to send me home because she knows i'm exhausted. it exists when friends check up on me because they notice that i haven't been emotionally present for a while. it exists when my dad thinks about getting a new mouse because he knows that i love valorant. it exists when online friends see my discord status and they want to know i'm alright, even though we're oceans apart. it exists in the delivery acai my friend got for me when she knew i had my wisdom tooth surgery. it exists in the playlists the friend group collaborates on. it exists in sending reels because of remembrance. it exists in the "hey-i-thought-of-you" gifts that a friend got for me, and it exists! it exists, and i love love.

#– ying.talks #– ying.falling in love with the world ♡

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yinyinggie · 9 months

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the inherent beauty of being alive! there is much to be thankful for

#– ying.talks #daisies on the grass butterflies flitting about dandelions cloudless skies cloudy skies skies that look like theyve been painted by monet #heart shaped birthmarks weird shaped birthmarks paw prints in cement frogs hiding in brick cracks raindrop stains on glass #perfumes that you love with your whole being that they become your signature scent the distant & familiar melody of a neighbour singing #trinkets that lie on your windowsill from people who “thought of this when i saw you” the scent of home that stick to bedsheets #polaroids with tape that is peeling and dried flowers from celebrations and freshly refilled flower vases with fresh flowers from outside #people who say i love you without hesitation because they have so much love to give #i love you! i love you. and you and you and you. i can go on and on #– ying.falling in love with the world ♡

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yinyinggie · 1 year

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PSPSPSPS YINGGG about the advice thing teehee

do you have advice on forming and keeping meaningful relationships? idk why i always have so much trouble with this TT

forming meaningful relationships

give them time!

the right people will come to you at the right time, stay patient and trust that there will be people for you :)

you can also reach out to people who give you good vibes and who make your gut feel good! your instincts never lie

learn how to attune yourself to other people's emotions – people pick up on these things and you naturally attract others.

remember to always love yourself first, before loving others! being satisfied and content with yourself helps you to look for the good in others than comparing yourself at first glance.

watch how people interact with others! if there are people who naturally treat others with respect and kindness, gravitate towards them.

also try looking for people with things past a common ground! it's nice to form friendships where you like the same things, but it's typically not telling of who they are as a person as well :")

if they do things that hurt you, don't take it too personally – especially if it wasn't directed at you. it sucks to see that side of them but we all have those days

always follow up after you've met someone! invite them to hang out, get lunch together, go somewhere that lies within your common ground! it's always nice to get to know someone better, especially after you've hit it off.

always, always, always be yourself. attract people with your own personality, not someone else!

don't wait on someone to ask for your help – go ahead and offer! this shows that you take your relationship with them seriously and you're a good friend. they'll come back – not just for your help.

try to respond quickly! (i'm not the best at this) responding fast allows people to understand that you're here for them. while sometimes, responding in 2 days can't be helped, just try hehe

don't be too judgemental. sometimes it ends up clouding our opinion of them and it gets hard to see the good parts of them after a while. it's alright to have an opinion, but don't let it take over your entire relationship!

ask them about their love language, if you've been acquaintances for a while but you want to be better friends! people usually don't mind this question and it can even be a fun ice breaker. this also establishes their boundaries (e.g. they're not comfortable with physical touch, but they love encouragement and one-on-one friend time)

pick your battles – especially if you disagree with them about something. it's good to make a stand but it's not good to keep arguing with them all the time; so pick your battles to fight. it's okay to agree to disagree.

show up for them! if they've had a bad day, talk to them, ask them if they want to talk about it. chances are, they'd come to you when you're having a bad day too.

a secret is a secret.

ask them if they want advice, or comfort. differentiating between the two is highly important because it could really go either way. always ask before giving.

be genuine! be authentic! be yourself! it's always 100% guaranteed that you'd find people with you're you.

have fun, and be patient! these relationships take time to form. trust that there will be people. you got this!!

#hi misha thanks for popping by!!#– ying.talks #– ying.falling in love with the world ♡#advice #relationship tips

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yinyinggie · 9 months

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if you see this, please tell your inner child that you’re proud of em. they need it

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yinyinggie · 11 months

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i love the way my friends love. the way we brush each others hair and do each others makeup. we bring sanitary pads for each other because we can tell whos on their period and who isn't, and we have a calendar to input whenever and whoever's free to go out and whatnot. we text each other to coordinate outfits and we go to the beach and the park and have our silly little picnics and play valorant and roblox together in our silly little gamer girls group. we spot each others makeup and bring an extra for whoever wants to use it. we ask each other out for lunch on tuesday afternoons when our breaks overlap with each other and we always bring extra hair ties even when we can't find out own and we stay up late to talk to each other even though we haven't finished our assignments yet but we make time!! we make time for each other and thats why i love the way my friends love

#personal !!!#– ying.talks #cw period mention #i love my girlies forever and ever #a s k m r y <3 #– ying.falling in love with the world ♡

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yinyinggie · 1 year

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2022's to-do/currents!

reads: • the song of achilles • the mysterious benedict society (book 2) • accounting for dummies • glass sword • king's cage • war storm • you've reached sam • it's not summer without you • the summer i turned pretty (reread)

shows: • the good place ( s4 ) • gilmore girls ( s2 ) • extraordinary attorney woo • what's wrong with secretary kim • the big bang theory ( s1 ) • fresh off the boat ( s2 ) • kim's convenience ( s2 ) • the dragon prince ( s4 ) [ to-watch ]

animes: • given • kono oto tamare ( s1 ) • spyxfamily ( part 2 ) • blue lock ( s1 ) • komi can't communicate ( part 2 ) • ouran high school host club ( rewatch )

#– ying.falling in love with the world ♡

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yinyinggie · 1 year

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its almost 12am where i’m at, so happy new year to you all :) its been a wonderful year on tumblr (it’ll be my first blog anniversay in 2 days!) and i hope all of you will have a prosperous year ahead :^) ❤️

with love,

ying. 🤍

#– ying.talks #– ying.self development ♡#– ying.falling in love with the world ♡

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yinyinggie · 1 year

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2022's completed!

completed reads: • the school of good and evil • digital minimalism • the summer i turned pretty • diary of anne frank • will grayson, will grayson • the fault in our stars • red queen • the secrets we keep • rage / retaliate • the school of good and evil

completed movies: • the school of good and evil • way of the househusband • shang-chi • endgame • top gun maverick • shazam • central intelligence • jurassic world : dominion • crazy rich asians • clueless • the princess diaries • black widow

completed shows / animes: • HSMTMTS ( s1 / s2 / s3 ) • she-hulk • doogie kamealoha ( s1 ) • dream home makeover ( s1 / s2 ) • the mysterious benedict society ( s1 ) • the dragon prince ( s1 / s2 / s3 ) • the dark crystal : age of resistance • horimiya • komi can't communicate ( part 1 ) • spyxfamily ( part 1 ) • ouran high school host club

#– ying.falling in love with the world ♡

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yinyinggie · 2 years

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i love late night calls with xia's typing noise and koi sobbing over sad songs and quill at who knows where (jk love u babe) and j crying over math and i just sit back and listen to my music all happy and contented *(*´∀｀*)☆

#biiiiiiiiiiiiiig love #– ying.talks #– ying.falling in love with the world ♡

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yinyinggie · 2 years

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change is scary but you'll get through it i know you will

#all the hugs darlings #– ying.talks #– ying.self development ♡#– ying.falling in love with the world ♡

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yinyinggie · 2 years

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protect your energy my liege

#– ying.talks #– ying.falling in love with the world ♡

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