#Enboy

[erinelliotc]

A few years ago I used to be that annoying "transmasc lesbians don't exist, this shit is harmful and invalidates both transmascs and lesbians" person, and now I'M the transmasc lesbian. Seems like the tables have turned, huh?

I've spent so many months, years, trying so hard to fit into these categories that I saw so many people talk about as if it were the definitive truth, and this shallow and simplistic vision seems to be gaining a lot of attention and traction here in Brazil. Isn't it ironic to free yourself from cisnormativity and heteronormativity and all these binary boxes to find yourself again trying to fit into other boxes and norms that don't actually describe your experience correctly? Because your experience with gender is so chaotic and confusing (as expected of a nonbinary identity, and even more so if you're neurodivergent too) that there's no simple way to describe it. Then when you find out what describes this, people say you can't identify yourself that way because two or more of your identities are "incompatible". I see people treating non-binarity as if it were an exact science, as if it were math, as if it were something simple and logical, as it is precisely the escape from what has been established in our society as the only two possible options, generating countless identities within a gray area outside this black and white vision, so of course it's something complex, abstract and subjective.

EDIT: One of my reasons for thinking this way was that I ignored that the transgender experience and the cisgender experience aren't and will never be equivalent. It's obvious that a cis man can't be a lesbian, but the same doesn't go for transmasc people, and I thought that admitting that was the same as being transphobic, denying the masculinity of transmascs, denying their male identity. I already had a debate on Twitter because people didn't want to admit that trans men and transmasc people in general can suffer misogyny and male chauvinism (as society can still see and treat us as women) because they also saw it as the same as saying transmasc people are women. The identity of trans people is a very complex experience that involves a series of factors that cis people will never experience. We cannot equate the trans experience with the cis experience.

I thought identifying as a butch lesbian was enough to describe my masculinity, but I realized that I felt like it didn't encompass everything I felt, I still felt like something was missing. Preventing and depriving myself of identifying with more explicit masculine identities was actually making me feel bad and dysphoric. So yeah, I've been avoiding identifying with male-aligned identities because I thought that would mean having to stop identifying as a lesbian, and I didn't want that, and I don't really feel like calling myself straight makes any sense.

I have a text in Portuguese talking about my experience as a butch lesbian, and I feel that now it also serves to describe my experience as a nonbinary transmasc (the part where I talk about not identifying with "traditional masculinity", but with a "different type", like "soft masculinity", is directly related to the fact that, in addition to being nonbinary, I don't identify as a man, I don't feel comfortable with the term "man", but rather with "boy"). I spent a few months wondering whether I was libramasculine or boyflux, and I ended up deciding that if I can't identify which one I am, maybe it makes more sense to just adopt both identities, maybe I am both then! I'm tired of trying to fit into supposed rules about being nonbinary. This is exactly how non-binarity shouldn't be. I'm supposed to feel free, not trapped again. My identity is my identity and that's nobody's business.

#lesbian #transmasc #butch #butch positivity #butch lesbian #sexuality #gender #gender identity #queer #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lesbianity #trans #nb #enby #gender noncomformity #gender nonconforming #desfem #non binary #nonbinary #masculinity #gnc #transgender #libramasculine #boyflux #nonbinary boy #nonbinary butch #enboy

[fishinsideabirdcage]

give me y'all's flags I'll make em flowers

#queer #genderqueer #asexual #ace #bisexual #bi #non binary #enby #nb #enboy

[cypric-rat-hyperfixation]

"running rattos" I'm bothering to archive from my soon-to-be-slaughtered Redbubble shop

(why?)

#art #rats #fancy rat #ratblr #pride #art but it was made by me specifically #chibi #ratpunk #ratcore #trans #queer #lesbian #princegender #mogai #mogaireal #microlabels #enboy #maverique #mlm #achillian #pansexual #pan #nonbinary #asexual #ace #aromantic #aro #lgbtq #philly gay #philidelphia gay flag

[genderstarbucks]

Bigender Enboy | Bigender Girlby

Bigender enboy and girlby flags but with the original bigender flag

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #bigender #enboy #nonbinary boy #girlby #nonbinary girl #needs id

[redacted-coiner]

Xenboy, Enboy, Xengirl

Xeminine, Engirl, Xensculine

Masculine, Xenine, Feminine

DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag!

@ijustwannamakeemojis

#🎨 post #liom #mogai #liomogai #Xenboy #Xengirl #Xeminine #Xensculine #Engirl #Enboy #Masculine #Xenine #Feminine #Xenic #Enby #pride #pride emote #pride emoji #pride pixels #pride pixel

[mogayis-socool]

🍡 Lesenman

― For beings who are both lesbians and enmen (nonbinary men). Made to describe orientation but can also describe gender.

#lesboy #lesenboy #lesman #boydyke #dykeboy #enboy #enman #non binary #nonbinary #nonbinary lesbian #trans lesbian #transbian #lesbian #lesbian men #nonbinary men #liom safe #liom community #liom #liom term #liom coining #liom flag #liom identity #liom label #mogai flag #mogai #liom blog #liom friendly #liom gender #liom heaven #liomogai

[areyouthisidentity-polls]

Are you...

Enboy, also known as guyby and menby, is a term for someone who is a non-binary man. It can be used by anyone who identifies as both a man and as non-binary.

Mod Note: Nonbinary Man / Boy will be posted separately, as not everyone identifies as/with 'enby' sublabels.

#poll #tumblr poll #polls #tumblr polls #gender #neogender #mogai gender #mogai #lgbt #queer #enboy #guyby #menby #nonbinary #man #masc gender

[neopronouns]

flag id: four flags with 7 stripes. the top left flag's stripes are medium dark pinkish-red, red-pink, bright pink, light pink, very light pink, light sky blue, and red-pink. the top right flag's stripes are medium dark pinkish-red, red-pink, bright pink, light pink, very light pink, very light yellow, and light sky blue.

the bottom left flag's stripes are near-black, very dark red, dark red, red, faded red, light sky blue, and red-pink. the bottom right flag's stripes are near-black, very dark red, dark red, red, faded red, very light yellow, and light sky blue. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

lovecoritrasc | lovecorienboy gorecoritrasc | gorecorienboy

lovecoritrasc: a gender related to lovecore in a transmasculine way; a transmasculine lovecoric gender

lovecorienboy: a gender related to lovecore in a nonbinary boy way; a nonbinary boy lovecoric gender

gorecoritrasc: a gender related to gorecore in a transmasculine way; a transmasculine gorecoric gender

gorecorienboy: a gender related to gorecore in a nonbinary boy way; a nonbinary boy gorecoric gender

[pt: gorecoritrasc | gorecorienboy

lovecoritrasc: a gender related to lovecore in a transmasculine way; a transmasculine lovecoric gender

lovecorienboy: a gender related to lovecore in a nonbinary boy way; a nonbinary boy lovecoric gender

gorecoritrasc: a gender related to gorecore in a transmasculine way; a transmasculine gorecoric gender

gorecorienboy: a gender related to gorecore in a nonbinary boy way; a nonbinary boy gorecoric gender. end pt]

for @gender-mailman! colors are from the lovecoric, gorecoric, transmasculine, and enboy flags.

tags: @radiomogai | dni link

#lovecoritrasc #lovecorienboy #gorecoritrasc #gorecorienboy #lovecoric #gorecoric #transmasculine #nonbinary boy #enboy #tmingender #tmin #aesthetigender #my flags #my terms #new flag #new term #mogai flag #mogai term #mogai

[caeliangel]

IMAGE ID. 3 rectangular flags with 7 stripes that are, in order: dark magenta, orange, bright yellow, white, light turquoise, blue, black. END OF ID.

୨୧ • transneumasc enboy

︵︵︵︵︵︵★ ꒱ explanations :

a flag for transneumasc enboys

PT. transneumasc enboy. explanations. a flag for transneumasc enboys. END OF PT.

#mogai #liom #radinclu #⚰️︰︵︵ rise the flag #🥩︰︵︵ the food is here #transneumasc #enboy #enbyboy #transneumasc enboy #enboy flag #transneumasc flag #radinclu flags

[sage-writes-n-coins-mogai]

Enboydollic

A gender related to being a nonbinary boy and a doll. This was made with dollkin in mind enboys but is not exclusive :3

#sage’s liom coins #sage’s gender coins #mogai coining #mogai term #mogai label #liom coining #liomogai #liom gender #mogai flag #mogai gender #mogai identity #enboy #dollkin

[prideflagcontest]

#enboy #polls #lgbtq+ #garfcatgender #round one

[mogaiboy]

Nonbinary Boy!!

Non-Binary Man, Non-Binary Boy, or Enboy refers to someone who identifies both as a boy and as non-binary. This can be for several reasons, including but not limited to:

- Being man/boy-aligned, man/boy-related, or masculine-aligned.

-Being non-binary and identifying partly as a boy (eg. demiboy or libramasc).

- Being bigender or otherwise multigender with at least one gender being male or related to male.

- Being genderfluid, primarily between male and non-binary.

- Being gendervast and having a gender that can be described as both non-binary and male.

- Having a gender that is similar to, but not the same as, binary boy (eg. proxvir).

- Being in someway connected to manhood/boyhood without being a man/boy, such as having experiences similar to that of a man/boy.

- Being non-binary but feeling comfortable with he/him pronouns and/or a masculine presentation, and calling oneself a man/boy to express that association.

The term nonbinary boy was coined by Deviant Art user @Pride-Flags on January 17th, 2017

Sorry I just died I kinda just forgot I existed 💀

#mogai #mogai gender #mogai genders #mogai boy #boy mogai #nonbinary boy #nonbinary man #enboy

[genderstarbucks]

whats it called when ur only attracted to nonbinary men?

Nbymasexual / Nbywomasexual!!

Nbymaromantic is a term for those who are exclusively romantically attracted to nonbinary men / enboys / menbys / masculenbys. This says nothing about their sexual orientation.

Nbymasexual is a term for those who are exclusively sexually attracted to nonbinary men / enboys / menbys / masculenbys. This says nothing about their romantic orientation.

Nbywomaromantic is a term for those who are exclusively romantically attracted to nonbinary women / girlbys / fenbys / femienbys. This says nothing about their sexual orientation.

Nbywomasexual is a term for those who are exclusively sexually attracted to nonbinary women / girlbys / fenbys / femienbys. This says nothing about their romantic orientation.

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #masexual #womasexual #nonbinary boy #nonbinary man #nonbinary girl #nonbinary woman #enboy #girlby #menby #fenby #masculenby #femienby

[themogaidragon]

Can you help with something?

I feel MALE, but I don't rightly know what male IS.

What it's SUPPOSED to feel like.

It just feels like...faux male? Knock-off male? Male substitute? Idk...

Basically, my identity is that I feel male, but not a NATURAL kind of male. Like, a fake or artificial male.

It may be autism screwing with my perceptions again, it may be dysphoria, I don't rightly know...

Is there any labels I could be that is like this?

(Also, I don't want to define myself with the Autiboy label. It just makes me uncomfy. If that's all there is that sounds similar tho, still tell me.)

Thank you lots! /pos

Hi! They are some terms that sounds similar to your experience. Here they are:

Offboy: a gender that closely represents/is most closely represented by being z boy, but is not a boy. Can be likened to what the color off-white is to white for descriptive purposes.

Autimain: a neurogender exclusive to autistic people. It can be described as a male gender through a genderless lense. Someone who is autimain may feel male while also having a disconnect from gender all together due to neurodivergence.

Neuroenboy: Feeling male but also non-binary due to neurodivergency (The person’s neurodivergence causes a disconnection from gender). Basically, being a enboy due to neurodivergence

Dullboy: a gender in which feels masculine aligned, but very muted.

Neurodullboy: Feeling a connection to masculinity but it feels dull and muted due to neurodivergency (The person’s neurodivergence causes a disconnection from gender). Basically, being a dullboy due to neurodivergence.

Indistiboy: a gender that is blurry, hard to make out, and indistinct that is close to or may fully be a boy.

Neuroindistiboy: Feeling a connection to masculinity but it feels blurry, hard to make out and indistinct due to neurodivergency (The person’s neurodivergence causes a disconnection from gender). Basically, being a indistiboy due to neurodivergence.

Altegender: a xenogender in which one's gender feels as though it is in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence. One may have an understanding of their gender, but it feels distant. It can be combined with other genders to form more specific genders, such as altegirl, alteboy, or altenonbinary.

Proxvir: a gender strongly connected to masculinity, in a way that is different from how men may be connected to masculinity. Proxvir is an identity that is seperate from other genders, and may be described as a masculine-aligned gender or a mingender, that is not man-aligned or miaspec, and has no connection to manhood.

Paraboy: a gender identity that is close to being a boy, but not exactly, a boy. For instance, someone who is a paraboy may feel that their gender is near to, but not quite male/masculine.

#paragender #paraboy #proxvir #altegnder #alteboy #neuroindistiboy #indistiboy #neurodullboy #dullboy #autimain #offboy #offgender #neuroenboy #enboy #MIN #neurogender #UIN #uingender

[crewserboxes]

[ID: a userbox that reads “this user is enboy” with an image of the enboy flag]

#enboy #yellow #userbox #soft aesthetic #softcore #cute userboxes #aesthetic #pastel aesthetic #image id #mod azzie; 🌸

[losergendered]

ID: a set of 6 images in 3 pairs. each has one image of the listed house md character with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Gregory House from House M.D. is a bi gay transsexual pendogender man with PTSD, depersonalization disorder, and depression who uses he/shem pronouns!

He is in a relationship-friendship-weird-gay-thing with James Wilson, who is a gay transsexual intersex enboy with autism spectrum disorder and ADHD, who uses he/him pronouns!

Lisa Cuddy is also there. She's a communist.

For anon!

#bi gay man #pendogender #enboy #mogai #mogai headcanon #bi gay #needle /