#cluster b tiktok

[thatadhdmood]

PSA

Cluster b disorders: borderlines, narcissists, avoidants and antisocials, aren't abusive

"Narc abuse" "borderline abuse" "sociopathic abuse" don't exist because a disorder cannot be abusive

Abusive people are abusive the disorder doesn't determine that because most cluster b disorder people would rather kill themselves than hurt someone else

#bpd #cluster b personality disorder #cluster b #personality disorder #cluster b disorders #cluster b awareness #suicide tw #suicide #suicide mention #sociopath #sociopath disorder #narcissistic personality disorder #borderline personality problems #bpd tiktok #mental illness #cluster b tiktok #personality disorder tiktok

[eclaire-went-bam]

GUYS NOT TO GATEKEEP BUT IF YOU'RE FROM TIKTOK PLEASE DON'T BASE WHETHER OR NOT YOU'RE NEURODIVERGENT (literal different BRAIN) OFF ONE QUESTION ??? 😭😭

my parents use tiktok and according to them, something that's viral right now is the question "what does 7 and 2 have in common??" (which i noticed instantly ! i was asked that when i was assessed for autism) & i haven't seen the tiktoks myself, but based on how they acted, they made it seem like if you answer anything other than "they're numbers," you're autistic ????????

so now my mom thinks she's neurodivergent — which could be very possible! i am NOT trying to discredit that possibility knowing the underdiagnosis of autism & it IS suspicious that i'm the only one in my immediate family with diagnosed autism when it's a genetic thing

however, she called my sister neurotypical (Like Her Dad™) for not answering in a 💕neurodivergent way💕, which is harmful when we really can't know for sure (and she suspects she has adhd too 😭)

and said sumn like "but that's okay i'm just neurodivergent and that's okay! everyone thinks differently"

YOU CAN BE NEUROTYPICAL AND STILL HAVE DIFFERENT THOUGHT PROCESSES FROM OTHER HUMANS THAT'S STILL POSSIBLE !! EVERYONE'S NOT EXACTLY THE SAME !!!! ONE question without any further research on neurodivergence & reflection is NOT gonna be a reliable way of telling whether or not you're neurodivergent !!!!

thank you psa over

#neurodivergent #tiktok #autism #actually autistic #adhd #dyslexia #tourettes #schizophrenia #down syndrome #sensory processing disorder #cluster a #cluster b #cluster c #there are other neurodivergencies obv but i don't feel like tagging a whole lot #but this one is mainly about 💕autism💕 #asd

[myaspdnpdnotes]

A friend (now no longer) drove me home the other day and the conversation revealed he believes people with personality disorders ~change their voices~ when their ~other personality~ comes out

Let me tell you I almost put his head through the steering wheel

#he admitted his so-called research is TikTok and Google #I hate that app for a reason #ableism #personality disorder #antisocial personality disorder #narcissistic personality disorder #npd #aspd #cluster b #multiple personality disorder #actually npd #actually aspd #npd tag #npd thoughts #aspd tag #aspd thoughts #aspd feels #the youth are fucking dumb and brainwashed #npd culture is #npd posting #npd vent #actually narcissistic #vent

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

NPD culture is hating pick-me narcissists so fucking much

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#that one mf on tiktok . #npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b

[literallyagod]

Honestly, saw a video a bit ago on tiktok. Some shit about "destigmatizing ASPD", which was all cool and shit. It was a woman responding to someone who fakeclaimed her, she said some stuff about ASPD and spoke about how she was trying to destigmatize it. Which, again, cool and all, but I go into the damn comments and GOD DAMN. The amount of demonization of NPD I saw there. Literally saw people trying to diagnose the person who fake claimed her with NPD, saying she was Narcissistic for fake claiming her, ect. And it really pissed me off, cause like... Couldn't she have deleted those comments at least? God damn. I hate it.

#i hate tiktok #i hate everything #might be going through a crash #cant tell #actually npd #npd #actually narcissistic #cluster b #narcissistic personality disorder #actually cluster b #anti endo #npd safe #endos DNI #i will literally explode

[sugartoxin]

I’m a judgmental bitch so I gotta share how uncomfortable those mental illness “help guide” Tumblr posts make me.

SOME of them are fine, offer good tips, and are self aware that not everybody with said mental illness is going to find help in what’s being suggested. However. A LOT of them are presenting themselves as guides to “cure” your mental illness AND talk as if what they are suggesting applies to everybody with whatever disorder they are speaking about, meanwhile, putting down others with more severe and either harder to manage or incapable of managing symptoms.

This has always bothered me because there is a portion of mentally ill people that are incapable of doing what is suggested or are experiencing their symptoms in a much more severe way than the majority of people do. Knowing you are incapable of managing your symptoms in a way that seems to work for so many others and being promised a “cure” for your symptoms, while also being told that you’re a harmful trope and not a real representation of a disorder, IS SO FUCKED UP.

If you’re sitting down to make a post that says: “Real people with (this disorder) never act in (this negative way) and are just media tropes, stereotypes, etc.” OR “If you have (this disorder), this is how you can cope with severe symptoms if you failed to before and eventually, these symptoms will get better or go away!!”

I think you’re excluding a portion of us that DO act in those ways and ARE INCAPABLE of relieving our symptoms with whatever treatment we are given, including self help. Instead of showing kindness and support for that, you constantly try to put us down and say we don’t exist!!

JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN MANAGE YOUR SYMPTOMS AND DON’T LET YOUR SYMPTOMS STUNT YOUR DAILY LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS, IT DOESN’T MEAN THAT EVERYBODY IS CAPABLE OF DOING SO.

#💕 #Tumblr therapists are no better than TikTok therapists #I SEE THIS A LOT! in the BPD and psychotic tags! #I have both BPD & schizophrenia with very severe symptoms so! #mental illness #cluster b #actually cluster b #bpd #actually bpd #actually borderline #borderline personality disorder #loud bpd

[marcys-garbage-bunker00]

My bad for being on Tiktok but like

The ampunt if ableism towards cluster bs, specially NPD is jusy fucming horrifying

Someone was sharing their personal experiences dating their NPD bf and how they are amazing and none at all how they are shown in media and the replies? Everyone depseratedly trying to twist them as a victim, that their bf is probably cheating or abusing them, gaslighting them, figting tooth and nail to tell the person that they should live their bf qnd that they were in danger and whatever they soad was because of abusve and manipualtion

like

holy crap

Can you IMAGINE if they had said their bf had autism instead?

You wouldn't get it because Autusm is one of the "normal weird ones"

People FLIP the switch if anything else

They are SO caught up on media and internet culture they forget that there are billions more popele than the ones theyll ever meet irl or on the internet

They have this horribke concept

Like, my god

they were calling for literal genocide and imprisoment of all people woth NPD once the person managed to have them admit NPD is a medical condition

I was fucking mortified

How come Tumblr has been the only place ive seen people with NPD (and other Ckuster Bs, or hell, any of the "evil" mental disorders like DID, Schizohrenia, Sociopaths, etc) be able to peacefully exist, form communities and talk about struggles and other people can chime in and want to respectufkly kearn

The other day i got curious and looked it up on Quora and yup

more people demonziig

from calling them "irreparably evil", "inhertly manipulators and abusers", "souless and demon influenced", and of course, the usual "they should all be inprisoned/killed off for the sake of humanity"

I never seen such horrible dmeobizatiob of people with any sort of discapacity

i KNOW we all have suffered or stil lsuffer these and its not exclusive to NOD

but this was the first time i saw it with my own eyes just how abohrrrent this can look like and how wideslread and accept this is

I wanna cry genuinely, how people think "yes this is conpeltly nornal and reasonable, tresting people like thos surely won't resukt in anything bad"

God

rucjujg

Grah

Can we for once stop automatically labelling people born with things as demons, inhert evil or whatever??? please? I'm tired

i'm tired

#rant #vent #Quora #tiktok #narcissistic personality disorder #npd #narcissism #ableism #cluster b

[lifeisstrangebitch]

“#bpd” via tiktok @ goddess_rising

#goddess_rising #bpd #borderline personality disorder #actually bpd #actually borderline #neurodivergent #eupd #emotionally unstable personality disorder #cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #personality disorder #tiktok #tiktok videos #borderline problems #quiet borderline #borderline personality problems

[mugmaniscrazy]

My family infantile me because of my Autism I'm 18 with no access to tiktok . I heard that people are faking histrionic personality disorder IS THAT TRUE ? I want someone to post hpd tiktoks on YouTube for me thanks

#hpd vent #rant post #histrionic personality disorder #actually histrionic #cluster b #actually hpd #actually autistic #infantiles #tiktok

[eclaire-went-bam]

helppp first i catch my mom watching ableist "narc abuse" videos and now i see her watching ableist fear mongering bpd videos like is she targetting me ....

#tw ableism #npd #bpd #cluster b #she's branching out guys .... #bros targetting the two things i'm stuck with ain't no way #i remember she'd always highkey bully me when i was younger for not liking tiktok #because of how easy misinformation can be spread and how key details of information will be left out in short form content #And Yeah I Was Right. #i sincerely hopei wasn't the cause of this bcs a few years ago when i was questioning bpd i ordered some cluster b help book #but i didnt have a card at the time so i was like “heyyy don't mind this butnliiike... ^^” #or idk maybe she forgor abt it LMAO

[screamingdollxd]

Unpopular opinion that might get me dragged, but tiktok really ruined some of y’all’s comprehension of mental illnesses.

Especially for cluster b personality disorders. Then throwing around terms like narcissist and bipolar and ocd like they’re words to describe the weather instead of actual conditions that change the way people interact with themselves and the world around them. Like no, Danielle, your sister isn’t a narcissist for not being able to listen to you every time you need to vent, she can’t be emotionally available at all times.

Long story short tiktok simultaneously demonized and romanticized mental illness and i think we as a whole should take a step back to actually look at what the hell we’re even talking about before using terms wrong so often that they lose their true meaning entirely

Just remember that i’m not talking about everyone on tiktok doing this, but god if it isn’t the majority of tiktok

#mental health #tiktok #controversy #unpopular opinion #unpopular take #mental illness #bipolar #narcissistic personality disorder #obsessive compulsive disorder #cluster b #mental health awareness #stay informed

[i-spit-blood]

Wow.

#TikTok tf did I just say #i am raging with jealousy and sadness and grief and anger #vents&thoughts🍁⚔️ #bpd shit #envy #bpd anger #jealousy #i need a hug #i need love #actually bpd #bpd vent #actually hpd #actually cluster b #i want love #hpd vent #obsessive vent #obsessive love

[theprotagonistisdead]

my teacher was talking about how popular getting a degree in psychology has gotten in recent years, but that he couldn't figure out why. and I think that's an interesting thought, so pondered a bit. One of the possibilities is that people are recognizing that there aren't enough psychiatrists/therapists and people are struggling to find someone who'll treat them. Another option is that, at least in Germany (where we live), some of the qualifications have lowered and more people are able to get into a program. The last (and my least favorite) is that through all the armchair psychology that is happening online (especially on TikTok), a lot of people are flocking towards these programs, not knowing what is expecting them.

#Also I feel like a lot of the people coming from tiktok will have a lot of prejudices against certain ilnesses/disorders #especially cluster b types which will be VERY negative #and I'm not saying that everything on tiktok about this topic is bad #but a lot of people are going around diagnosiing others with disorders and illnesses based on what is basically a single glance #of a very faceted person and their life #and I'm not against all self-diagnosis but this is happening more and more and it's not good #reporting live from circe's island

[nalver]

starting a new gameshow Is It ADHD Or Just Trauma ⁉️ coming to tv soon

#im doing my annual routine of looking up signs of trauma and abuse #to preface: not in a tiktok 'everything is a cluster b disorder' manner but 'i wish to know more about this' way #and ive been noticing that some of the signs are the same/similar as adhd which are also the ones i think i struggle with #emotional dysregulation; irritability; issues with attention (on task or completing one); just your usual stuff #since my family (close & extended) have been in disagreement when i brought up the possibility of adhd- #-it might be just signs of trauma instead #which i neither agree or disagree with but it sure is something to think about for me #kind of an 'offtopic' thing is my parents telling me i cant possibly have adhd bc i wasnt hyperactive as a kid and the adhd kids they knew- #-were hyperactive #which i think is bull cuz you have stories from people with adhd who had this exact issue when getting diagnosed #but yeah idk anything about how these signs of trauma play out in practice i might just be mistaken #personal

[autopsyfreak]

tired of people on tiktok acting like BPD and HPD are the ‘good cluster b disorders’ or the ‘victim cluster b’s’ meanwhile NPD and ASPD are the ‘evil mean abusive cluster b’s’

stfu.

we’re in the same cluster for a reason, you can’t support some whilst demonising the others.

#actually aspd #actually npd #aspd #npd #clusterb #actually mentally ill #actuallyaspd #actuallynpd #cluster b #actually bpd #actuallybpd #actually narcissistic #actually antisocial #actually borderline #hpd #actually hpd #actually cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #antisocial personality disorder #narcissistic personality disorder #borderline personality disorder #histrionic personality disorder #narc abuse isnt real #narc abuse isn't real #npd positivity #aspd safe #aspd positivity #npd safe #npd vent #bpd safe

[twoheadedfather]

tiktok "leftists" when you ask them to be normal about people with cluster b or paraphilic disorders

#tw ableism #high emphasis on the paraphilic disorders but #once saw someone say that pwASPD were “scared” of people with autism because they could “suss them out” #i sat there. jaw dropped. what are you talking about #of course she didn't say “pwASPD” but... i'm not using the other word idgaf #sorry ik a lot of people make posts about this but god are they not lying #ableism #cluster b #aspd #npd #bpd #hpd #paraphilic disorder #leftists after they're asked to be leftist (IMPOSSIBLE CHALLENGE)