#fur children

[spoilmesweetie]

Jingle bells, jingle bells, something something, yawn!

#Christmas according to Flump #Flump the floof #christmas kitty #catsoftumblr #fur children #cat family #cute cat #isle of skye

[beelperuwu]

Fuck it, Here's some babies.

#puppies #fur children #Im technically the aunt bc my last dog was their father

[strawberryspiced]

(via "Pop Punk" Pet Blanket for Sale by Strawberry Spiced)

#findyourthing #redbubble #rbandme #pets #pet accessories #cats #dogs #pet blanket #furchild #fur children #cute blanket #art #shopping #animal #animal gift #xmas #gift ideas #abstract #pop art #lifestyle

[nopenototdaysatan]

<3<3<3<3<3<3<3

Hi friend!!! You have had the best timing on this as I'm sick and could use the pick me up. In return here's my loveable fluffball Dean:

He's a grumpy fluff that lives for cuddles! -Satan

#furson #fur children #mutuals #myfriends #i have a tag for dean from insta but I can't remember it. I'll fix that later.

[ktheqw]

For all the animals.

#candkwords #poetry #poemsbyme #haiku poetry #gippsland poets #haiku poem #gaza #original poetry #fur children #palestine israel war #poems and quotes

[littleghostie]

Christmas gifts for my brother & his wife

(I can post this here since they aren’t on here hehehe)

#ghostie draws #christmas #xmas 2023 #gift art #pets #cats #dog #fur children #illustration #digital

[last-capy-hupping]

Have two chapters of AWY, documenting parts one and two of Solstice Day, which my blorbos have decided is a very important day for smut, fluff, and family drama.

#silmarillion #maedhros #fingon #russingon #fanfic #silm au #modern au #sons of fëanor #nstf #fluff and love #smut #somehow still pining #fur children #nerdanel #celegorm #curufin #amrod and amras #aredhel #fingolfin #anaire #turgon #elenwe #argon

[thepittieburrow]

#cat #kitty cat #dog #family #animals #pitbull #adorable #apbt #pibble #puppy #cute #scardy cat #pittie parents #pets #boss #blog #fur children #dogs of tumblr #doglover #furbaby #funny #furry #pittie humor #happy #humor #home #hilarious #haha #love #life

[aqgarts]

This is Kelly.

Kelly is bestis girl.

If you don't love Kelly, you're dead to me (and everyone else, I will set loose an infection form).

Kelly makes me draw.

Kelly makes me make cursed shit.

She is my child.

I loaf her :3

#cats of tumblr #cute cats #cats #fur children #the floof

[spoilmesweetie]

#flump the floof #all the floof and none of the brains #cute cat #catsoftumblr #fur children #cat family #isle of skye

[feedingtheflockministry]

Coping With the Loss of a Companion Animal

“A righteous man has regard for the life of his animal, but even the compassion of the wicked is cruel.” Proverbs 12:10

Recently my wife and I had to make the very grievous decision of putting down our beloved golden retriever Honey Bear. She was a true blessing from God over the last twelve and half years. She was greatly loved by us, by extended family, and brightened up those she came in contact with in our community. I have lost other pets in the past through death and moving from place to place, but never experienced the pain and grief of losing Honey.

Upon receiving her urn and a plaster print of her paw we also received a short seven page pamphlet titled “Coping With the Loss of a Companion Animal | Support Guide for Families”. We found it to be helpful in the grieving process, and decided to share it with others that may have lost a furry family member or about to. We hope it helps in the grieving process, and our hearts go out to you in your time of loss.

Grief

Grief is a healthy and normal response to loss. Attempting to suppress feelings of grief can actually prolong the grieving process. Grief can feel like being lost. The familiar things we relied on to live each day are gone. We must find new anchors or stabilizers along the way and learn a new way of relating to the world and people around us. It is also common to replay the last moments of your pet’s life repeatedly in your mind, like a videotape that keeps playing the same scene over and over.

No one can hurry the process or provide a magic cure for grief. When grief is new, it is common to feel exhausted: physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Changes in appetite, sleeping patterns, or health are frequently reported. Those who are grieving often describe feelings of being out of control, isolation, and loneliness. Things that seemed so important before may now seem trivial. Others may experience a sense of “life isn’t fair” or being in a tunnel or fog while everyday life swirls around them.

“I HAD NEVER GONE THROUGH THE LOSS OF A PET AND IT HIT ME A LOT HARDER THAN I EXPECTED”

All of these feelings are normal and part of the grieving process, which follows no organized plan, rules, timetable, formula, or schedule. Don’t be surprised if you start to feel better, and then feel as if a wave has hit you. There will be ups and downs in the process of grieving.

The purpose of healthy grieving is not to “get over” the death of a loved one, but to integrate the experience of a pet’s death into present life. In this process, it is not unusual for certain memories of your pet to become blurred. This does not mean that you are forgetting your pet or that your love is diminished. The truth is, you will ALWAYS love this very special member of your family. The hope is that as time goes on, the feelings of sadness will become less difficult. In the beginning, you may be sad to think or talk about your companion animal. Eventually, the hope is that you will be able to talk and even smile or laugh at good memories.

“I THINK IT’S GODD TO HAVE SOMETHING TO READ BEFORE OR AFTER LOSING A PET. IT’S A REALLY NUMBING EXPERIENCE AND YOU MIGHT NOT WANT TO TALK, BUT READING SOMETHING IS QUIET AND REFLECTIVE THAT YOU CAN DO AT YOUR OWN PACE”

Guilt

Guilt and uncertainty are probably two of the most common emotions that people experience after the death of their pet. You may find yourself thinking continuously about what you perceive you could have, should have, or would have done to prevent or postpone your pet’s death Some suggestions for coping with guilt include:

1. Be truthful with yourself about why you feel guilty.

2. Write a letter to your pet expressing feelings you may be struggling with.

3. Do a reality check. Most people assume that if they had done something differently, the outcome would have been better. It’s just as likely, however, that if you had done things differently, the outcome would have been the same.

4. Remember that you are human. No one is perfect. Accepting your imperfections will aid you in working through your emotions.

5. Remember that all living things die. There is not always an answer to why bad things happen and you do not have to find someone (yourself or others) or something to blame. Realize that sometimes you are powerless and that you cannot control everything that happens to your loved ones. What you can control is how you choose to respond to the events that happen in your life

6. Try writing or talking to a trusted friend or advisor about your thoughts and feelings of guilt. Expressing your concerns in a safe and supportive environment can help you examine your emotions from a different perspective.

Seeking Support

While there is no standard duration for grief, the pain of loss normally eases with time. You can work through the process by applying healthy coping skills, such as talking with others about your memories and emotions and facing the grief, rather than trying to stay distracted or busy to avoid intense emotions. If your feelings . of sorrow or guilt have not diminished after several weeks or if they impair your ability to engage in family, social, work, or other functions, you may wish to reach out for support. Many people have found comfort in calling a pet loss support hotline, joining a pet loss support group, reading books about coping with the death of a pet, or talking with a trusted counselor or advisor.

Celebrate Your Pet’s Life

Some owners would like a way to memorialize their companion animal. The following are some ways that others have found helpful:

• Conduct a memorial service

• Keep your pet’s tags, toys, collars, bedding, etc. keep your horse’s shoes, tail, mane hair

• Save condolence cards or e-mails from friends and family

• Create a picture collage, scrapbook, story, or poem about vour pet

• If you chose cremation, you may keep the ashes in an urn or locket, or you may choose to scatter them in a place that was special to vour pet.

• Journal your pet’s story; how, when, and where you met, unique personality traits, nicknames, what you love the most, and what you’ll miss the most

• Donate time, money, or talent in your pet’s honor

“I HAVE A FRAMED PICTURE NEXT TO MY LIVING PLANTS, SO SHE IS SURROUNDED BY BEAUTY IN A SPACE THAT STILL FEELS ALIVE”

Adopting Again

The decision about bringing another animal into the home is very personal. Some families may decide not to adopt a new companion animal because of the emotional, physical, or financial demands involved with companion animal care. Others may feel the time is right to share their home and heart with another pet.

The time to consider adopting a new companion animal is when the entire family has had sufficient time to deal with the emotions of grief. Adopting too soon can lead to feelings of guilt or resentment toward the new family member. The important thing to remember is that bringing another animal into the home is not a betrayal of the one that is gone. You will never replace the one you’ve lost. You will simply be opening your home and heart to a new friend.

For families who want to consider adoption, it will be important to remember that each companion animal has a special and unique personality. Take time to discuss different sizes, breeds, or colors before making a final decision Consider the needs and temperament ol any surviving companion animals.

Losing a pet is extremely painful – you don’t have to face this alone. 24/7 grief support is available to all through our Pet Compassion Careline. CALL 1 [phone] TO REACH A COUNSELOR TODAY.

Source at: https://www.gatewayservicesinc.com/grief-support (There are two pamphlets to choose from. This one and another titled “PRE-PLANNING AND PET AFTERCARE”.)

#animals #pets #fur children #fur babies #life and death #grief #dealing with grief

[starwolf999]

My fur children just shouted at me for the crime of moving too quickly to the bathroom.

I have no peace in this house.

#r #dogs #fur children #kalifornia #kalliope

[ardentvalkyrie]

Tossed his blanket up there to sweep, guess that's his chest now

#dog #dogs #chihuahua #terrier mix #4 legged children #fur children #animals

[civetcider]

i wanna be fishing right now part 3

Oakley the black bear and Traver the kit fox, she/her for both!

#furry #anthro #butch4butch #lesbian oc #safe fur work #civetworks #ocs #giirrrl im still not very great at backgrounds but i think the first one turned out pretty good! #they playing childrens fishing board game for 9 hours #praying i didnt make any typos #oakley and traver

[squishsqrl]

Sweet little sweater thief 😍

#cats pics #fur children #cat nap #so cute

[illumielnox]

They always come in pairs (pt. 2)

I have always liked cats. The farm cats at my grandparents' were my first interactions. And for whatever reason, they liked me too. I was allowed to pet them and they liked to choose me as a place for a nap when I sat on the bench in front of the house and read.

So I always dreamed of having cats of my own.

Well, and again they came as a pair. Capi and Speedy.

Speedy, whose eyes I had fallen in love with. Who lived under the bed when he arrived. Touching or even petting? Thanks, but no thanks. It got better and meanwhile he thinks cuddling is great (even if he doesn't understand that you can be cuddled better if you don't always run away). He also gets along with everything that doesn't try to eat him.

And Capi, who moved in more by chance than by design. Interestingly enough, Capi has fulfilled several roles. On the one hand, he was cuddlier, even if in the rather prickly way I knew from the farm cats. On the other hand, he fulfilled my childhood dream, at least to some extent, because when he lay in the sun, his black fur turned a chocolate colour. Capi became my soul cat.

☆ﾟ*･｡*゜ﾟ･*☆ ☆ﾟ*･｡*゜ﾟ･*☆ ☆ﾟ*･｡*゜ﾟ･*☆ ☆ﾟ*･｡*゜ﾟ･*☆

That one part I chose awakened or reawakened my love for their kind, while the other part, which was added more by chance, has ensured that this love will never fade.

Because they have left a special imprint on my soul. One that is not entirely theirs alone, because they have always come in pairs.

☆ﾟ*･｡*゜ﾟ･*☆ ☆ﾟ*･｡*゜ﾟ･*☆ ☆ﾟ*･｡*゜ﾟ･*☆ ☆ﾟ*･｡*゜ﾟ･*☆

#cats #cats of tumblr #animals #fur children