#it feels comforting and safe :-) i love love

[mblue-art]

angy

#lust!sans #mblue art #shading prac #wanted my brain to have a solid visual of what he'd prolly look like when he's angy (well;; not /too/ angry here but yea) #(i think that's very hot of him) #i want to hold his hand and hug him and and and #give him all the niceys tell him nice things i want him happy and safe and comfortable and #:( kiss heem. make him feel loved af

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

growing up with a perpetually anxious primary caregiver is such a mindfuck. that shit will rewire your nervous system

#not a shitpost #i get that parenthood and modern life in general is extremely anxiety inducing #and that anxiety is a common mental health issue and anxiety disorders exist and do not disqualify you from being a loving parent #but i am begging you PLEASE do not project your anxiety onto your kids #especially younger kids #your job is to make your kids feel safe and secure. that is a primary requirement #that doesn't mean you can't be anxious! #but just like being angry doesn't mean you're allowed to yell at your kids or slam doors or break things #being anxious doesn't mean you are allowed to surround your kids with your own fear and stress or teach them to share your anxieties #your job is to be a comforting nurturing parental figure. that means projecting comfort and love #even when it is hard! even when you are tired or angry or scared! #which is a damn hard job! and you won't get it right all the time! #but dammit babes you gotta TRY #kids deserve to feel safe and comfortable in their daily lives #you CANNOT be teaching them to expect catastrophe lurking around every corner

[thranduel]

it’s always been you.

#byler #mike wheeler #will byers #stranger things #strangerthingsedit #screaming crying throwing up #i love them so much #they’re the brightest light in each other’s lives #just look at how happy they make each other #and in all of these scenes they're actually being THEMSELVES #they're not being fake or pretending to be someone they're not #because they actually feel safe and comfortable with each other #they can be vulnerable with each other #they can confide in each other #they always know how to make each other feel better #they need each other #and they love each other so much #they just don't fully realise it yet #mike #will #otp: the best thing i've ever done #byler analysis #stranger things parallels

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

I'm sorry I let down my guard.

[First] Prev <–-> Next

#poorly drawn mdzs #mdzs #xue yang #xiao xingchen #God DAMN this scene was brutal. Season 2 episode 2 is almost nothing but misery and anguish #Helena by Nickle Creek does not quite fit the comic's vibe but it is absolutely a Xue Yang song so I linked it. #The change from “Helena don't walk away...(gentle)” to “HELENA. DON'T WALK AWAY (threat)” is fantastic. #And “Don't waste your pretty sympathy - I'll always be just fine”. Xue Yang core. #Okay now for the real meat. Disclaimer first: *I really like XY.* I think he's a great character. I think his actions consistently- #come from a place of deep trauma. While his reactions and actions put him in a villainous role he is still human about his hurt #and what I'm about to say is NOT intended to be a statement of causality or villianize a group of misunderstood people. #So with that said...Man oh man does Xue Yang have a lot of BPD traits. More that just 'character who is chronically manipulative'. #The impulsivity and emotional reactions and seeking stability makes him feel like he needs that control. What other choice is there? #The part that really gets me is how he *wants* to be safe and happy. But his past experiences tell him how thats impossible #He's the kind of person who goes 'if you don't like me then you better hate me for something substantial". All (pos) or All (neg) #''Love me entirely or Hate me. But don't you dare leave me or forget about me.'' #Not at all comfortable saying 'BPD coded'. Im not a psychiatrist. Just that he has TRAITS. Feel free to disagree or add your thoughts. #ppl with bpd also are not a monolith and everyone has very different experiences. Xue yang is very complex. People more so.

[pinkd3mon]

Feeling loved

Bonus:

#Kirby #kirby of the stars #kots #Kirby fanart #dedede #kirby king dedede #king dedede #dededad #i think a lot about their bond #this isn't meant to put down metadad #i just thought about how meta knight isn't really around in the novels #Kirby likes him but he just doesn't live in dreamland #but dedede feels like comfort to Kirby #and Dedede has problems truly showing it #this originally was going towards Kirby feeling inadequate over being a hero #and only being loved because they're useful and people put them on a pedestal #but it was pretty angsty and Kirby and Dedede aren't really the type to dwell too much on that stuff #if Kirby feels safe then that's everything they need #in case you don't recognize who Kirby is drawing in the bonus panel it's Chilly #even if Kirby is closer to Dedede and Meta Knight as father figures that doesn't mean Kirby has forgotten about Chilly #Kirby doesn't forget the people that they love #the 'you can stay' was meant to be about the castle but i like it more being vague #like it's about Dedede assuring Kirby it's okay for them to just being around #they will always be welcomed

[mercymaker]

yea yea, i'm an absolute believer in the fact that spawn astarion indulges in some kinky stuff and having the freedom to choose sends him on a bit of a sexual exploration journey

but also have you considered him having moments that are so soft, so gentle? when he's losing himself in the warmth and the endless kisses? when he can shut his mind off and just allow the physical sensations, the touch to guide him? there's not a single hint of worry, no anxiety trailing behind his thoughts. it just feels natural, it feels good. he can close his eyes, truly relax and allow all of that to engulf him. completely lose himself in his lover's body.

#the bg3 adventures #astarion #astarion ancunin #astarion romance #astarion x tav #tavstarion #maleane/astarion #yes i did wake up and immediately think about astarion making sweet sweet love to mal #about them being gentle to each other #but above all else it's all comfort and safety!!! #they make each other feel safe #and i NEED them to kiss gently to touch each other softly #TO SMILE!!!! #it's slow and soft and warm.. god how much astarion loves her warmth #anyway where was i

[astrobei]

when byler has this conversation in season 5

#hunger games catching fire the movie of all time #the visions…. i’m being plagued by them #like #peeta being like #“nobody needs me” #katniss looking at him n saying ‘i do. i need u.’ #LIKE SHE DOES #SHE NEEDS HIM #she’s always needed him!!! #look i know thg isn’t about the love triangle and the romance plot that’s the whole point i Know #but like #finding safety and comfort in someone #needing someone #wanting to build ur future w that someone once u know the future is safe #someone who calms u down and grounds u and makes u feel protected #i’m just so #tell me this is not the van scene. TELL ME THIS IS NOT THE VAN SCENE !!!! #byler #will byers #mike wheeler #/astro posts

[castieldelamancha]

"You make me happy too, you know?"

And by the look on Castiel's face when he turns his head to look at him maybe he didn't know, after all.

"You do make me happy, "he exclaims, and fuck his inability to find the words when he needs them most, "like, like," he stammers, make a broad gesture with his hands, there it is, that funny, fuzzy feeling, "riding in baby with the music playing loud and the windows rolled down," like he can only remember feeling, if vaguely, when he was a kid and his mom was still alive, like a summer day at Bobby's when he was ten, like the warm rush that floored his chest anytime he pictured the two of them and Sammy living freely at last, daydreaming of the beach, "like that feeling you get when you know you are home." His face is on fire, or at least that's what the deep blush he is sporting feels like at least.

He gives Cas a hopeful look, willing him to understand what he is trying to convey, because he is out of metaphors, because it's too big and too great for his words to do it any justice.

The eyes that stare back at him are full of a fond understanding, "Now I know." And it might not be one, but it still sounds like an I love you, one that doesn't taste like a goodbye, like the first one did, but instead, just like the kiss Castiel initiates right then, tastes of a hopeful tomorrow.

#destiel #look what i mean is that angel is his hope and comfort he feels so loved and safe i want to jump out of a window #ficlet #vanessa writes ✨

[sysig]

Utterly Defeated (Patreon)

#Doodles #SCII #Helix #<Sticking to my tag so they're all together ♥ #Dexter Favin #Max Vyer #But really that's ZEX in there! What's left of him anyway ;; #ZEX #Hhhhhhh it was so goooood and saaaaad <3 <3 #Helix is a tragedy - on repeat in my mind ad infinitum #I made most of these upon initially reading - and then I had to sit on them through all of October!! Can you imagine the impatience?? #I've been absolutely chomping at the bit for these hhhhh feelings!!! So many!!! Max's eyes and ZEX being behind his single remaining ;; #Dex wanting him to be safe and knowing he used to and now he can't offer it anymore I jifdsahfdjsaf #Have I mentioned I love them lately I love them <3 <3 All of them! Dex and Max and ZEX! And DAX I'm sure ZEX misses him so badly #In a way it was good that I had a bit more time to set it down and come back - I reread it very recently hehe <3 #I still get teary at some scenes ah </3 It's so beautifully sad #But it also gave me some time to finish ZEX starting to shape the word ''Max'' and then back off it ahhhh it hurts!! #The rest were at least all lined at the time - came back in to tone some recently but they were all ''finished'' October 1st ah #Especially of Dex waking ZEX to call him by his title hhh they both just want peace so badly but it looks so different to both of them #Lingering on his scar and then carding through his hair <3 Comfort and softness and it's all not enough #His scar is quite fun to draw as well ah - scars tend to be like that haha ♪ The stitches and discolouration give it a unique look! #And the way his hair pulls back from it ah #I had a lot of fun with his hair hiding his bandaged eye as well - just barely peeking out always just enough of a reminder #And all his lying-down poses - his hair is fun to pose like that as well #One of the original Landel doodles of ZEX talking about what Hell would look like for a VUX really struck me as well #Dex can't help him in so many ways ehn </3 He wants to! But he wants Max and he just can't have him anymore #Hhhh it was such a good read <3 <3 <3 Thank you again to Zarla it really made and still makes me happy to read it ahhh ♥♪ #Now that I've (finally!) gotten my thoughts out I can read the other!! Yay!!

[comfortfrogblog]

“everyone is capable of experiencing goodness and joy. not me th-“ *EXTREMELY LOUD INCORRECT BUZZER*

#OH BUT YOU ARE!!!!! YOU ARE!!! i literally prommy #i do NOT prommy if i dont mean it👍 #it fluctuates and it wont always be there bc thats how life and adversity is but it’s THERE!!! #it’s there in the cracks and crevices of your silly little life #it’s in the girl at the mall who looked you in the eyes and smiled #it’s in the baby that stares at you like you hold all the warmth and love in the universe #it’s in the tiny victories like ‘i drank water today’ ‘i woke up today’ ‘i was okay with myself today’ #it’s in the laughter experienced by people around you even if you dont feel like you can participate where you’re at #it’s in your favorite songs and your favorite color and your favorite food and your favorite animal and your favorite blanket and #and it’s in your favorite hobby your favorite outfit your favorite type of bug your favorite tree #and it’s in that safe place you have whether that is the corner of your room or your bed or the bathroom or your floor or wherever it is #the goodness sits there and it sinks in and it doesn’t go away even when you forget it’s there because of all the bad things overshadowing i #it #the goodness sinks its claws into you and sometimes you cannot help but be in awe #maybe you do not feel it right now #but it is there #and i promise that someday you will find it wherever it is resting #cathy says words #comfort #important

[essencering]

↳ summary: at this point, you assume that you've misplaced your own things, but find yourself surprised when you find said things in mammon's room.

↳ Tags: Gender Neutral Reader, Demon Attendant Reader, Mammon (Obey Me!), Nesting/Hoarding Habit, With Your Things, Mammon Loves His Special Person, Nightbringer Setting.

writer's blurp: mammon lives rent-free in my brain and that's a-okay he's such a sweetie to the MC both in OG OM and in NB. just wanted to write a short little thing about NB mammon finding comfort in things that have the reader's scent.

It started out as a missing coat or sweater. Something you choked up to just being lost in the abyss of your closet, or left it somewhere not that it was anything you were too sad about losing or being misplaced.

Then the throw blankets, or your favorite throw pillows that you would use at the House of Lamentation when the brothers would pull you into whatever movie or game night, and the ones at Cocytus Hall. Solomon helped you turn over every inch of the Hall, but neither of you had any luck finding them, nor could the brothers help you find your things at Lamentation.

Little things here and there, like pens and notebooks, objects you would use daily. You wondered if your chatelaine was breaking, and you not noticing it, but Solomon assured you that it wouldn't with the enchantment he placed on it for you. Some smaller things as well the occasional ring, or necklace.

It wasn't until you one day received a text from Mammon to come over and please bring something good to eat with your company (totally NOT a bonus he said) since he felt a little under the weather. You found your missing things.

Situated in a safe little spot on Mammon's bed, the very demon dozed off around the little things, but also wearing some of your missing jewelry. Face hidden in your throw pillows and your throw blankets living up to their name of being haphazardly tossed on his person, while he was wrapped up in your sweater.

You could also see some of his brother's things mixed in as well.

A little hoard of his own. A little nest with things that made him feel comfortable and safe. Things that belong to those that are important to him, to people that he loves.

So, as quietly as possible you leave Mammon's room knowing that if he were to wake up and knowing that you saw his little hoard of treasures that belong to those important to him, his little nest of things that brings him comfort he would quickly try to hide all of it.

Once you're back outside of Mammon's room you decide to make something other than the Hell Fire Noodles he likes, opting for something a little bit more easy on the stomach.

Texting to let Mammon know that you will be delayed in arriving, his response is a pouty little emoji, and him appearing by your side a bit later. Hiding his face in your shoulder, mumbling and grumbling while you cook, but sticking to you like glue.

#obey me! memories #gender neutral reader #reader is gender neutral #sfw #obey me! x reader #obey me! nightbringer x reader #reader insert #mammon x gender neutral reader #mammon x reader #gn reader #x reader #mammon will always find comfort in his favorite person #ty NB for letting us see just how much of a sweet dork he is towards the MC #sorry i hc mammon doing this as well in OG OM because when he misses you he can just have a little pile of your things #and just feel so comfy and safe surrounded by your things #please get a matching set of something with this man to wear together he will love it #chatelaine's are so fun and pretty i know it's usually for the ladies of the house hold #but we are in the year 2023 gender specific things hardly matter both now and in the devildom so you get a fun little keyring

[idolomantises]

there's something so comforting about artists you admire talking about their own struggles and insecurities

#txt #was watching supereyepatchwolf's video on chainsaw man again and listening to fujimoto express regret about things he didnt learn #and how he's clearly envious of his peers is so... comforting? #i think about my own strengths and flaws and often times i get so frustrated with my shortcomings #im not good at drawing feet; my backgrounds are purposefully simplistic and lack a lot of detail; sometimes my designs have a tendency to #overlap or feel very 'safe' in terms of what i really want to do #its why; despite my love for clowning on media and animated works. i never want to feel like its from a place of malice #the joy of art is always seeing those little mistakes and nuances. its also noticing the achievements other creators have made that you #still lack #even for a certain hell-based show i love to poke fun at for its many. many issues. its undeniable how incredibly passionate the work is. #and i do respect anyone who is willing to get their flawed media out there (myself included) #i see stuff about people calling me their inspo or how flattered they are when i compliment their work and its like. gee. i hold myself at #such a high bar and even still im always surprise when people tell me how much my work moved and changed them #i really love writing just little fun things that i just dont really see anyone else touching and its kind of fun how despite my own #personal grievances with my own flaws and mistakes #people really do find things that they love within them. #anyways I know this is getting long but I’ve just been getting sentimental abt the creation of art #sometimes people make fun of me for love of drawing women and lesbians and bugs and so on #and while I will never let me deter me from my process. sometimes it does get to me #but then I remember that I love doing this and could ever see myself holding back #and knowing despite how other people feel. I have so many followers who resonate with my weird ass shit #that it’s all worth it. ya know?

[beanghostprincess]

Thinking about Boa (a woman who has been constantly hurt by men and refuses to look weak in their eyes again) seeking the comfort of Rayleigh and literally kneeling down to touch him and rest her body against his because she just trusts him that much

#rayleigh and luffy really be not like other men #honestly it makes me so happy to see her comfortable around nice men #after the atrocity she's just been through i love seeing her feeling safe with him #let boa be happy please i am begging #one piece #boa hancock #silvers rayleigh

[miyasins]

oikawa tōru is very much someone who’s comfortable in his masculinity therefore isn’t afraid to act a little ‘feminine’. excitedly goes shopping with you, picking outfits for each other and modelling them in the fitting room, with twirls and poses. he always somehow has gossip ready and piping hot for you whenever he gets home from practice or the gym, does the hand over mouth with a knowing stare and a, “you will NOT believe what happened!”. and oikawa will absolutely join you for a biweekly mani pedi and let’s you choose what colour to paint his nails, sometimes asks to get the same design as yours but only on his ring finger because he’s a sap like that :’)))

#miyasins — hq #I JUST LOVE HIM #he makes me feel safe #:((( #haikyuu!! #oikawa tōru #haikyuu fluff #oikawa x reader #haikyuu oikawa #oikawa x y/n #haikyu x reader #haikyuu scenarios #haikyuu headcanons #haikyuu comfort

[loveme-anyway]

#we are so normal about this

#lies. #im losing my mind #IN THE KITCHEN U DID THIS IN THE KITCHEN #HE FELT SAFE AND LOVED #HE FELL ASLEEP IN EDDUES COUCH?!!? #HELP ME #am i dreaming?!!? #how are we feeling tonight buddieblr??? #911 spoilers #911 #911 fox #edits:) #ITS ABOUT COMMUNICATION AND THE KITCHEN #AND JUST THEM BEING COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO COMMUNICATE.

[weird-life-of-a-closet-fangirl]

Currently thinking about Fabian Seacaster, finally home after the ordeal in the Forest of the Nightmare King, alone in his room and finding himself fully unable to sleep the way he used to before everything. Because it's dark and the blackout curtains in his room make the shadows seem too real, like they're slowly creeping towards him to consume him whole, and his friends, his party isn't here to protect him while he sleeps.

#i havent seen junior year yet but i heard he's home alone #ten bucks that his insomnia gets worse #at least before he could leave his room and run into cathilda or one of his dad's pirates #now his dad and his crew are all gone #cathilda isnt here #now its just him in the dark alone #he loves that big comfortable bed of his but he hasn't sprawled out across it since he came back from the forest #it just doesnt feel safe without his friends there with him #fabian seacaster #fantasy high