#it’s never easy

[sylvies-chen]

michonne about rick next week:

#like she’s looking for the real him he’s been forced to bury for so long and it’s heartbreaking on all fronts 😭 #it reminds me a bit of beautiful boy in that sense I mean obv rick isn’t an addict but the dealing with the mental health of a loved one #it’s never easy #rick grimes #michonne #michonne grimes #michonne hawthorne #richonne #twd: the ones who live #the ones who live #twd towl #the walking dead: the ones who live

[life-through-my-eyess]

I think one of the hardest things in life is, trying to deal with losing someone. It’s never easy, never ready for it, doesn’t hurt any less. You think it would be easier when you realise how much people you have lost. But every relationship is different, we deal with things differently. The weight is a lot and we attend to forget others feel it too. There is no time frame to when we next lose someone. Just know time goes on, the world keeps going and that in time you will heal and people are around you when you need someone to talk to 💕.

#it’s never easy #losing someone #a loss #doesn’t matter what relationship it is #personal #shit happens #kinda learn to get over it #and move on #gay blog #gwlg #girl who loves girls #lesbian #advice blog #girl who likes girls #girlwholikesgirls #wlw #gay pride #lgbtq

[peaceeandcoolestvibes]

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#wTf #folks friends and colleagues in class text me and I’d like to publicly apologize for seeing them texts super late #sometimes it gets to the point that it’s pointless to get back to y’all LMFAOOOOO #I get too many messages PER minute 😌😂 #two friends are like BIH LMAOOO YOU DONT SEE SOME MESSAGES DO YA #sorry bae 😌 #lmao I’m trynna work on this #this happens w Sofi Marina heids and Carla the most #I manage to see 4 other people’s messages just in time #LMAOOOO #goddamn.txt #w Dani I got no problem #same w 2 other people lmao #today I had 6 people asking for medical advice and it’s like 😳 feeling fulfilled 😳 when I can help y’all #bae Joselyn called me today but I was in class already and it’s like I can’t pick up but we were texting back n forth ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ #Scorpio sis you need to put in the work bc you’re smart already #I tell Christian the same thing … y’all wanna be nurses? put in the work #it’s never easy #same goes to people who wanna go to 👨‍⚕️ or 🦷 #nobody said it was easy lmao #como dije … de oftalmo si que pocos consejos os puedo dar lmao hice cositas en el cap pero me lo dieron condensadito y en un tema de 1038193 #páginas así que #el resto? lo que queráis 🥰🥰

[roosterbox]

@ghostrepeater @corinnetags

Thanks for the kind words, friends. It’s been a tough couple days over here. It’s so quiet without her.

She was with me for about 8 years, maybe a little longer, so it’s gonna take a while to get used to her presence being gone. I had to re-hand-tame her, you know? She had issues, possibly with her hormones, and it made her super aggressive; it took a year and a half of gentle handling every day (and getting my hands bitten to hell) before she became the sweet bird i knew she was. But now she’s gone. And then that gets me thinking about my other bird (currently snuggling in my hair, napping), who’s been with me for like 15 years at least. Don’t know what I’ll do when he passes, but hopefully that won’t be for many more years.

Pet ownership. Unpredictable, emotional, sometimes absolutely wrenching. But also worthwhile? I think? It’s hard to feel like it is, being only a couple days removed from losing Mystery. But I’d like to think so.

All in all, what with this and the never ending house repair situation, 2022 is going down as one of my worst years ever, haha. I would say that 2023 can only get better, but I’d rather not dare the universe like that.

#random #losing a pet #it’s never easy #i miss her a lot #just thinking about the spot in the house where her cage used to sit #is liable to make me cry #💔

[eyelesslover]

i feel so stupid and pathetic when i have to keep reaching out to people to hang out

#it’s never easy #self h@rm #i hate my mind #self h@te

[blueskittlesart]

i hope everyone in nintendo’s management department dies and goes to hell no matter what and i’m not kidding

#WERE LOSING YUZU AND CITRA. I DONT KNOW IF YOU ALL UNDERSTAND HOW INSANE THIS IS #game emulation enables piracy yes but it’s also an INCREDIBLY powerful archival tool. #there are plenty of games out there that only exist in their original formats due to emulation. #this lawsuit has HORRIBLE implications for video game history. it makes it incredibly easy for companies to scorched earth their products #if they’re not profitable enough. ART IS GOING TO BE LOST BECAUSE OF THIS. GAMES PEOPLE WORKED INCREDIBLY HARD ON #it won’t just happen to bad games. it won’t just happen to old games. they will use this to keep their remake/virtual console model going #forever and you will never be able to play your favorite games in their true original forms ever again. #i am fucking INSANELY mad rn. capitalism is the death of art fr #personal

[finchwingart]

gouache test with one of my favourite burds

#finch art #caracara #gouache #animal art #bird #bird of prey #painting #took a sec to get used to it but loving gouache so far #im more used to watercolour pans so getting used to tube paint is weird i feel so wasteful #but tried drying this in pans and it works really nice #need to make shit quick n easy to use for myself otherwise I never will #traditional #sketchbook

[bigfatbreak]

Birds of a Feather previous / next

#my art #feralnette au #birds of a feather #long tags #sorry I went apeshit in the tags #LETS SAY IT ALL TOGETHER NOW #I - M - A - G - OOOOOOOOO #its fun drawing marinette's back to Alya and having her appear stout and unstoppable and totally logical #and then you see her face and she's like two seconds from completely snapping and is keeping it together by a thread #as a note just because mari feels very certainly abt smth doesnt mean she's right. feelings can be valid and also irrational #in the throes of grief she decided it was better to be alone than to lose someone again so she started pulling away #and lila made pulling away very very very easy to do #shes also vaguely aware she's being unfair in pinning this on alya which is why she started spinning the drain on cockmoth again #legitimately all the shit that's happened to her wouldn't have been so catastrophic if he was never in the picture and she knows it #but the bitterness of her bestie choosing a fantastic liar over her at the worst of times stiiiiiings #alya's personal timing was bad but lila really took advantage of the fact that marinette had been acting off and weird #she basically clocked marinette as being unstable from SOMETHING and made up a lie about her #knowing she wouldn't have the strength to defend herself #between her social life going tachy bc of lila and losing fu in a way that felt like personhood death marinette was really put on the spot #and alya doing her thing of busting in there and assuming her bias is correct was a terrible combo #essentially marinette is highly unstable and alya is just realizing that #busting in and giving her a lecture when she's slightly hysterical and definitely delirious from exhaustion is NOT the way #to show her she's self sabotaging #cuz thats just gonna make her double down on self sabotaging. bc marinette will not accept that she is also a CHIIIIILD

[beybuniki]

they should go on a fishing trip pt.1

#DONT COMMENT ON THE BACKGROUND I KNOWWWWWWWWWWWW #anyway this is day 1. they take a bus. the bakugo household has fishing gear so ´deku is wearing bakugo's onesoe (?) and bakugo is wearing #his dad's. and notices he has grown :') #anyway they take a BUS and don't feel like doing this at all it's awkward for so many reason #also trying to relax after everything is neurologically just really hard they might be hyperivgilant dik #and there's so much they never got to unpack bnut they have to and they have to start somewhere and with someone #deku makes that flower crown while bakugo preps everything and they both look at it and are thrown back into their childhood 🧍‍♀️🧍‍♀️🧍‍♀️ #and at first they just sit and wait for the bavarian fish to bite (rody should make a cameo tbh) but then bakugo breaks the iceeee. #and he starts with their moms because their moms have been such a stubbron connection between these two :') #and deku answers with the usual 'good :) how's your mom :)?' and to everyone's surprise he actually opens up #and tells deku about his mom's insomnia because she watched her son die (that shit was live streamed tpo 10 bnha tweets btw) #idk i love to think of their moms being a very easy subject to connect through i think it's easier for them that way to be more vulnerablei #and then some fish biteeeeeeeeeeee #but like 3 small ones so they have to gather berries and mushrooms and make stew (dw there's an aldi this is bavaria after all) #but yeah day 1 is a bit weird like it's just them in the woods with no distractions #which is so different from whatever went on during their 1st year of high school #don't read this i will throw up i just need this somewhere this is my public scrapbook #bnha #deku #midoriya izuku #bakugo katsuki #the flower crown on their knees makes this a bit homosexual but fishing is always homosexual im not fighting against that #au: #fishing

[tchaikovsgay]

this might be a controversial opinion but i think we unnecessarily platform terfs way too much. people cant even make a fun harmless trans post without people jumping on to be like "yeah, fuck terfs!" and its like. severely not about that at all

tumblr terfs love attention. they feed off of it, ESPECIALLY negative attention which is what some of yall are constantly giving them. if you dont want them interacting with your blog or w/e, thats fine, of course you dont! but everyone quietly blocking them while focusing on trans positivity would be way more beneficial than making the focus entirely about giving them the attention that theyre frothing at the mouth for

and frankly the focus on terfs takes away from conversations about casual transphobia that exists outside of just radical feminism. not everyone hides their transphobia under the guise of being a super feminist, and saying "fuck terfs" makes people feel like theyre above ever perpetuating transphobia, which is DEFINITELY not true

#maybe its time we replaced 'terfs dni' with 'trans safe' or 'trans positive' or something like that #idk ive never had terfs dni on my blog and i never have an issue with them interacting because i just #post supportively abt trans people #its that easy honestly #rant

[littlelightfish]

People call him happy feet

But listen

How does a middle-aged man move his legs like that?? I mean, his knees are something else.

New addition:

#i love this oldman here #so hobbitcoded #but no really #my knees could never #and he makes it look so simple #so easy #hes not even sweating #he was quite the dancer in his youth #dungeon meshi #chilchuck #chilchuck tims #my shit

[pearl-kite]

I made a pillow!

It took four months of non-stop cross-stitching, but I finally finished a pattern I bought from @8pxl a little bit ago, and tonight in a bizarre burst of productivity I finally sewed a back to it and stuffed it into a cute little pillow! It ended up being pretty much perfectly sized for a neck pillow, but I'm a bit worried about it getting dirty that way.

I highly recommend the patterns from 8xpl's shop, there are SO many gorgeous ones to choose from. I might end up getting another one soon o3o

#cross stitch #embroidery #fiber art #fiber crafts #cross stitching #xstitch #needlepoint #needlecraft #I went so long without drawing because I KNEW if I put this aside for anything I'd nver pick it up again #because that's how I usually am with cross stitch #but I finished it about a month ago and todday for some reason was just the day that I spontaneously finished the rest of thee project #I would have liked to do a nicer pillow #like with that piping kindd of stuff along the edge? #but if I actually waited to get some of that it'd never happen #so super basic straight lines around the edges flip insid out stuff an stitch down the opening #no zippeer #it will NOT be easy to clean so I need to be careful with it #but it is absolutely a perfect neck pillow on the back of my couch right now

[cuterrguy]

He can only Watch.

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Drew this based off of this post here. Idk about you guys I went insane over session 7

(turning off reblogs cause i hate this now)

#i never draw backgrounds go easy on me #secret life #secret life spoilers #trafficblr #traffic life smp #watcher grian #grian #geminitay #smallishbeans #goodtimeswithscar #smajor1995 #zombiecleo #ethoslab #pearlescentmoon #bdubbleo100 #tony’s art #digital art #also i really only differentiate between hostile and peaceful players #so i don’t always make characters look yellow on yellow lives or green on green lives #saying this cause scott is on yellow life here but not drawn yellow

[olileigh-art]

This image has been stuck in my head since I first watched episode 76 back in early January but I was busy with uni so it had to wait

Tip Jar

#critical role #m9 #art #cr2 #fjord stone #fjord #critical role fanart #mighty nein #This moment reminds me of “First Light” so much it's the only thing I can think about while listening to this song #One bright morning changes all things #Soft and easy as your breathing #and also #But after this I'm never gonna be the same #And I am never going back again #I think about this a lot

[crowleys-bentley-and-plants]

Sometimes i forget that Aziraphale literally said 'we can be together' and 'I need you' like holy shit we're talking about the same Aziraphale who constantly denied having 'their own side', who said he didn't need Crowley in s1. yes, Crowley was the one doing the confessing but so was Aziraphale. they both confessed that they want to be together, that they need each other, but the whole universe is conspiring against them. they both said 'i want to be with you' and yet...

#eating a brick of wall why is it never that easy #good omens #good omens 2 #good omens season 2 #aziraphale #crowley #ineffable husbands #go2 #screaming crying throwing up

[inkskinned]

one of the things about being an educator is that you hear what parents want their kids to be able to do a lot. they want their kid to be an astronaut or a ballerina or a politician. they want them to get off that damn phone. be better about socializing. stop spending so much time indoors. learn to control their own temper. to just "fucking listen", which means to be obedient.

one of the things i learned in my pedagogy classes is that it's almost always easier to roleplay how you want someone to act. it's almost always easier to explain why a rule exists, rather than simply setting the rule and demanding adherence.

i want my kids to be kind. i want them to ask me what book they should read next, and i want to read that book with them so we can discuss it. i want my kid to be able to tell me hey that hurt my feelings without worrying i'll punish them. i want my kid to be proud of small things and come running up to me to tell me about them. i want them to say "nah, i get why this rule exists, but i get to hate it" and know that i don't need them to be grateful-for-the-roof-overhead while washing the dishes. i want them to teach me things. i want them to say - this isn't safe. i'm calling my mom and getting out of this. i want them to hear me apologize when i do fuck up; and i want them to want to come home.

the other day a parent was telling me she didn't understand why her kid "just got so angry." this woman had flown off the handle at me.

my dad - traditional catholic that he is - resents my sentiment of "gentle parenting". he says they'll grow up spoiled, horrible, pretentious. granola, he spits.

i am going to be kind to them. i am going to set the example, i think. and whatever they choose become in the meantime - i'm going to love them for it.

#writeblr #i was doing a lot with high school students. over and over again #other teachers kept asking me what i was doing differently - why the kids listened to me. i am not particularly foreboding #and i have a pretty firm personal policy of never reacting in anger #godhelpme. #i was always kind of taken aback #because in general the kids were pretty easy. i explained i needed to keep everything “PG-13” because this was my workplace #and it was kind of their workplace #too. besides #i love swearing #and since i couldn't swear #neither could they - so if they were going to say “fuck” or become violent #they needed to choose a really specific time #because we only get “the one”.. sure enough - nobody wanted to waste the one very specific “fuck” utterance. kids listened. #i think just because - that rule makes sense. the kids understand that i don't want to be unfair to them #that censorship is stupid #but that i'm under these rules too so like let's ride it out together #also i look young and tbh between me and u nobody wants to make the nice english teacher cry #the way these kids defended me to their friends was really genuinely so heartwarming bc the Grouchy Frat Boy #would be like MISS RAQUEL DOESN'T DESERVE THAT KIND OF AN ATTITUDE BRO DON'T TALK BACK TO HER