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#just be respectful

i feel like in fandom its either toxic positivity or toxic negativity, like it’s so polarized so people generally people only praise or hate on things

it’s not bad to admit your favorite thing has flaws. it’s not bad to acknowledge some things were done well or just enjoyable in something you didn’t like (with exceptions for hurtful media ofc)

people just feel so ashamed of things they used to like and hate on them? lol i dont mind seeing a few valid criticism posts from you but making your whole personality hating a certain show or character is kinda sad. there’s a point where people go beyond making valid claims about why they think something could have been done poorly and hated on people who like something and calling them stupid

and people trying to block out haters and not acknowledge that a lot of problems exist in media, some to more extent than others, is just as bad. you’re attacking people just because they are putting effort into making posts criticizing something you happen to enjoy. block criticism tags or just ignore it if you don’t want to have an actual conversation or respectful debate.

i’ve fallen into both of these traps and come dangerously close to toxic negativity, and I want to be more conscious of it as i interact with more people

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Just in case people aren’t aware… if an artist makes and shares VENT art, and labels it as such, we don’t want to talk about it, we don’t want to read your hot takes on why we’re right or wrong.

If you agree or just like the art, you’re welcome to reblog/like with normal tags, but please don’t come into our replies or inboxes to start a conversation about it. Go make your own post if you have something to say, but the replies is not the place.

We understand not everyone may agree. We’re adding it to OUR blog for US to get feelings off our chest because art is a healthy way to do that for us. Please respect that, no matter how much you want to prove someone wrong. You don’t know what the artist is feeling and you may just make it worse.

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It’s BFRB awareness week! BFRBs, or body-focused repetitive behaviors, are a group of psychological disorders that come in many forms and affect many people (they may even affect 1 out of 20 people!) but many people don’t know about them.

People with BFRBs have irresistible urges to do things such as pull their hair and pick at their skin. Some examples of BFRBs are trichotillomania, which is hair pulling; onychophagia, which is nail biting; and excoriation disorder or dermatillomania, which is skin picking.

People with BFRBs do not want to hurt themselves- the urges from our conditions are difficult and often very stressful to ignore. Giving in to urges makes us feel better, like how one feels better after taking a rock out their shoe. BFRBs are poorly understood and very difficult to treat, and a condition can resurface even after years of it being “gone.”

Please be patient with people you know that may have a BFRB! Telling us to “just stop” is very stressful to us, because we wish it was that easy. Remember, BFRBs are psychological disorders and it is stressful enough just living with them. We are trying our best, so please try to be understanding, and be kind to your friends with patchy hair or damaged skin. Thank you!

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please read:

to start this, i am a trans guy. i usually have no problem with anon. i’ve used it plenty of times myself. but i would like to ask that people please stop calling me “maam” and please stop sending “girl.”/ “ur a girl” i know most of this is just someone being transphobic, some of these people are doing it on purpose, im blocking those as they come. but to the people with good intentions, please, my pronouns are in my bio. it makes me really dysphoric to think that i don’t even pass online so please be mindful. also if anyone has any kind words they want to send in, i’m kind of going through a rough time right now. thank you.

edit: thank you all so much for being so nice in my asks. it really means the world to me. also i’m sorry for not posting.. i’m working on kinktober!

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I am 1 follower away from 900 followers. 😳

that’s crazy even though it’s not a lot of people compared to other blogs, but it’s still a lot to me especially considering I’ve had this blog for years and I really just use it as an outlet to get away from people I know IRL.

With that being said, just because I post/reblog p**n doesn’t mean I want to see your n*des!!! I promise i’m not interested in seeing your genitals and it’s not going to get you anywhere so don’t do it. That’s an instant block!!! Also, don’t dm me calling me “baby” “babe” or other pet names, it’s weird and it makes me uncomfortable unless we have an established friendship/relationship of some sort. Otherwise, pls don’t do it.

Also, I’m all for BLM, immigration/immigrant rights LGBTQ+ rights, and the abolition of ICE. So if you’re a rac*st or are against human rights in general block me immediately please. Hate has no place on this blog.

Lastly, if you’re a minor please leave I will block you.

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I am really fucking angry right now…

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If you didn’t know this, this graffiti is in a wall from an archaeological site made in VI AC of an iber town by the tribe indigets in Palamós, Catalunya, Spain.

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SOMEONE PAINTED IN A IBERIC SETTLEMENT,

A VI AC IBERIC SETTLEMENT,

AN IRON AGE ARCHAEOLOGICAL SITE.

THAT BITCH IS IN THEIR GOLDEN AGE DUDE.

THAT BITCH SAID “FUCK THE ROMANIZATION , I AM STILL HERE BITCH”

THAT BITCH SAID “BE FORGET? NAHHH I HAVE INFORMATION FOR DAYS”

THAT ROCKS SAID “I AM MORE STRAIGHT THAN YOU SIS AND I WILL BE HERE UNTIL THIS SHIT GO DOWN”

THAT CITY SAID “I WILL LEAVE TO YOU ONE OF THE MOST LONG AND COMPLEX TEXT IN IBER AND HOPE YOU BE ABLE TO READ IT, EVEN WITHOUT A FUCKING DICTIONARY BECAUSE GUESS WHAT, WE LOST A LOT OF LETTERS AND LITERATURE CONTENT BECAUSE WE USE TO WRITE IN IRON”

I AM…

I CANT

I–

AND YOU DID THIS ON JULY? ON THIS TIME? ON THIS YEAR? 2020?

NO, NO, NO, NO.

SHUT THE FUCK UP, GO PLAY YOUR BULLSHIT IN ANOTHER PLACE

THE DISRESPECT

THESE ROCKS, THIS FUCKING CASTLE HAS SAW SOME SHIT DUDE, THIS CASTLE IS OUR HISTORY, AND FOR ONCE IS NOT A THING TO BE FUCKING ASHAME OF.

THE BULLSHIT

THIS IS WHY WE CAN’T HAVE NICE THINGS.

ONE OF THE FUCKING BEST ARCHAEOLOGICAL SITE WE HAVE, AND YOU DECIDE TO “I AM FUCKING BORED I WILL PAINT IT” BECAUSE WHY NOT?

IT’S NOT EVEN CUTE, HATE HERE

I–

…. I am able to be angry isn’t? I mean, nobody would do this to the Pyramids of Giza or the Altamira cave, or even the Stonehenge.

And if someone did it, it’s still a dick move, and your not funny or edgy for doing in.

AHHHHHhhhhhhhhh

That’s just being a dick, it is only a settlement, ONLY THAT. A city of a culture that we don’t know a lot because guess what, Romans decide that the Iber culture was shit an take their language, signs, religion and culture away, because they didn’t like it.

I am angry.

I am really angry and upset…

IS CÈSAR BACK?

CÈSAR DID THIS?

HE SURVIVE?

THAT BITCH IS BACK? NOW HE HAS PAINT?

HE WANTS TO GET STAB AGAIN?

Anyways. .. THIS is not the first time someone decide to be a dumbass and try to destroy with painting the site, and already cost like 10.000 euros in cleaning… I… I am tired…

JUST 👏RESPECT👏 ARCHAEOLOGICAL👏 SITES👏 THEY👏 ARE👏 OR👏 HISTORY👏 AND👏 WE👏 SHOULD👏 REMEBER👏 IT👏 TO👏 LEARN👏 AND 👏DO 👏BETTER. 👏

This is all my vent in bad English, thank you to come to my Ted talk.

It’s 4 AM and I am still upset about it and I could sleep if I didn’t write this down.

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separating trans people from cis people is transphobic as fuck they are just who they are period? I am a bisexual woman and I like the non-binary, men, and women and when I say men and women you best never get it twisted I MEAN MEN AND WOMEN, TRANS MEN AND WOMEN SHOULD JUST BE FUCKING INCLUDED IN THAT OBVIOUSLY THAT SHOULD GO WITHOUT SAYING BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE REAL BIPHOBIC AND TRANSPHOBIC IN 2020 STILL?,,???

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You know what I see a lot? Gatekeeping, especially from older generations to younger ones. Like, if I’m playing an older song on YouTube I’ll see stuff in the comments like, “This is so much better than modern day trash!!” and if I’m watching something from an old kids show for them nostalgic feels I see stuff like, “BACK WHEN KIDS SHOWS WERE GOOD AMIRITE??” and it’s like… A lot of shows I grew up with were Disney Channel movies and stuff with low effort and budget. I still enjoy them, but they weren’t better than what’s on today. If anything, there are a lot of shows today that are so much higher in quality.

And even if it’s not from one generation to another, it’s always some sort of comparison to someone else. Like, “This is so much better than stupid pop music.” Just stop. It’s not a competition. Like what you want to like, but don’t shame anyone else. Don’t pretend to be the king so you can force people to respect you.

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Even if Snape was a bad person, You’re allowed to like him

Even if Snape was a good person, You’re allowed to hate him

Even if you get hate or like Snape, You shouldn’t be rude to those who disagree with you.

This goes for any other characters but I see the most arguements about Snape

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I just want to say before people start hating me that it is so super possible to change your opinion on a team that you thought you disliked . It’s happened to me with the Bruins for example ( I was a leafie at one point and thought it was the dirtiest team in the league- uh all teams are pretty dirty ) but also look where I am now with them and it’s because I liked and supported Jake DeBrusk since swift current 🤷‍♀️

Anyways, it is also possible to have players that you support on teams that you may not like . I don’t like Chicago but i support stromer and kitty ( debrincat ) because I’ve watched them with Erie . It’s not that hard to have players you like play for teams you don’t .

Feel free to continue supporting and liking cause you’re doing such a good job . However reblogging things like ‘ he’s the only valid {insert team that you dislike here } ‘ or ‘ I wish he played for another team ‘ - especially content created by a fan of said team that say uses the team as a coping mechanism to help with their anxiety and depression is not okay .

Support whatever players that you do like no matter what team they are on and don’t let anyone tell you that you can not like so and so but please also be respectful for the fans of teams that you may not like .

If you don’t feel comfortable with tagging the team then do not tag the team ( I can’t pull myself to tag blues after the playoffs but I don’t hate them - just angry and upset )

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If you support DeadlyRose (Rose x Oleana), defend Oleana’s actions and deliberately ignore what she did to Bede, or
Genuinely believe Rose is a horrible person/Tory/killed people or flanderize him, DNI. Please.

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