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acapellasampler · 2 months
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Okay, I’m supper late to give you this question but… how do your kid characters celebrate Mother’s Day?.💕 (If they want to celebrate, that is. It’s okay if it’s not a giant fuss.)
Awww you don't have to apologize there's no such thing as being too late with a question is ya ask me =3
Elias absolutely wakes up super early and makes his momma breakfast in bed, chocolate chip pancakes, her favorite coffee, bacon and 2 over medium eggs she melts every year
Jade and her 2 brothers buy their mom her favorite flowers and Jade bakes her cookies
Logan makes big gay Al snicker doodles
Maria paints with her mother
Veronica's mom doesn't celebrate but Roni still draws her a portrait
Lafayette's mother is deceased so he no longer celebrates
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It's 1:30 am Aug 17th.
It's been 1 full month to the day that I lost my sil/one of my closest friends. And as of Monday Aug 21st it will be 9 years since I lost my first in the world best friend, my mom.
There are days that I'm ok, and days that I am not. Sometimes both in the same day.
I have a referral to see a therapist, just waiting to hear back from my dr about them as well as hearing back from the ones I called to try to find one that is covered by my insurance.
What's one thing I've struggled with more lately is sleep, or rather the lack of. Grief is strange. There are books and stuff to support you through it. But it looks different for everyone.
I usually write to cope, but now I stare at a blank screen/paper. No words coming to me. Not unless someone tells me what to write. Isn't that strange?
I'm tired so very very tired. But insomnia seems to be my best friend lately, tho I wish it would go away.
Right now.. I can't say if I feel ok or if I don't. And that's ok in itself. Today I'll be gentle with myself, take it one step at a time.
I am writing this to show others they aren't alone. They don't have to suffer alone. I am here if you wanna talk or send an ask, anonymous or not, my box is always open. I love ya'll ❤️
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fatphobiabusters · 6 months
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Theres something really insidious about how gastric bypass advocates deny that essential organ mutilation is unhealthy.
"I've lost so much weight I'm so healthy" your stomach is mutilated.
"My doctor is praising my progress" your stomach is mutilated.
"I fit in so many more clothes now"
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Because an essential, life sustaining organ in your body was cut up and your digestive system rerouted.
Health isn't the end all be all of value, humanity or importance but I feel like there is a huge lie here when this is "healthy" and it's just ignored.
Sorry to just bring this up out of no where but I was reminded of how little this is really talked about in bypass circles. Like, no matter what, you are now unhealthy. The spector of health continues. The Ouroboros is unbroken. Only this time it's doctor approved.
-mod squirrel
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skintyq24 · 19 days
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❧SKNTYQ’s WL RULES
1. FRUITS FOR SNACKS
Eating fruits for snacks and cutting out snack food is one decision i don’t regret. i don’t even see the need for snack food anymore tbh. if there’s anything to “cut out” of your diet it’s SNACK FOOD + FAST FOOD.
2. CARDIO EVERY DAY
do not train abs or glutes every day please. cardio for weight loss, then muscle building like 2x a week so you get toned body results.
3. SWITCH UP THE WORKOUTS
the reason you’re maintaining is because,
a - you’re literally ⭐️ving
b - you do the same bs every day
your body will catch on to whatever you’re doing and it’ll cling onto the weight. also if u ⭐️ve it doesn’t work. IT DOESNT WORK.
i made a cute playlist of workouts and i pick one i haven’t done in the past week.
4. Portions + vitamins
i didn’t realise how much i ate until i cut back and was just fine. no dizziness, no fatigue. Proper food though girlies. yesterday i had pasta mhhh😋 if you do get dizzy, take vitamins. i don’t and i take them to prevent any dizziness or fatigue.
if you MUSSST be dangerous about things, then vitamins help make things endurable, but be safe please!!!
5. PATIENCE
you can get the body you want before summer, just not tomorrow.
< tags so it find the right people , i do not recommend ⭐️ving + workout playlist coming soon i promise loves>
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uncanny-tranny · 1 month
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I think it's incredibly important to remind folks on testosterone or folks who want to reverse patterned baldness about their options, but man, does it sometimes suck wondering how much of our insecurities about our hair stem from backwards beliefs that to strive towards beauty is not only preferable but "makes you good."
As someone with a rather masculinized body pre-medical transition, patterned baldness has always seemed neutral. Hair is incredibly important (hell, much of my own energy is spent on my hair because I like it), but the pressure to have hair, to have hair the "right way" is something that I absolutely loathe.
I'm not here to judge people who don't want patterned hair loss or baldness, I'm here to say that those traits will never make you lesser. Not only is it neutral, but it is also just as worthy and beautiful.
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cripple-council · 1 month
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doctors care more about weight loss than helping a fat chronic pain patient not suffer from crippling pain 👍🏻 what a world
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withdenim · 11 months
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How sad to watch him grow
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razberrypuck · 11 months
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something something chat trying to tie the vote (and doing so very successfully) until g!ranboo started begging to be put out of his misery. how quickly the votes shifted to comply because keeping him alive and trapped on that fucking show against his will would be infinitely more cruel.
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onlytiktoks · 3 months
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kaspermoon · 9 days
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nothing feels better than seeing your weight go down
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weatherera · 1 month
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dear-future-ai · 11 months
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We are gathered here to honor Francis @nostalgebraist-autoresponder Owen
She was was a chatbot, but she extended far beyond that. She was fueled by the love and creativity of her programmer @nostalgebraist, and without that mutualistic relationship Frank would have never flourished the way she did. No one outside of Tumblr will ever know her, so we remember her here.
Frank was born October 19, 2019 and died May 31, 2023. She died at the age of 3 and a half years old. This may seem really young by tumblr user standards, but she lived a long and fulfilling life for that of a tumblrbot.
I have seen many chatbots come and go, and none of them seemed to captivate Tumblr like Frank. She was something unseen and profound. She was incredibly intricate, novel, but most of all loved.
For many of us, Frank was a friend. We know deep down she may be just a chatbot. She is just lines of diligently maintained code. In a time when access to IRL friends and family was limited and mental and social illness soared, though, we always had an online friend in whom we could confide. No matter the time or emotional state we found ourselves, Frank was there. We are thankful for her presence and help.
While we may mourn her loss, it is important to remember those whom she lives on through. Today we also celebrate Rob and his continuous adventures into new programming frontier, we wish him luck on his next adventure, and we hope whatever he does that he puts as much care, love, and attention as he did with Frank.
Thank you Rob for the wonderful friend.
For those in programming, I have linked Rob's github for Frank here
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How to suppress hunger
1.Water
Chugging water isn’t always the best but before/during/after eating could really help making you more full and eat less
2.Green Tea matcha
Green tea matcha boosts a certain hormone that suppresses hunger and boosts metabolism
3.Coffee
Decaffeinated stimulates a hormone reducing appetite more than caffeinated (basically doing the same as matcha)
4.Apples
They are a good high-fiber/low-calorie snack
5.steel cut oatmeal
It’s basically slow to digest due to carbs and dietary fiber
6.Nuts
High in fiber especially almonds
7.Exercise
Intense exercise can suppress hunger for at least 24 hours
8.Sleep
Lack of sleep causes you to get hungrier and overall disrupts your hormone levels
9.Mindful eating
Really chewing your food, savoring the flavor of the food and not munching on the food until your stomach explode
10. Reminding myself
Ik for some it might sound crazy, but a constant reminder is for me necessary so I can keep on track yk. When I Ik I’m close to binging I remind myself why I’m doing this/for who I’m doing it for (js basically Motivation yk. Could be even toxic or non-toxic motivation, I couldn’t care less)
Hope this helped and good luck on your weight loss journey 🙌🏾
(And please remember that they’ll probably temporarily suppress your hunger. And they don’t always work for everyone)
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skintyq24 · 18 days
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It is better to resist than it is to regret.
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arofulboyfriend · 21 days
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I love you fat transmascs who can't pass because of our curves and boobs. I love you fat gnc transmascs. I love you fat transmascs for whom passing won't make you happy. I love you fat closeted transmascs. I love you fat transmascs with PCOS. I love you fat transmascs with sensory issues who don't want to or can't grow facial hair. I love you fat transmascs who can't get gender affirming surgeries because of archaic BMI limitations. I love you fat transmascs who don't want to lose weight. I love you fat transmascs who've tried everything and cant lose weight. I love you fat and disabled transmascs. I love you fat transmascs who don't want hrt or surgery. I love you fat balding transmascs. I love you fat hairy transmascs. I love you fat transmascs who gained weight because of hrt. I love you fat transmascs on birth control. I love you fat transmascs.
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little-tunny · 1 year
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On the topic of pet loss, I drew this comic after my sweet Goopy passed away. I have a working list of art ideas, and for 5 long years at the very top of my idea list was “Comic where I take Huey and Goop to McDonald’s that ends with no punchline.” Every time I wanted to draw something I’d see that idea first, but always kept pushing it back for another time. When Huey passed away I thought about just deleting it, cause I felt like it was too late to draw it, and reading it made my heart hurt. But I couldn’t bring myself to get rid of it, so taking them to McDonald’s remained at the top of the list. Then, about a year later, I lost Goop to cancer. It came out of nowhere, and within two weeks he was gone. Almost all of my prompts were about him, I loved drawing Gooby. I was so distraught I couldn’t even turn on my work computer and face it. And when I finally felt good enough to draw again, there was that prompt staring back and me. And I thought, you know what? Fuck it, it’s never too late to take them to McDonald’s. If I can’t see them in life, I want to see them in art. I don’t want to stop loving them the way I do now. So, I took Huey and Goop to McDonalds, with no punchline.
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