#never understood that

[mindsoulchaos]

About Fugaku and Minato...

Look, I can get the thought pattern behind calling Fugaku an abusive father. Admittingly, he was not the best father (personally, I wouldn't call him abusive, he was more distant, demanding and awkward than anything, so putting him in the same bag as the likes of Hiashi and Rasa just doesn't sit well with me). However, I always laugh up my sleeve a bit when I see the very same people who portray him as evil and abusive staning or even wanking Minato, calling him a perfect father and singing his praises just because he's handsome and outwardly charming/friendly. Like, the irony of it.

Minato, the "best father of the year material" who literally turned his baby son into a WMD to ensure the village's military strength. Thus causing Naruto to be ostracized and hated by Konoha villagers until he saved their stupid, ungrateful asses. Also, the fact that Naruto's first reaction upon meeting Minato was to punch him in the guts only proves further my point lol xD

Compare this to Fugaku who, while not a flawless parent, was willing to let himself get killed by his own son because he didn't want to fight (and possibly kill) him, and even had a few nice words for him. The son who sided with their clan’s oppressors. And the last thing he did before dying was literally asking Itachi to protect Sasuke.

Don't get me wrong, I don't even fundamentally dislike Minato (altho IMO he's a bit of a gary-stu...)... But this level of cognitive dissonance/double standard/whatever you want to call it is just beyond me.

#anti minato #kinda #anti konoha #anti shinobi system #pro uchiha #anti itachi #never understood that #uchiha fugaku #fugaku uchiha #fugaku isn't even a villain #anti will of fire

[myhotmessandsoccer]

I had another lady at lunch time tell me “it’s way past time for you to grow up” Why are so many obsessed with me and what I do?🙄

#never understood that

[reviilo]

is there a bigger plot hole in rrverse than ALL of the demigods being able to have some extension of prophetic powers

#hoo #heroes of olympus #pjo #percy jackson & the olympians #toa #trials of apollo #if demigod children only inherit their divine parent's powers and habilities #why everyone has a little bit of apollo's power? #never understood that

[marley-bean]

Something I never understood was Kitty giving Tina her dress in Tina In The Sky With Diamonds. I mean, yes, that was a wonderfully kind thing to do, but there was a rack of costume dresses right behind them? And the dresses were nice looking and could easily pass as prom dresses.

So why didn’t Kitty take one after giving Tina hers? Or why didn’t Tina take one in the first place?

#glee #tina cohen chang #kitty wilde #thoughts from a gleek #never understood that

[chloesimaginationthings]

At least Matpat lives on in the FNAF universe

#myart #chloesimagination #comic #matpat #game theory #mike schmidt #abby schmidt #ness fnaf #freddy fazzbears pizza #freddy fazbear #fnaf #fnaf movie #fnaf fanart #five nights at freddy's #I wasn’t planning on drawing a YouTuber again for awhile #but this was a special occasion #I can’t believe Matpat never solved fnaf #he lives on in the fnaf universe though as Ness #Mike wants to argue with him so bad but can’t disprove him either #Abby understood all of it BAHA #she’d keep up with the theories that guy lays down #Tysm Matpat for all your crazy theories 💚

[pichiicake]

#Happy Lunar New Year! #Tiny dragons for the Year of the Dragon #dragon #pokemon #gible #goomy #dreepy #jangmo-o #bagon #dratini #frigibax #axew #deino #larvitar #pseudo-legendary #Trying out a new brush I really like #I never understood why they made Beldum a psudeo-legendary but not Axew

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

going through my old journals as part of therapy homework and i'm reading a section written in the emotional wreckage of a full-on breakdown when i get hit with this line:

There is never a satisfying answer to ‘Why didn’t they love me?’

like wow babe. good fucking point

#like you were on the ground biting the carpet and dry sobbing while you wrote that and still. good fucking point #not a shitpost #cptsd #and it's true. there's never a satisfying answer #the truth is i know why i wasn't loved #i analyzed my parent's traumas and abuse to death. i understand why i alienated and was alienated from my siblings #i know why my mom was too overwhelmed to be capable of nurturing #i know why my dad vanished into addiction and avoidance #the details of our cycles of trauma and cptsd and family history i have a phd in all of it #i understood perfectly. i spent years studying and now i knew the answer #and guess what? IT WAS NOT SATISFYING!!! #because they still didn't love me! and i still couldn't change that! #it was still a completely unsatisfying state of affairs! #so like. when the people who are supposed to love you...don't. #when the people who are supposed to take care of you...fail to #you can look for answers and reasons and explanations #but that's not actually going to FIX your situation. #and it's probably not within your ability TO fix the situation. (and definitely not your job) #because you don't need answers--you need a new situation #*inserts Just Walk Out. You Can Leave!!! (Running Skeleton) Meme* #and yes. walking out isn't always possible. #but for you i hope it will be one day soon. and i hope you build the courage to take that leap. #stepping away from the people who failed to love you...it feels like being untethered but also like being lighter than air #new and scary. immensely relieving. the future opens up. empty but empty like a canvas. blindingly bright until your eyes adjust #like climbing out of a pit you called home and for the first time realizing how bright the light of day can truly be #when you aren't just getting glimpses from the bottom of a hole

[deadmomjokes]

PSA: tomatoes are not spicy. Tomatoes and tomato products should not be spicy. Pizza sauce isn't inherently spicy. Tomato-based pasta sauce is not spicy. Ketchup is NOT spicy.

If tomatoes are spicy, you have an allergy to tomatoes.

This announcement brought to you by my almost 29-year-old husband learning for the first time in his 2.8 decades of putting food products into his mouth that spaghetti and saucy pizza aren't spicy foods

#his amazement at our daughter eating spaghetti willingly #when apparently he's been suffering in silence over there his whole life #and i'm like ???? #and he's like ''you didn't make this spicy?'' #NO #NO I DID NOT #and he just blue screens for a minute #and i'm like YOU THINK SPAGHETTI IS SPICY??? #and he's all ''yeah that's why i prefer we don't have it very often'' #the absolute SHOCK i tell you #turns out he hates ketchup because it's spicy and he never understood why people wanted to dip fries in spicy sauce #i was like ''DUDE ketchup is supposed to be sweet and maybe a touch tangy but also cool and refreshing'' #and he's like ''SWEET?????'' #so uh yeah turns out dude's allergic to tomatoes and he just assumed everyone had a way higher spice tolerance than him #cuz he can find ''non spicy'' food too hot #and it's just all tomato based stuff and we never thought to connect the dots #mild salsa? too spicy. IT'S THE TOMATOES. #tacos? too spicy even at baby heat levels. IT'S THE TOMATOES. #prefers alfredo to marinara despite alfredo having objectively more pepper in it than marinara #he thought his spice tolerance was just so wimpy that my 'normal' was too spicy for him #so he's just been dealing with 1-3 meals a week being spicy to him our entire marriage WITHOUT SAYING A WORD #because he didn't want to offend me with his wimpy palate #IT'S THE TOMATOES #it's always been the gosh darn tomatoes

[skyx-the-witch]

Vivziepop male character: *is supposed to be hot and attractive. Canonically everyone wants to fuck him, he is flirty, confident and makes everyone fall in love with him as soon as he appear. Hes got the best voice actor to make the most masculine and attractive voice to match his supposed sexiness. Everyone in the fandom talks about how he makes them wet their panties*

The fucking character design:

#hazbin hotel critical #vivziepop critical #Helluva Boss critical #Vivziepop criticism #This type of characters makes me umcomfortable #I hated Moxxie's ex in that one episode #they tried so hard to make us simp for him being “smexy” when he is just ugly af #Hazbin Hotel will have lots of these #Never simped for Lucifer and Alastor and never understood why everyone in the fandom did #Helluva Boss criticism #Hazbin Hotel criticism

[mobius-m-mobius]

Oh, Crowley. Nothing lasts forever.

#aziraphale #crowley #michael sheen #david tennant #good omens #good omens 2 #well guess who finished s2 and will be ill for the foreseeable future WTF JUST HAPPENED😭😭 #never giffed so quick in my life lmfao gotta get some of this angst out or i'll implode #honestly understood what he meant bc they can't ignore heaven and hell but... sick and twisted twisted and sick!! #msheenedit #dtennantedit #good omens spoilers #goodomensedit #gos2spoilers #dianagifs

[uncanny-tranny]

Basically, my philosophy around disability fakers is: I would rather a thousand people fake a disability than have one disabled person suffer without care, aids, compassion, or any help.

#disability #disability advocacy #and there's a difference not many people seem to recognize between faking and realizing you don't have [x] problem... #...such as realizing you don't have [x] disorder because it is instead [y] disorder... #...or you haven't completely understood your care needs/your symptoms/what helps you... #...and some people see ANY change in your understanding of your disability as proof of maliciously faking... #...when i suppose in my personal experience people don't *maliciously* fake disability... #...i'm not saying it could never happen but that i don't think it's the *only* thing motivating people called fakers #i just think (like most everything) this is complex and nuanced because it's a *human* experience #like for me personally i /know/ i still have a lot to learn about my disabilities... #...like... i realized recently that my hands shouldn't be in AGONY when warm water is ran over them when it's SLIGHTLY cold inside or out... #...and i realized that i likely have a Noticable limb difference that needs checking out. does this sound like i'm faking... #...or that maybe i just didn't really explore my own needs and body because of a variety of factors? #i can assure you it is because i haven't really thought before about how i deserved to understand how to best help myself

[lucabyte]

isat doodles in the form of a silly-serious-silly sandwich

#much like my thoughts after finishing sasasap. i reiterate. i would like to pour milk on them and throw them against a wall. and so i do. #in stars and time #isat fanart #isat spoilers #isat siffrin #isat loop #sifloop #isafrin #lucabyteart #siffrin #loop #isat #'i never understood this lizard' doodle inspired by user @nerdpiggy's meme compilation. its been living in my brain since i saw it. thanks #ALSO SORRY FOR THE LIKE. CRUMBS . ISAFRIN FANS. ITS NOT MUCH BUT ITS THERE.... #isafrin is delightful but the triad of all 3 is where im at bc i neeeeed my ships to have Strain and Stress and Potential Ethical Problems #anyway. rambling. i like them

[datchidatchi]

You're a loser, baby. 💖💖💖

#hazbin hotel #hazbin angel dust #hazbin husk #huskerdust #hazbin hotel spoilers #the songs are really GOOD god DAMN #i've seen pple ship these two and i never understood it #but now? #i have seen the light #i was so blind

[becaexists]

The temptation just to cover my face in vapour rub just to see what would happen is getting stronger and harder to control by the second

#mmmmm cold face #why is the cold spicy #never understood that

[hannibal-is-my-comfort-show]

#Exept will understood and went 'oh that's hot' like the criminally insane queer that he is <3 #love him sm #They both broke into Bedelia's dms togther #doxed her #and called it their honeymoon #hope they never change <3 #hannibal #nbc hannibal #hannibal nbc #netflix #hannibal netflix #will graham #hannibal lecter #hannigram #murder husbands #renew hannibal #revive hannibal #hannibal crack

[sea-buns]

it wasn't that long ago that i was in a high school math class and yet my eyes have never glazed over faster. i was good at math. i enjoy math. you want the fucking train question? in two minutes? omg i didn't know you were so funny haha

#i dont think i EVER properly understood how to do the train problem #like i mightve done it for one lesson and then never saw it again and happily forgot #the fact that lou ally and murph even tried is astounding #and emily zac and siobhan immediately thinking about the pass stamp is so fair lmao #if i cant do it now i sure as hell cant imagine doing it over a decade out of hs #godspeed intrepid heroes #dimension 20 #d20 #fantasy high junior year #fhjy spoilers #fhjy