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violaobanion · 3 months

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MASTERS OF THE AIR (2024) a very serious war drama about very serious WWII pilots

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running-with-kn1ves · 3 months

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No flippin way we almost have 5k followers!! thats more people than I've ever heard of in my life man. What would yall want for a 5k special???? I'll do p much anything to show my gratitude (in moderation, ya filthies) but I have no clue what you do to comemorate these kinds of things.

#like.. opening reqs for a period of time again? lol #uHH maybe writing actual fanfiction of a fan favorite character?#maybe make a poll of what character you want to see babygirl-ified? and proceed to their bimbofication #drawing my ocs? thats not really special tho I could just doodle them all rq #knives rants #kn1ves rants

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reigningmax · 1 year

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Max/Charles Fic Recs

New-ish fic recs! * Favorite ** Smut

*home (is wherever I'm with you) by @sunshineyoujustwait

Charles leaves Ferrari, tries to win a championship, and learns some things about belonging. All the while, Max is there.

(one of the best Max’s written, I fucking loved this)

Ribs by anonymous Charles injures himself before the last race of the season. The only option is to power through it.

*How to Babygirl-ify Your Boyfriend by anonymous Charles sees someone on the internet call Max babygirl. He’s instantly obsessed.

**an unconventional surprise by anonymous Pierre walks in on Charles and Max and is suddenly rather intrigued about how it would feel to bottom for the first time.

***if you pay right by @drivestraight When Pierre came out and confessed he was going through the does God still love me? crisis/cliché, Charles just could not bear to tell him he was starting to think that God didn’t love anyone.

Silly me by @nyoomleclerc “We’re not asking you to ‘woo’ him,” Christian says, looking pained at having to say the word ‘woo’, “We just need others to think you’ve wooed him.”

*backs against the wall by anonymous Max is trying to get over a crush, and Charles makes it very difficult indeed.

***want it good want it all by anonymous When Max puts the disc into the cartridge of his PS4 he isn't sure what to expect.

***objects in the mirror by @drivestraight Two Formula 1 drivers walk into a bar and accidentally have a heart-to-heart.

(the holy grail of the lestappen fics)

***like fire and powder by @grandprix-ao3

“He told me that some Alphas, they submit. He said that submissive Alphas like to be fucked. Like girls. Like Omegas. Fuck them enough, and they will become one. You can make them your bitch.”

#my post #lestappen fic rec #lestappen fic recs #fic rec #lestappen #max verstappen #charles leclerc

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wen-kexing-apologist · 9 days

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Hello. For violence, number 12 & 13 please. Have a wonderful day! Rose💜

Hello Rose! Thank you for choosing violence today.

12. The unpopular character that you actually like and why more people should like them

Dynamite Chuchok.

(I love you baby boy, don't you worry)

I do not understand why so many people hated that boy. I love me a happy!sad, and that boy was one of them. I loved how vibrant and open he was about his sexuality, with how vocal he was about his feelings for Fire, that boy is so so brave. He has suffered a lot, he has lost so much, and he refuses to live his life inauthentically. He knows when to push, when to back off, he knows where the boundaries are, where to take space, make space, give space, and he understands exactly why Fire is scared to come out to his Mom. I mean, Dynamite (and Prem) jeopardizes his friendship with Unky in order to keep his relationship with Fire secret and experiences the consequences of Unky being mad that Dynamite didn’t out Fire.

It is very rare that I feel compelled to write posts about characters in order to defend them, but that is exactly what I was doing when I wrote this Dynamite body language post.

Also, because this is the Choose Violence Ask Game. I will throw out a hot take:

if Mark Pakin had played Dynamite and the character had been exactly the same, we would not have seen the level of hate for Dynamite we saw for Aungpao's Dynamite. So.

Other characters I love with my whole being but that seem to have some contentious relationships to fandom are: Sailom from Wedding Plan, Patts from La Pluie, and Teh from I Told Sunset About You and I Promised You The Moon.

13. Worst blorboficiation

First Kanaphan.

Not a character I know, but it has to be said.

I love that man, but holy shit we need to stop baby-girl-ifying him. And when I say ‘we’ here I don’t just mean BL fans. I mean GMMTB themselves. First is an incredible actor, but the writers and directors always end up babygirl-ifying his characters by the end of their shows. Let! That! Man! Act!

He can cry so well, it’s true. I understand the desire to let him cry on camera. I understand that his face and those stupid big brown baby cow eyes make it really really easy for him to become blorbo-able but dear GOD I am BEGGING someone to LET THAT MAN HAVE A CONSISTENT CHARACTER. I love Akk, I love him, but the way they handled his character makes him mushy, Sand started out really sarcastic with a kind of take no bullshit attitude and then became this simp, Yok was a phenomenal little slut who FUCKED A FUCKING COP and then cried when the cop (surprise surprise) betrayed him.

As a point of comparison, the first show I saw Khaotung in was The Eclipse, so you could color me surprised when he showed up all tiny and timid and kind in A Tale of 1000 Stars. Because Ayan was kinda an asshole the entire show. He had a very specific personality that was sustained throughout the show. First did not have the same luxury.

Make Me Choose Violence

#choose violence ask game #cooking crush #cooking crush the series #aungpao ochiris #first kanaphan

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punkeropercyjackson · 2 months

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How are you guys 'Are you lost babygirl'-ifying Hobie Brown.This is Jason Todd all over again and i see it with Percy Jackson too somefuckinghow,why do you guys write your guy characters crushes exactly the same and more importantly how do you find them hot instead of generic douchebags

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amnesiacbastard · 7 months

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rate one piece men based on the ability to babygirlify them

This genuinely is such a good question, because every single man is babygirl if you're fucked up enough. Anyways...

Buggy - 9/10

He was already babygirl'ified because of the live Action, but before that he wasn't babygirl yet... nor was proclaimed babygirl... but he was babygirl. Def.

Luffy - 8/10

He's pretty babygirl, but he's like... stupid kind of babygirl. I love him dearly as he is me (we're both brazilian, it's enough for me to be him), and I'd say he's pretty babygirl for those who are looking for silly and whimsical men.

Zoro - 9/10

I'll say it, he's pretty babygirl. He's not a 10/10 babygirl because he doesn't fully encaptivate the babygirl charm but it's fine, it's enough.

Sanji - 10/10

No explanation needed

Usopp - 5/10

He's a rare babygirl, haven't seen anyone babygirl-ify him yet and it makes me upset. I love him a lot but he doesn't captivate babygirl feel.. but it's ok! He's special and I love him, babygirl or not.

Shanks - 8/10

I'd say he's a 10/10 babygirl but he kisses boys so.

Shank's ex husband Mihawk - 10/10

he's got mysterious babygirl vibes, love that for him

Kuro - 6/10

He almost looks babygirl enough but... idk I don't fucking like him so

Arlong - 2/10

Yeah. You gotta be kind of fucked up in the head.

Doflamingo - 10/10

Fucking Bastard.

That's all the men I could think of, sorry.

#one piece shanks #one piece mihawk #one piece arlong #one piece luffy #one piece buggy #one piece sanji #one piece zoro #one piece usopp #babygirl #one piece

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callmegaith · 26 days

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Hi! I’m new to the rusty lake fandom and I wanted to ask why is David Eilander so babygirl-ified? This isn’t hate, I’m all here for it (and the art is incredible!) I’m just curious if I might have missed some lore about him or if the fandom just really likes his character

(sorry if this ask is rude aaaa)

Hiii welcome to the fanbase!! I hope you enjoy your stay and that you feel welcomed and embraced by the lake.

Don't worry at all you don't sound rude. 💜

So years ago this wasn't the case. People did used to hate him but there was a shift later as, I assume, people realized that when you meet David in Paradise, he's just a 15 year old. He's a dumb teen in a cult, who doesn't know any better cuz he's probably just going along with his family.

David is one of the most interesting characters in the series when you give his character some thinking. His journey sticks out from the other characters yet remains unexplored (for now)

As I often get asked about him (being the self-proclaimed #1 David fan xD) I'll link you to an ask I got that is similar to yours.

Cuz I could talk about this guy alllll day and I don't wanna bore you, Anon.

I think people, with time, simply started thinking about David more deeply which gave them a better picture of who he is. Just a boy who never got to be a kid, like his siblings.

I will say I did have a hand in that especially recently where I started working on a comic that explores his character more which also prompted others to view David differently (it sounds like a humble brag I'm sorry 😭 but I'm just relaying the responses I've gotten from the fanbase)

TLDR; David is a character you need to look into beyond surface level to really understand. He is the one that set off the domino chain that led to Dale being where he is now after all. He's important to the lore but has yet to be explored fully.

Hope this gave you a good picture, anon. Personally to me, he's always been my son. I loved him 6 years ago when no one did, and I still love him now, and I know I always will, because at this point... I know he's capable of crime and I still support him fully 😌

#asks!#RL: lore and theories

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carnation-notebooks · 1 year

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This will bring a new wave of Desert Bluffs girlies. And i have one note for them,

Please do NOT babygirl-ify Kevin. Hes sooooo fucked up and strange and thats the point. He can be ur baby girl, but dont make him sad and patheic, or at least He doesnt think Hes sad.

That is all. I just do not want people to make him all nice and uwu and baby hes sooooo messed up/pos.

Hes the " aw a little guy!" -> "Oh hes a little messed up actually" except a lot messed up

#kevin wtnv #Wtnv #welcome to night vale #kevin wtdb

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sunshinemarauders · 11 months

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Why do people babygirl-ify Death Eaters?

Hi everyone! I'm back with more of my research!

After returning to the marauders fandom to study it, I was particularly interested in why fans were drawn to characters that were canonically death eaters. I understood the obsession with Regulus Black and Draco Malfoy- they were canonically children and they canonically defied the Death Eaters, but I was curious about Evan Rosier and Barty Crouch Jr. To my (pretty extensive) knowledge, all we know about them is that they're Death Eaters, they're Wizard Nazis. So why did I, in doing my research, keep finding people saying these two characters were their "babygirls"? It concerned both me and my professor, who thought it indicated a bigger problem within fandom as a whole. The ability to think that making a character queer erases them of their ties to the Death Eaters is, in my opinion, dangerous. How will this be played out in the real world? Will we see actual Nazis, or actual terrorists, or actual war criminals be called babygirls?

This is a short summary of why people said they think people "babygirl-ify" Rosekiller (Evan Rosier and Barty Crouch Jr.) from my research. As always, if you have any questions or if you want to chat about any of this, reach out to me! My asks are open

Because its fun

I truly think it has less to do with their evilness, and more to do with what we have in canon. We know characters Draco Malfoy, we know what they're like, what they've done. Then, we see something 'uncharacteristic' and it stands out, like a literary uncanny valley. It stands out, and if someone was to try, I know I'd just swipe past it. However, when you compare them to "empty vessel" name-only characters, because we don't have many fully-fleshed out evil characters in the material, it's easy to slap a babygirl sticker all over him, and be like oh its my headcanon. A popular character, with facts and details about them, will stand out when you make a new headcanon that doesn't fit inside what we know about HP. I think characters like Barty, Evan, and even Regulus, are ragdolled around and basically original by the time nearly anyone writes them. This isn't a condemnation! Just how I understand it.

People started to realize that Regulus was an interesting character himself, rather than him being a bratty younger sibling to Sirius. Therefore he had to have friends, so we started to see a surge in Evan and Barty. In the early Reggie appreciation era (early 2022) we saw quite a bit of Bartylus, but that has died down as people like to think of Jegulus as their endgame now. I also think that fanfiction greatly shapes the minds of the fandom, especially well written popular ones. The first and most prominent one that Rosekiller character appears in is Just Lovers (like we were supposed to be) on ao3 by bizarrestars. Here, they are playful and sarcastic best friends of Reggie who help him through his lil emotions. Everyone loved them so much that the zar (the author) gave us their own lil intermission of it.

Because it's fun! I really don't think it's deeper than that. People started liking Regulus and then they decided that his friends could be nice too, and then they decided that his friends could be queer or even dating each other and they could be babygirls and who cares it's just fun. I'm not a big Rosekiller shipper and I'm more of a Wolfstar girl lately (but that's just because most of the Jegulus fics are sooo poor quatlity, like yes I know that Regulus is mean, but if you make him an absolute ass with no redeaming qualites I'm not gonna want them to get together) so I might not have the most insight on this, but I don't really with there's a deeper reasoning here other than the fact that it's fun.i guess because people just wanted to see them as "normal teenagers" like the marauders, like to remember that before they became death eaters they were boys as well doing stupid things and getting in trouble like everyone else did, and also because they fit well into regulus' potential circle of friends, idk i like the idea that the three of them (evan, barty and reg) were friends in school and then they took different paths where regulus "got" his redemption arc and the others just went insane following voldemort's ideals, i guess i just love angst and it would be a tragic story of how their friendship ended tbh

For a long time we had very few Slytherin students in the Marauders era, and whether we like it or not Slytherin is the most popular house of Harry Potter, people love characters with tragic pasts and dubious morality and also they are characters with very poor description and easy to shape in their personal desire, I don't think that's wrong, but I have no interest in them as characters, to me they're just irrelevent, occasionally appearing in my ideas for fanfics I'll never write, usually as future death eaters

i think the current fandom is less inclined to read/write self-insert fics or OCs, and evan and barty are essentially blank slates that authors can overlay whatever personality they want to that will help fill out their story. also, it’s fun to add characters to the slytherin house during years we don’t know much about. also x2, most fics aren’t writing about them killing people and enjoying it. i don’t think the fact that they were death eaters is the reason people are babygirl-ifying them or wanting to ship them.

this is a very interesting question, and i haven’t thought about it in these terms. personally, as i mentioned briefly in the last question, i hate babygirl-ification in general. i don’t like the way that it infantilizes men, and despite the fact that in this case they’re fictional, i’ve seen it happen with real people several times (dan and phil, crankgameplays, even markiplier a little bit). it has very weird connotations and i just don’t vibe with it at all. he’s not your softboy cinnamon roll babygirl, he’s a man in his 20s. it’s just odd to me, and i’m FTM transgender, so i’ve seen it happen to trans men too and it just feels gross to me. like i’m not softboy cinnamon roll i’m just. a guy. i am literally just a guy. but like in general i hate the concept of babygirl-ifying anyone, as for it being characters without a redemption arc, i think it’s because they got popular in a fic where they were never evil in the first place. i could be wrong, but from what i noticed barty and evan only became liked characters in Just Lovers, which is a no-voldemort AU, meaning they were never death eaters. and they were given nicer roles in the story to serve the plot and further regulus’ character development. like they only got a better reputation because the author needed them to for the plot and they were in a setting where that made sense, and ever since then they’ve been big characters. like i don’t think it’s necessarily about them in canon at all. i think people liked who they were in that one story and it just kind of exploded from there and now they’re being written with redemption arcs in other works too. and really, i don’t see anything wrong with that. i will say i am Not A Fan of those AUs where someone joins the death eaters to save someone else, like james joining for reg, i refuse to touch them. that’s icky to me. but yeah idk. i don’t like babygirl on the whole, i think it’s gross and infantilizing and weird, but as for why these characters are getting that treatment, i think it’s literally just because of a fic they read where they were interesting characters and weren’t morally reprehensible and it’s snowballed from there.

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saetoru · 9 months

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just finished reading your break up makeup richboy gojo fic and it was the first in a while that i felt so many things at once especially when gojo was so desperate to bring reader back in his arms 😭😭😭😭 you are so talented ilysm

also side note i’d like to think that in the long run it would be reader who’d propose first as a way of confirming that satoru really is it for them. their lifeline. especially after he fought hard to win them TWICE 🥹 and also as a way of self-acceptance that they really are deserving of gojo’s love huhu i seriously love their trope and could ramble on and on i love both them and you so much

PLEASE you’re so sweet thank you 🥹 i’m so glad you liked it sobsob kissing your forehead gently <3

satoru deserves a grand gesture or two atp he’s been dedicated ENOUGH he deserves to be babygirl-ified by reader now it’s what he deserves. we should buy him a bunny suit !! a fancy and expensive one !! all in favor raise ur hands !! ok everyone raised there hand that’s great <3

#asks!

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elysianymph · 11 months

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for ship bingo: jegulily (only ship i can currently think of it takes up most of my brain power)

ur so real for that bc they take up 99% of my brain too (the 1% goes to all of the unexplored sibling dynamics in the fandom 😔)

here's the 200 word essay i promised:

LISTEN i love them so much. like the one good thing marauders tiktok did was introduce me to this ship bc i genuinely could not choose between jily and jegulus if you put a gun to my head. and the dynamic between regulus and lily??? the younger siblings who were abandoned by their older siblings?? shared trauma hello??? TALK ABOUT THEM MORE

i feel like people look past the ship really quickly because it's 1) a poly ship and 2) a ship including a character most hc as gay (reg) and a character most hc as lesbian (lily). not even gonna mention that regulus is a death eater bc that argument has no value when we've babygirl-ified him in every other aspect in this fandom. like now you wanna bring it up?? 🤨🤨

but their dynamic is just ??? chef's kiss. i have no words like you got rivals to lovers in almost every aspect (jegulus with quidditch, jily has their... thing, and regulily could even be academic rivals if you wanna go down that route??). the drama of a blood traitor pureblood, a muggleborn and a pureblood from a traditional family in ONE relationship??? top tier.

james is the sun, regulus is a star, lily is the sky. or alternatively; james is the sun, regulus is the sea, lily is the earth.

i love every version of them. no voldemort au hogwarts jegulily being awkward teenagers? canon divergence fix it with regulus coming to james and lily's doorstep for help? modern au? regulus as the kindergarten teacher that little harry is trying to set up with his parents (new fic idea just dropped)? band au (i'll get to it one day i promise)? regulus raising harry after jily died?? I WILL LOVE THEM IN EVERY UNIVERSE

also i love their alternative ship name sunflowerseeker JSHSJSJJA

#I COULD TALK ABOUT THEM FOR HOURS #I DO TALK ABOUT THEM FOR HOURS BUT ITS IN MY NOTES BC I THINK IM ANNOYING (i am)#I HAVE OVER 50 DRAFTS ON TUMBLR AND OVER HALF OF THEM ARE JUST JEGULILY #no one compares to them in my mind (except myb wolfstar. they're close)#i feel embarrassed to share my thoughts sometimes bc i think they sound stupid #jegulily #nymph answers

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not-rab · 1 year

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Hi! I've been MIA from the marauders fandom for about two years, and now that I'm back and researching it, I'd love to know your opinion on why the fandom has started to write about/edit/babygirl-ify Evan and Barty? I'm genuinely curious about their transition as being viewed by the fandom as nazis, as bad people to being part of the rolodex of main characters within the fandom? Thanks :)

hi!!! first of all - i’d love to welcome u back into the marauders fandom (we’re never giving u up again)

i think the general hype about Rosekiller (Evan x Barty ship name) is kinda crazy - we literally have 2 lines about Evan in canon

i reckon we’ve gotten those 2 characters bc they were Death Eaters from the Marauders Era and they seemed fit to play the role of Regulus’ best friends

and the whole reason as to why Regulus was seen as redeemable bc Marauders stans saw Draco Malfoy and thought ‘Hey - this guy’s better’

however, i do think that it makes sense for the 3 of them to be close friends: them all having terrible family issues adding to the angst and growing friendship

i rly hope i did a good explanation byeee 🫶🫶

• also, i kid u not - i literally wrote a page about this and accidentally closed Tumblr so i just rewrote it in a rush 😭😭 •

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skaruresonic · 4 months

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I'll add more :)

Nine is treated as a tragic villain by the fandom. He's just a poor bapy boy who only wanted love, but Sonic hurt him because he thinks he's Tails and doesn't appreciate him as himself! So really, no wonder he wants to destroy the shatterverse and even kill Sonic himself! (as some of the Shatter energy or whatever it's called is inside Sonic, and pulling it out would kill him). Hell, Sonic himself apparently only wants to reason with Nine!

I just want to say that no one would forgive him if he was an Eggman counterpart. Same tragic backstory, same pain, same plan. And by all means, an Eggman wanting to destroy a multiverse out of spite is at least more coherent than a Tails doing this.

(btw no I don't think Eggman appears after the first 8 episodes lol)

I would respect Nine more if he was honest with himself: he did it all for the nookie. So Sonic can take that cookie, and stick it up his yeah, stick it up his yeah.

I'm not surprised; after all, this is the same fandom that babygirl-ified Infinite and even put forth theories that he was some sort of wayward Tails. The proto-Nine, if you will.

Before I played Forces for myself, I legit thought that Infinite was a tortured soul loyal to his pack, as opposed to a sadistic, power-hungry bully who doesn't give a single damn that his squad got killed.

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So really, no wonder he wants to destroy the shatterverse and even kill Sonic himself! (as some of the Shatter energy or whatever it's called is inside Sonic, and pulling it out would kill him). Hell, Sonic himself apparently only wants to reason with Nine!

craaaawling in my crawl, these crawl they will not craaaawl

Ah, yes, obvious the solution to one's inner pain. Genocide. They already pulled this particular narrative trick with King Shadow. At some point you have to pull back and think, "Does the character's agency factor in at all?" Because implying that Sonic's presence is the only thing keeping them from turning into Eggman is insulting toward the characters. In addition, it risks turning Sonic into Hedgehog Jesus, which, given how much traction the idea of Sonic being all-merciful is getting lately, is not loaded with potentially terrifying implications.

In that vein, I wonder if this mindset is the driving force behind why people insist Eggman isn't really all that bad deep down. The idea that he only does bad things because he wasn't loved enough as a kid uwu and not, you know, the fact that he's driven by unchecked greed and ego.

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(btw no I don't think Eggman appears after the first 8 episodes lol)

are we here just to suffer.

#the baby eggman is cute though. I'll give prime that much #asks

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johaerys-writes · 1 month

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Is there a fic/trope that you like and even wanted to write, but for some reason you can't? Like someone likes fics set in a fantasy universe and tries to write something like that, but has so much difficulty that they don't do it...

Oooh that's such an interesting question! There are definitely things that I've thought about writing, but don't necessarily feel skilled enough or qualified to write. I've been wanting to write a dark or monstrous version of Achilles for a while now, for example, but I can never truly do it. I babygirl-ify him way too much in my own stories I feel LOL he and Patroclus always end up super sweet no matter how I set out to write them. Which isn't bad per se, I just really want to challenge myself eventually and explore parts of his character that I find intriguing even if they’re a little unsavoury.

In that vein, I feel like I'm incapable of writing a truly dark or id fic. I like reading stories that make me feel a little uncomfortable or that explore taboo or icky subjects, and I love reading fics where the characters are the absolute worst version of themselves; I also like reading stories that don't have a happy ending sometimes, but when it comes to my own writing I don't know if I can do it!! Especially with characters I am attached with, I just want them to be happy 😭 I hate watching them suffer and I always have a happy ending or resolution in mind to keep me going while writing. And maybe it ends up a little too sugary sweet sometimes lol but what can you do.

Other than that, I never say never because usually the things I say I'd never write or that I want but can't write for whatever reason, I end up writing them anyway. Like a couple years ago I talked about mpreg and how it wasn't for me and I couldn't write it and now I'm writing mpreg LOL. I also vacillated for almost a year between writing Disasters or not because the scope felt too big and I didn't know if I could pull it off. I'd been wanting to write a modern coming of age AU and I had started a couple different patchilles modern AUs with that idea in mind but I adandoned them soon after because it felt so out of my league, like I was so convinced I couldn’t write about the things I wanted to write and do them justice that I had sort of given up, I couldn’t figure out how to make it work. But I kept at it and challenged myself, and I'm very happy for doing that because Disasters is one of my favorite things I've written, I love it so much.

So I think that even if there are tropes or fic concepts that I'm a little intimidated by right now, that doesn't mean that I'll never be able to write them, it's just that maybe I'm a little under level haha. Or that some stories just take longer to come together. And I think that's something that applies to all writers/creatives: some concepts or tropes might seem overwhelming now but as you grow as a person and an artist and build your skillset, you're able to take on more and more challenging projects.

Another thing that helps if you're having trouble writing a particular setting or trope is reading the stuff you eventually want to write. Like if you struggle writing fantasy, read as much fantasy as you can and as broad a range as you can, and read critically: that is, try to analyse the elements of the story and how the worldbuilding is done, how the plot/magic system/character development/whatever is handled, take notes, notice what you like and don't like, go back and reread, etc. When you feel you have a good grasp on it, try your hand at writing it and don't be afraid to mess up. If a story isn't working for whatever reason you can always set it aside and come back to it later when you feel more confident, or just start small and see where it takes you. A friend once gave me a great piece of advice that I still try to keep in mind, which is that you can't be 100% happy with everything you create all the time, that's such an unrealistic expectation and it can put a lot of pressure on you. But if you have a goal to, let's say, write a chapter for your story that you're 60% or 70% happy with, that makes it so much easier to work with. (My personal threshold is 70%: it doesn't have to be perfect but as long as I'm 70% happy with the thing I've created, then that's good enough for me.) And then you write another chapter, and another chapter, and before you know it you have a finished project that you're e.g. 80% or even 90% happy with, which imo is so much better than a project that you abandoned because you couldn't bring it to 100%. And that's my two cents when it comes to taking on any creative project haha.

Anyway, I'm not sure that's the answer you were looking for but thank you for the ask! 💕

#on writing #btw thank you for the advice rina 🥹 ily 🫶#having writer friends is truly the best #that's another piece of advice lol!!! find a couple friends to toss writing ideas with it's honestly been a lifesaver for me #sometimes you end up with too many ideas LMAO but what can you do

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its-elvie-innit · 1 year

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Scar is a himbo. Not a Sexyman.

In a nice way, if we are categorizing men on tumblr there are three categories. You can be EITHER a sexyman, pathetic wet cat/babygirl (they are synonymous), or a himbo. These are based on a few key traits:

•Broadness

•Evil Potential

•Attackableness

•Outlook On Life

Each category (aforementioned sexyman, himbo, pwc/bbg) has different ratios for each, with certain traits being more important than others. For example, if a himbo isn't broad at all, but has zero evil potential, low attackableness, and a high outlook on life, they may still be in the pathetic wet cat territory or may only just scrape by on himbo. Whereas, a sexyman or bbg could be very broad or very un-broad and still be their own categories.

We will just be comparing the Himbo vs Sexyman categories today, in conscience of time.

A himbos main features consist of a high to semi-high outlook on life. They may be a realist or a pessimist in moments, but optimism will regardless win out. Outwardly, they may also be optimistic, and inwardly, feel pessimistic or realistic towards the world, themselves, or others, but this is a subset and not neccesary or detracting from the category.

A Himbo must also have low to medium evil potential, or none at all in the most ideal stereotypes. Take Kronk, one of the webs most widely known Himbos. Despite being henchman to an evil, conniving boss, his molecular makeup purely does not allow his intent to be truly evil. In the end, his actions result in the best outcome, despite any real attempt to do evil, although there may not have been any real attempt in the first place.

Attackableness, contrary to other beliefs, is also very low in true Himbos. This is because the urge and agression to get one to change its mind is nulled when one has little resistance to opinion changing. Cuteness aggression is also a marker of babygirl-ness, which could easily subvert a previously-categorized Himbo. Himbos can be attractive, but most mainstays only consider light attractiveness or beauty.

Broadness, the final category is most important. It isn't rare for an extremely broad character to fit the twink-ified ideal of a sexyman or bbg, as long as they have the essential essence of a low-width heart. A sexyman must have at least one popular fanon or canon version of themselves be low in broadness, although bbg's can be any width. It is however, rare for a character without any low-width fanon or canon versions to be considered a sexyman- there aren't many. A Himbo also must be broad, no matter what character type they are, to be considered a Himbo, which is why many broad characters are placed firmly on one side or another.

This is why Scar is as such. He is a canonically Broad character in 2023- despite any previous skins, canonical skins and fanon versions of him are all representative of being wider than surrounding characters. Scar also has high optimism in most fanon and canon versions, despite heavy subject material in a few of them, outwardly and mostly inwardly. Attackableness, excluding a few certain individuals (*cough cough* DL!Grian *cough cough*) is also a non sequitur, as there's no real bad decisions he's made that are his fault, and no aggression because of it. Evil potential, the final caller, if the first three weren't enough, is...well let's be honest, there's a reason everyone likes him so much.

In conclusion, GoodTimesWithScar is a lovely amazing sweet lil guy, and NOT a sexyman. In conclusion?

💖🌈🏳️‍🌈🥰💗Vote Technoblade !!🥰💗🌈🏳️‍🌈💖

(@tmmyhug )

#mcyt #GoodTimesWithScar #mcytblrsexymen #technoblade #mcytblr sexyman

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I am so angry about how long and how seriously I thought about the Batman Superman first time topping thing that I need you to know my answer

If they are in their suits, as Batman and Superman and they have been flirt-fighting and bantering, their first time will be a mutual handjob because neither of them will admit to what they want

If they are in their suits as Batman and Superman and it has been a Stressful™️ night, Batman tops no questions asked

If their first time is actually as Bruce Wayne and Clark Kent, Clark tops because all Bruce wants is to be held, cared for, and babygirl-ified by a soft Dom/daddy even if he cannot verbalize it

These are my opinions on that, and I will own them or whatever

Oh my god.

But they make so much sense. You're right. You're so valid, bestie.

The suits change the whole game, the psychology of it all. The tension is different since they're reminded of their duties and they're both tough strong guys so when it's been a good night of flirting, they'll still not waiver because they're wearing the suits.

So mutual handjobs is their bridge, their meeting in the middle, just a fun little mutual aid, stress relief thing going on. Maybe they don't talk about it for some time.

But Batman would top if it was a stressful night. He'd need it and Superman would definitely let him take lead. And they'd definitely be like fuck...what does this mean, the morning after. It'd be too intense for mister emotionally stifled Batman...maybe he'd try to run out and Superman would be like you can't run from me, we're gonna talk about our feelings damn you.

But as civilians having sex...hmm Clark Kent tops the vulnerable goth sensitive fake playboy Bruce Wayne...all he's looking for is some tenderness...little spoiled rich boy. Wants someone else to take charge.

Clark Kent becomes a big muscly rough farmhand that knows how to handle all kinds of creatures, and Bruce Wayne the sensitive little wild prince of Gotham, who just needs some handling. Some care. Some taming.

Oof.

You win, you got the best answer.

This is so well thought out.

See now you'll know how you'd answer the icebreaker question ...I for one would want to be your friend immediately just based on how accurate your thoughts on this are.

Other people would bow under the pressure and just say whoever they like more as bottoming.

But you get it. Your third eye... wide open.

Clearly the most potential in any business meeting.

#superbat #batman #superman

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