#on a gender journey

[a-gay-poptart]

I have found the best ally

Straight and cis people will say that they are allies, but you will NEVER measure up to my dentist.

Me: "Hey, is it ok if I can change my name on my info from [DEADNAME] to Sai?"

Random woman that I wasn't even talking to in the chair next to me: "Honey, if that's the name you had at birth, [DEADNAME] is your only name."

My dentist, very slowly turning her rolley chair towards the woman: "Shush."

Random woman: "Excuse me?"

Destist: *closes privacy curtain while staring bullets at the lady*

Me: *pissing myself laughing*

My dentist while changing my name in my info (reminder that English is not her first language, she immigrated from Russia): "There, Sai, you have pretty boy teeth. Smile and make all girls swoon."

Me not having the heart to tell her I'm not transmasc but I'm Agender, and still pissing myself laughing: "Thank you [DENTIST NAME]."

#trans pride #queer #nonbinary #lgbtqia #queer pride #queer community #lgbtq #lgbtq community #queer joy #queer jokes #queer journey #fuck transphobes #transgender #anti capitalism #anti zionisim #anti trans violence #trans ally #lbgtqia #gender is a social construct #Why are all Russians such good allies I stfg

[cafe-con-navi]

Himmel is such a profound character and no amount of articulation can tell y’all how much I ADORE him. He knows damn well that he and Frieren were never meant to be, and that it would be beyond his lifetime if she ever reciprocates—but he’s so wholehearted, honest, and unapologetic in the way he loves and cares. He doesn’t let the knowledge of no reciprocation deter him from showing her that she’s loved in all these different, beautiful little ways; he does it all so that if/when the day comes that Frieren DOES realize her feelings, she’ll also doubly see that he’s loved her just as much all this time.

#IM SO NORMAL ABOUT THEM #GOD #DOOMED GOTTA BE ONE OF MY FAVORITE GENDERS #sousou no frieren #frieren #frieren beyond journey's end #hero himmel #himmel

[variousqueerthings]

beautiful

#i take anything this show gives me on Gender #doctor who #dw #the doctor #the thirteenth doctor #excellent face journey

[redgoldsparks]

My second book, BREATHE: JOURNEYS TO HEALTHY BINDING, written with Dr Sarah Peitzmeier, will be released in the first week of May from Dutton. That same week, audiobook editions of both BREATHE and GENDER QUEER will be released by Penguin Random House Audio! They can both be pre-ordered now, or put them on hold at your local library <3

I read the narration for Gender Queer- my first time in a professional recording studio!

#maia kobabe #gender queer a memoir #breathe journeys to healthy binding #audiobooks #audiobook rec

[touristclass]

#trans pride #transgender #transsexual #transgender support #lgbtqia #transisbeautiful #male to female #gender dysphoria #cross dressing #mtf trans #transition #female gender identity #female gender transition #trans journey #trans joy #transgender pride

[fieldsofvarley]

white haired men this, white haired men that. what about white haired women

#gotta be one of my favourite genders #text post #fire emblem #fire emblem three houses #fe3h #edelgard von hresvelg #minthara #minthara baenre #bg3 #baldur’s gate 3 #fieldsofvarley #barash silvain #star wars #the high republic #frieren beyond journey's end #frieren #sousou no frieren

[louaffi]

My most Favourite Duo 🫶

#artists on tumblr #digital art #character art #art #bill and ted #bill and ted's homosexual adventure #bill and ted excellent adventure #bill and Ted bogus journey #bill s preston esquire #ted theodore logan #ted logan #i love these duders #i want their gender

[piosplayhouse]

I've said this before but I think one of the reasons scum villain occupies such a unique niche of queer representation is because it's one that interrogates society's expectations on gender and sexuality, but within a world where there's no strict ramifications for queerness. Instead the expectations and constraints on queerness are carried solely through Shen Yuan's internalized issues, which are so deeply set they motivate many of his decisions within the book, but aren't enforced by any direct outside forces in PIDW. It's a great critique on how the effects of internalization can persist even when someone isn't in an environment where they're being directly oppressed, and how it can take years and years to unpack and unlearn.

#i retyped this like 3 times and it still doesnt sound right but whatever #its like midnight someone whos more awake take my spirit and carry my words #or whatnot #anyway i like sv a lot i think its a GOOD book i think it has GOOD tjints to say about gender norms and sexuality and queerness and coming #to terms with who you are in the moment while knowing sort of bittersweetly that it will likely be a lifelong journey to fully accept it #svsss

[artscheese]

Merry Christmas to all and to all a good NiGHTS 🎄✨

#nights into dreams #balan wonderworld #nights journey of dreams #sonic #I was gonna post this tomorrow but I realized that I have work so uhh might as well post it now #plus I love working with the nights storybook style #gotta be my favorite genders #portfolio #balights #<- I guess this qualifies it

[blushcoloreddreams]

The 3 pillars of femininity- nourish, edify and beautify

Nourishing:

The essence of femininity. Providing the conditions so that people can live well. The woman provides what is essential for life to be born and to continue its natural flow. She does this for her children, her husband, her friends and everyone around her. This is the nature of women, human beings are only born after being nourished by a woman during pregnancy. And it is this same nutritious essence that provides the essentials for life to continue at its best. A woman connected with her femininity will make her presence be exactly that to those around her. She is the means for life to flow naturally, she is the guarantee that everyone has a firm rearguard to return to. She nurtures by creating an environment of love and peace for her husband, children and friends. She nourishes by being that point of light in the middle of the darkness. She does this through words of affirmation that uplift, through physical touch that reaffirms love and renews emotional bonds, thoughtful acts of service that make life easier for the whole.

Edifying:

Creating the conditions so that people can live better. While nurturing is giving enough for life, edifying is more than that. It's leading to virtue, it's leading people to their most dignified and highest potential. And this is also a woman's nature. For this reason, it is possible to say that yes, the human being is only born through a woman, but more than that, the human being only reaches its best version through a woman. It is this same edifying essence that sees the potential and prepares the way, points the direction and provides the tools so that this potential can happen. The woman does this by establishing a routine that works and allows everyone to develop intellectually, emotionally and spiritually. The woman does this by being completeness, peace, and an encouragement to do what is right for the man. A woman does this when, through small actions, she sees the formation of a great character in the future. But can you understand that you can only edify, think of the future when people are nourished? For example if a child is starving, will you worry about forming great virtues on them or the first thing you will do is make sure they doesn' suffer from hunger? In relationships, in financial life it's the same thing. A woman won't think of marriage if the dating is not going well. Before you can build the people around you, you need to learn how to nurture them.

Beautify:

The prettiest and most feminine of all. The third pillar. Beautifying is seeking to make everything around you perfect, including yourself. The feminine points the direction of that which is harmonious, ordered and perfect. In other words, a woman beautifies when she makes everything around her become a living reminder of her creator. And it is impossible to do this before nourishing and building.

#personal #level up #femininity #personal development #feminine #homemaking #level up journey #levelling up #glow up #feminine energy #divine feminine #traditional femininity #traditional gender roles #tradwoman #tradfem #beauty #light feminine #christian girl #christian marriage #traditional marriage #traditionalism

[artharakka]

So, how was your weekend? Rhiam met a shapeshifting god of forests who transed her gender 🌷

#Rhiam #Heartland campaign #ttrpg #dnd #Dungeons and Dragons #D&D #sorcerer #my babygirl is officially a girl now #a she her enjoyer even #gotta tell to the rest of the partymembers still though #we were debating would magical gender transformation rob something or would it be better to have a natural transitioning joyrney #but we been playing for a good while now and Rhiam's mental health was kinda starting to get worse and they are not near cities yet #so we let Rhiam take a dib in the divinE pond #though we decided not to just do genderswap in the sense that Rhiam is still transgender the process was just ..accelerated? #but Maihr (Rhiam's cursed nightly spirit real self) is probably taking the usual transgender journey because she came out of the closet to #one of the spirit realm companions (Erol) who offered to help her get started with makeup and new clothes so we kinda get both ways

[svankmajerbaby]

she's her own means of production!!! she's the mother and the child! she's the woman and the infant! shes the teacher and the student! she's innocence and experience all in one! shes a monster and is also infinitely human!!!!!!

#bella baxter #poor things 2023 #its my favorite movie now #it was just as amazing as i thought it would be #the ending is a bit sour and there's a whole discussion to be made #on how it treats deformities in godwins case and neurodivergence with bella and felicity #and also something about race probably.... how toinette and harry are in the end means in bellas journey #(just like the two older woman are) #and theres also a whole class and gender analysis to be done of course..... #but this movie has so many layers. its challenging and at the same time candid and striaghtforward #it has no ill intent only a desire to push everything and see what tips over and falls #i loved it i loved it i loved it i loved it

[itgetsbetterproject]

Can we talk for a sec about gendered expectations + makeup??

So fascinating that some of us start off rejecting makeup for one reason or another - it's too "feminine" or it's not "me" - and then end up embracing it later on as we become more comfortable in our own identities and gender expressions.

Feat. Feura on our TikTok.

#it gets better #lgbtqia #gender expression #gender euphoria #gender expectations #queer makeup #makeup journey #agender

[the-sneep-snoop]

I will not hide behind a wall of stone while others fight our battles for us

#sneepsketch #kili made me trans gender #kíli #kili durinson #kili oakenshield #the hobbit #desolation of smaug #battle of the five armies #unexpected journey #lotr #lotr fanart #the hobbit fanart #kili fanart

[neat-deadandlive-things]

Okay, I'm trying to follow the logic here.

So eggs = women, cis centric and reductive but sure I follow.

Peaches? Don't peaches = butt? Do men not have butts? Are peaches vulvas?! 🍑??? This looks like a butt to me.

Onto the next door, sausage = penis right? But then what the heck is a banana? Also a penis? Why would they have it twice?

Do cis men have hemipenes?

And no butt??

Further more, if you're equating women with eggs, should you not equate men with sperm?

Clearly these bathrooms are not for humans but for a species of parthogenic females with butts on the left and hemipeened non-reproductive individuals with no butts on the right.

So basically bathrooms that one species of lesbian parthonigenic lizard.

Additionally, what in the poorly drawn chemical configuration is this?

#that was a journey #parthenogenesis #lizards #cis centric gendered bathrooms #What is wrong with a toilet on one and a urinal on the other??

[touristclass]

Acceptance and love of who you are will warm your soul and awaken your heart.

Being transgender is truly a blessing. It makes you aware of what matters. It can be your pathway to such incredibly feminine growth! And to another world entirely.

The world of women. 💖

With love, your trans friend, ~Jen @touristclass

#trans pride #transgender #transsexual #transgender support #lgbtqia #transisbeautiful #gender dysphoria #male to female #cross dressing #mtf trans #female gender identity #female gender transition #trans journey #gender transition #trans joy #transgender pride