Chirping birds, cold wind, rising sun and orange sky. With a hot mug of coffee in between their hands, finally feeling that sweetness they had longed for.
In the balcony with his beloved by his side, exchanging soft little kisses from time to time and laughing at their parrot son singing his 'dad needs to get a life' in the room inside.
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today was the first picnic of this fall 🧺🍂
we had coffee with some shortbread with strawberry filling. I'm trying to get into the habit of reading again, so it was really nice to read some pages of A Clash of Kings (ASOIAF) by the lake, with the gray sky and the trees.
Remember: just a few pages read, that can take you by the hand and guide you to another world, are enough. If you too are trying to get back into reading, do not beat yourself up for not being like it once was. It's all about enjoying yourself! 🖤
(also, a bird and some ducks were our company this morning :)))
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Sunday Morning Routine
7:00 AM
Wake up
I usually don't stay in bed for too long, I jumpstart my day by going straight to the bathroom, brushing my teeth and giving my face a warm wash and then I put some oil to hydrate it.
7:15 AM
I make a cup of hot water with lemon and ginger and a large 4 shots oat iced late (I know, a lot of caffeine🤫).
7:20 AM
As I sip my coffee I sit down and spend a few minutes meditating. I like to think about what I am grateful for this day and what I am excited about. I finish it by making a To-Do list for the day.
I open Duolingo and spend the next 15/20 minutes learning a new language.
7:50 AM
I hate gyms so I exercise at home. I'm also not a huge fan of long workouts so I usually do 20-30 minutes of training. As it is Sunday and my rest day, I decided to do 18 minutes of stretching exercises with Blogilates (Amazing!!!) followed by 10 minutes morning yoga stretch.
8:25 AM
Shower time!!!
8:35 AM
I prepared some breakfast. Today it was seasonal fruits (Basically, all the fruit that I had in my fridge and I had to save from going bad) peaches, strawberries and blueberries with coconut yoghurt, bran sticks and a teaspoon of mixed seeds.
In the meantime, I also managed to put the laundry in! (Yay!!!)
8:50 AM
While I'm eating I like to check the daily news and read a few articles from the magazines that I subscribe to. I also finished a chapter of 'Laws' by Plato (I do like philosophy.)
9:30 AM
I cleaned after breakfast, hung the first laundry, and put in another one.
10:00 AM
I run to the shop as I run out of ice. And no ice means no iced coffee😢.
10:30 AM
Came back and while the laundry was finishing I was a book on self-esteem.
11:00
With laundry done and hung, I went out for a walk in the park. The weather is very pleasant today. It's sunny and warm.
12:00
I sat down on the bench near the university and continued reading '12 Rules for Life' by Jordan B. Peterson (I hope I can write about this book in one of my next posts) and then I spend some time studying and planning the upcoming week.
15:00
Went home and cooked a 'junk soup', literally all the veggies that I wanted to get rid of, but it turned out really good and very nutritious as I added some fish and egg for an extra protein.
I write this post while eating it 😊.
Hopefully, you've been having an equally peaceful Sunday too. Take care of yourself. Lots of love from (Im)perfectionist ❤️❤️❤️
Ps. Here are some photos I took when I was reading.
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We are enjoying plenty of idle time today. I finished my morning bits of tasks to get done, did some minor cleanup with Hera, and now it's time to settle in again, read my book, and drink some coffee. Later, maintenance will swing by, and I'll have an entire earful to give them.
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Who was Kagney Linn Necessary?
(the gofundme for her memorial/funeral will be at the end.)
Kagney Linn Necessary was born in Harris County, Texas in 1987, and raised in St. Joseph, Missouri and in Ridgway, Pennsylvania. [x]
In her early years, she moved to California with ambitions of becoming an actress and a singer but entered work as an exotic dancer before signing with LA Direct Models, a pornographic agency. Karter entered the adult film industry in September 2008.[x]
But that wasn't the entirety of who Kagney was. At face value, the only information I could find with a quick search was the basic information above from Wikipedia. All anyone seemed to know about her was who she was when she was in the "industry." I wanted to see what I could find about her, the person. Not Kagney Linn Karter, but Kagney Linn Necessary.
I raked through interviews she had, her personal social media accounts, and any other articles that I could find just to find any little facts about her that I could.
I thought about omitting her time within the porn industry to focus solely on everything else except that. But I feel it would be tasteless to keep it out. I think it needs to be mentioned. I think it is important to show that women pulled into the porn industry are not these separate beings from any other woman with dreams. This was a 36 year old woman who was just like any other woman who was preyed upon.
Necessary released an EP, The Crossover, in 2018. In 2022, Karter released her debut album, titled The Take Over. [x] She would post clips of her singing covers of songs as well as songs from her upcoming EP on her Instagram.
In 2022, she began learning how to play the piano, even posting a video of her progress.
Necessary was also a recovering addict. In 2021, she posted about the things that helped her stay clean and how she was pleased at having a second chance at life. In an interview, she was intentionally vague about the substances she used, only referring to them as "candy" and "a little bit of everything." But with no insurance or money for rehab, she opted to detox herself at her parents home, working at their tanning salon for free in exchange for "produce."
She moved from Los Angeles to Ohio in 2019 and got involved with pole dancing fitness studios before being involved the opening of one in Akron, called Alchemy Pole Fitness. She posted many videos of herself having fun and practicing new/old moves.
In November 2023, she was posting pictures of her new house and how well it was coming together,
[their website leads to a website called Alchemy Space Studios and says that it was founded and run by a separate woman. But upon looking up the LLC for the business, Kagney is named as the registrant and she is named as the owner of the space in two separate articles.]
In 2015, Carter claimed musician Chris Brown paid her $2,500 to be his escort. She reportedly tweeted things like 'I WILL NEVER F*** A WOMAN BEATER EW DISGUSTING' and 'HE IS PURE EVIL' about Brown.
I just felt like adding that because what a queen.
From her students from the studio and friends, she was known to love animals, including her dog, Murphy, and had a deep devotion to the community she was cultivating in Ohio. She was known to be fearless and empathetic, creating her studio as a place for people to feel safe and accepted.
These were the things I could find of her from her personal accounts and the people who loved her. She wasn't an object that will be missed for what "uses" it had. She was a woman who had dreams, who had a community who love her, who had a husband who loves her, dogs she cared for and loved who loved her, and a mother who loves her. I didn't want her story to be another reblog of a lost life.
I know this post is sporadic and clunky, but I wanted to just grab any information I could without crossing boundaries (ex. contacting the family or something tasteless like that). I just wanted to share what she had already shared with the world.
Her friend, Megan Lee, has posted a gofundme that has already surpassed their goal. But I would still suggest donating if you are able. Rest in peace, Kagney Linn Necessary. 💜
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