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izzye-girl · 2 months

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Daddy is it to early for us to get naughty 🥺👉👌

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sluttyvioletx · 3 months

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Any trans lover out here let have some fun🥰🤤

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rebellum · 11 months

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"We should respect trans mascs and butches because they protect us at pride"

So I get what you're doing with trying to argue against the anti-masculinity crowd and trying to say that trans mascs and butches are an important part of pride as a way to emphasize our place in the community

But...

Why us?

Why are we disposable? Why are we not worthy of protection?

When are you going to protect us, too?

#'mascs do the protecting but i prommie its because im woke and not bc i love to reinforce gender norms that posit men as the protectors of #femininity'.#also i wanna say something similar about how ppl sometimes treat trans poc like this #like we are valuable not as people but as battering rams as bodies for white protection #but my thoughts are too messy rn to form the post well #goddd and how ppl treat butches is so fucked up.#i understand that butch lesbians roles are traditionally understood as being protectors but like #when are you going to protect butches? when are you going to get in someones face to protect them? how do you think disabled butches feel?#just... i feel like. ppl forget that feminity can also be weaponised in a good way #(not that you HAVE to weaponise femin. in order to protect mascs for any reason)#but like. im a 5'3 small femme. i very easily pass as an upper middle class woman.#i may be black/mixed but i have a mediumish skin tone and i live in canada #i absolutely have the power to step in front of someone and raise my voice in feminine indignation #what are you gonna do? hit me? youre gonna hit a tiny 5'3 'woman' in a skirt that has kitties on it?#the idea of feminine people as weak can cone in handy! because esp large men know they WILL face social consequences for hurting ppl #like me.#especially if i start crying.#itd be more effective if a white person did it but i have that power too

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eye-scream-girls · 11 months

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Oh boy. Someone I trusted just hit me with an absolute slew of transphobic 'opinions' and I have the worst emotional whiplash and disgust.

I will never look at her the same. She had the audacity to say that she's still a trans ally, and still wants to go to Pride with me and just... girl, we aren't even in the same library.

What the actual fuck.

#protect trans women #protect trans men #protect black trans lives #protect trans kids #protect trans lives #protect trans people #it's not opinion it's identity #tw transphobia #I'm not abandoning the trans community for this friendship

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jjhonanana · 1 year

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First kiss (of the year) after a long night 🛌

Context: they were up all night NYE, comforting and consoling each other before finally confessing their feelings for each other at the crack of dawn before finally going to bed

(Originally posted on Twitter here)

#mp100 fanart #serizawa katsuya #reigen arataka #serirei #nye2022 #they’re gays your honor #gay #art #illustration #fanart #alternate design #my headcanon for Reigen is that he’s 100% black and his family moved to Tokyo when he was young so he’s lived there his entire life #but the community still sees him as ‘the foreigner’ Bc he’s dark skinned but he loves it lowkey #and with Serizawa he’s half black and was born and raised in Seasoning City #that’s why he’s so moved to protect Reigen in season 2 and willing to trust Reigen with working under him despite seeing he’s a fraud & stuf #also they’re both trans men bc I said so #this is in every variation of them they’re always trans you can’t tell me they aren’t #anyways yuh #I would love to write a mini fic about this but I’m silly and can’t get their voices down they way I’d want to so I don’t even wanna attempt #-anymore #also my first time posting like this on mobile so don’t bully

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jaybirdbluelily · 1 year

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MY AUNT BETTER STAY AWAY FROM POLITICS THIS SUNDAY, OR IM COMING FOR HER HEAD

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butch-bakugo · 2 years

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Honestly the recent "pick me" movement of bi women/afab nbs/transmascs on this website screaming about how its shitty for bi cis women/afab nbs/transmascs to cut cis men out of their dating circle despite being attracted to them, for bi cis women, trans men and afab nbs to center their attraction to women over men, for them to talk about the abuse they face at the hands of men etc. With the excuse of " its revamped bioessentialism!", " men are not inherently evil!", " its febfem shit!" And " its terfy/transmysognistic!".

Its giving not all men energy, hun. Its giving pick me. Its giving ignoring the mass amounts of domestic violence bi women go through at the hands of their cis male partners, more so than any other lgb sexuality and gender combination. When we say men, we mean cis men. We never mean trans women, we never mean trans men. We mean cis men. The grossest part is that you KNOW thats who were talking about but you wanna police language of victims cause they didnt specify cis men.

Im glad that you " got one of the good ones" who is a cis man free of toxic masculinity, who gose to pride with you, respects your pronouns, wear nail polish, votes democrat and every other manner of that but there are others who are suffering and your fucking ignorant and arrogant to ignore it.

Stop shameing bi cis women/afab nbs and transmascs who intentionally cut cisgender men from their circle. Especially in post-roevwade america. Shut the fuck up.

#levi speaks #it gets me so mad i shake #just cause were bi dosent mean we want to be with cis men #cishet men hurt bi women more than anyone else and yall have the fucking GULL #the GULL to call them fucking terfs???#hateing cis men and tbe shit they do /=/ hating trans women #trans women are women #trans men dont do half the shit cis men do #no one is blaming the penis or the masculinity #were blaming the cis men because they are the issue #you dont need to stand up for them and protect your uwu golden retreiver fat gamer boyfriend with black nails #you know who were talking about and you silence so many victims with this nonsense #ffs stop

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myheartticks · 11 months

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these are for my school projects, it would help me out a lot if anyone could fill these out!

#trans rights #transgender #trans is not a crime #trans women are women #trans lives matter #trans men are men #blacklivesmatter #protect trans women #protect black women #protect black children #protect black kids #protect trans kids #protect trans lives #protect indigenous children #protect indigenous women #healthcare #health #medicine

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magnetothemagnificent · 10 months

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Transphobes aren't attacking bathrooms randomly. It's not about protecting women and children, it's about preventing trans people from participating in public life.

Access to toilet facilities are essential to being able to participate in public life.

It's why society was so reluctant to introduce public bathrooms for women, because before that all public bathrooms were for men only.

It's why society was so reluctant to desegregate toilets for Black people.

It's why society was and is so reluctant to create disability-accessible bathroom stalls.

If a person can't access a toilet, then it's extremely difficult to impossible for them to participate in society.

So, the best way to exclude a group of people from society without putting up a literal sign saying "x group of people not allowed" is to prevent them from accessing the bathroom.

#transphobia #trans bathroom panic #current events #social issues

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drdemonprince · 2 months

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I don't think I have it in me to be an abolitionist because I read that horrible story about the trans teen murdered in South Carolina and my knee jerk reaction is, those people should rot in jail, ideally forever, or worse. No matter how I look at it I can't make myself okay with the idea that you should be allowed to steal someone's life in such a horrible way and then just go back to enjoying your life. Some stuff is just too over the top evil.

You can have whatever emotions you want about that person's murderous actions, but the reality is that the carceral justice system is one of the largest sources of physical, emotional, and sexual torment for transgender people on this planet.

Transgender people are ten times more likely to be assaulted by a fellow inmate and five times more likely to be assaulted by a corrections officer, according to a National Center for Transgender Equality Report.

Within the prison system, transgender people are frequently denied gender-affirming medical care, and housed in populations that do not match their identity, which increases their odds of being beaten and sexually assaulted.

The alternative to being incorrectly housed with the wrong gendered population is that transgender people are also frequently held in solitary confinement instead, often for far longer periods on average than their non-transgender peers, contributing to them experiencing suicide ideation, self harm, acute physiological distress, a shrunk hippocampus, muscculoskeletal pain, chronic condition flare-ups, heart disease, reduced muscle tone, and numerous other proven effects of solitary confinement.

The prison system is also one of the largest sites of completely unmitigated COVID spread, among other illnesses, with over 640,000 cases being directly linked to prison exposure, according to the COVID prison project.

We know that number is rampantly under-estimated because prisoners, especially trans ones, are frequently denied medical care. And even basic, essential physical care. Just last year a 27-year-old Black man named Lason Butler was found dead in his cell, having perished of dehydration. He had been kept in a cell without running water for two weeks, where he rapidly lost 40 pounds before perishing. His body was covered in rat bites.

This kind of treatment is unacceptable for anyone, no matter who they are and what they have done, and I shouldn't have to explicitly connect the dots for you, but I will. One in six transgender people has been to prison, according to Lambda Legal. One in every TWO Black transgender people has been to prison. One in five Black men go to prison in America.

THIS is the fate you are consigning all these people to when you say that prisons must exist because there are really really bad people out in the world. We should all know by not that this is not how the carceral justice system works. Hate crime laws are under-utilized, according to Pro Publica, and result in few convictions. The people who commit transphobic acts of violence tend to be given softer sentences than the prisoners who resemble their victims.

We must always remember that the violent tools of the prison system will be used not against the people that we personally consider to be the most "deserving" of punishment, but rather against whomever the state considers to be its enemy or to be a disposable person.

You are not in control of the prison system and you cannot ensure it will be benevolent. You are not the police, the judge, the jury, or the corrections officers. By and large, the people who are in these roles are racist, transphobic, ableist, and victim-blaming, and they will use the power and violence of the system to terrorize people in poverty, Black people, trans people, "mad" people, intellectually disabled people, women, and everyone else that you might wish to protect from harm with a system of "punishment." Nevermind that incaraceration doesn't prevent future harm anyway.

You can't argue for incarceration as the tool of your revenge fantasies, you have to argue for it as the tool that it actually is. The purpose of a system is what it does. And the prison system's purpose has never been to protect or avenge vulnerable trans people. It has always been to beat them, sexually assault them, forcibly detransition them, render them unemployable, disconnect them from all community, neglect them, and unperson them.

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genderkoolaid · 7 months

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have you seen the new feature from lyft, where female/nonbinary users can request female/nonbinary drivers? i was just wondering what your thoughts are?

personally a lot of the people i see upset about it are upset for the wrong reasons, its a lot of "creepy cis men will exploit this" which doesnt address the actual issues

in the replies to one of the posts there was an amab black nonbinary person saying they felt the least safe with white women drivers, who in their experience were most racist towards them, a lot of the replies to their comment were "this isnt about you, this is about protecting women/nonbinaries", "youre a cis man, you dont understand how difficult it is to be a woman" and things along those lines

personally i dont think this is going to make a difference, most actual minority groups will still be just as unsafe, all it seems to have done is create more hostility towards men/masculine presenting/otherwise oppressed people for not liking this new feature

Link for those curious

I mean I get the motivation here (making people feel safer), but for one making this only available to "women and nonbinary people" once again fucks over trans men. Like if a trans man wants to use this feature to feel safer, it seems like he'd have to misgender himself on the app. And if he seems like a cis man to the rider, is he going to be accused of being a predator taking advantage of the program? Would he be accused of that even if they know he's trans because he's a man?

And of course that last point also goes for anyone who might be read as being a cis man or too close to a cis man for the rider's comfort; trans women, nonbinary people assigned male, nonbinary people assigned female on T, intersex people with high T, etc etc. And that also applies to the rider- this could cause issues for trans* and intersex drivers who are viewed as cis men by driver.

Its almost like this kind of gender binary = safety mindset, while understandable, almost always finds a way to fuck over genderqueer people- specifically those seen as masculine, who are easily put into the "predator" category while also being more vulnerable. And as you mentioned it also ignores how race plays a role in this dynamic- Black and Brown riders and drivers alike are going to deal with these issues much more and much harsher than white people. & like I don't think we can separate this from the cultural impetus that white women must be preserved & protected, and that white women should be hyperparanoid of violation from (Black) men. Not that white women don't have legitimate fears of violence but there's a reason there isn't an option to choose the race of the rider you accept, and why their page about it focuses on images of white women drivers. The addition of "nonbinary" to this is just lip service.

#m.#ask box

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sexhaver · 1 month

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Going around and around arguing semantics ignores the fact that having a specific word for transphobia as experienced by transmascs is rhetorically useful. Especially in online settings where it's very easy for someone with a large following to take a discussion off topic.

I'm not attached to any one word but there does need to be one.

i am aware that the word "transandrophobia" is "rhetorically useful" for trans men. the term "misandry" is also "rhetorically useful" for cis men. both terms are equally stupid for the exact same reasons.

how many fucking times do you have to have it explained to you that "transmisogyny" is the combination of transphobia and misogyny? it's not "arguing semantics" or "taking the discussion off topic" (fuck you) to point out that "transmisogyny" is a useful lens of analysis and "transmisandry" (and "transandrophobia", changing the specific roots does not wiggle you out of this one) explicitly says that men are oppressed for being men. this is intersectional feminism 101.

like the last trans man in my inbox to try this shit tried to say that black men lynched in the Jim Crow South were also being oppressed for their masculinity, which would be funny if it wasn't so awful because it's like the clearest possible example of why your pet word is worse than useless. "black men were portrayed as aggressive brutes that white women needed to be protected from because of their masculinity!" no, that was because of their race dipshit, the masculinity was just an excuse, which is why black women were also oppressed while white men were the ones doing the lynching.

"denying ourselves that precision sets us up to be misunderstood and ignored" no we understand you just fine, you think trans women get a word for themselves but don't let any other trans people have their own word because they're mean. i will be ignoring you in the future though

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babsaros · 24 days

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hey. when cis society is oppressing a trans man, what he is experiencing is. In Fact. misogyny. i'm sorry i know none of us like to be reminded of our agab, and it hurts whenever people perceive you as the wrong gender. but a cis person hate-criming, assaulting, verbally abusing, etc, a trans man is not doing "transandrophobia" because they do not perceive him as a man.

they perceive him as a woman failing at her gender, as a woman who has been seduced and lied to and manipulated because women are so easily led astray, just like it says in the bible. they perceive him as a woman who has been mutilated. they perceive him as a dyke that needs to be fixed. if they are hate-criming him because they *do* perceive him as a man, because he passes well enough they aren't thinking he could be trans, then they're doing so out of homophobia, perceiving him as a gay man, a pervert, a sissy, a danger to children. OR, they are being transphobic but specifically because they think he might be transfeminine instead. when cis society oppresses a trans woman, they are able to do it on multiple levels at once. She's a woman failing at her gender, a dyke that needs to be fixed. Or she's an evil and grotesque crossdressing pervert, a rude caricature, a danger to polite society. she will never be doing enough to escape oppression entirely, no matter if she gets every surgery she can and wears makeup every day and passes perfectly, because she lives under a patriarchy, and she's a woman, so she lives in a panopticon, and HAVING to get surgery and wear make-up to be respected IS oppression, especially if the alternative is being hate-crimed.

trans women (and trans men who pass) are not experiencing "transandrophobia" when a 'queer women and nbs" event turns them away at the door for being too masculine. they are. IN FACT!! experiencing the byproducts of misogyny in a patriarchy!!! where the terfs and coward cis women running those events and occupying those spaces have been taught (sometimes through experience, sometimes by men, sometimes by women) throughout life that men = stronger and more dangerous than women ALWAYS. That they need to protect themselves at all times and always be vigilant. That men and women can't be friends without sexual tension (and so as queer women the mere existence of what they perceive as a "man" is a threat). That women need a separate sports league because they can't possibly compete with someone who has even a little bit "extra" (an unquantifiable amount actually because there isn't a standard range) testosterone. That women should cook and men should fix cars. i promise you, i promise i promise i promise. it's misogyny. like!!! you don't say cis gay men experiences "androphobia", bc that's not a thing!! you sound like fucking mens rights activists guys please! you don't say a black man experiences "misandrynoir"!! because living in a patriarchy fundamentally means men do not experience oppression based on their gender. its not happening. shut the fuck up. stop walking us back to 2014 can we please take a step forward and stop bitching about this. there are genuine issues in the world and i'm frankly sick of people who should be smarter than that needing to be gently hand-held through this fucking explanation for the millionth time and still stomping their feet.

#cw transmisogyny #cw discourse #cw transphobia #longterm tme mutual pissed me the fuck off bye #everybody else gets to read this now #if you still don't get it idk maybe go stick your head down a toilet and flush #that might help #its so fucking simple stop drinking terf koolaid #if u are transmasc and have experienced transphobia i'm really sorry that happened to you.#and if calling it 'transandrophobia' makes u feel less dysphoric then whatever fine #but its not like. a systemic issue.#pls understand that #transmisogyny is a systemic issue we should be talking about. because misogyny is a systemic problem we have not yet solved.#i hope i never have to talk about this again #lmk if i should tag it as anything else #or if i've worded anything in a way that should be corrected

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decolonize-the-left · 7 months

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It's really important that terfs and radfems make men out to be the ONLY representatives and perpetrators of patriarchy because if anyone found out that women could aid the patriarchy too, it'd be so obvious that's exactly what TERFs and radfems are doing.

"girls can only be victims" "women need to be protected" "men should know better than to date a 25 year old girl child" "only biology and sex based oppression is real" "being a submissive tradwife is empowering despite what TRAs want you to think" "women are biologically weaker than men" "feminism isn't about womens rights it's about how men treat women" "how is that woman supposed to know better, a man should have helped!"

These are all things my misogynist grandpa would say.

And let's be real a lot of TERFs/radfems are white. And also het. Just like he is.

Which is very, very important because for a lot of them gender based oppression is the ONLY way they're oppressed.

And the way white women are oppressed is Different. White women have organizations and foundations and speakers and get invited to the WH. Look at Amber Heard. A white cishet victim of patriarchy with a new movie coming out and So Many other women supporting her bravery. Let's look at the Karens who use white womanhood to play victim and successfully get black men murdered over it.

They have the privilege of being able to do that while having no knowledge about the Indigenous Women's Network or the Loveland Foundation. And when were either of them ever invited to speak or propose a new bill?

Their feminism doesn't need to be intersectional because white supremacist men are willing to listen to a cishet white girl. She doesn't need us because our shared oppressors listen to her without us.

But where does her victimhood go if she admits that to us?

Their entire belief system is based on the idea that you can't be feminist unless they experience oppression. Which probably has a lot to do with them believing "men aren't allies cuz they're all our abusers" and "women are just victims"

White women victims are afforded a certain amount of power and authority the rest of us are not.

Wouldn't you want to maintain the little power you have?

That's why they're "gender critical" until you actually criticize their ideas on gender. It's why you MUST hate women if you criticize them.

It's the victimhood they benefit from and their need to maintain it.

Like how are they supposed to justify being transphobic pieces of shit if they admit trans women are NOT men? If they can't be victims of trans people that would have to mean they're just victimizing trans people, wouldn't it? If they, as white women, admitted race factored into feminism a Lot wouldn't that just make them racist for telling black women it wasn't?

Wouldn't that make them oppressors?

Because if they're doing that then they are taking part in systematically oppressing people they have power over. Silencing them.

And that's not possible because women are just so weak and helpless right? They can't be oppressors. It's men. Men built this system. Not them. Women were helpless. Just like right now while a wave of anti-trans legislation is sweeping.

If only men didn't have all the power and women could do something to help. If only trans women and men were oppressed. But they don't count and they just wanna steal spotlight from "sex based oppression" so they're actually oppressing women so women should not help them.

Because by fighting for gender discrimination rights and bodily autonomy just like radfems and TERFs, trans ppl are stealing the spotlight from "real" victims apparently. And we all know increasing white woman victimhood automatically makes you evil with no need for nuance or critical thinking about it.

....Even though trans ppl are are fighting for the same exact rights that TERFs and radfems are fighting for.

Do you see the ridiculous stretch they have to make?? How superficial it is?

Convenient the justification for a bunch of white cis women to sit around doing nothing again while their keepers call inhumane shots, isn't it?

I'm telling you, what TERFs and radfems Believe in is not feminism and it won't serve any cis people or even them in the long run.

They don't want equality of the sexes or anyone else.

What they want is an excuse to sit around doing nothing and ensuring their own safety AGAIN at the cost of everyone else's.

Because in truth what they want isn't actually that much different. They're the favorite for a reason.

But again....where would that leave these so-called feminists if they admitted that?

And then you have the queer TERFs and radfems which is just wild to me.

Do you have any idea how many radfems are trans lesbians? Or even just trans? Way more than makes any goddamn sense.

Coincidence?

I think the fuck not, mon frère.

TERFs made victimhood their personality by villainizing men and trans women and you couldn't help yourselves when you saw how they used it to position themselves could you.

Radfems even frame it like they're the good bigots because their ideas of women being lesser than men is trans inclusive. Like they're more "valid" as victims so they're Real feminists.

Don't be fooled.

None of that is progress or feminism. That's just Patriarchy's favorite doing what they do best; parroting the same exact rhetoric then looking away while Patriarchy and White Supremacy pass legislatation against the rest of us.

#TERFs #radfems #gender critical #radical feminism #feminism #misogyny #analysis #patriarchy #reproductive rights

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messiah10chi · 30 days

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My last post summarized what sweet gum balls, aka witch’s burrs were, and this post is about turning them into spells! In my hand, from bottom to top, is my protection burr, money burr, spirit offering burr, and love burr. My favorite methods of using these are burning them to release the spell and placing them on your altar or in your bag/purse, but get creative! Recipes are below:

Protection Burr

-A Protection Oil

-Black Salt

-Black Wax

Money Burr

-A Money Oil

-Alfalfa

-Dill

-Cinquefoil

-Green wax

Spirit Offering Burr

-An Offering or Spirit Oil

-Heather

-Sandalwood

-Purple Wax

Love Burr

-A Love Oil

-Roses

-*Lavender (for lesbian love)

-*Safflower (for gay love)

*Both lavender and safflower can also be used for attracting multiple genders, not just for what is stated, such as men, women, and nonbinary or trans partners if you do not identify as straight.

#witch #witchcraft #witchblr #pagan #paganism #eclectic witch #eclectic witchcraft #green witch #green witchcraft #spell #spell work #sweet gum balls #witch’s burr #protection spell #money spell #love spell

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silvermoon424 · 12 days

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Honestly so sick of men not getting it tbh. There was a story in the news about a women's only exhibit in Tasmania being court-ordered to allow men (btw, this wasn't a trans issue; anyone who identified as a woman was allowed in but cis men were not). This exhibit was supposed to highlight the inequality between men and women by making men feel excluded. So obviously a cis man threw a fit, went to the court, and won.

I've seen threads and posts full of cis men celebrating this and just plain missing the point of the exhibition. They keep saying stuff like "Imagine if a restaurant said "no blacks" or "no gays" allowed. Discrimination should never be tolerated!"

They don't understand that's not a good analogy. It's more like saying "no whites" or "no straights" allowed. Men have never been discriminated against for their gender in a meaningful way. Men didn't have to get rights passed protecting them based on their gender. Men don't currently have to fight against laws stripping them of their autonomy while a social movement tries to convince them they need to accept "traditional roles" that would confine them to the home.

Like, women or queer people or BIPOC wanting a place to themselves is not the same as cishet white men excluding people from their spaces. Marginalized groups are not the same as powerful groups. Hope this helps.

TERFS DNI

#terfs dni #radfems dni #feminism #women's rights #rant

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