Hate that there are seen as only 2 camps of trans ppl, those who hate being trans and those who love being trans. Like sure there are people who have nothing but hate for their trans experience and people who only love it but making something so polarised that is fairly nuanced is stupid. So many ppl both love and hate being trans simultaneously, some people feel neutrally about it. I love and hate different elements of being trans. No more toxic positivity ("everyone must love every element of being trans") or negativity ("you are a trender unless you hate being trans")
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hey! recently obsessed with your blog lol
i’d like to request ben (and any other creeps) with an s/o who’s a model? i’m thinking mostly runway modeling
thanks!!
had to give Trender a lil backstory ofc bc its so cute :]
Ben
Ben is super duper on top of things for you!
He’s your personal assistant, and enjoys helping you organize your errands, portfolio, and social media.
He’s your number one fan as well, always supporting you and sneaking your cover letters into the emails of high ranking CEOs.
And at the end of the day, he always wants to make sure your taking care of yourself, since modeling can be both emotionally and mentally straining.
And by being your boyfriend, he’s now morally obliged to share all of your skincare stuff! How fun!
You’ll have to teach him how to use the products because he’s chaos, and tries to use everything at once.
He’ll broadcast your events for you, and excitedly engage your fans on every single social media platform possible.
And at the end of the day he’s just happy to gaze at you while you drift off to sleep, wondering how a human can capture such elegance and beauty.
Trender
Oh! Trender just adores you from the moment he spotted you!
You met at a fashion event, and by the way he feeds off of the rising confidence of others, he is drawn to you like a giant magnet.
Not only does your beauty reach out to him in a ethereal way, but the way your body speaks as it glides across the runway leaves him breathless.
Trender couldn’t help but to imagine you wearing his designed clothes, gloating down the runway and failing to hide a beaming smile.
He practically has his next 30 years planned out ahead of him with you by his side, all gauged by a simple glance as you talk to your advisor.
A statement piece is what would make you glow, yes it would. And so, he gets himself hired on your team, and works closely with you, every move calculated to learn about you more.
What ignites that flicker that sparks in your eyes? What color makes your skin glisten like rays of sun were beaming down on it?
Eventually, after some unspoken time, you two click perfectly. Hand in hand like two sewn fabrics intertwining each other with love stitched in its frame.
Trender will treat you with the uttermost care. He wants you to get your proper nutrients, drink enough water, and take daily vitamins to keep up with the hasty lifestyle of being a runway model.
Fainting under the heavy lights would put your career in shambles, not to mention Trender would absolutely curl up in a ball of worry until you were deemed safe again.
He’s right by your side at every event, cheering you on an excitedly whispering to others around him that he’s in love with the person eating up the runway.
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"adams trans and scott is transphobic🥺🥺🥺"
NO !!! scott is a trans guy whos obsessed with how other trans guys express themselves because he hates being trans and desperately wants cis people to describe him as 'one of the good ones' and adam is a trans guy whos comfortable in his masculinity and doesnt mind being perceived as feminine because he doesnt let cis peoples opinion dictate who he is
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somehow you're a trans man and a huge misogynist and that's inspirational tbh
If women didn’t always get triggered when they’re not the main victim in everything and “how dare anyone else get attention besides me?!” Their way into trans spaces, I wouldn’t act misogynistic.
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I have a sort of different ask what do the creeps look for in a best friend?
Decided to do these two since I don't really dive deep with them!
Nina
When it comes to friends, she has sort of low standards.
They don't need to be anything other than themself, and all she asks is that they don't hate her.
Eyeless Jack rarely ever has a full conversation with her, and she considers him a close friend. She's incredibly supportive and uplifting of him whenever she notices he's feeling insecure or backward.
And she doesn't ask or want anything in return besides just listening to her when she talks.
She wants a friend to talk casually with, and someone to trust if things get heavy just like others trust her to help solve problems.
You'd have to be blatantly mean to her for her to not consider befriending you.
She doesn't sit well with mean folk, and won't go near them. Jane is civil to Nina, but she keeps her distance and Nina notices this, not pressing any boundaries.
But Nina will become very clingy, very quickly. Once she's decided you're friends, you won't be able to shake her off unless you puff out your feathers a bit.
It'll hurt her feelings, but she's just not the best at realizing a good time to back off. And she'll get touchy too, and a bit too close to your face at times.
Nina is an easily excitable person, and eager to be close friends, even if she can be a bit pesky sometimes.
Trender
He's an ambivert, and while he enjoys time out together, he also likes to settle with friends in front of a good movie.
And considering he's quite busy, he rather to have friends with mildly open schedules. Time off can pop up in a flash, and that might be the only time to go out with his friend(s) for the next couple weeks.
Trender will want friends to go out with, usually to grab a coffee, a drink, or even to see a movie together.
And conversations are a big part in his relationships, if you don't talk much, the chances of Trender befriending you are incredibly slim.
He wants that social connection with others, a meaningful conversation, learning about each others lives, and having fun together.
And he loves hearing about drama, but he wants no part in it. So talk his ear off about weird in-laws, and he'll soak in every word you say!
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