#AND them not being in such unbalanced position anymore

[mindfogs]

i can't believe the show about characters being gay and problematic won't let the characters be gay and problematic

#yes this is about nandor and guillermo and the latest interview #i mena it's fine i won't tell the writers how to write their show #but also it felt so much like they were preparing them to be the next pam and jim #don't be mad at me for sowing what YOU planted #the show is still queer and gay and amazing but i feel kinda “queerbaited” ngl? shipbaited? #just the reasoning being he's his boss like the characters haven't canonically done worse #AND them not being in such unbalanced position anymore #foggy thoughts #still love the show #just a little disappointed #maybe it's just easier for the continuity idk #nandermo #wwdits

[sagittariusmars2]

(Top to bottom) who’s having spicy thoughts about u and why?

Pile 1

I see that a Aquarius or libra/Gemini is having spicy thoughts about you, I see that they’re thinking about you because they don’t want the connection to be stagnant anymore. I see that they feel like you have strong boundaries and they think about you often or even dream about you. I see that they feel like you’re being more selfish and they’re unhopeful about the connection, they want to be more open or honest and they want you to let your guard down. I see that they really want to do oral with you, they want to taste you or admire your naked body. They want to use toys in the bedroom and watch as they enter you or you entering them, they want you to take control and show them how much you desire them. They want to smell you and they want you to sit on their face or give you oral from the back, they really miss seeing your body naked and they think about you dominating them. Signs- Taurus, Leo, cancer. Initials- X, O, H, Q

Pile 2

I see that a cancer or Pisces/Scorpio is having spicy thoughts about you, I see that they’re having spicy thoughts about you because they still have feelings for you and they don’t like how unbalanced the connection is. They’re having spicy thoughts about you because they’re energy feels pent up and they really want to release all the passion they have for you, they fantasize about seeing you or hanging out and then going somewhere to have sex. They think about how much you cum or how wet you are and they think about touching you and making you cum with their hands/fingers. They think about cumming on you or they think about seeing your face as they pleasure you, they really want to see you horny for them or playing with yourself for them. They would want you to take control or tell them exactly how to please you. Signs- Taurus/Leo, initials D, P, J, G

Pile 3

I see that a Leo and or Taurus is having spicy thoughts about you, it could also be Sagittarius, Aries, Capricorn, and Virgo. They’re having spicy thoughts about you because they want to have fun, they feel overwhelmed by the connection or intimidated by you. They want to give you a gift or pay for a day out with them, they want more peace or balance in the connection. They’re having spicy thoughts about you because they’re fantasizing about how good you are in the bedroom or they’re reminiscing about old times. They’re having spicy thoughts about you because they feel like you know their body so well and you know exactly what makes them cum or what turns them on, they’re thinking about making you cum multiple times or making you addicting to them sexually. They’re thinking about how hard or wet you get them, they want to wear you down sexually and make you tired. They want to see you play with yourself or they want to watch as they go inside or as you go inside them, they want to try new positions or difficult ones. Signs- Scorpio, cancer, Virgo, libra. Initials W, X, M, K

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[roachleakage]

I really used to enjoy Danny Phantom as a teen, but looking back on the show - especially knowing what we now know about Butch Hartman - I really can't say that it's aged well for me. It certainly has its good points - the villain cast being one of the biggest - but there's a lot about the show that doesn't quite gel, or worse, is so distinctly Hartman that it's hard not to see his smug, manipulative, conservative Christian face all over it.

One of the things that bugs me the most is how the show will exaggerate things to drive a certain ideological point home. Fairly Oddparents does this too, of course, but it's in a setting where the entire tone is zany and comedic, so it's easier to chalk up to Standard Cartoon Logic with a dusting of Hartman's distorted worldview.

Danny Phantom, on the other hand, tries to balance that same level of exaggerated 'comedy' with a genuine amount of drama and Cool Superhero Stuff, and it makes the placement of those exaggerations stick out like a sore thumb. Like the fact that in the first episode Sam's "ultra-recyclo-vegetarianism" means she eats literal dirt, in an episode where we're clearly being led to see vegetarianism as an unbalanced extremist position held by radical hippies who don't understand what a Balanced Diet(TM) is.

I have a lot of feelings about this episode, but they can be summarized with "Sam did nothing wrong." In fact, the only reason the school's decision to try vegetarian food is a "problem" is because they deliberately paints it as disgusting and inedible as possible, using the excuse of Sam's suspiciously vague (but assuredly extreme) dietary label to imply that She Is Really Just That Unhinged. It's a choice that comes off as ignorant as it is mean-spirited, and I'm not even a vegetarian.

Mostly, though, when it comes to delivering morals, the show sticks to a tried-and-true format: A character does something "wrong", the thing has unintended consequences that they end up having to fix, and by the time everything is set back to order they've learned a valuable lesson in why they shouldn't do that.

This is a formula that works well when the consequences of the character's actions make a modicum of sense, or are at least thematically related to the original slip-up. A classic example of this format in action would be The Sorcerer's Apprentice, which has a wizard's apprentice decide to try using magic to do his chores for him, only to learn the hard way that he doesn't have the needed expertise to actually manage the results of his master's spells.

Fairly Oddparents used this formula a lot as well, and to my recollection, it works for the same reason the shenanigans in The Sorcerer's Apprentice do: Timmy isn't just breaking rules, he's messing with reality-altering magic. Of course the consequences are exaggerated and unrealistic. But Danny Phantom tries to use this same format without the benefit of a conveniently generic supernatural plot enabler, and as such, a lot of the "consequences" feel tacked on if not entirely forced.

One of the most glaring examples is in S1E6, when Tucker's idle wish that he shared Danny's ghost powers unwittingly reaches the ears of a genie*, who then grants him exactly what he wants. He then proceeds to use his new powers to do all kinds of petty bullshit, and eventually the wish gets corrupted - not because of what he actually did, mind, but because Desiree's wish-granting just works that way - he turns into a monster and Danny ends up having to turn him back to normal. At the end, Tucker concludes that he messed up by envying Danny's powers, envy is bad, and he's not going to do that anymore.

*Sort of. She's technically a ghost, but works like a genie.

The thing is... none of this really happened because of envy. Tucker wasn't even acting on his feelings at all - he just happened to idly wish he had ghost powers in front of someone who could grant them to him. There are definitely lessons to be learned here, like how it's healthier to articulate your negative feelings than to stew on them until they bubble up and fester, but the show isn't going for any of that low-hanging fruit. No, only the most banal and straightforward Christian values deserve to get shoehorned into this plot.

But perhaps the most egregious example is the introduction of Dan Phantom, Danny's evil future self who is spawned when Danny... decides to cheat on a test. Yes, you read that right - an ordinary childhood mistake, which Danny was tempted to make due to nigh unbearable pressure to keep good grades despite spending most of his time fighting ghosts, is what causes him to start down the path of becoming the most dangerous villain the setting has faced to date.

To be fair, this wasn't delivered as "cheating on tests will send you down a slippery slope to mayhem and murder". No, the reason any of this happens is even more ridiculous: Cheating on the test causes Danny's family to be in a local restaurant during a catastrophic explosion, and wracked with grief by their death, he convinces fellow ghost halfling Vlad to basically tear out his conscience (which he happens to be able to do) and then he tears out Vlad's ghost half, merges with that, and becomes The Worstest Guy Ever, Just So Bad You Guys.

Danny fights the guy and manages to beat him (as you do), and then, scared straight by this vision of what he's capable of becoming, comes clean about having cheated on the test. If this sounds like a Fairly Oddparents plot... yeah, it is, it was a whole two-parter and everything. But more infuriatingly, this entire plot had nothing to do with the actual incident that supposedly kicked it off.

I mean, there certainly can be negative consequences to cheating on tests. For one thing, you might get caught and get in trouble (although that's arguably less a 'consequence' and more 'another person's choice in how to react'). For another, possibly more compelling reason, taking shortcuts on a test can cause you to rob yourself of valuable information that you could have learned by doing things the hard way, and which you might need for an even more crucial situation down the road. But none of those consequences involve turning into a horrible person, even in a grounded, non-cartoony sense.

And frankly... cheating on a school test is really just not that big of a deal. Standardized tests, especially of the type we started using in the wake of the No Child Left Behind act, are fucking terrible at aiding in providing a good education. Which, may I remind you, is what school is actually supposed to be for - not for rating students on how honest and hardworking they are. But, you know, whatever, Butch.

Anyway, this happens a lot. It would legitimately be faster to list the episodes that don't follow this format, at least early on. Sometimes the formula works better than others, though even when it is relatively tame, the "values" that the show keeps trying to impart often leave a bad taste in my mouth. What kid needs to be taught that if they ever hang out with the "popular" kids, they're betraying their real friends? Or that it doesn't matter what other problems they have in their life, they just need to put down the video games and apply themselves and they'll get amazing grades?

Butch Hartman, fundamentally, is a man who has convinced himself he understands children's problems despite all evidence to the contrary. Danny Phantom reflects that both in the way the show grasps at straws to generate moral crises, and the ways it distorts even real moral challenges into distorted caricatures of themselves. I'm not surprised the fanfic scene seems to be 50% fanon at this point - the version of this show that exists outside my fond teenage memories is just not good.

#danny phantom #long post #like I *really* hate to be That Bitch but. this show has fuckin Issues.

[catofadifferentcolor]

Terrible Fic Idea #55: Harry Potter, but make it Roaring Twenties

In what is possibly my most terrible idea yet, I've been contemplating all those HP fics which insist that if only Tom Riddle had been raised correctly, he'd never have become Voldemort - or would have at least gone about his goal in a more sane fashion. I tend to agree with this idea, as the idea that anyone is born evil seems incredibly naive.

Yet if I was a time traveler desperate to save my society, I don't know if I could take that same position - yes, I sincerely believe that no one is born evil, but am I willing to risk the future on the chance I'm wrong? Or: what if a female!Harry Potter traveled back to the 1920s to prevent Tom Riddle's birth?

Just imagine it:

Female!Master of Death!Harry Potter has witnessed the end of British Wizarding society. Voldemort is not solely at fault for it - magic has been declining for generations, as Dark and Light become unbalanced, but he definitely speeds the process along. Hyacinth (as we shall call her moving forward) decides to travel back in time to 1925 with the intent to prevent Voldemort's birth, which should hopefully provide Wizarding Britain time to restore the balance.

Hyacinth takes on the identity of 16-year-old Hyacinth Peverell, the only survivor of a fire at the Peverell Estate - and thus heiress to a grand fortune, but for the moment in the care of her paternal grandmother's brother, a retired professor living in Greater Hangleton.

The Riddles, being rampant social climbers, encourage Tom Riddle Sr to get close to her - which she somewhat bemusedly allows on the basis that keeping this Riddle close will prevent Merope from getting the chance to drug him with love potion.

(Not, of course, that Merope is around anymore. A quick spell or two saw Marvolo and Morfin kill each other off in a "drunken" altercation and the underage Merope taken away by the Ministry. But Hyacinth is covering all her bases.)

Meanwhile, Tom Riddle does his best to seduce Hyacinth Peverell, which results in the pair being wed in early 1926 and a pregnancy announced not long after.

On December 31, 1926 Hyacinth gives birth to their son - Thomas Tristian Riddle. Though it takes Hyacinth a few months to realize it, her son bears the soul of Voldemort from her original timeline, with his memories largely locked away until he's old enough to process them, circa 7-11 years old.

This is originally where I thought of ending a short one-shot... but then I thought, why not lean into the unhealthy, creepy element that would surely arise between a Voldemort obsessed with a witch who was once his prophesied downfall and who is now his loving mother? I'm not just talking codependent here but full-on Electra Complex, with a heavy layer of Child Supplants Parent directed toward Tom Sr for abandoning Merope in the original timeline.

Hyacinth becomes pregnant with a daughter in 1931? She's suddenly widowed when Tom Sr dies in a car crash with his mother. Tom Sr's father makes a drunken pass at Hyacinth while morning his wife and son? He's found to have committed suicide a few days later, leaving Tom Jr heir to his estates. Hyacinth gives birth to a daughter, Daphne? Well, Tom Jr restrains himself to keeping most of his mother's attention on him, but the threat is always there.

For added terrible fic factor, Hyacinth should be aware of what her son is doing and subtly encouraging it, having been almost as obsessed with Voldemort in the original timeline as he was with her and not realizing how much she'd miss her beloved enemy after he was gone. Perhaps she should have even ensured she'd get pregnant with Tom Jr at the precise time he would have been conceived originally, having decided that she couldn't bear not to have him in the world despite that being her whole raison d'etre for coming to the past. Hell, perhaps her whole marriage to Tom Sr should be a way of trying to fill the void Voldemort left in her life to begin with.

That's all I really have - just the idea that what could have been a very creepy one shot could easily evolve into an incredibly creepy full-length fic depending how hard one wants to develop and explore the layers of obsession and unhealthy mother-child relationship. Depending on how twisted you make Tom Jr as a child with a whole soul and Hyacinth after how many centuries of being the undying Master of Death in a dying magical world... well, there's a lot of room to play.

Bonuses include: 1) Tom Sr's father being the result of an affair between his mother and Marvolo Gaunt's father. He's unaware of the relationship, but it's enough for that thread of magical heritage to pass down Tom Jr in his new body regardless; 2) While we're at it, let's make Tom Sr's mother the third-generation descendant of a cast-out Black squib; 3) Hyacinth pretending to be your average 1920s upper-class housewife by day while secretly moving through magical circles by night, subtly pushing a pro-Grey, pro-greater secrecy agenda at the great and powerful of the magical world; 4) The suggestion that Voldemort's madness came as much from his muggle father's family as his inbred mother's: Tom Sr's father should express psychopathic tendencies, Tom Sr himself should be something of a sociopath, and Tom Sr's mother should be as much a Black as it's possible to be without magic; and 5) As much I can't believe I wrote this as the author can humanly manage.

And that's all I have. As always, feel free to adopt, just link back if you ever do anything with this genuinely terrible fic idea.

More Terrible Fic Ideas

#plot bunny #fic ideas #harry potter #female harry potter #tom riddle #voldemort #harry potter x tom riddle #time travel #terrible terrible terrible #unhealthy relationships #hp #voldemort x harry potter #master of death

[daubigny-stan]

Best Stardew Valley marriage candidates according to their story arcs

(warning: objective but also my opinion)

So what do I mean by according to their story arcs?

Stardew Valley's NPCs are very well written, with well defined personalities and goals. Here I will be judging if it would be right to marry them according to their goals. Basically, if your farmer married them, would they be fulfilled? Would they be okay with settling in Stardew Valley? Would they like being at a farm?

Note that I am not judging them by how nice or pleasant it would be to marry them, just based on would it be right to marry them.

Yes, get on your knee and pop the question already!

Leah

Now I might be biased because she's my favorite, but she's also the one that makes the most sense. She came to Stardew for the same reasons your farmer did, to escape to rat race and the non-stop grind of city life. She moved there on her own terms and it's shown that she actually enjoys living there. Since she's one of the only NPCs who likes foragable items, I don't think it would be a stretch to say that she would enjoy farming as well. Your beautiful farm could also serve as inspiration for her art. And hey as a bonus, she won't be a starving artist anymore.

Elliot, Harvey

I'm putting these two in the same spot for the same sort of reasons. Their occupations/hobbies don't necessarily tie into nature as well as Leah's does, but I they're up here this high because I think they need partnership. Both of them are canonically a bit older and they live alone. Most of the time, cooped up in their houses. Their jobs have a risk of self isolation, especially Elliot's. And again much like Leah, they came to Stardew because they wanted to. Elliot for what we can assume are similar reasons, Harvey because he just be happened to be posted there (and Stardew needs a doctor).

Penny

Penny is up here because I see her as the traditional sort. Like, I think she would actively try to get hitched. But I don't think she would be comfortable living far away from Stardew. Penny's job teaching the kids shows that she has a lot of love for the valley and its people, she wants to make it a better place. Why not get married to the farmer, who also has an interest in boosting the valley's economy? The reason I'm putting her a bit lower is her relationship with Pam. They do love each other, but they don't have the healthiest relationship. I think Penny should know more about the world rather than using marriage to further herself from her troubled home. There's some potential to have this unbalanced relationship with the farmer as well. Moreover, she also never goes to the bar, maybe because she detests drinking, but maybe because she also isn't old enough.

Ehh? Maybe?

Shane, Hayley

In contrast, Shane and Hayley are in the same spot for different reasons. Shane would probably enjoy being married to the farmer because he himself enjoys farming. You could definitely see him help raise your chickens and ducks. But because of how his story panned out and how he is after getting married (his room is still full of beer cans), I don't know if marriage is the healthiest option for him? I think staying with his family for a bit would be better but when he's a bit more self assured, he could be marriage material down the line.

As for Hayley, I think the marriage part is ok. She starts off immature and getting close to you and being married helps her grow as a person. She tries to help out with the farm and she ends up also contributing to the valley. But I don't know if she should stay in the valley? I think it would be good for her to gain more worldly experience, again like Penny she's never in the Saloon, indicating that she might be a bit young.

Alex, Sam

These two are in the same position, in the middle because I don't really know how to feel about them? In terms of age, I think they're both ok, they are known to enter the Saloon. But they act so young, Alex and Sam come across as highschool boys; Alex being the jock and Sam being the skater. These two guys need a bit of soul searching I guess, maybe marriage is the answer to that, maybe not.

Abigail

Abigail is also someone who needs a bit of soul searching. She has a bit more of a clear path compared to Alex and Sam, she shows potential in magic and adventuring/combat. That can be done in Stardew, in fact it can be enhanced by being with the farmer, but I think her biggest obstacle is her family. The girl should move out, out of Stardew. Caroline is an ok mom, but too traditional. Pierre is a downright sexist father. Their traditional expectations for Abigail (finishing school and helping around the house) are holding her back. I don't think her final goal in life is settling in the valley, I see her as a wandering adventurer.

I don't feel right marrying them

Emily

I think Emily is also someone who has potential and staying in the valley is holding her back. I see her as suffering from eldest daughter syndrome, having to take care of her family and home because her parents put all of the responsibility on to her. She does seem happy and cheerful but if you ask her about her job at the saloon, she'll say "well at least it'll pay the bills." In a way, she's the opposite of Leah, where Leah is a city slicker wanting to live the slow life, Emily deserves more than this provincial life. She should be an up and coming designer in Zuzu or something.

Sebastian

Sebastian is similar to Emily, except he is much more explicit with it. Sebby straight up wants to move out to the city. As a tech guy, I think it's important if not necessary for him to hone his skills by attending school or getting a tech job. With his motorcycle I also see him as someone who doesn't want to stay in one place, let alone settle down. I've consistently gotten to 8 hearts with Sebby but I would just feel bad marrying him.

Maru

Look, I like Maru. She's the only BIPOC character, she's sweet, she's smart. But man do I feel bad marrying her! Someone like her should be studying at Yale, not cooped up in some little valley. I have to admit, Demetrius is kinda right. Maru doesn't need marriage, she should pursue a PhD. It doesn't help that she's pretty young, again, one of the NPCs who never go into the saloon. I think marrying the farmer will actively hinder her goals

#stardew valley #sdv #long post #sdv headcanon

[captain-of-the-gwynriel-ship]

1/2 way done with my ACOTAR re-read and something dawned on me.

Feyre and Tamlin NEVER had a relationship that was healthy for either of them.

1) Tamlin is constantly lying to feyre or omitting truths from her for the whole time she is in the spring court. Yes, part of the constraints of the curse was that he couldn’t tell her, but he never TRIED.

2) Every time they have had some sort of romantic coding, Tamlin is ALWAYS in the dominant position. The moment Feyre wants anything sexual, he pulls away. Sexual advances are only OK if he is the one initiating it.

3) He only ever compliments feyre when she is wearing dresses, EVER. Only when she looks like what he would think is a lady. He only embraces her feminine side when feyre craves to have a balance of feminine and masculine.

4) They officially have sex and he is using his authority over her to send her away even though it’s against her wishes. Was he wrong to send her away? I don’t think so. But he still doesn’t even acknowledge her side of things, he lays down the law like a parent to a child.

5) They don’t talk about things, ever. In ACOMAF we can really see how they use sex as their main way to communicate. Then by the end they aren’t even intimate anymore, meaning that what little communication they had is gone.

6) the only time tamlin lets feyre into meetings is right after UTM, and it’s not because she earned it. It’s because she was his trophy he wanted to show off and use as a symbol of power. Then he tried to marry her 3 months later to secure said power.

7) in the depths of both of their PTSD, Tamlin asks feyre to marry him. And STILL, he refuses to make her an equal. He would rather have him serve in his court than have her rule side by side with him. Both of them were recovering from traumas they didn’t talk about with anyone.

8) In the 3 months between ACOTAR and ACOMAF, feyre was a walking ghost and not an active part in their relationship. Not to mention tamlin grew increasingly paranoid and CONTINUED to lie and keep secrets from her. Then he grew physically and emotionally abusive towards her, stemming from

8) During the beginning of ACOMAF, we see inside Feyre’s mind and we see that she views Tamlin and being fae as her ultimate punishment for killing those two innocents. It is no longer love for her, but an obligation and damnation.

Think about it. They kiss at summer solstice, have sex for the first time the day after. In this scenario they has an unbalanced dynamic. Then UTM where they were tortured for supposedly loving each other. Then 3 months goes by where they both have major unresolved PTSD, two months of further spiraling and paranoia when she visits the NC, and then a week or two later and that’s it. That’s the timeline of their relationship.

There is never a point in their relationship where they are equals in it. Tamlin ALWAYS has power over feyre is always keeping her from knowing the truth under the guise of protection.

I think Tamlin has a lot of shit to work through as a character. He is written as a tragic character, and yah that sucks for him. I think he needs massive therapy. I also think he could be in a loving relationship, just feyre was never the partner for that.

#welcome to my ramblings #cap re reads acotar #ACOTAR #ACOTAR thoughts #feyre cursebreaker #feyre and tamlin #tamlin #feylin #anti feylin #food for thought #ACOTAR rambling

[dodgebolts]

A thing I appreciate about dteam in MCC is that George and Sapnap got out of Dream’s shadow a bit as far as Minecraft skill goes. Dream is rightfully known to be amazing and I miss seeing him be competitive so so much, but George ended up being so casually cracked at certain things and Sapnap is too good to even be on the same team as Dream anymore least the teams be too unbalanced. MCC made them all stand out.

Dream came into MCC swinging, putting in all the work he could to try and compete against Techno and that plus his natural skill made him an insane player in season 1, and because Sapnap and George were kind of regarded as his side pieces they weren't really seen as good players and it made me a little upset because they are really good—like in those pkw leaderboards I posted George is never far behind (or is even ahead!) of Sapnap and they're both really fucking good, even without being compared to Dream!

Even in S1 without Dream, they nearly clean swept dodgebolt to win an event in MCC9 and though I adore MCC9 blue it's something that's never really talked about positively for SNF even though that's easily a testament to how good they are (for reference it was them, Dave Krtzyy, and Eret and they came 4th in MCC8 and 2nd in MCC9).

and then in season 2, Sapnap breaks out of Dream's shadow to become one of, if not THE top player while George has quietly hovered around or above the 10th place spot like they're both AMAZING and even though I miss my Dream Team MCC teams, I love seeing them all be regarded so highly <3

ps here's a clip that's literally always on my mind when I talk about George being underrated in MCC like dream my favorite gnf defender he really gets it

#lyss answers #anon tag #this was such a sweet ask I love it #lyss.mcc #lyss.dteam

[suashii]

This is long 🥴 and I'm only partially sorry lol. I also don't use tiny text for long things cause it's so hard to read then and is really bad for your eyes, especially for people with bad eyesight (like me) but this I had ready in my private self ship channel so. . .

FIRST DATE WITH KUROO

TW: non-descriptive ankle issues, non-descriptive mentions of throwing up, I think that's everything?

My ideal first date would be, like, the classic dinner and a movie but, knowing Kuroo, I could see him planning, like, an amusement park date and making me go on a bunch of rollercoasters and stuff, which would not end well. Like at all. Like I'll go on them but they kind of terrify me. So I'm gonna be so damn scared the whole time. And the waiting is gonna make me grouchy, especially after walking so much cause I have plantar fasciitis (basically my plantar fascia bone is being pulled tight which can cause me a lot of pain along the bottom of my foot) and I've had three ankle sprains and one fracture (two injuries per ankle but it hurts my right ankle more, which is also the foot that my plantar fasciitis acts up on).

So, after about four hours (the max time limit before I get grouchy at amusement parks), I'd be in pain but, since first date and all, I'd try and hide it and suffer through it. I also have benign positional vertigo (i.e. my inner ear crystals get unbalanced and can make me very dizzy. Really bad cases can make me nauseous/throw up). And I can see him wanting to go on a ride that's got all these twists and turns and I'd mention that it's not really my thing but he'd convince me somehow. When the ride ends? Queue me being so damn dizzy and trying to hold back throwing up but that doesn't work. So, by this time, I'd be in pain cause of my ankle/foot and dizzy and throwing up and just not having a good time at all.

But he'd be sweet and hold my hair and rub my back and get me seltzer water (which is disgusting but it's supposed to help and he'd know that) or ginger ale if he can't get seltzer water until I feel better and stay with me on a bench with my head resting on his shoulder until I'm not that dizzy anymore. And he'd gently carry me to the car and to my front door because dizzy and pain.

So, all in all, it'd be a hot mess but he definitely earned brownie points at the end with how sweet and caring he was, especially since he tucked me into bed cause I fell asleep on the way home and left me with a cat plush he won for me that he hid to give me later. He ended up sleeping on my couch so I could be safe because he locked the door and doesn't want to leave it unlocked when he left. He'd definitely get a second date. And, yes, this sweet mofo was late. Probably because he was nervous but idrk why he'd be late. He just would be.

- salty anon

YES YES YES !!! this is the detail i want !! literally tell me everything !!! bwah you and kuroo are the absolute cutest!

firstly i would like to say i don’t blame you for giving into kuroo’s request — i feel like he can be quite convincing lol. but omg as i was reading this i kept thinking “what on earth did he do to make it up to you for putting you through all this trouble??” i wasn’t sure there was anything he could do to redeem himself after that but boy did he prove me wrong.

STOPP HE IS SO SWEET AND CARING AND CONSIDERATE :( i’m sure he felt bad after seeing how it all affected you but he ended up being super thoughtful! him sleeping on the couch so you wouldn’t be at home with your door unlocked >>>> what a gentleman!

glad he got a second date but i hope you were in charge of planning that one to prevent any additional fiascos LMAO

#₊⊹⁀➴ postcards #imagining kuroo being late bc of nerves #pls that is the cutest thing ever #he’s too preoccupied fixing his hair #and thinking about his outfit to realize what time it is #ミ☆ selfship saturday

[crazybigredlove]

12th September 2013 

Dear Pete, Fuck my life. 

The vision board is in the bin, the Laws of Attraction can kiss my butt, and positivity is for small-minded idiots. 

Big Red called this morning. Why did I want him to call? Remind me, because right now I got nothing. He called to say he wanted to see me tonight. Seems his girlfriend is out of town and Big Red is thinking this is a perfect time for us to make up for not having sex when we were dating. 

Lying. Cheating. Bastard. 

Made a point of telling him that is exactly what I think of him, so he tells me wants to hang out as friends. Given what has transpired between us, surely he can't be serious?? 

Spent hours flicking back and forth between seeing him for maybe a little and alternatively telling him to go screw himself. In the end, I caved. 

The dilemma I was fighting in my head is that I don't remember anymore what it is I want from this or why I was attracted to him. Was it the attention? Was it that he was a great guy who made some poor decisions? Was it that my ego was bruised because he selected the company of another over my exclusive and obviously far superior company? 

I don't remember. All I remember is enjoying his company and then being sad. It wasn't even that long ago. When the phone rang my stomach lurched and afterwards I couldn't eat anything. As I flicked back and forth between seeing him and telling him to go to hell I knew that I wouldn't tell him to go away because the idea of him not wanting me made me feel like life was cheating me. 

You want to know how it played out, don't you? 

He walked in the door with that playfulness in his eyes and that spring in his step, just like the first time we met. Within seconds he had hugged me and as we sat on the couch, like we had those few times before, he kept snuggling into me. And I wanted him to. I wanted to know that even though he chose her he still wanted me. 

I don't know what happened, Pete. I really don't. 

All I know is that we were so happy to see each other: hugging, kissing, sex, and then yelling. Endless yelling. His phone didn't stop the entire time and he kept saying, "What am I supposed to do? Ignore her?" 

To which I rather unhelpfully replied, "When she's being a crazy person, yes. Every time it rings you want to throw it. Let her get angry! And then explain to her that you are her boyfriend and not her slave!" 

"If she finds out about this I'm fucked!" "Well then if you're so desperate to keep her happy and stay with her, what are you doing here?" "I told you. I still care about you!" "Care about me? Right. I haven't seen you in weeks. The second your girlfriend is out of town you turn up here wanting sex and I'm supposed to believe that that's how you show someone you care about them?" Our eyes are locked in a battle to establish dominance. The whole situation is unbalanced and reeks of a power play. In the lounge room, neither of us wearing anything more than underwear and I can't help but wonder what Buffy thinks of it all as he sits on the couch and watches as we square off across the room, eyes ablaze and tempers on fire. Do you think he expected more from his furkid momma? 

"Why won't you fucking believe that I fucking care about you?" "Stop swearing at me! Stop yelling. Sit down and talk to me rather than walking in the door, taking my clothes off, and then trying to leave." The phone rang again. "Oh my god! How many times a day does she ring?" The phone rang out but started again almost as soon as it stopped. 

"She is going to keep ringing till I answer." "Lucky for you I happen to know a really good therapist because I can tell you now, if your so-called girlfriend is ringing you seventeen times a day, she needs one." "You don't know anything about her or our fucking relationship." "I know that you're here with me and you're okay with cheating on her. What else is there to know?" Sitting on the couch he hung his head. "I didn't make a choice, Liv. You didn't want to be with me. She did. I didn't choose her over you." Hostility overload. "Yeah you did. And you're still choosing her over me. It doesn't matter. We'll never be together and I don't want us to be. You're right though: you should leave." "Will you stop saying that? Nobody knows what will happen in the future. Maybe we will be together. I don't know if we will or we won't." "You. Have. A girlfriend. If you can't see a future in it why are you with her?" Exploding with anger he stood, spittle flying as he spoke. "I can see a future with both of you, that's the problem!" Suddenly a quiet calm came over me. "No, the problem is that you have it in your head that you'll test run her. If it works out great; if it doesn't you'll come running back to me. You need to realise that I won't be here. We're done. I do not want to be with you. Ever." 

That was when he kissed me again and we, well, you can guess. The tension was like none I'd ever experienced before and all I could think was that the damage was already done. He kept asking me, " Are you okay, baby? Is that okay?" Each time he uttered the words the urge to punch him in the head grew stronger. The yelling started again as soon as we had finished, ahem, the nasty deed, and it lasted until finally, after there was no energy left from the mental drain of it all, he left. 

Now I'm sitting here on the couch writing, Buffy is curled up at my feet, and I don't feel a single shred of guilt. I should, I know that, but I am numb. Almost like we did nothing wrong because she's not real. Or like I deserved to see him one last time. Or like he's the one in the wrong because it's his girlfriend and so I'm not to blame in any of this. 

How fucked up is that? The blame is shared equally so why can't I feel my share? 

While there was no reason to think that she knew what was occurring, if the frequency of texts or calls was a gauge, then she had her suspicions. It's about week three of their dating and if he takes more than two minutes to reply to one of her texts, she calls to ask what's wrong and get angry at him. The phone rang non-stop the entire time and you know what it achieved? Nothing. If he is going to cheat, he's going to do it regardless of how often you call. That makes me sad and reinforces my eternal suspicion that there is no hope for any of us. 

There was a time when I was in her position, when I was the girl calling and calling, believing that if I could get him on the phone everything would be okay. Tonight was a reminder of how that belief was shattered all those years ago and proving once again that monogamy is sometimes no more real than any other trick a magician might perform. 

The thing I hate most in all this - other than the complete lack of guilt I feel - is that it changed nothing. The sex was amazing, he kept staring into my eyes in that way he does, but at the end he was still going home to her. No matter how many times he wanted to throw the phone, no matter how many times he told me he cares about me, no matter the intensity in his tone when he spoke to her, he still went home to her. 

The Czech has messaged tonight asking how my weekend was, but I'm interpreting it as him wanting a redo on last weekend. There won't be a reply. 

Cheating is awful. It allows you to believe that for a few moments you get what you want, but then the moment passes and you're left with nothing but mess. Big Red keeps telling me he's happy with her. Is it even possible for people who are happy to cheat? It is possible to build something with any value from the mess we've made? 

Do I not feel guilty because of how many times I've been her? 

It is so late. Or early depending on how you look at it. Am emotionally exhausted with all this and wish someone would tell me that it won't work out regardless of what I do so that I can stop all this reckless behaviour. 

I hope Christopher gets home soon. I need a hug. 

Liv x 

[stonegeisler0]

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Career & Money🍸 in June 2022 - Gemini

Overall energy: Ace of Swords

You’re focused on clearing the air or providing clarity in a situation that’s been stagnant for some time, it could be something unbalanced or unfair that’s caused you a lot of anxiety, stress, mental anguish and sleepless nights. Judgement rev can show you or someone else not learning the lessons they need to learn, they/you just keep making the same mistakes and doing the same things over and over again, and you’re the Sword that’s cutting this out, putting it to an end once and for all. This can be an energy of not wanting to repeat a situation anymore. You could be cutting off someone or something that is no good for you, this Sword can represent an “aha” moment of clarity where you can see the truth of a matter. Communication with others may play into this as well, and friends seem to be involved too.

Current: 3 Pentacles

You’ve pulled all 3’s for this row, 333 could mean something for your current situation. 3’s are about building, growth, celebrating working with others whether friends or coworkers. There’s a spirit of teamwork in your current position, you seem to have good working relationships with the people around you. The Tower is at the bottom, but it’s something you all are celebrating, in someone’s case. A Tower can be something unexpected that changes everything in a way that they’re no longer the same as they were before, and it doesn’t always have to be bad. In one story, it’s not, it’s something to be celebrated and eagerly awaited. In another case, you’re expecting to celebrate something with those around you, and a Tower is something unexpected and not so great that wipes the slate clean entirely, along with any former expectations that had existed prior. There is definitely a surprise in store that will change everything, what that is depends on your own situation.

Challenges: 7 Swords

Never a card anyone likes to see, especially with a Tower, but it’s followed by a more positive energy. This is sneaky & avoidant bs, lying, cheating, stealing, sometimes in the case of avoiding a disaster in the first place. You could be being held accountable for something that has taken place in the past, in a positive sense, to heal a conflict of some kind. There may be an apology in store, either to or from you, regarding either an ex-lover or someone you’d had a close bond with in the past. One of you is reaching out to the other with this Ace of Swords, whoever put the other in an unfair or mentally taxing situation seems to be apologizing for this behavior and trying to heal a conflict...but it’s a challenge for you, no matter what side you’re on in this. You could be speaking your truth to higher ups at your job and expecting them to right a situation you’ve been wronged...or vice versa. The challenge may be that whoever is on the opposite end of an apology could be avoiding the subject altogether or not being accountable for their part in this conflict. This may also not even have anything to do with you, but something you’re witnessing. Lazy Moe the manager may be being held to a higher standard or called out on his 3 hour lunch breaks, kind of energy.

Potential: Knight of Cups

This whole row is very positive for you, Knight of Cups is kind & loving actions being taken towards Temperance, The Empress, and The Star. Clearly this is after The Tower moment, for The Star to appear here. So whatever is rocking your world unexpectedly will be put right, in a kind & loving way. Temperance is an energy of patience, combining two separate halves into one whole, reconciliation, and there is growth and healing to follow. All major arcanas in this row, and it’s a very positive and spiritually uplifting energy. Don’t be afraid of the Tower that comes, this one seems to be doing you a world of good. The more honest and communicative you are about what’s wrong and what needs to be set right, the better the outcome looks for you.

Signs you may be dealing with:

Libra, Gemini, Aquarius & Scorpio

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[teeterarting]

here's a list of things i love about PSMD for no reason other than i think it deserves appreciation (spoilers)

the hero gets adopted by a nuzleaf. Hero, a young child that doesn't know why they were brought into this world, attacked by beheeyem, scared and alone, finds someone that takes them under his wing and gives them a home. it's really sweet that once Nuzleaf brings them to the Village, Hero's not alone anymore.

yes it was all a trick, he deceived you. but being betrayed by your father figure hits so much harder. it's much more personal, especially when both Hero and Partner are kids. and when Nuzleaf goes through all that ordeal in the post game, then gets accepted back into the village?? And his little speech to Hero????? it's heartbreaking and incredibly touching at the same time

everything is just so cute!!!! you go to school with your new friendo and you're friends with the schoolkids, and you make the trip to school every morning taking in the scenery, the smell of dew and fresh grass, and the sun on your face... and you take classes about Mystery Dungeon mechanics, and principal Simipour is a big BRO, the school nurse Audino is super kind and helpful... and you get to play with your pokemon friendos in summer vacation, and explore a dungeon with 'em... AND your bond with your Partner begins to form, getting stronger and stronger from then on. PSMD's beginning arc is so warm and pleasant, it's like reliving childhood memories all over again, when things were happier and you didn't have to worry about how cruel the world is. this story section's one purpose is to get the player used to the game's mechanics, as well as foreshadowing. unfortunately most of the school kids get forgotten later on, but I still love this part for everything it is, even if unintentional.

it's not just the beginning that's cute. PSMD'S ENTIRE WORLD IS ADORABLE. It's just filled with life every town you go. there are a bunch of pokemon locals and they all have interesting things to say, in the main story and the post-game. there's a point where their comments get repetitive, but that's bound to happen in any PMD game. Even then, the days are never the same. one morning you wake up and the Lively Town locals are exercising, then the next they're having singing lessons, and then they're practicing martial arts. and you get to connect with (or recruit) some of them just by.... chatting!!! Sitting next to that big ol' venusaur and sharing stories, laughing and having fun. it's good stuff.

Sometimes you find travelling pokemon in dungeons and it's jsut the coolest thing. Imagine you're exploring a dungeon, then your Connection Orb notifies you there's a fellow explorer in the floor. First thing you do is try to find them, and when you do - oh dang a travelling Archeops!!!! And then they just,,,, exchange their experiences and thoughts on exploration and how hard it is to fend off those enemies and the cool treasure they found the other day (the game calls it "[Team Name] and [Traveller pokemon] compared notes"). then the traveller heals you, fills your belly and restores your PP. and they go on their way. idk man it's such a cute interaction. explorers chatting, empathizing and helping each other, bc their job is not an easy one...

PSMD Partner is the most developed Partner in any PMD game yet. They start off as this naive, hyperactive kiddo, then stuff happens, and worse stuff happens, and you get to see how they grow and change and by the end they're a different person than they were before (in more than one way ...). It's just so nice to be by their side, from the beginning to the bitter end, and watch their growth. in contrast, Hero is a little unbalanced in that their backstory is not explored as much, and their personality is kind of a blank - probs meant to be vague so the player can be in their shoes. to me this just gives you the opportunity to shape their character however you want, so you can have tons of different hero/pardner dynamics.

The music is rlly flippin' good. Some of the tracks are recycled from previous entries, but when they go original??? it's a blast!!! "Echoes of the Mystical Forest" is one of my favorites in all four entries, it has no right being so amazing for a random dungeon. "Time to Set Out" makes me cry immediately (also i think it would be a better fit for the parting ways scene at the end...). Don't even get me started on "Second Dark Matter Battle", it has everything an epic climax needs and MORE. the Partner remix????? absolute genius

speaking of which, Dark Matter ITSELF,, is freaking amazing. Its actions were foreshadowed in the very beginning, though they were not blatant through the game. i do think they could have done a better job at showing the pokemon's negativity raising in the world, as well as negative feelings in the characters... but it's not like Gates did a good job at it, either (outside of cutscenes, all the locals in Post Town are incredibly nice to you and fights didn't "break out often". it's like the game tells you the world is a dark place, but what it shows in gameplay doesn't add up). so i'll cut them some slack. Still, I find Dark Matter a more compelling villain than the Bittercold for several reasons. it is sentient. its speech is a jumbled amount of voices all talking at the same time - the anguished voices of the world. It actually concocted a plan to hurl the planet into the Sun, using pawns like Nuzleaf and Yveltal to do its dirty job. in the Voidlands, Hero and Partner discover its past, and how it'll come back after defeat, like a cycle. when Partner accepts Dark Matter, they accept negative feelings as something everyone has within themselves. Most of all, the fact that Dark Matter is a manifestation of negative feelings doesn't make it just a generic threat, a final obstacle to be defeated so the world can be saved. It makes Dark Matter - negativity itself - a natural part of the world, the yin to its yang. and that's why I LOVE IT SO MUCH DANG IT EVEN THANKS PARTNER FOR THEIR ACCEPTANCE

The fact that Dark Matter can possess pokemon that have "even the smallest amount of darkness in their hearts". it makes me think of Mr. Nuzleaf and what he might have gone through in the past to make him so easy to be controlled. Did he hold a grudge against someone?? Did he commit a crime?? Had Nuzleaf always been malicious???? And if so, is this why he shows so much remorse in the post-game??????? because he had always been this vile fiend and then he met this small kid and got attached, but still carried on with his evil actions because his malice was still stronger than the positive feelings and Dark Matter's hold on him intensified?????? I don't know!!!! and as much as i wish the game could have given us that sweet mr. Nuzleaf backstory, it's pretty fun to have freedom to come up with your own version.

Everything about Super's climax is just phenomenal. Every single flippin' legendary is there to help you. Arceus is in the game. MEWTWO IS THERE. and when things are looking hopeless, they really seem hopeless. First the Tree of Life is dying, then your allies get turned into stone and sent to hell The Voidlands, Arceus gets turned into stone, the entire world is stone (except for several mon' that are still safe and holding onto hope, but they're so few). Your Harmony Scarves stop working and you and your Partner are back to your feeble, basic stage forms. You are bordering exhaustion, you have no Emeras, it's just you and your Partner against an eldritch abomination that's killing the life on the entire planet like a parasite, devouring all hope. but you still fight back. Given how adults in the game always discourage the village children from going adventuring, that they cannot do this or that because they're so little and fragile, it's awesome how Hero and Partner beat Dark Matter as tiny kids.

PSMD is not a flawless game. in fact there's plenty of things that hold it back and i even mentioned some... but it's still full of love put into it and it resonates w me more than PMD Explorers of T/D/S and Gates to Infinity (Rescue Team is a close second). its my all-time favorite PMD game.

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[obiwanobi]

I blame @quiet-oracle and @theevildevices for this, because I couldn’t resist the urge to write 2k of hurt/comfort for the ‘Jedi but enemies’ AU, where Qui-Gon trained Anakin, and now him and Obi-Wan are well-known for despising each other but working exceptionally well together when they’re not lost in ridiculous banters and petty arguments to hide the fact that they’ll be lost without each other;

Obi-Wan winces.

Skywalker’s hand immediately withdraws. “Does it bother you when I—”

“Yes.”

“You don’t even know what I was going to say!”

“The answer is still the same.” 

Skywalker’s sigh is heavier than the entire Republic navy.

His mouth is too close to Obi-Wan’s shoulder, and he shivers as a result. But it’s only because the cold of the never-ending rain outside still lingers on their clothes and in their bones, even under the tent and close to the portable heater that a clone is still trying to adjust. And also because he’s been sitting there bare-chested for the past five minutes, with Skywalker’s clumsy fingers poking at his hip and ribs, probably way harder than necessary, just to see him suffer. 

“I can apply a bacta patch myself, you can go n—”

“Would you please shut up? We both know a bacta patch wouldn’t be enough.” 

Only the sound of a packet of antiseptic wipes being opened, gauze being stretched and the clone pushing buttons with no effect can be heard for a moment. 

 “I don’t think you’ve ever said ‘please’ to me before,” Obi-Wan notes lightly, then grimaces when Skywalker starts pulling on the cloth pressed to his side.

“Don’t get used to it. But if it’s the only way to make you stop being so difficult and contradictory all the time, I will gladly say it more.”

Instead of looking at his own wound —the pain in his hip is enough, thank you, he doesn't need to see the extent of the damages— Obi-Wan glances at Skywalker. Gaze focused and mouth in a thin line, there’s only concentration written on his face. 

No one could guess that only half an hour ago, on the battlefield, panic and terror were the only two emotions Skywalker was projecting loud enough in the Force to bring Obi-Wan out of unconsciousness.

Unbelievable, Obi-Wan has thought once he was aware enough to realise that it was Skywalker's hands on his face and Skywalker’s voice in his ear, begging him to come back. He would find a way to be annoying enough to drag me out of a coma if he could. 

Surprisingly, the thought has felt like a comfort. 

The clone working on the heater stands up suddenly. Obi-Wan almost forgot about him. He nods his head towards them, and goes out of the tent at the exact same moment Hyoid enters.

At the sight of the clone, all modicum of appreciation for Skywalker evaporate. 

“You called a medic?” Obi-Wan scowls, with the tone of someone who has just been the victim of a vicious mutiny. 

“Of course I called a medic. Half of your tunic is covered in your own blood and you were knocked out for a while earlier, what do you think I was going to do? Tell you to go back out there and watch you slowly bleed to death?”

“Generals,” the medic calls. In vain.

“You would enjoy that,” Obi-Wan grumbles.  

“Well, yes, but then the Council will ask me why I let you die just a few meters away from a first aid kit, and then I’ll have to explain that I gently push it away from your weak hands every time you reached for it, and how will I look, then?”

“Like someone who could have let me die on the battlefield and get away with it, but decided instead to choose the most idiotic and time-consuming option available, and I would have enjoyed that very much.” 

“Generals.” 

“Exactly,” Skywalker nods, “and I can’t let you enjoy things.”

“I know. Don’t think I never realised who was flushing the toilets every time I was in the shower when the hot water came back two days ago.”

“You were so cheerful,” Skywalker says, as if the mere thought disgusts him. “I took that as a personal affront.”

“Sirs, please,” Hyoid implores louder. Both Jedi turn towards him, almost surprised to see him there. “I’m just here to see General Kenobi’s injury, I’m sure you can continue your conversation right after. Sirs. Please.” 

It takes them a second to realise that they’re sitting so close together that Obi-Wan’s hand has settled on Skywalker’s knee when they weren’t paying attention, while Skywalker’s fingers are still maintaining Obi-Wan’s pants low on his hip so it won’t come in contact with the long gash on his side. The intimacy of the scene isn’t completely lost on Skywalker, it seems, because he rushes to take his hands away and stands next to his chair, suddenly too self-conscious to know what to do with himself. 

“I’m very sorry about him,” Obi-Wan apologises, as the medic takes Skywalker’s seat and starts assessing the mess Skywalker undoubtedly made of his hip and ribs. “He’s a rescue. He still has no idea how to behave appropriately in polite society.”

An outraged noise comes from Skywalker behind him, and despite the throbbing pain, Obi-Wan can feel the corners of his mouth turning up. A hiss replaces his smile rapidly enough when Hyoid applies a spray and starts cleaning what Skywalker missed, before pressing stingy patches on the wound. 

The medic is wise enough not to reply to him, but it doesn’t stop him from making a comment or two about how ‘this isn’t superficial sir, you should be more careful from now on,’ or ‘you’ll have to change the bandages, and I’ll get some pills for you to take’ and ‘ok, now let’s see your head, sir, don’t think General Skywalker didn’t mention it’.

His head is, indeed, becoming heavier by the minute, and he can feel himself growing too tired to care enough to listen carefully after that. Once he gives up answering questions and lets Skywalker do it for him, Obi-Wan doesn’t even need to concentrate to feel him poking obnoxiously at him in the Force, testing the limits of his consciousness. It reminds him a bit of when Skywalker was a child, tugging on his robe every two minutes to make sure he was paying attention to him.

No wonder Obi-Wan always tried to avoid him.  

“All right,” the medic finally says, pulling him out of his reverie. He stands up, seemingly satisfied. “I’ll get you your pills, and then you should rest.”

Rest sounds amazing. Obi-Wan would kill Skywalker for a good mattress and a soft pillow right now. But it doesn’t mean anything; he would probably kill Skywalker for two minutes of peace on the best of days. 

The sudden silence that falls under the tent once Hyoid is gone seems almost unnatural. Obi-Wan doesn’t understand why the faint pitter-patter of the rain outside unsettles him so much, until he realises that it’s the first time since the battlefield that he’s alone with Skywalker. 

“Are you going to keep sulking behind me?” Obi-Wan asks, finding his robe discarded on the floor and wondering if it’s worth leaning down to get it. No reply comes. “Well, you heard the medic. You can go now. I, unfortunately for you, will still live to see another...” he trails off as two arms slide over his shoulders from behind, wrapping around his neck and resting there. 

Skywalker is warm against him.

For a second, Obi-Wan thinks he’s finally going to strangle him, but a golden head falls on his shoulder gently, face hidden by a cascade of curls, tickling Obi-Wan's neck and collarbone. 

“Skyw—”

“Don’t be an insufferable asshole for a minute,” Skywalker mumbles, breath hot against his bare skin. “Just let me have this.” 

Ah. It’s one of those moments, then. 

He thought they were done with that for the day after what happened on the battlefield. Earlier.

With Skywalker’s face looming over him. Eyes so wide and so blue. One hand pressed against the wound in his side to stop the bleeding, one hand twisted in Obi-Wan’s tunic, right above his heart. 

Being the one injured and barely conscious, but also being the one calming Skywalker down. Managing to get him to release his death-grip on him. Assuring him that he wasn’t going to die.

Promising it. 

Twice.

Soothing the Hero with No Fear as he would soothe a lost and abandoned child.

“I told you already,” Obi-Wan says quietly. It feels wrong to speak louder when he knows they won’t look at each other for some time after that. “It’s all right. I’m fine now. It’s over.”

The arms around him tighten, mirroring the weight of Skywalker’s presence in the Force around Obi-Wan. 

“I thought you’d left me,” Skywalker says accusingly, sounding remarkably like his nine-year-old self. “I thought you’d left me behind again.”

Obi-Wan closes his eyes, as if not seeing it would erase the fact he’s indulging his instinct to nuzzle his face against Skywalker’s hair. He smells like the rain, muddy but fresh, and feels like lingering distress in the Force. It’s far from pleasant to remain close to such an unbalanced mind, and their position isn’t comfortable either. But Obi-Wan doesn’t shiver from the cold anymore. So they don’t move.

They’ve earned that second of weakness.

Obi-Wan’s hand comes up to scratch at Skywalker’s head gently, fingers tangling with unruly locks of hair. Slowly, his muscles relax and he leans into the touch, chest slumped against Obi-Wan’s back. Skywalker’s face turns towards his throat, nestled under his jaw, before exhaling, deep and warm. In the Force, Skywalker’s signature curls against Obi-Wan’s and quiets down to a low satisfied rumble, dragged away from dread and terror one caress at a time.

Obi-Wan’s mind is suddenly way too tired to be bothered by the tenderness of it all.

“I’m here now, with you,” he whispers in his hair. “That’s all that matters.”

It’s a quiet apology that Skywalker accepts with a satisfied humming noise that resonates in Obi-Wan’s whole body.

It feels a bit like an apology for more. For everything. For all the times he avoided and pushed him away as a child. For condemning him for reasons he didn’t want to admit to himself. For wanting to blame him, for taking his master away, for being such a better padawan than he was, for rubbing it in his face.

For wanting to be his friend, always. 

Obi-Wan has been wrong for so long.

When the medic comes back, Skywalker is kneeling in front of the heater, cursing it quietly, and Obi-Wan is adjusting his robe around his shoulders with slow movements. 

“All right, sir, this is what you’ll have to take before every meal,” Hyoid says, showing him a small bottle, before putting a white box on the table. “And these are the bandages and the bacta to change every day. I would advise you not to do it yourself, and if you don’t have anyone to—“

“I’ll do it,” Skywalker declares without looking up, and Obi-Wan immediately narrows his eyes.

“You? I can’t even trust you with my toothpaste tube, what makes you think—“

“I don’t care what you say Kenobi, there is no wrong way to squeeze toothpaste!”

“There is, and you do it on purpose. What kind of savage would squeeze it right in the middle—”

Skywalker suddenly turns towards Hyoid, talking over him. “How many pills would it take to be considered a lethal dose, do you think?” 

It is, of course, the one comment that ignites a virulent and pointless argument that makes the poor medic reconsider all his life choices and wonder if chloroforming Jedi generals would get him court-martialed.

After seven minutes of a loud and dramatic dispute ending with Skywalker promising to never take part in anything related to Kenobi anymore, except maybe his funeral, Hyoid decides to risk it.

#anakin: I can't believe I have to tenderly tend to this bastard's wounds #and take care of him for the rest of our lives #everyone: you don’t have to #anakin: no no I’m gonna #so when are they furiously kiss each other in the middle of a screaming row #obikin #clem's aus #fic i did write #jedi but enemies au

[sokkastyles]

Kind of annoys me when people say that Mai “just calls Zuko out on his shit” when “his shit” is like… his trauma symptoms

Yeah the thing about this is...if you really believe that Zuko treats Mai so poorly and/or he's such an awful boyfriend why would you want him with Mai? Unless what Mai gets out of the relationship is someone to criticize. Given what she tells Zuko about her relationship with Kei Lo in the comics, that she likes that he likes her more than she likes him, it seems like an unbalanced relationship where she holds all the cards is exactly what she wants. She blames Zuko for her needing that, but that's also exactly how she treated Zuko when she was dating him, and using her relationship with Kei Lo this way is another way for her to guilt-trip Zuko. Which makes sense if you consider both the way her parents treated her and that she grew up watching her friend Azula and their father mistreat Zuko, and then initiated the relationship at a time when Zuko was in a bad place and emotionally vulnerable. (And we can only assume that she was the one who initiated that relationship because she liked him first and we have no indication of how he felt about her before and have you seen this boy with girls?) That also follows with the way she didn't like it when Zuko started standing up for his own opinions. I don't think any of this was intentional which is why I generally think Mai is a victim of bad writing and try not to assume that what Mai actually wants is a relationship that she doesn't have to put any work into with someone who is too damaged to realize he deserves better, but it's almost ridiculous how many bad implications are packed into Mai and Zuko's relationship.

I'm not talking about the scene where Mai is right to call Zuko out for blaming her for his jealousy at the party, although I would argue that what led to that was her repeatedly shutting him down and refusing to engage with what was going on with him. It was shitty behavior on Zuko's part, yeah, but it was so obviously textbook "pay attention to me" behavior from an abused kid who has learned from someone they love giving constant negative feedback that if you can't get positive attention, negative attention is the next best thing. It's kind of amazing to me that people don't connect these dots because it exactly mirrors Zuko's relationship with Ozai; Zuko gets negative feedback/indifference from his father -> Zuko forces his way into the forbidden war room and emotionally explodes -> gets extreme negative feedback from Ozai which he convinces himself is his father giving him an important mission because he really cares about him. Zuko does the same pattern when he constantly pushes Iroh to see if Iroh will push back, only this pattern is disrupted because Iroh actually does care about Zuko and holds him accountable for his behavior. Which is not what Mai is doing when she breaks up with Zuko when she's mad at him and then gets back together with him when she's decided she's not mad anymore. Breaking up with someone temporarily as a punishment when you didn't actually mean to end the relationship, rather than actually addressing the things that made you argue in the first place, is an extremely unhealthy relationship pattern.

I'm talking about when people insist that Mai was also calling Zuko out on his shit when she told him that she didn't ask for his life story. In that scene, what exactly does he need to be "called out on"? Worrying about going back to a father who burned his face? He should be worried! Mai should be worried! Moreover, this is a healthy action on Zuko's part! This is Zuko actually beginning to break those destructive patterns because he's actually started to interact with people who aren't emotional black holes and realized that he can like, talk about his feelings and other people will listen. Mai doesn't want Zuko to break that pattern because that pattern is what their relationship is built on, and it's not really Mai's fault and she was in some ways a victim as well, but it does become Mai's fault when she encourages Zuko to turn back to unhealthy ways of thinking and refuses to let that relationship go.

I'm talking about people who condemn Zuko for breaking up with her. Someone legitimately tried to argue with me once that Mai didn't "consent" to Zuko breaking up with her and like, y'all. No. No. That's not how it works. Your significant other doesn't need to consent to you deciding a relationship isn't working for you anymore. The only person that needs to consent is you. That doesn't mean the other person isn't gonna be hurt but like, nobody's hurt entitles them to a relationship with someone. You do owe someone you were intimate with a certain amount of courtesy and that's why writing a letter like Zuko did isn't considered proper etiquette normally, but in a situation where your life is in danger and the other person doesn't want the relationship to end (and will actively prevent it from ending) and there's no safe way to end the relationship in person? Perfectly acceptable. Zuko did what he had to do to get out of a situation where he was actively in danger even if he hadn't decided that saving the world was more important than being prince (that's one thing I think doesn't get talked about enough. People talk about how Zuko could have followed the villain path that Ozai laid out for him, but he also could have been hurt again or even killed even if he didn't actively defy Ozai. Ozai disfigured him, burned him, seriously injured him, an injury that could have killed him, for like, the slightest disobedience before when Zuko was totally loyal to him, because parents like that don't really need a reason and what was behind it wasn't actually what Zuko did or didn't do but a fundamental belief that Ozai was allowed to treat his child that way. Parents who do this are also very likely to do it again. And Zuko was already in the place where he couldn't be that loyal son anymore, sooner or later he would have done something to upset Ozai or Ozai would have found a reason.) and Mai's desire to be in a relationship with Zuko does not justify jeopardizing his safety and well-being and that's what she should have realized at the Boiling Rock. I also get that sometimes people make these arguments to defend Mai because she suffers from underwritten female character syndrome but like, please, I'm begging you.

None of that means Mai should have to put up with bad behavior from Zuko or that she has to emotionally support him all the time at the expense of her own well-being (which incidentally is the problem in KA...) If only there were a relationship in the show where two people were able to call each other out on their shit but also support each other emotionally when it mattered, like real people do in a real relationship...a balance...a yin and yang if you will...fire and water...red and blue...if only...

#antimaiko #abuse cw #zutara

[kwonhoshi0]

𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐤𝐢 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐧 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐬/𝐨 | h.c

navigation | requests : open | 25th march 2021

pairing : denki x gn!reader

genre : angst to fluff

themes : established relationship

request : angst to fluff hcs idea! denki hearing his S/O talk about their day and Denki being a little mad about something else that day he explodes his anger to her and he says "will you shut the fuck up? damn im so fucking tired of you". His S/O avoid him the following week even at work. Denki, feeling alone he asked his S/O what he did wrong. And then his S/O, almost crying, tells him what he did. He felt so guilty and bad and was finfing the way how to make it up to the. Thanks :)

note : i’m changing it slightly so they’re still in UA :p

[ denki ]

> you literally don’t argue

> in your 2 years of being together you’ve argued probably only twice and that was about safety it wasn’t out of spite it was out of concern

> obviously no one likes fighting but you both despise not being able to talk to each other as normal

> you’re the couple who do tiktok dances and play stupid pranks on eachother even if it takes hours of denki bribing you

> you have date nights every other day

> so when the bakusquad don’t see you together for a week they get a little concerned

-> scenario

> today had been a particularly tiring day training, everyone was tired but denki seemed to be going hard on himself

> he was mad at himself for not being able to withstand a certain amount of electricity before short circuiting

> since you were also busy training you couldn’t reassure him or make him feel better

> as soon as training ended denki headed to his dorm room laying face in his pillow

> you had arrived a little after him with mina and since he wasn’t playing video games downstairs you figured he’d probably be showering or something

> “hey denks” he just made a grunting noise as you sat on the bed

> “it was kinda fun seeing how far everyone could go with their quirks, oh and at one point i went against mina and her new moves are so cool, i wish i could’ve used that move you helped me make but there weren’t many chances to use it”

> you looked back down at the blonde his head was still in his pillow, you nudged him a little “how was your day love” you laughed a little at hid position

> “oh i think i saw you fighting against kiri you were doing so-”

> “do you ever shut the fuck up, i’m so damn tired of you y/n” he turned over slightly staring at his ceiling

> “what-” you were confused he’d never snapped like that

> “god you’re so annoying” he interjected you scoffed not wanting him to see you upset

> “right, you won’t be saying the same thing when you’re begging for my attention”

> he hadn’t really caught your words, he didn’t even realise what he had said

> when you got back to your room you overthought it a lot how long has he thought that about me, did we just break up

> you knew you were overthinking but that didn’t stop you from crying about it fuck has he really thought that shit about me from the beginning, that he’s tired of me, that i’m annoying

> you avoided him like the plague that night, you didn’t go downstairs much and usually you kept your door unlocked so he can sneak in but you locked it

> it hurt a lot knowing he thought that about you

> you went downstairs to grab a drink kirishima bakugou and sero were sat playing video games

> “hey y/n are you gonna play tonight?” you shook your head and walking over to him to see what theyre playing

> “you okay? you look tired” well i am tiring apparently

> “yeah sorry, just tired” you lied

> “oh in that case you should rest!” you smiled at the redhead nodding at his words

> “oh and y/n kaminari seemed worked up when we sparred earlier is he okay” you winced a little before pretending to have not heard them

> you opened the door of your room and struggled holding your water phone and books

> “hi sunshine” a sleepy voice that usually made your heart race except it made your heart rate speed up for a different reason

> you quickly closed the door and locked it sighing

> “y/n? what happened? is this one of your pranks you’re not getting me back by locking me out”

> the next day you woke up slightly earlier than usual, denki usually woke up late anyway so you took your time

> you walked to your class with bakugou and kirishima and sat in your usual seat

> when denki arrived he was a little confused since you hadn’t stumbled into his room at 6:30am and cuddled him until your alarm went off

> you didn’t have breakfast with him or walk to class with him

> you hadn’t even looked at him this morning and it scared him

> he wanted to talk to you but aizawa walked in making everyone sit in their seats

> for sparring partners you paired with bakugou since your quirks are pretty compatible

> during your sparring session you had pinned his arm behind his back which meant he fell on you since you were both so unbalanced, he had his arms on the ground caging you beneath him

> the electric type stared in jealousy wait is this why they’re acting weird? because they want to leave me for him

> fucking dumbass no just don’t hurt my feelings🌝

> you sat with the dekusquad since you’re friends with all of them

> it wasn’t too weird to others since you and the deku squad are pretty good friends

> you successfully ignored him for another school day but there was still the dorms

> “oi dumbass we’re doing movie night you comin” you smiled at the blondes softness towards his friends “sorry i’ve got uh homework”

> “uh homework?” you glared at him “you know what i mean”

> he rolled his eyes before going back to your friends

> denki watched from afar he wanted to make you smile, he wanted to do that so why weren’t you letting him

> “y/n” you froze a little hearing his voice so pleading but you shook it off and went to your room

> the next couple days were hard you didn’t know where you stood with the boy and you were honestly afraid to find out

> denki had tried to talk to you but everytime he did have the chance he chickened out afraid you’d say you don’t want him anymore and that terrified him so much he couldn’t think about it without tearing up

> it had been about a week since what happened and everyone noticed the atmosphere

> you both looked miserable and you wouldn’t be caught in the same room together

> “oi y/n open up, Now dumbass” you groaned letting the blonde in

> “what the fuck is going on with you and dunce face?!” you sighed

> “i’m not exactly sure” that wasnt a lie, you don’t really know where you stand with him

> “explain”

> “i went to his dorm as normal and he told me i was tiring and annoying and asked if i ever shut up.. it may not seem like much since you say that all the time but it’s the way he said it, he said it with so much hate, just didn’t feel great i guess”

> “just suck it up and talk to him, you don’t know what he’s thinking so find out”

> “and what if he wants to leave me”

> “then fuckin let him if things are meant to work out they will, besides i’m not doing this out of kindness, you’re uh not at your strongest during training so”

> you smiled a little hearing the blondes excuses for caring about his friends

> just as you let bakugou out denki watched and looked at the ground feeling tears in his eyes

> your eyes widened a little as he pushed open the door letting himself in

> “i don’t know what i did but you could’ve broken up with me before dating him you know!”

> you furrowed your eyebrows holding back tears

> “is that some sort of fucking joke denki?, you can’t tell me i’m tiring and annoying asking me if i ever shut up and then accuse me of cheating when that was very clearly your way of telling me to fuck off”

> just as he was about to ask what you meant he remembered what had happened that day, he was so tired and caught up in his own anger that he had forgotten

> “what the fuck, y/n i’m sorry i’m so sorry i didn’t mean to say any of that.. i shouldn’t have accused you of anything or taken it out on you” he let a tear slip out staring at the ground

> you thought about it and scolded yourself for overthinking so much

> “can we be okay y/n.. i love you even if i don’t deserve to”

> you sniffled a little at his words before smiling “do that again and i’ll fucking gut you”

> he jumped towards you with a grin on his face engulfing you in a hug

> “i missed this, i missed you so much baby”

> you nodded into his neck “me too”

A/N : pain only pain, i barely see any denki angst to fluffs so i’m here feeding my people😫

taglist : @todoroki-shoto-is-life @blazedbakugou @luluwiie @blue-gold-demigod-clouds @gazelle-des-pres @gaysimpsstuff

#mha x reader #mha x gn!reader #bnha x gn!reader #bnha headcanons #mha headcanons #my hero headcanons #denki fluff #denki angst #mha kaminari #mha denki fluff #mha fluff #mha angst #denki drabbles #denki imagines #denki scenario #denki scenarios #bnha denki fluff #mha denki angst #bnha denki angst #bnha imagines #mha imagines #mha scenarios #bnha scenarios #mha #my hero academia #bnha #denki hcs #kaminari hcs #denki x y/n #denki x gn!reader

[minkmousesworld]

MORE BRATTY SUB SANEMI PLSSS 🤲

of course!♡

What type of sub: Sanemi Shinazugawa [NSFW🔞]

warnings: brat taming, rough sex (hair pulling, bondage, mention of bites), rough language, mention of praise kink.

"Tsk. So what? Are you trying to subdue me, or are you trying to persuade me? Then you'd better get down on your knees and beg me — that will be most effective"

Sanemi is a problematic brat, even if at first you will be sure that he is dominant because "everything points to it".

Brat-brat-brat-brat, and he doesn't realize it until at some point you just behave rudely, threatening punishment if he continues to behave like this, and he's just excited by the thought and craves it.

Don't let his aggressive and rude behavior obscure your eyes. But at the same time, do not expect him to be "childish" disobedience. He is not one of those subs who will bring you ice cubes instead of "very cold water" and stand because you told him to "bring water" instead of "give it". Oh, no.

Sanemi is one of those subs who will taunt, try to challenge your dominance, and provoke. And he does it unconsciously — for him, this is not a game where you can say "red" and he immediately becomes obedient and soft, asking for long hugs and kisses; for him, this is a natural behavior.

Don't you like what he says? Put a gag in his mouth. Don't you like the way he looks? Blindfold him. Does he push you away? Put him in handcuffs.

Tie him up. Roughly push down on the bed / floor / sofa. Pull his hair. Scratch his chest, bite him, slap him. Subdue him.

Inflame the situation, call him a brat, you can even strangle him several times if he plays especially naughty and drives you crazy. Sanemi like when you are angry and you show him "his place".

Bring Sanemi to such a state that at the end of sex, he is trembling and does not understand anything, obediently repeating after you "I'm a good boy", and snuggled up to you in a thirst for comfort and safety.

Aftercare is very important to him. If you don't take care of him after such games, Sanemi will be even more unbalanced and angry, and it will not be "playful"at all. In the moments of making love, he opens up very deeply to you, and the lack of care will be considered by him as neglect (which, in general, is true if you refuse to engage in aftercare).

Sanemi needs clear rules and punishment for disobedience. your relationship will raising where you'll specify Sunami in his place, and he will break the rules. He is not "elegant" — there will be no tricks, but there will be the usual disobedience and ridicule.

As long as you don't show him exactly why he has to follow the rules, Sanemi will continue to break them.

Sanemi will directly tell you what your rules are meaningless, and so he violates them. In fact, it's because he's trying to find boundaries that he can't go beyond. And you need to show him those boundaries.

Sanemi is definitely not a sub who will voluntarily kneel in front of you before you put him in his place.

Why should he respect you? Because you're dom? No.

Sanemi constantly runs into the punishment. Even when he seems to be communicating with you calmly, he can't help but act like a brat. The longer your relationship, the less aggressive, but the first time you will have to bring to mind his disobedience and intractability.

If you have recently had an aggressive quarrel, he will definitely break at least one rule (not too painful, however; he does not really want to hurt you), and clearly, in front of your eyes. Motivation? To activate your instinct to "catch and punish". You'd rather grab him and have rough sex than ignore him.

If you react stoically, he will become even more brazen. Bickering with you, snapping, ridiculing (unpleasant, but not painful), but at the same time obviously looking for a meeting and waiting for your reaction. The sexual tension will be almost material between the two of you.

Hey, he's actually acting like a naughty brat here, why are you ignoring him and not wanting to talk to him? Did he really hurt you?

In the end, if you show indifference, Sanemi show his hidden submissive traits. Most likely, he will buy groceries and prepare your favorite dishes to apologize to you during the meal.

Even if Sanemi enjoys your aggression, it doesn't mean that he wants you to be really angry with him. He didn't mean to offend you.

Sanemi just says what comes to mind first.

Sanemi loves rough sex very much. The rougher you are, the better.

However, in particularly rough moments, he can provoke you to make it even more painful, although it is obvious that he will not stand it anymore. His usually high attention to his own body's response recoils when he feels so submissive.

Sanemi is more submissive when he has a collar around his neck (plus, he looks cute in it), but good luck putting it on him. He will resist with the last of his strength until you just pin him down.

"Be a good boy and just put this on, Nemi".

"Fuck you, [Sir/Madam]."

He uses the names you call yourself (even if "Mommy/Daddy" is very embarrassing), but with such an intonation that he sounds even more audacious than if there were no names.

(You don't like the tone Sanemi calls you? Fuck him until he can't even remember his own name, let alone pronounce it).

Very sensitive to humiliation. Calling him an "annoying brat" or a "naughty boy" is one thing, but really rude insults instantly turn him off. Sanemi wants to be tamed and subjugated, not humiliated, and it is a very stable position.

If you are a very soft dom (or just very sweet), then Sanemi will be disappointed when you don't respond to his provocation properly. But when you pat him on the head or praise him for being "good"? He'll blush♡

Praise kink is not something Sanemi has ever thought of, but something he definitely craves. Let him hide his face in your shoulder / chest, and praise him for his work, and he will melt.

He will miss the emotional tension, in the form of "you grabbed his hand and pressed him to the bed, saying that now you will fuck him until he loses consciousness", and he will often drive you crazy, but this discomfort will not be too strong for him to think about breaking up the relationship.

His perfect dom? Brat tamer with a soft side.

Make him submit to you, not by constant physical punishments, but by words. Make him so obedient that he won't even think about being disobedient just by seeing your look.

Ride him / push him while Sanemi lies in front of you bound, gagged, and tell him that this is how naughty boys are treated.

Leave hickeys and smack marks on him and sweetly advise him not to provoke you anymore while you play with his hair. Spoiler: he will do this, but less prominently.

Even if Sanemi obedient to you, to be a brat it's part of his personality. You will have to accept that he will never change.

At least Sanemi doesn't roll his eyes when you say you're going to punish him today, but just chuckles. Already progress!

🍃🍃🍃

"And that's what you call sex? Maybe we should play with dolls. This will make more sense than your weak strokes"

"Have you already started or do I have to wait?"

"And what will I get for it?"

"Tsk... and that's it?"

"If something like this is rough sex for you, I can show you how a real dom does it"

"You're just a fucking pervert, and that's what turns me on, not what you do to me"

#gender neutral reader #demon slayer headcanons #kimetsu no yaiba headcanons #nsft #dom reader #sanemi shinazugawa smut #sanemi shinazugawa x reader #sanemi shinazugawa #🍡.brat taming #🍡.rough sex #🍡.praise kink #🍰.imagine: what type of sub