#FUCKING NARCISSISM

[msclaritea]

When the New York Post declared this year's Best Actor race 'Lackluster' they weren't kidding. We basically have the Gay Mafia, competing against itself, and while they practically run both actors, it's obvious the Satanic cult of Scientology and its many, many Israeli members want to honor a monster, Oppenheimer, because of his Solar Cult stance about a one world government. That is what people don't get.

As usual, they can't help but casually promote their other members by use of snarky memes. Oh, come on. Don't tell me no one guessed about Cate Blanchett. Don't forget the rule in Hollywood. They don't like straight actors to play gay roles. But the reverse is just fine.

I'd rather see Paul Giamatti or Zac Efron get the award. I KNOW Giamatti is a strong actor, often overlooked and unproblematic as hell. I like him even more, now, since finding out, today that Sideways remains one of his favorite projects, as is mine. I still watch that movie, every two years, just so I can lmao, again.

Zac Efron has actually endured and survived physical abuse in the film industry. The fact that he is still going is truly more courageous than either of the top queens, currently scratching each other's eyes out over Oscar gold.

#Bradley Cooper #Cillian Murphy #Rami Malek #Cate Blanchett #Tom Cruise #Cult of Scientology #Oppenheimer was a Satanist #Bernstein #Paul Giamatti #Holdovers #Zac Efron #Iron Claw #The Hollywood Gay is turns my fucking stomach #Shades of Johann Von Winkelman from mid 1700s #“I'm pretty. why won't the world worship the beauty of men the way they do women?” #FUCKING NARCISSISM

[notherpuppet]

Lucifer and Alastor as floormates

Preview:

#this was gonna be a comic but then I wanted to draw too many frames #hazbin hotel #alastor #hazbin hotel spoilers #hazbin hotel fanart #radioapple #hazbin lucifer #appleradio #my doods #literally the worst thing luci can do to alastor is help him out #I wonder if them being floormates is going to help al curb his narcissism or just make it infinitely worse #al helped luci with his absentee father problem lol #btw headcanon is that al definitely does NOT stop fucking with the interiors lol #cw blood #fanimatic

[doomsdayradio]

hey maybe, when people with npd tell you not to call abusers and rapists and the like narcissistic just because they're horrible people, view it not as us defending abusers or trying to control how victims talk about their trauma, and more like i as a survivor don't wanna be fucking put in the same category as an abuser or rapist for no fucking reason because you can't bring it upon yourself to spell the word egotistical

#words words words !! #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #narc abuse #narcissistic abuse #anti npd #surviving narcissism #idc im crosd tagging fuck you people i woke up angry tonight #rape tw #abuse tw #ableism #!

[localangrygay]

s/o to @baykingsouthwest for informing me i haven't posted any shirtless pics since getting my tiddies pierced (7 months ago lol)

#my face #random acts of narcissism #it me #i can never fucking remember how i tag my selfies

[aventurine-bottomsurgery]

Me: hoo boy i sure do relate to some NPD symptoms :) i wonder what resources are available about the topic!!

"How to SPOT an EVIL, BABY EATING NARCISSIST so you can BEAT THEM WITH A STICK because they WILL hurt you"

Me: oh ok

#cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #cluster b positivity #npd #narcissism #narcissistic personality traits #self dx #idk if i do have it but holy shit what the fuck is wrong with people #disabilties #mental health #ableism tw

[shitswiftiessay]

so taylor has put out another hit piece against joe (who’s surprised)

after buying winning the TIME person of the year award 2023, and having a gushing puff piece that’s supposed to paint her as this trailblazer for women and feminist icon…

she made sure to dedicate a significant portion of it to talking about her boyfriends. 🙄

so here are the cringeworthy excerpts where she’s talking about her latest victim boyfriend.

“Football is awesome, it turns out. I’ve been missing out my whole life.”

I love how she single handedly debunked the claim that swifties have been making, that taylor ALWAYS loved football and was a huge eagle fan (just bc she had an eagles shirt). now it’s basically confirmed that this football shit is just taylor’s newest PERSONALITY that she’s gonna wear for a few months, until she gets bored of it, and then she’ll throw travis under the bus and she’ll start siccing her fans against him.

“This all started when Travis very adorably put me on blast on his podcast, which I thought was metal as hell.”

god, someone bring me a BARF BUCKET please. 🪣 🤮 and since when is it “adorable” for a guy to PUT YOU ON BLAST because you wouldn’t go out with him or take his number?? that’s… very weird. i’m sure she wouldn’t find it “adorable” if she wasn’t interested in the guy. but anyway, i’m pretty sure she just saw an opportunity here and she took it. she can’t handle being single for more than a month, she needed a new man to make people forget about her matty healy era. and she’s LOVING the good press she’s getting for being “America’s royal couple” as her fans are calling them. but does she actually LOVE HIM? that, I remain yet to be convinced about.

and I love this part. “We would never be psychotic enough to hard-launch a first date.”

yeah, taylor’s not CRAZY you guys, it’s not like she said “I love you” to matty healy on stage back in may before breaking up with him 2 weeks later. nah. it’s not like she immediately bought a house next to her teenage boyfriend connor kennedy who was STILL IN HIGH SCHOOL when she started dating him. nah. that would be CRAZY. PSYCHOTIC even!!

and here comes the part where she starts passive aggressively smearing joe and we all know she’s on a smear campaign against joe now but it’s kind of pathetic that even while winning PERSON OF THE YEAR she has to make it about that.

so taylor obviously has a lot to say about her new relationship, and how proud they are of each other. but you know what I DON’T hear her saying? “I’m in love” or “I’m happy with him.”

and personally, i think that speaks volumes. if she was truly HAPPY with her new man she wouldn’t be doing all this shit. if you were around when taylor broke up with calvin and then immediately started hard-launching hiddleswift, taking pap photo after pap photo and being extremely “happy” she was and meeting his mom and all that shit…. and if you don’t see the parallels between what she’s doing NOW with travis, you’re either a blind fan or just flat out stupid.

because at least when she started dating joe she actually left her exes alone (at least for a little while), she was like “I forget their names now.” and you can tell she was happy without having to make a big show of it- “nobody’s heard from me for months, I’m doing better than I ever was.”

but now she’s acting like it’s the worst thing ever that she was “locking herself in her house for a lot of years,” and she KNOWS that her fans are going to take that and blame joe for it.

JUST LOOK at the quotes and replies of this tweet and this tweet to see how those insane fucking swifties are acting over this. EVERYTHING she does now is an incitement against joe and she knows it, it’s deliberate, it’s calculated.

and i guess she’s gotta bury him while she continues hanging out with a sexual abuse apologist so she can look like she has some kind of moral high ground.

also, the way she’s trying to erase the fact that 11 of the 15 songs on reputation were LOVE SONGS about joe, not “a goth-punk moment of female rage at being gaslit by an entire social structure.”

this woman is just narcissistic and straight up DELUSIONAL at this point. she’s so far up her own ass it’s nauseating. but i really hope that she keeps on talking. because the more she talks, the more people realise what a narcissistic clown she is. 🤡

#anti taylor swift #shit swifties say #<<<< at the links if you dare to click them #taylor’s narcissism is not covert it’s OVERT at this point #i blame that one stupid fucking swiftie who tried to say that taylor was punk #taylor just set herself up so badly #joe alwyn #free joe alwyn #shit taylor says #goth punk my ass #reference post

[alostlittleriverlotus]

seeing an anti-narcissist post talking about how narcissists will believe they're good people and never realize the harm they're doing.

It is really amazing how anti-narcissist folks fit their own definition of narcissism.

Because when we even try to calmly explain, no accusatory language, to them why they are harming victims of abuse as well and why they are dehumanizing a group of people, they will instantly use their trauma and abuse as a reason for why they aren't wrong and believe they are standing up for victims of abuse.

Narcissists are victims of abuse too. My abusive mom is, I am. Like. You're demonizing a group of abuse victims as if it'll help you heal at all by acting like the narcissist is evil and self loathing. Regardless of whether your abuser has NPD or not doesn't matter. My mom's autism adds to her mistreatment of me. She takes things at face value and will neglect me even when I flat out tell her. It's not a trait of autistic abuse. Disorders do affect treatment of people, duh, because it affects their world view and how they perceived things. Like, how someone depressed may have their self image warped as well as their view of people around em. But that does not make it "disorder abuse." The disorder didn't abuse you, people with the disorder aren't more likely to be abusive or have their symptoms/traits affect others. You have a warped view because of trauma too. And people may use their disorders as a scapegoat (my ex used his depression a lot for his mistreatment of me and even blamed me for his depression), but it doesn't make it disorder abuse. It doesn't mean every person with the disorder is evil. And if you're someone who can "separate a narcissist from someone with NPD cause they are different" you fail to see how the correlation still harms people with NPD. That's why we ask you to use different terms.

We can't find solace in trauma and mental health spaces because of this anti-narcissist rhetoric and belief. That narcissists are bad and abusive and will always hurt you and can't love. Trauma victims with NPD can't even be welcomed in most trauma victim spaces because of this. People with NPD cannot look up help for their disorder without being bombarded with how to cope with the toxic narcissist. Just think about it for more than 5 seconds and try to empathize with us (since anti-narcs love using empathy, here you go.)

Empathize with us. Show us compassion. You ARE hurting victims. You're throwing trauma victims under a bus as a scapegoat and an outlet for you cause of your abuser hurting you. It IS a you problem. We are asking that you listen to us and learn and actually show us compassion and treat us like people. Honestly.

And don't even try to say "well you're a narcissist, of course you'd say that." That is literally ignoring what we say because of a bias you have with the disorder. I am saying this cause I shouldn't have to be wary of mental health spaces, I shouldn't have to go on Tumblr and find the NPD community to help me through narc crashes. I was having a narc crash and tried to find help on Google, all it did was make me suicidal instead of wanting to self harm. I could have died! And I have seen stories of other people with NPD killing themselves because of the stigma! This is a fucking real issue and me being a narcissist and affected by this ableism does not discredit what I say. Just please listen!

But if you're unwilling to, just block me. Because if you aren't willing to listen and learn and try to understand then don't even bother interacting with me, even negatively. I won't waste my time on people refusing to listen.

#narcissist #narcissistic #narcissism #surviving narcissism #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissist stigma #narc #actually narcissistic #npd #npd stigma #npd abuse #npd positivity #actually npd #narcissist positivity #npd safe #cluster b #ableism #fuck ableism #fuck ableists #trauma #abuse #narcissistic trauma #narcissistic abuse isn't real

[corbinite]

"when I say someone's a narcissist I'm not insinuating they have NPD, I'm just using the colloquial definition" would only hold water if the people using it actually WERE using the colloquial definition. 10 years ago the colloquial definition of narcissist was a person who was self-absorbed or vain. The stereotypical 'narcissist' was a teenager taking too many selfies. The idea that a "narcissist" is someone who is evil and manipulative and inherently abusive only exists because of stereotypes about people with NPD, and only exists because of raptorial pop psych articles about "how to spot this new breed of evil person to be terrified about". You cannot say "I'm not talking about NPD" while specifically using the toxic mythologized NPD stereotypes, it just doesn't work.

#mine #narcissist #narcissism #and again I'll never shut up about how the word has become a tool of abuse #how it's become abusers' favorite word #because it's extremely useful to anyone who wants to immediately control the narrative about someone else #some of y'all are so fucking stupid you hear someone being called a narcissist and you connure up the most cartoonish image of an abuser #which should be your first sign that it's a projection cause no one on this earth is like that #but y'all really wanna believe in a clear taxonomic divide between 'good people' and 'degenerates'

[aquamarineglow]

Remember the time Layton burst into a hotel room that two men were staying in (there was only one bed) and started rifling through their possessions?

#Layton: Just ignore me! I'll just be a moment! 🙂 #Narcisse and Frankie: *in bed together* Get the fuck out our room!! #Layton is so hyper focused on his investigation that he doesn't realize the situation he's in #whats funnier is that they try to bribe Layton with a puzzle #but he solves it and keeps investigating #professor layton #miracle mask #professor Layton and the miracle mask #hershel layton #narcisse #conner #frankie

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

*steals your mental stability*

#i need it #give it to me #mental stability #actually mentally ill #mentally fucked #mental illness #mental health #traumagenic did #did alter #did system #traumagenic system #actually did #bpd #bpd problems #bpd thoughts #actually npd #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissism

[crabussy]

I LOVE AND APPRECIATE MY FRIENDS WITH NPD 👊👊👊👊👊👊💥💥💥 OKAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#npd #narcassistic personality disorder #one of my best friends has npd and he gets SO MUCH SHIT CONSTANTLY #I can’t imagine how exhausting it must be #yeah. it’s one of the coolest guys I know and I hate how much misinformation narcissism is subject to #I'd recommend researching the disorder and asking your npd loved ones how you can help them manage their disorder!! #god warning it is so hard to find information on npd that isn’t ‘my EVIL narcissist friend and how I isolated and hurt them #as punishment for their disorder!!’ #Id suggest asking people who have npd about their experiences #seriously. god I believed the stigma before I got a friend with npd and it’s so so wrong #yeah. unfollow me right fucking now if you believe that narcassists are inherently abusive and evil and unable to have good relationships #STOP DEMONISING DISORDERS

[j7cvera]

Gaslighting at its best. Be careful of these predators.

#toxic #narcissistic abuse #parentalalienation #mental health #child abuse #narcissisticgaslighting #gaslighting #narcissist parents #trash #truth #fucking cowards #slander #emotional abuse #manipulation #female manipulator #covert narcissism #toxic femininity

[spitblaze]

Casual ableist language is absolutely an issue worth addressing but maybe instead of focusing on people saying 'stupid' and 'idiot' we could look at how (non-psychotic) people throw around 'delulu' and then are shocked when people who have delusions talk about them, and people on YouTube and tiktok and really just in real life consistently using 'psychopath' and 'narcissist' as shorthand for 'evil person'

#spitblaze says things #i am not talking about narcissism in the classical 'self obsessed/self infatuated' sense #i am talking about it in the NPD way that people think turns you into an unremorseful gaslighting abuser #not to say people cannot suffer abuse at the hands of ppl with npd. just the assertion that ppl with that are inherently abusive is bullshi #also psychopqthy hasnt even been a valid dx since at least the latest edition of the dsm #its almost like ppl are realizing that saying 'this guy has Evil Remorseless Killer Disorder' is a fucked up thing to do and maybe has #more nuance than 'their brain makes them ontologically evil' #shocker. i know #ableism

[spop-romanticizes-abuse]

i’m just dropping by and i wanna rant a bit about just how much i hate that people have turned the word “narcissistic” into a synonym for toxic or abusive. even if we’re ignoring the ableism towards people with NPD (which we shouldn’t), people are still not using the term correctly? they’re not evening referring to someone who is egotistical or selfish, they’re just straight up using that word for any person who slightly pisses them off.

#this isn’t inherently about spop but i’ve seen assholes like this in the fandom #stop equating any kind of unpleasant behaviour with narcissism #do everyone a favour and pick up a fucking dictionary #(i don’t have npd but i really feel for people who do and have to deal with this shit everyday) #ableism tw #rant #okay i’m out

[syko-raccoon]

Me when i add 100000 tags on a post only for 2 ppl to like it and its my gf and cousin

#npd #npd positivity #npd problems #npd things #npd posting #npd traits #npd safe #npd culture is #npd vent #narcissists #narcissistic traits #narcissist #narc #narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissism #big tiddy problems #vent post #kinda #safe space #vent warning #personal vent #tw vent #cluster b #yes i put the tag big tiddu problems fuck me up #personality disorder #personal

[phantomhunt]

hey, I don't know if any of you support lawbymike (I watched his stuff on YouTube but I'm sure he's on other platforms)

But I hate to say it, he's an ableist.

He uploaded this video about "how to know if you're dating a narcissist" and it's full of misinformation about npd

Sure, it does mention NPD comes from trauma, but it ignores how NPD actually works.

I highly suggest you all stop supporting him.

(I'm not usually one for 'cancel culture' stuff but I want all my fellow pwNPD to stay away from ableists)

#npd traits #actually npd #npd safe #npd #narcissistic pd #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissist #narcissistic #narcissism #actually narcissistic #fuck ableists #tw ableism #ableism #ableist bullshit