#Undiagnosed

[autismcultureis]

Undiagnosed autism culture is bring told you need to learn to read the room when you say smth and to this day still have no idea what they were talking about because I think I read the room well

!!!

#autism culture #autism #autism spectrum disorder #autistic #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #actually autistic #asd #autistic things #nd #undiagnosed asd #undiagnosed neurodivergent #undiagnosed autistic #undiagnosed #undiagnosed culture #undiagnosed autism culture #undiagnosed autistic culture

[enby-keith]

Which side did you get your autism from and why is it your undiagnosed dad’s side?

#asd #autism #nd #neurodiversity #neurodivergence #neurodivergent #actually autistic #undiagnosed #my dad likes computers way too much #his dad …. likes trains #10k #hall of fame

[whatshouldwecallchronicillness]

Feeling sad about normal test results.

They say: It’s like you want to be sick.

Me: No I AM sick. I want to know why.  

#Chronic Illness #spoonie #chronic pain #chronic fatigue #undiagnosed

[turns-out-its-adhd]

NEURODIVERSE-SQUAD, ASSEMBLE!

#neurodiversesquad #adhd memes #neurodivergence #neurodiversity #neurodiverse stuff #adult adhd #adhd #autism #ocd #depression #anxiety #dyslexia #mental health #mental wellbeing #late diagnosis #undiagnosed #self diagnosis is valid #medicated #unmedicated #adhd symptoms #symptoms

[talkethtothehandeth]

Everyone with gi issues deserves a kiss on the forehead right now

#chronic illness #chronic pain #cripple punk #disabled #gi issues #undiagnosed #ibs #chronically ill #gastroparesis

[burntoutuserboxes]

[This user may have undiagnosed autism.]

#autism #undiagnosed #mental health #this user is #userboxes #userbox #dark userboxes #black userboxes #black aesthetic #dark aesthetic #;q

[callsign-magnolia]

Undiagnosed Masterlist

Mature Content 18+

Jake Seresin x Neurodivergent OC

Summary: Katie Blair grew up trying to be the perfect daughter. She always struggled to be the prim and proper little girl her parents wanted. Big personality as a kid, but now at 25, she's the shy admiral's daughter who just keeps her head down and tries to get through law school. So what happens when she's had enough and with help from a certain Lieutenant, she gets out.

General Warnings: Angst, smut, asshole parents, trauma response, Jake is a jerk at first.

I will update the warnings as I write. These are just I thought of now.

Sneak Peek

Chapter 1

Chapter 2

Chapter 3

Chapter 4

Chapter 5

Chapter 6

Chapter 7

Chapter 8

Chapter 9

Chapter 10

Chapter 11

Chapter 12

Chapter 13

Chapter 14

Chapter 15

Chapter 16

Chapter 17

Chapter 18

Chapter 19

Text Messages:

Stay away from me

He's not sorry

What's the plan?

Dinner?

Taglist: @wkndwlff @alltimereverie @cherrycola27 @daisydaisygoose @rosiahills22 @deanoheartspie @cornishkat @high-speed-r @fogle97 @mygyn @ohgodnotagainn @emma8895eb @senjoritanana @kmc1989 @sandaltoesocks @mayhemmanaged @dempy @itsdesiree86 @sunderland-6 @jstarr86 @brooke-stinson @rachkon @topguncultleader @bethbunnyy @topgun-imagines @clancycucumber230 @seitmai @kkrenae @djs8891 @shanimallina87 @wildxwidow @eugene-emt-roe @hisredheadedgoddess28 @littlewhiterose @formulapierre @wade-wilsons-chew-toy @bethabear12 @halstead-severide-fan @gg-trini @memeorydotcom @schreksdoubledeckerhomechecker @inthestars-underthesun @praline357 @fanboyluvr @greaser9902 @felinegrate @lemmons1998 @thegoddessc @lynnevanss @daddyslittlevillain @els-marvelvsp @marvelouslyme96 @dreaming-starlet @thewhowhatwhenwhereuniverse @eternalsams @nandafrietaz

#Undiagnosed #ADHD OC #jake hangman seresin #jake seresin #hangman seresin #hangman #top gun maverick

[webkinzpossum]

i’m a medical mystery

#i would simply like ✨competent✨ doctors #credit in pic #possumcore #opossumcore #possum memes #opossum memes #chronically ill #chronic illness #mental illness #mental illness memes #chronic illness memes #rheumatoid arthritis #fibromyalgia #chronic migraine #occipital neuralgia #allodynia #cptsd #posturaltachycardiasyndrome #vasovagal syncope #undiagnosed

[stillfuckingtired]

Doctors always make a point to ask me about depression and anxiety, and latch onto it (I think because it’s something they can Actually treat, unlike most of my problems.) And I totally get that, and It’s good that mental health is on their radar.

However! Every time they ask, in that Concerned Authority Figure voice, if I experience depression or anxiety, I’m just like…..uh, yeah! But just like, the usual amount, you know? Considering *gestures vaguely at my entire body*

Like, can you imagine if I was in pain all the time and exhausted and etc. —and I WASN’T a little fucked up about it? If I seemed just Completely Fine? Now THAT would be cause for concern, psychologically speaking. Big red flag.

I think it’s a completely reasonable and expected response to be a little depressed and anxious, given both the physical misery I experience on a daily basis and the sharp left turn my life took because of my health.

That’s not to say that my mental health isn’t a concern—far from it. But I see a specialist for that, and I refuse to let my Other specialists try and treat my secondary conditions as though they were primary, instead of focusing on the issues I actually came to them to treat. Been there, done that, at the beginning of my diagnoses journey, and it set me back years barking up the wrong tree.

#chronic illness #disabled #fibromyalgia #diagnoses #undiagnosed #chronic pain #chronic fatigue #disability #young and disabled #ouchies #mental health

[tea-and-spoons]

Spoonie Life Tip #11

Psychosomatic does NOT mean you're faking

Placebo effect does NOT mean you're faking

"No organic cause" does NOT mean you're faking

Brains are powerful and weird. Your symptoms are real.

#teaandspoons #chronic illness advice #disability #chronic illness #spoonie #chronic pain #chronic fatigue #functional neurological disorder #undiagnosed

[autismcultureis]

undiagnosed autism culture is..

telling someone you think your autistic snd they laugh and say

“no youre not autistic, i can tell”

!!

#then they get upset when you literally show the symptoms of your disorder #autism culture #autism #autism spectrum disorder #autistic #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #actually autistic #asd #autistic things #nd #undiagnosed culture #undiagnosed asd #undiagnosed neurodivergent #undiagnosed autistic #undiagnosed #undiagnosed autistic culture

[sundry-whovengerslocked]

shoutout to the confused chronics

shoutout to the people with chronic fatigue who have no apparent reason for being so tired

shoutout to the chronically ill people who feel like they can't use that term because they don't know what's wrong with them

shoutout to the people with chronic pain who only have diagnoses of the mental kind

shoutout to everyone afraid to use the word chronic even though they suffer every day

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I'm mentally ill, neurodivergent, and have ibs.

my mother has fibromyalgia, arthritis, carpal tunnel, bursitis, insomnia, and probably more.

I find myself comparing myself to her all the time, thinking things like "my pain isn't that bad," or "at least I don't have fibro," or "I'm just being lazy." I hesitate to take pain meds because I feel like I don't "deserve" it.

comparing pain in this way is an awful practice. it prevents people from getting the treatment and validity they need.

no, I don't suffer the way she does. but I still suffer.

I have back pain daily. I regularly have to do physical activity which makes it significantly worse. I have a shitty mattress that gives me no relief.

when I have to lift heavy things or sleep wrong I sometimes get pain all the way from my neck to my knuckles.

I get joint pain especially in my knees and ankles when I walk too much or when the weather is bad.

I get unpredictable nausea and have to be constantly vigilant about hydration, staying cool, and trash bags even when I am out in public.

I have chronic fatigue that I can't explain other than the ibs and mental health, so I hesitate to use it. but that's what I have. no matter how much I sleep, I am exhausted. it's hard to get out of bed and when I walk it feels like my limbs are filled with lead. in school I struggled to stay awake in class sometimes.

sometimes I have trouble talking. it can be because I'm feeling nonverbal, because my anxiety overwhelms me, or because my nausea or fatigue get so bad it's literally difficult to use my voice. it takes too much energy.

my ibs is a nightmare. stress makes it worse, and then I stress over the ibs, which turns into a vicious cycle. I missed a job interview because of this. I will probably never have a 9 to 5 job because of this.

I am 24. I should not be feeling like this. but I do. I am.

so yeah. shoutout to the chronic people who feel like they don't deserve to use that word. whatever your problems are, even if - especially if - you aren't diagnosed with anything: I promise you, you do.

you deserve validation. you deserve an explanation. you deserve relief.

#shoutout #chronic illness #chronic pain #chronically ill #chronic fatigue #important #disability #disabled #mental illness #mentally ill #neurodivergent #ibs #irritable bowel syndrome #nonverbal #young and chronic #undiagnosed #undiagnosed chronic pain #undiagnosed chronic illness #original post

[callsigns-haze]

I decided to make a mood board for my cutie @callsign-magnolia for her series Undiagnosed. It's an astounding, remarkable, full of twists, heart-breaking, staggering, shocking series.

It's about Katie Blair who had always felt the pressure to conform to her parents' expectations of the perfect daughter. Despite her innate vivacity as a child, by the time she turned 25, she found herself as the introverted daughter of a high-ranking military officer, diligently pursuing a career in law. But when the weight of expectations becomes unbearable, she decides to make a bold move with the help of a certain Lieutenant, setting off on a journey of self-discovery and liberation.

It's a beautiful series that I love dearly so please check it out! Kaykay this is for you babe!

"Katie, why didn't you tell me about what you went through?" Pauses, looking down "After all these years would have anyone listened?"

#Undiagnosed #ADHD OC #jake hangman seresin #jake seresin #hangman seresin #hangman #top gun maverick

[secretswansong]

adhd is just a lifetime of like. getting a hundred ideas on how to get things done and only following through on four of them

#akin #adhd #undiagnosed #executive dysfunction

[talkethtothehandeth]

cripple punk isn’t for mental disabilities

but that’s not saying you’re not disabled

you don’t have to be crippled to be disabled.

but you have to be crippled to have a voice you think you’re entitled to in cripple punk spaces.

you’re either crippled, or you’re not.

cripples having their own space doesn’t take away from neurodivergent/mentally ill people’s spaces.

how is this still confusing or controversial?

#cripple punk #cpunk #this isn’t negociable #I will fistfight your mother #disabled #chronic illness #chronic pain #arthritis #ehlers danlos syndrome #chronically ill #undiagnosed #physically disabled #ableism #autistic adult #adhd #actually audhd

[purpurrock]

Genuinely conflicted rn. Please read the whole thing /g

I'm so sure my sister has ADHD and her room is absolute shit because of it. My mom will literally threaten her, beat her, scream at her etc every single day about it but since she literally has a mental disability, it isn't helpful at all. The thing is that my mom isn't the type that tries to help and figure out the root of the problem but just reacts to the results. She isn't gonna listen to me (blah blah blah, so you think good parenting is just letting your kids do whatever they want?) And in general this girl is just,, sensory hell for me and I don't really get along with her.

I don't know what to do. I want to tell my mom that I think she, y'know, has a fucking mental disability so she can get evaluated and accommodated and maybe she'll actually be treated right. But my mom is really ableist so I don't know if it'll be safe for her. I'm undiagnosed/selfdx AuDHD but when I was her age I didn't struggle as much with keeping my room clean, even though I still got shit and continue to get shit for pretty much being disabled (my mom doesn't know I'm disabled). But as I'm typing this, my mom is literally screaming at and hitting my sister and literally said "I don't want a r*tard child" and she doesn't even know she has a fucking disability. I don't know if there's an ADHD version of ABA therapy but if there is my mom would definitely send her there. Plus, my sister is literally an afab black kid- I wouldn't be surprised if they didn't do anything. Or worse, decided to label her with some personality disorder or anxiety disorder or literally anything that isnt ADHD. Being misdiagnosed professionally can really harm someone, and my mom being the abusive ableist she is, plus the world just hating disabled people, disordered people, and black afab people... I just don't want to make her life worse, y'know? But I feel like I'm making it bad by not doing anything anyway. I don't know how to help her, and my mom doesn't listen to me anyway ("I'm the adult youre the child""you spend too much time on the Internet""you don't get to tell me what to do"). It's just that as someone with trauma from being abused for being disabled, I don't want to watch someone else who is much smaller go through the same exact thing from the same exact person. I don't know what's the best option here and I'm just asking for advice.

#tw abuse #advice #asking for advice #actually autistic #actually adhd #audhd #autistic #autism #autistic experiences #being autistic #actually audhd #abuse #trauma #actually traumatized #childhood trauma #help #please help #undiagnosed #undiagnosed autism #undiagnosed adhd #undiagnosed audhd #adhd experiences #audhd experiences #help me #selfdx #self dx #self diagnosis #self dx autism #self diagnosed autism #neurodivergent