#anti-exclusionism

[0w0tsuki]

If you ever find yourself mad about "trans lesbian separatism" or "baeddelism" or whatever word you've found to paint trans women having solidarity/community with each other as exclusionary, have you considered not burning every bridge you have with transfems while expecting us to be the ones to put all the effort into rebuilding them while you hold the burning torch, and maybe JUST MAYBE considered listening to us when we talk about transmisogyny and worked to making this a safer space for us.

Like I dunno I think if I had a problem where transfems deal with such scrutiny and vitriol in the queer community that trans women have their whole community ripped out from them so they seek out like-minded trans women who aren't going to abandon them the instant that associating with them would negatively affect their social credibility and I was someone invested in TransUnity™ that the solution would be to work on the transmisogyny problem to make my community a safer space so they wouldn't feel the need to do that instead what y'all are doing which is which hunting for trans women you can brand as exclusionists for the purpose of excluding them. Which you know, only makes the "trans women don't feel safe in the queer community" problem worse. This is literally yall rn

#transmisoginy #transmisogyny #exclusionists #exclusionism #anti exclusionist

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

posting this on it's own

#max squawks #critinclus #mspec mono #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #mspec straight #bi straight #bi gay #bi lesbian #sam #split attraction model #anti exclusionist #anti exclus #anti exclusionism #contrapunk #contradictory labels #heteroromantic homosexual #homoromantic heterosexual

[cherrytea556]

I just know the lgb will be up in arms and come at me with their pitch-knife forks if i tell them that i would genuinely be more accepted as a lesbian than as an aroace

#aro #aromantic #ace #asexual #aroace #aromantic asexual #anti exclusionist #exclusionism #look im just saying #my family knows what a lesbian is and is supportive of it #even with their questionable onlook of it #cant say the same for aroace though

[sirenium]

'Safequeer' mfers when people are queer in a way they don't like:

[GIF ID: a toy decor skeleton getting absolutely eviscerated in a blue shredder with silver blades. Said skeleton looks like it's thrashing and flailing about as it slowly gets consumed. End ID]

#tw discourse #how are you going to claim you're anti exclusionist but two lines later be like 'l*sb*ys are icky!' fuckin loser💀 #like that's blatant exclusionism in your 'anti exclusion' space hon idk what else to tell ya #the absolute lack of self awareness makes me feel like I'm seconds closer to an aneurysm every time I'm subjected to anti mspec les etc shi #oh yeah also 'safequeers' are against nontraumagenic systems so it's the whole nine yards of bs with them huh💀 #use hazardqueer instead cuz that label is truly anti exclusionism #queer #lgbtq #lgbt #mogai #liom #hazardqueer #mspec lesbian safe #lesboy safe #endo system safe #endo safe #friendly reminder that all system origins are valid btw. not just endo and trauma

[mlp-friendship-isnt-magic]

Exclusionists: Self diagnosis isn’t valid because only a doctor can diagnose a mental disorder. It doesn’t matter what traits you have. Only a doctor can do the complex work of sorting out what traits indicate a disorder.

Also exclusionists: All aplatonics and aplspecs have a personality disorder. All of them. No, I’m not a doctor, but I’m still qualified to say that about them. Personality disorders are just lacking friends and nothing else, right?

#exclusionists are so frustrating #why did i think it would be a good idea to scroll through their tags #for the record i support self diagnosis #and aplatonics that do have disorders #but that’s not all of us #aplatonic #aplspec #anti exclusionist #exclusionist bullshit #tw exclusionism #inclusionist #self diagnosis

[ballsalsda]

Some of you guys arent ready to hear this but he/she/they is not a good alternative and defeats both purposes of singular they to refer to someone of an unknown gender

#is it that hard to just say they holy shit #btw the 2 purposes it defeats are convenience and inclusivity #singular they is easy to say #and he/she/they is literally MORE syllables than “he or she” #it also tries to be inclusive by including the “binary pronouns” #when singular they is inclusive to he and she #it also deliberately excludes neopronouns and it/its pronouns #neopronouns #neopronoun #xenopronouns #xenopronoun #pronouns #they/them #he/she/they #gender #lgbtqi community #lgbt pride #lgbt #lgbtq community #lgbtq #lgbtqia #non binary #non binary pronouns #trans #transgender #exclusionism #anti exclusionist #fuck exclusionists #anti neopronouns dni #anti xenogenders dni

[aspd-thoughts]

We’re not saying you should want us to have rights because we think we’re the same as you. We’re saying that to the people who want to kill us, there is no difference between how “good” and “bad” freaks bleed.

#life of a cluster b #cluster b #neurodivergent #queer #anti exclusionist #exclusionism

[scary-radinclus-anon]

Message to young LGBT+ and Queer exclusionists:

If you really cared about the queer community, you'd eventually understand that the history of our rights hasn't been this long-winded so that you can yell at other young people being openly queer online

You don't like the adjectives they identify with? The pronouns? The nouns? That's a shame, leave them alone and stop assisting the enemy by bullying them online

If you think an identity label that's not known outside of Tumblr is a threat to the queer community, I expect to see you actually fighting back against things in the real world that seriously hurt the community

"The problem with the LGBTQ+ community today" is not labels or pronouns on Tumblr or TikTok or Twitter - it's the fact that we're still facing violence, and a huge amount of the next generation are still stuck hiding from the world by spreading online hate instead of spreading the word

#lgbtq #lgbt #queer #radqueer #radinclus #exclusionist tw #exclusionism #exclus #radexclus #anti harassment #anti xenogender #anti neopronouns #bi lesbian #xenogender #neopronouns #mogai #anti mogai #pro mogai #discourse #lgbtq discourse #queer discourse #mspec lesbian #lesboy #microlabels #neogender

[queerism1969]

#lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lesbian #nonbinary #lgbt pride #sapphic #lgbtq #nonbinary lesbian #queer #gay girls #trans exclusionary radical feminist #anti exclusionist #just exclusionist things #exclusionism #inclusive #pride #trans pride #gay pride #lesbian pride #lgbt #queer community

[hussyknee]

A concerning number of y'all are reblogging posts by exclusionists who think bi/pan lesbians are a threat to "real lesbians". This is radfem rhetoric, even when its peddled by trans women and nonbinary lesbians. Which is ironic because Idk how you make the fear of a wholeass gender trans-inclusive.

If you're putting this shit on your blogs, you're no friend to aces, aros, bi and pan people, trans mascs or nonbinary people. We have had enough of being seen as threats to the queer community. Please reblog critically and with care.

#anti radfem #biphobia #panphobia #exclusionism #aromanticism #asexuality #enbyphobia #queer discourse #transandrophobia #misandry #lgbtqia #knee of huss #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #<- not my identities i just think they should go in the tag

[cazort]

there are many different reasons to allow cishet people into LGBTQ spaces, but one of the biggest is the fact that the most vulnerable LGBTQ people out there are the ones who are closeted and deeply immersed in far-right, anti-LGBTQ subcultures, and if you exclude cishet people, you nearly always also exclude these people.

these people often have so much internalized negativity, they can't even admit to themselves that they are queer, let alone admit it to anyone else. a lot of these people, if they come into LGBTQ spaces at all, will only do so as "allies". they often won't even admit that they're questioning to themselves, and certainly not to another person.

if you exclude cishet people, you will make these people less likely to ever come to your group, to ever read your material on social media, to ever get exposed to ideas that will help them understand and ultimately accept themselves as-is.

if you mistreat or direct negativity at cishet people in your group, you will outright exclude many such people, and the ones who still come will feel uncomfortable and might not come back, and if they do, they might feel like they are "not queer enough" and fall into a conundrum of feeling pressure for "performative queerness" that they are unable to perform because they are in a deeply homophobic and/or transphobic subculture which would come down hard on them if they did this.

no. we can't do this. the only path to helping these people is to include all (supportive) people in LGBTQ spaces. cishet people are always welcome so long as they are being supportive allies. the criteria for inclusion is not your identity, and not whether you "perform" or "display" queerness in any way. the only criteria is that you are a respectful supporter of the group, you could be a member or an ally, who cares? we don't need to know, we won't ask. you can choose to share if and when you feel like it, or not, either way is fine!

#exclusionism #anti exclusionist #lgbtq #cishet #inclusivity

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

#s&b art #max squawks #exclusionism #queer discourse #discourse #critinclus #inclusionism #inclusionist #anti transmed #anti bab #anti exclusionist #anti exclus #aphobia #panphobia #enbyphobia #exorsexism #mspec lesbian #lesboy

[0w0tsuki]

TransUnity is an intracommunity exclusion scam that sells queer solidarity at the price of the silencing and exclusion of trans women

#transmisoginy #transmisogyny #transunity #trans unity #exclusionists #anti exclusionist #exclusionism

[cosmileech]

Laugh at this DNI I found

Starting off we got

Ah yes. Dont be exclusionist but don't include TOO much now. We'd hate that. Gotta have the limits on sexuality and gender, right?

And the fact that anti shippers are just so, so comfortable saying their pro harassment now. And of course ignoring the fact that proshippers don't think fiction doesn't affect reality. Or that minors literally struggle to not be attracted to adults due to both cultural normality and brain development. Or putting pedophile in the same section as proship. Anyway, heres the link.

It's pretty wild, theres some other stuff in there too, like white people cant be oppressed. Because were just going to ignore all of Japan's historical racism in regards to white people and other countries intolerance. And how some white people oppress other white people, such as Irish, just because... Yeah. History.

#antis being insufferable #antis being ableist #antis being ridiculous #antis being stupid #tw antishippers being antishippers #tw exclusionism #radical feminists do interact #radically inclusive #inclusivity #proship #proshipping #pro fiction #anti anti

[gray-ace-space]

everybody block @actual-asexuality. they are an asshole exclusionist trying to undo the work we're doing. the fact that they frame it as 'debunking myths' is laughable and insulting.

#og post #psa #community #anti exclus #grayphobia #ace #gray ace #demi ace #lgbtq #lgbt #queer #asexual #gray asexual #demisexual #graysexual #anti exclusionist #inclusionist #tw exclusionism

[mogai-sunflowers]

I’ve been bullied my whole life but none of my bullies ever compared to the exclusionists I’ve dealt with. it’s just so fucking ridiculous that I come here for a safe community and all I get is people saying I’m a predator for EXISTING. this happens to every queer who doesn’t fit the little narrative that corporations sell. I’m not welcome if I’m too visibly autistic because what if that means that I prove that the homophobes are right about us all being a disorder? I can’t be a trans guy AND a bi femme because what if I’m the reason other trans men get feminized? My Black friend can’t be as loud and proud as he wants, because what if he’s just a little *too* loud for the cops that line the streets at Pride? We can’t be QUEER, I can just be gay.

my good friend doesn’t go to pride because he doesn’t feel safe there as a Black person, especially Prides with heavy policing with whom the organizers of Pride actually ALLY. Another good friend can’t go because they get too many dirty looks for their wheelchair. I’ve been called the r slur by more queer people than even by my parents, but hey, they’re queer too, right? So I’ve just got to let it slide, or I risk making someone else uncomfortable, right? But what about me? What if I and so many others are ALREADY FUCKING UNCOMFORTABLE? What about our comfort? Or are you just so desperate for acceptance that you shit on the people who would actually give you that acceptance?

exclusionism is not a trend of just the Internet age. This respectability politics didn’t start with online fights, it started with the violent exclusion of queer poc and trans people from mainstream gay organizations in America. Then it was bi people, then aspec people, now it’s neopronouns and xenogenders and bi lesbians. I am NOT comparing being against bi lesbians to racism and transphobia, but I am saying that it’s absolutely ridiculous to ignore how this trend of exclusionism began. To ignore the past is to endanger the future.

Pride has never TRULY been a safe space for everyone, and until it is, we’re LOSING!!!!!! I believe in queer solidarity but I don’t believe in using the term solidarity to silence any complaint that a more marginalized queer person has. Queer solidarity is for when you actually put your money where your mouth is and show up for other queers. It’s not demanding justice only when it’s convenient for you.

cops don’t belong at pride, but disabled people, people of color, people of all religions, people of all backgrounds DO.

#🌌when the stars align ; reigns rambles🌌 #tw discourse #pride #queer discourse #intracommunity issues #exclusionism #anti exclusionist