#bi women exist??

[jjoelswatch]

My controversial Star Wars take right now is that I actually wouldn't be mad if Din and Bo end up a thing. Do I think it will happen? Not really. Am I actively shipping it? Not really. Do I think it could be interesting and messy for both characters? Yeah. And really, isn't that what makes ships interesting?

#sooo many people on twitter saying they'll stop watching the show if it happens and im like ?? #okay?? #I get that everyone and their dog ships din and luke but they have zero interactions aside from a few sentences #i enjoy all the fanon stuff for them don't get me wrong #and as for bo #bi women exist?? #I feel like people either forget or don't know #that it's implied in tcw that she was more than just extremist cult business partners with pre vizsla #anyway--

[gnometa233]

"we need more weird queers" Y'ALL CANT EVEN HANDLE LESBIANS SAYING THEY EXCLUDE MEN.

#y'all are some pussy ass bitches #bringing back a label that terfs made to exclude lesbians who dated trans women #also considering how many nonbinary lesbians and trans women actively dislike the label...idk man it's all not mathing #where's that fucking 0t3 post #'in a world where lesbophobia and misogyny still exist we need to have a sexuality label that inherently excludes men' #not to mention #y'all are the fucking bootlickers who want cishets involved in everything #how are WE the bootlickers for having boundaries around our sexuality #some of y'all need to jump off a cliff mega crazy style #anti bi lesbian #lgbt+ #lgbtq+ #queer discourse

[bidotorg]

#lgbt #queer #bisexuality #lgbtq #lgbtqia #bi pride #bi visibility #bi women #bi people exist #bisexual #coming out #pansexual

[aardvaark]

obsessed w the episode of Bones where they’re telling some wealthy lady with a mini pomeranian that her ex husband is dead and she starts crying and instead of offering any kind of comfort, brennan just takes the dog off her and happily exclaims (and this is verbatim) "he’s so compact!!"

#bones tv #temperance brennan #i don’t think there’s much of a bones fandom on here which is why i haven’t posted abt it #emily deschanel #sometimes bones is too copaganda for me and sometimes bones is like ‘ah shit the government committed murder again’ #mostly i just appreciate that it’s early 2000s and one of the main characters is a canonically bisexual woman of colour #(angela i mean) #and the main main character is a genius anthropologist woman who is HEAVILY autistic coded #still at its core it’s very 2006 with it’s often vaguely liberal but mostly centrist stances portrayed #though sometimes it’s wild w like. extremely pro legalising marijuana attitude in one ep i remember #and then another ep is weirdly pro death penalty #incredibly strange political alignments and also ghosts just randomly canonically exist #no idea what to make of all that #let’s just say i certainly watch it critically like with any other media #edit for tags: i said angela was bi but i’m p sure in canon she says she has no label so im sorry abt that. i meant she dates men and women

[impishtubist]

The end of Remus's character arc is so fucking funny to me, like the dude marries a cop, then spends their entire marriage deadnaming his cop wife, then runs away from her when she gets pregnant, then asks a 17-year-old to be the baby's godfather after throwing him into a wall, and then dies. And then there's the Pottermore article where it's like "oh and also he's an incel!" Absolutely unhinged behavior, incredible, no notes.

#the most unhinged part of course is pretending that he's interested in women #bi people exist but remus lupin is not one of them

[princessefemmelesbian]

Well would you look at this. 😵‍💫 Because obviously if you dare say anything as wild and controversial as “lesbians don’t like men, please stop using a label that hurts us and tries to force men into our identity” you’re a raging terf radfem transmisogynist. Because obviously ONLY trans women use the bi lesbian label and it’s not like there are transfem lesbians who are rightfully against the label as well or anything and it’s not like terfs use the label to refer to cis lesbians who date trans women and why can’t you just let people identify as how they want of course lesbians like men stop the infighting already if you disagree with me that lesbians can like men then surely that’s because you’re an exclusionist gatekeeper who hates trans women.

#lesbian #anti-bi lesbian #trans women #lesbophobia #the raging hatred for lesbians on this site is getting to an all-time high tall will stop at NOTHING to gaslight us and make us out to be #hateful terf bitches for our sexuality #how many times are we going to do this same old song and dance #no i will not calm down i will be taken seriously #you CANNOT be a bi women as a lesbian idfc if you’re trans or cis #lesbians do not like men and bi women shouldn’t have to ‘oick a side’ by calling themselves lesbians #it’s absurd maddening and sad how little y’all respect us #and trans women always have a place in the lesbian community that doesn’t mean that ACTUAL MEN DO #shit #trying to frame this as ‘well you must be a terf if you are against bi lesbians’ is a shitty move and you’re not being original or clever #go fuck yourself #trans lesbians exist and are valid and the bi lesbian label hurts them just like it hurts cis lesbians if anything it hurts them more so #and i will block ANYONE who supports bi lesbians it doesn’t matter if they’re a trans woman a cis woman a trans man non-binary etc idfc #stop trying to frame this as exclusionary radfem rhetoric #bi lesbian as a term DOES support corrective rape idgas what lesbophobes like you want to say about it #that’s all goodbye #sorry but this got me mad you do not get to use transmisogyny as a clutch to spout blatant ass lesbophobia #i’m so tired of this shit #blocklist #op

[cruelsister-moved2]

like we are on our nine billionth positivity post for cis men with beards and masculine trans men and feminine lesbians and bi people in m/f relationships and nb people who are comfortable passing as their agab etc.... do we need more? is straight people not being able to tell you're gay/trans really the biggest issue facing lgbt people right now?

there seems to be this undiminishable reservoir of care and sympathy for the very idea of having ur queerness slighted in any context. meanwhile people who never get the choice whether or not to hide it are routinely dehumanised, othered, and ignored. if the issues facing these groups do get discussed it's almost never with much concern for their feelings. invalidation and erasure may be one of the issues facing lgbt people and it deserves attention too but I really don't think you can claim at this point that it isn't getting its fair share already.

for what it's worth, even your hypothetical most flaming butch lesbian/fem gay man/androgynous nb person etc still meets people who assume they're cishet, who even actively refuse to acknowledge that they're not. the false equivalence between erasure and overt prejudice alleged exclusively by those who largely experience only the former is in fact erasing the reality of people who experience both

#I'm always thinking abt that one buzfeed article called like queer women share their struggles or smth #one was a butch lesbian talking abt how carefully she has to plan journeys #bc late night toilet stops or seedy motels are life and death for her #then there was a bi woman w a husband n kids #talking abt how one time she had to take her pride flag off her lawn (picket fence implied lol) #like... ofc that's sad I feel sad for her #but the lack of proportion is kind of on the nose lol #I don't have the right words but like something very fetishistic abt the gaze of other lgbt ppl towards 'visibly' lgbt people #and I use those terms loosely bc ppl r visible and invisible in different contexts #but if you've reached the stage of fantasising abt hypothetical microaggressions or straight up hate crimes that could happen to u #then u have gone too far #I just think a lot of the time it's more abt the fact that YOU don't feel 'valid' enough in yourself #ao you convince yourself other lgbt people existing or talking abt our issues is the problem #like if ur a bi girl n having a cishet bf makes u feel so lonely and insecure and 'not gay enough' at what point is that ur responsibility #to either accept urself or to be in relationships that make u feel better about urself #and not my responsibility to say ur having gay sex with jakey or wjayever

[lunar-years]

Contender for the worst response I’ve ever gotten on any tumblr post I’ve ever made!

#the rest of the response was mostly bad too and it’s on a post I made weeks agooo like GO AWAY #I blocked them just now after I read it again but I can’t get it out of my head #BI WOMEN AND BI STORIES DONT EXIST FOR FUCKING MEN. WE JUST EXIST. #telling bi stories is not fetishizing bi people. I want to scream. #anyway #ted lasso #tw biphobia

[punkeropercyjackson]

"So you think that female character is a lesbian BECAUSE she dosen't like men?"Yes.The fuck

#the way this is an actual semi-popular take is insane.not being into dudes is literally 1/2 of the points of lesbianism😭😭😭😭😭😭😭??????? #and saying 'bisexuals exist!!!!' as if bi women DON'T like men????please actually talk to sapphics but lesbians especially i'm begging y'all #lesbophobia #annabeth chase #utena tenjou #anthy himemiya #catra #adora #yang xiao long #janna ordonia #tatsuki arisawa #lucy heartfilia #cat burglar nami #vivi nefertari #maka albarn #applejack #rainbow dash #liz thompson #pjo #utena #she ra #rwby #svtfoe #bleach #fairy tail #one piece #mlp #soul eater #💌 #summerposting

[poisonousquinzel]

Question: Chip, I gotta ask. Did you intend to make Batman a little bisexual in The Knight?

Chip Zdarsky: just a little? man, I thought it was clear.

eyyyy, yo win for the bisexual community!! <33 and yes I know this is just one universe (I believe),but uh do I care? nope! all Bruce's are canonically bi now in my mind baby and I shall never accept otherwise<33

#batman #bruce wayne #dc comics #argue with the wall we support our bi bat furry in this household! 📣📣 #always feels weird not being able to tag harley in dc related stuff KDNDKSKSK #bisexual #lgbt #canonically there for a reason cause tbr most of us with taste know Batman's always been a bit sus <3 KDNDKSMS #also the writer might be sucky for other reasons but in the same way ill use P*ul Dini's statements about Harley's attraction to women #ya know? #i will take what i can get and disregard them if needed its my canon baby #Bruce exists in Harley's world and Harley's full journey/canon is the one in my mind <3

[wavebiders]

LRT that is such a thing with queer fandom spaces tho. It's like that post that's all "yeah your story is so gay but how are you treating your female characters" you know?

like yeah it's great that this is the queer fandom website but a good chunk of the time that just means placing a lot of focus on the white guys and that's still not great lmao

#this isnt anything I just need to spit my thoughts out somewhere #but it's been kinda bugging me ever since folks got all bug eyed about the bg3 romance stats #all the brushing Shadowheart's popularity off as straight guys that dont actually care about character depth #first of all saphic women and bi/pan exist believe it or not queer does not always = attraction to men #and believe it or not many straight men do have actual thoughts in their heads besides 'oooh im a tough guy banging a hot girl' #like do you guys actually go outside and talk to people or is your only experience with straight guy gamers angry youtube comments? #even just sticking to the internet you can find folks on reddit having discussions about her whole deal with Shar/Selune as early as ea #people have always been interested in her story #it just feels weird to brush off a female character's popularity as just being shallow #while considering the vocal online love for male characters to be inherently more deep #again this isnt anything it's not a call out sometime a bitch just needs to be petty and vent yeah?

[chilewithcarnage]

why whenever the topic of bisexuality comes up on this site, y'all don't ever mention bisexual men. like y'all always got some shit to say about bi women but not bi men. why is that?

#is it like erasure? like y'all dead be forgetting bi men exist #or is just straight up misogyny. internalized or otherwise #like i never hear about 'oh i don't want some bi man bringing his STRAIGHT girlfriend to pride' #maybe a separate term needs to be made cause there is a very specific type of hatred i see aimed at bisexual women specifically #cause a lot of biphobic ideas/talking points are just steeped in old fashion sexism

[impishtubist]

Authors forcing Remadora into every Prongsfoot and Sirius & Harry story on AO3 is my villain origin story.

#he doesn't like women y'all it's literally canon he hated being married to one lmao #bi people exist but remus lupin is not one of them #just because sirius is taken doesn't mean you need to pair remus off with tonks come on now

[risingmaiden]

who knew in 2022 it would be considered bigoted to say lesbians don’t like p*nises, even if the one with the p*nis wears pretty clothes and likes makeup.

a lesbian is female homosexual. only women can be lesbians.

if a man calls himself a lesbian, he’s a predator who needs to be avoided. and to expect lesbians to accept these men in their delusions is greatly lesbophobic.

like be fucking for real people.

#radblr #radfems please interact #radfem safe #adult human female #gender critical #female only spaces #gender inclusive #all inclusive #lesbophobia #lesbians are female homosexuals #trans lesbians don’t exist #drop the t #bi women supporting lesbians because who would we be as feminists if not for them #women supporting women

[corfisers]

can't write trans yashiro meta without writing down the bisexuality meta first, can't write the bisexuality meta without bringing up transgender reading. oh the misery

#future me problem im not writing anything rn #the bi stuff would be much shorter and ill start with that either way #but the two topics are inseparable to me #even though one i consider canon and the other is just subtext that's there For Some Reason #i guess it's just like. gender take makes it make more sense #add a few more layers as to why it doesn't quite work out with women #on top of existing canon ones that revolve around trauma and coping mechanisms #tldr yashiro should hook up with a dom lady i think it would clear things up a bit #alas we're neck deep in traditional gender roles and shit #the only somewhat gnc woman is aoi and she's outside of the system #also like. considering all the parallels between her and yashiro #the fact that she gets to have more comfortable gender expression #while yashiro is stuck with the dress code and all the other bullshit #the fact that he grew out his hair a tiny bit and then the moment he goes out with his hair down #it's like. “you don't look like a yakuza. you shouldn't show up with your hair like that in front of others” #doumeki im going to bite your dick off #where was i? right thr subtext. that's just there. in abundance

[jasontoddssuper]

As someone who's headcanoned Percy as an egg ever since they re-read the books after befriending a bunch of transfem Pjo fans and shipped Pipabeth since The Lost Hero,'Percy is girl-coded' and 'Piper and Annabeth are such gal pals' jokes completely fly over my head.Every time i see them i'm like 'Y...Yes?She's literally a trans woman and they're literally girlfriends?????*Vine voice*Uh,yeah,i sure hope it does'

#ngl though they also piss me off.they're not 'jokes' percy has legit shown so many signs of hating being a boy and wanting to be a girl #and pipabeth borderline counts as queerbait considering rick's track record with wlw.what's so funny about amab being women and wlw existing #awnser QUICKLY #percy jackson #persephone jackson #pipabeth #t4t pipabeth #annabeth chase #lesbiannabeth #he/him lesbian annabeth supremacy #piper mclean #bi piper mclean #pan piper mclean #butch piper mclean #black percy #latino percy #leah is our annabeth #autistic percy jackson #pjo #hoo #trans women #💌 #rr crit #letters from summer