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Human Pillow Cuddling
What is Human Pillow Cuddling?
Definition & Description
Human pillow cuddling involves one person lying back in a reclined or propped-up position, while the other drapes over them using their body to form an upholstered pillow. The person who is reclined cradles cuddles the other.
Origins
Using a human for pillow support is a way of life that has its roots in evolution, but became a deliberate cuddling style in the late 20th century, when intimacy based on body became more common.
How to Cuddle as a Human Pillow
To human pillow cuddle:
Lie Back in Reclined Position
The person in the role of pillows should first recline on a bed frame, couch or a pile of pillows. Maintain arms relaxed and open.
Have Partner Lay on You
The other party then lay face-to-face directly on top of them, and then tucks their heads to the side of their person who is reclined's neck. Then, drape an arm across their waist.
Adjust for Comfort
A pillow-partner supports the other's weight. Adjust body angle and limbs depending on your requirements until you are able to fit the pieces together as if you were puzzles.
Positions & Variations
Try your hand at imagining human pillows in positions like:
Classic Human Pillow
One of the participants reclines, legs extended, while the other rests their chests on top of them. Most complete full body contact.
Inverted
The person reclined lies on their backs, and the other person drapes their backs on top. Provides a gentle pressure.
Seated
The pillow is positioned upright and their partner is seated on their lap, their legs tucked around waist. It's intimate, but also easier.
Benefits of Human Pillow Cuddling
Human pillows can provide advantages like:
Calming
The soft warm and gentle pressure soothes. Human contact reduces cortisol and anxiety.
Intimacy
The weight of your partner's body on you can create a sense closeness and neededness that strengthens bonds.
Flexible
Partners can modify human pillowing in order to satisfy their individual needs. inventive positions.
Making Human Pillow Cuddling Comfortable
Improve comfort through:
Use Cushions for Support
Place cushions on the pillow's partner to alleviate pressure on bony areas.
Switch Off
Trade positions periodically so everyone gets a chance to turn the pillow. Make sure that no one is smothered for by the pillow for too long.
Communicate Needs
Discuss the appropriate quantity of distribution. Make adjustments as needed to achieve the level of mutual satisfaction.
Human Pillow Etiquette
Be respectful of:
Set Time Limits
Agree on cuddle session duration. Be sure to check in frequently to avoid over-pillowing that leaves lingering aches.
Keep Arms Free
The partner who is laying on the pillow should have their arms open to the sides - not pinned under their body. This will prevent numbness.
Check In Often
Infrequently ask each other how they is doing. Human pillowing requires attentiveness to your partner's needs.
Conclusion
With a little consent and care, human pillow cuddling allows couples to enjoy a calming shapeshifting support. When done mindfully it fulfills our natural desire for pressure, while also fostering intimacy.
CUDDLING POSITIONS
#Spooning#BigSpoon#LittleSpoon#FaceToFaceCuddle#LapPillowCuddle#TangleCuddle#HugCuddle#BearHug#BackToBackCuddle
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Me and my man
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GESTURA SPOOOOOOOOON!!(S) ARE BACK🥄 The Tick would be proud! The full compliment of the spoons from our friends at @gestura_ have been restocked with a few updates and new additions. First of all, we’ve added the slotted 00 spoon in both the silver and gold versions, which also have a punched hole at the base of the stem to be more easily identifiable when stored. All models of the spoons now have a slightly thicker stem which has added a bit of heft while adding a bit of stability to help with whatever kitchen task you’re working on. Check out the link in our profile to take you to this collection and other things we’ve posted about previously! #jki #japaneseknifeimports #羅府包丁専門店 #losangeles #beverlyhills #cheflife #handcrafted #japaneseknives #kitchenknives #japanesekitchenknives #gesturaspoon #culinaryspoon #bigspoon (at Japanese Knife Imports) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cf-U2NTL0FJ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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Big spoon or little spoon? 🥄 • | | | | #army #armylife #armystrong #armyboy #unitedstatesarmy #usarmy #usarmysoldier #armedforces #soldier #military #militarymen #veteran #vet #armyvet #cavalry #cavscout #scout #recon #funny #bigspoon (at Fort Irwin NTC) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ce9X23aP7P4/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
#army#armylife#armystrong#armyboy#unitedstatesarmy#usarmy#usarmysoldier#armedforces#soldier#military#militarymen#veteran#vet#armyvet#cavalry#cavscout#scout#recon#funny#bigspoon
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Its a slightly uncomfortably large and unusual spoon to eat ice cream with so it throws off your autistic homie i think
oh. i thought it was because they roasted you so hard they ran out of spoons
#asks#anon#yeah the notes seem to say this too#i'm autistic to autistic people. I'll only use the bigspoon to deep throat my ice cream#sensory pleasure
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four inches shorter than my wife yet still i bigspoon. jetpacks of the world unite
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skitzo hours are forever and always omnipresent but i deserve skitzoposts more than ever when dopesick so like eat me basically. Im gona eat sols face off the second he gets home i love him guys i love him so fucking god dammed much as shit and fuck!!!! and ass!!!!!! And shit !!!!!!!
#ots been a lil under 2 months since i moved down here with him and it still feels so novel. i told him this yesterday but its crazy how#sharing a modest little 1 bedroom with someone you love unabashedly and wholeheartedly vs a much much roomier and financially safer house w#a family who most certainly gets on eons better without you there#has just like. undiagnosed me with depressive eps. oh my god ijust realized being able to sleep AND be comfy in bed again means that we#can !!! spoon again 4 sleepy!!!!!!! i love being the little spoon despite being 4“ taller and ik sol likes being bigspoon so :----)#<- this too remains so beautifully novel. *sighs dreamily.......
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Carl Grimes sleeping headcanons
About Carl's cute sleeping habits... some headcanons. Everyone is 18 or over.
WARNINGS: none
Carl is used to sleeping fully clothed, in a random, uncomfortable place; his gun on his belt. Even now that he's safe, he still does that sometimes if you don't share the bed and you remind him to go to the bathroom, change and go to bed.
Then he usually sleeps in a pair of boxers, a shirt or longsleeve and... socks. Yes, socks. He prefers to have several pillows and at least two blankets in his bed. Carl likes it cosy and warm.
Carl's favorite sleeping position is curled up on his side. He is bigspooning you when you sleep over. Carl is a passionate cuddler, and inevitably you end up wrapped up in his arms. Sometimes he sleeps on his back, but then it happens that he snores softly and you wake him up. "Carl, you snore." - "No, I don't." (sleepy voice)
Carl usually goes to sleep early and gets up early, whereas you like to stay up late playing video games or watching movies. Carl then looks at you annoyed because he wants to sleep. In the morning, when he gets up, you regularly grumble at him because it's too early for you.
Carl often has nightmares, then he is startled out of his sleep, sometimes he cries and trembles and you have to comfort him and calm him down so that he can go back to sleep. He is embarrassed and never talks about it. But he asked you to keep it to yourself.
You like to secretly watch Carl when he sleeps because he looks especially cute then.
He loves it when you stroke and cuddle him to sleep and when you wake him up with kisses and some moaning and teasing because you want to have sex with him.
Carl looks so cute when he's still sleepy in the morning and his hair is all messy.
#the walking dead#twd#carl grimes fanfiction#carl grimes x reader#carl grimes x y/n#carl fanfiction#carl grimes#carl grimes fluff#carl grimes imagines
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★~ Wriothesley cuddle headcanon
HELLOOO SORRY FOR NOT UPLOADING FOR A LONG TIME 😞😞😞 jsjsjsjs anyway this is my first time writing for wrio soooo its prob ooc… enjoyyyy!
- i know he’s definitely the bigspoon! he would wrap his hand around your waist as you burry your head on his chest. you would also give him kisses on the cheek and nose while doing so!
- but in a tiring or bad day, you would be the bigspoon. cuddling up this big boy while caressing his head and whispering soft words in his ears. he would burry his head on your shoulder or chest and you would feel a wet patch starting to form. that’s when you notice what’s happening.
- he could be cold in public. but if he’s alone with you, he’s like a happy puppy that has just got a treat. he would be pretty clingy i guess?
- when he comes home and you’re waiting in the livingroom, he will pick you up and spin you around in joy. kissing your face all over and over again.
- he would be very snuggly when he really misses you.
- everytime he got a nightmare, his hold on you will be tighter. his worst fear is someone taking him away from you. he will admire your pretty face illuminated by the moonlight.
- do you guys think he purrs?
~ small drabble ~
it was late at night, today was a tiring day for wriothesley. you both were currently in bed with the covers shielding your body from the cold wind. you were caressing his hair while he burry his head on your chest. “there, there.. everything will be okay…” you whisper sweet words in his ear. hearing those words made his heart melt, he couldn’t hold his tears. you could feel a wet patch on your shirt starting to form. you rub his back assuring him that everything is fine. “it’s okay.. let it out…” he tried to quiet down his sobs, feeling weaker and weaker in your hold. after some minutes the crying came down and you made sure he’s okay. you lifted his face from your chest and wipe all the remaining tears on his cheek. “wanna talk about it?” you asked him while caressing his cheek. he shakes his head in reponse. you nod your head again and continue cuddling him. in the end, it was a very warm night with your lover by your side.
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thankyou for reading i hope you liked this! i need some request cuz idk what to write.. but anyway advices and accepted thankyou!
#genshin impact#genshin x reader#genshin wriothesley#wriothesley#wriothesley x reader#wriothesley fluff#wriothesley headcanons
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sfw
bigspoon!sanji loves to be as close to you as possible. Knowing that you are tucked away safely in his arms helps him fall asleep.
if you have trouble sleeping, bigspoon!sanji would rub your back until your tense muscles twitch, a sign that you have fallen asleep.
bigspoon!sanji bites your neck or shoulder when he wants your attention in bed.
bigspoon!sanji would write I love you on your back with his fingers, because he is too scared to tell you out loud.
nsfw
obviously bigspoon!sanji loves lazy sex. It’s easier for him to grab and fondle your breasts, finger you, and whisper sweet nothings in your ear.
when bigspoon!sanji wakes up with morning wood with you against him, he gently says a “good morning” in your ear and starts humping you. He’d carefully wrap his fingers around your throat and with the other hand finger you until you are properly ready to accept him.
when you two start to get rough in bed, bigspoon!sanji thrusts into you with no mercy, going in and out while moaning your name which each thrust. His slender fingers are either groping your breasts or teasing you.
#one piece#one piece headcanons#vinsmoke sanji headcanons#vinsmoke sanji x reader#sanji headcanons#sanji x reader
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Things i think Lucifer would do while you're dating
♥︎fluffy fluff all over, sfw
✧ i don't think there's any warnings i should put here other than me projecting onto my favourite babygirl. and very soft Luci 🙏 (my personal religion)
☆ these are purely some scenarios i like to think about often in my lil fantasy world in my head, (and yes this is still and art account i don't write much<33)
• He keeps a list of things you like so he can get them for you. He's very observant, especially when it comes to his beloved, so if he sees something catch your eye while on an outing or you've liked/shared an item on your story/ saved something pretty to pinterest (which he follows but won't admit it. it's not like he really uses the app for anything other than gift ideas for you anyway) he will keep it in mind and write it down in his notes app when you're not looking/there.
• He brings you flowers every week. He learns flower language so he can give you the most meaningful bouquets he can. When they start wilting he immediately replaces them with fresh ones, but he doesn't throw the bouquets away, he proudly displays them in vases around his study.
• You mentioned your favorite snack/sweets (that you can't find in the devildom) once in a conversation with Asmo that he overheard and since then he periodically goes up to the human world to stock up on them so you can have a treat whenever you like :)
• He asks you to do his nails one time as an excuse to get away from paperwork for a little bit and spend some time with you, and you both started gossiping and just talking about RAD, his brothers, etc, and this has since become a routine between you two, one day a week either in his room or yours you get together to sit on the floor while you do his nails and gossip
• he has awful night terrors and has no idea how to cope with them, of course he can't go telling anyone about them that would be embarrassing but he also doesn't want to worry anybody. he's the big brother he's not supposed to show any weaknesses so that his brothers have someone to rely on (shhh I'm projecting) so he distracts himself with work and music, he's lost too much sleep over these kind of nights. One night after you two had been dating for a while though he woke up in a cold sweat and while his first instinct was to go to your room there was something stopping him. So he turned to distracting himself again this time by putting on your favourite show/movie. And he continues doing this every time he has a nightmare until he feels comfortable sharing such vulnerability with you. He finds it oddly comforting even if it's a genre he wouldn't typically enjoy, remembering you talking so fondly about it gives it a different kind of vibe, sometimes depending on how exhausted he is or how bad the night terror was he'll fall asleep with it in the background.
• Takes interest in your hobbies and makes sure you never run out of supplies and new things to try out. And if he sees you eyeing anything relating to your craft or a game or ANYTHING REALLY you'll have it the next day
• Will ask you to come do your work/chill in his study while he's working as a way to spend time together, in the beginning he says it's bc you'll be able to focus better since no one will disturb you there and there's less noise but later he realises that your presence helps him be more productive so when he feels his motivation and focus slip he'll come into your room to do the rest of his paperwork next to you or if you're sleeping in his bedroom that night he'll come work at his desk there, as long as he can be near you he has a reason to finish his work faster.
• Lucifer being an exhausted older sister™️, never really gets to let his guard down so when he trusts you enough he'll finally let his mask slip and give up control for a moment (something all of us wish we could do tbh). someone go bigspoon this man he needs it.
• ^ so he likes to walk up to your/his bed after a long day and just plop on top of you in his pjs and demon form, he knows he's heavy, he knows you were reading but tbh he doesn't care he needs to be held right this instant. bonus points for you if play with his wings, scratch his head esp near the horns or rub his back. you're never getting rid of him now.
• he's so interested by everything you tell him, you wanna explain the plot of a new book in excruciating detail? tell him all the hot gossip you've been hearing from your friends at RAD/Asmo? Make him watch a 10 season long show while explaining every minor thing? go ahead, he will literally give you his full attention if he's not swarmed with paperwork. he'll remember 99.9% of what you tell him too.
#hes my baby i love him#obey me#obey me swd#obey me lucifer#lucifer obey me#lucifer x reader#lucifer x gender neutral reader#omswd#obey me lucifer fluff#soft luci#obey me shall we date#obey me hcs#obey me headcanons#obey me fluff#⭐.omswd#🖍️.crowwrites
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i know a lot of people picture astrid being “the man” in the relationship but i feel like she loves to sit on hiccups lap or be carried way more than he would.
now i could definitely see it happening in the first film, but you guys have to realize, astrid has changed a lot and has proceeded to develop overtime in the franchise. therefore, i think she’s become more of a soft girly girl behind closed doors.
#WELOVEGIRLYASTRID #bigspoon=hiccup #littlespoon=astrid 👍:[];)
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i like the joker x dominant reader headcanons you did but could we mayhaps get joker x submissive reader 🥺
Sure! Also thanks :] i'll try but im not good at that :'))
Joker x submissive reader hc's
Gn!reader
Warning: little suggestive but nothing like that!
He loves to tease you
He also loves to hug you, a lot.
He will go behind you to give a hug or to hold you up in the air
He would like to hold ur hand.
His heart melts when he sees you blushing or giggling.
He would put his forehead to yours while holding ur hand.
He also like to approach you, and like, go really close to ur face. He likes to be close to you.
He is very clingy. He will also follow you around sometimes.
He will push you to the wall when feeling domestic. He might lick ur face
He likes to hold you while cuddling you,your face in his chest. He loves to bigspoon you
If you read the comic ( death of the family) i liked the headcanon that his pupils would dilate a little when seeing you.
He will tell jokes to you, a lot of em. But you listen and thats all that matters to him and ur laugh
If you do something cute he would do this (i can't describe it,also click on the picture):
He loves you so much. And if you tell him that you love him too, more than anything. He could cry, he won't but he could.
He will compliment you, tell you sweet nothings. He will get you anything you want, just ask him!
He likes it when you tell stuff that you like about him. That you like his eyes, say his a genius, that he is beautiful. He would stay quiet and hug you.
#joker x reader#joker#joker x gn reader#the joker x gn reader#the joker#the joker x reader#could be any joker ig#joker arthur fleck#death of the family joker#assault on arkham joker#arkham joker x reader#arkhamverse joker#btas x reader#btas joker x reader#btas joker#tnba x reader#tnba joker x reader#heath ledger joker x reader#joker dc#dc joker x reader#dc joker#dc x reader
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Fluffy Quaritch Headcanons
You know the drill, let‘s go
You two finally got some quality time together. Miles has his head on your lap while your sitting with your eyes closed. You two are just chilling
Absentmindedly you start you scratch his head. You hear something. It‘s a deep rumbly purr that comes out of his chest. Miles is napping and probably doesn‘t even notice it. Surprised you look at him and continue to scratch him.
Your hand wanders down to his ear and you continue behind it. His purring is strong and he looks very pleased and peaceful
The first he notices that he is pureing when he wakes up confused asking what sound that is. Only realizing that it comes from him. Before that it was your little secret that you did make him purr with scritches
You can swear he is embarrassed
Would you start to pet his stomache he would seconds later just bite you.
If he is happy his tail is swishing from side to side slowly. You learned to tell his moods from his tail motions and ears. Things he doesn‘t activly realize he is doing probably
Listen, he is taller than you, thats a fact, which makes his hands giant in comparison to you. You know that scene with Spider? Yeah, he is pushing you like that on a table if you annoyed him enough to show you who is boss and why you should better stop
Will you stop? Why would you when you are a bad girl/boy 😎
Has a daddy kink. Call him that and he will go feral showing you who your daddy is. Will also aoftly bite you
If you beg, he might carry you on piggyback style.
If he is fed up he could just grab you, right under his arm and walk away.
Little kissies on your forehead.
When he is the bigspoon your are almost entombed. You are like a little butterfly in a cocoon because he hugs you and is just so tall that his body almost swallows you.
#miles quaritch avatar#miles quaritch headcanons#na‘vi quaritch#miles quaritch x reader#avatar headcanons#gender neutral reader#reader#na‘vi quaritch headcanons#requests open#writing blog
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Position talk ;p
Okay so I truly feel like only a handful are viable. No karma sutra craziness here lol no pretzeling.
I'm just gonna shoot from the hip and you can add and discus as you'd like <3
Doggy is always a good go to for alot of reasons. I'm a lover of the body and it gives me a wonderful view of ass, back muscles, movements I soak up the little details! Plus being able to put my body weight down and really rutt into someone is other worldly. Not to mention the things they/I can do from the bottom (disclaimer I have yet to have the pleasure of bottoming or really ventured into that space unfortunately). I'm a sucker for matching the rhythm of the thrusts, pushing back onto them ugh!!! Reaching back and feeling them up, making out from behind all of it!
I'm also a big sucker for being ridden like just letting me lay back and be used and enjoyed while I get to absolutely admire and worship your body! Like I said details details details I'm looking at all of them, also hip grabbing no matter the position is the best thing to ever be ever. Reverse isn't something I've had any real experience with outside seeing other people do it but fuck if it wouldn't absolutely melt my brain. I'm a horny mess as it is so you give me anything and I'm absolutely addicted.
Oh oh oh big fan of bigspoon, littlespoon cuddleducking oh gods do I love that!!!! Cuddling on the couch and watching TV and suddenly pulling your bottoms down and slowly fucking them while hands roam bodies gods take me now lol. I truly am a slut and will match your horny energy as best I can!
Anywhere for the most part is game for me I'm not super shy when we get me to that comfort level. Whatever position we need to pull off to make whatever space we are in to work I'm 100000% down. Hell I know alpg of people consider 69ing to be impractical but holy hells do I absolutely love someone putting their weight down on me and letting me enjoy a full meal! Head is something for me that is so interesting to me, I haven't really had it done much at all to me. The partners I have/had just didn't have the want to reciprocate or even the desire to give me that solo pleasure. So I have this sorta obsession with it lol.
Mim a service switch so I'll do what you want me to lol.
Throwing legs over shoulders is always super fun! Like full mating press! (Breeding kink goes burr) I really tiptoe into the few sexual encounters I've had because I can become so ravenous with partners. I love sex so much and if you have that same energy I can't keep my hands off you. I just lose myself in it.
Oh another one that just came to mind but any form of standing/carrying positions!! While difficult at times oh gods does it do something to me. Like I always imagine someone standing behind me or vise versa perking me off and whispering just the dirtiest things.
Speaking of dont let anyone tell you hand stuff isn't worth doing! I use to be on that boat but I was fooling myself. Touch me, kiss me, lick me, suck me, bite me I do not care just as long as you make me yours!! Like if you actively show me that you want me physically I'm over the moon!
Not a position per se but texting, pics, phone sex definitely counts in my book. Super into it! Long distance relationships are something I have no issue with whatsoever, I will make time for you as much as I can :p. Finding ways to keep that flair alive is so so fun! You just get so innovative with ways to please your partner!! Ugh I'll for sure have to do a part 2 to this or if people respond I'll just continue talling there im on Like 2hrs sleep in 48hrs (sleepy sex is my favorite as well lol)
#<3#spicy talk#love being open about this stuff!#im 100% and open book#feel free to comment#ask whatever#<33
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r/BigSpoon subreddit drama over whether its ok to breathe on your partner's neck. twitter discourse over whether or not the number 8 is problematic (sounds like ate? homophobic perhaps?). i can imagine anything
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