#bisexual men speak

[hellomynameisbisexual]

REPOST: 🗣️ bisexual men, LISTEN UP

Your sexuality is your greatest power. It's a blessing not a curse to be bi

For many years I carried self hatred, but isn't it funny how what you deem as your greatest 'weakness' is in fact your greatest strength?

when I stopped looking for acceptance from other people, I gained the most important thing acceptance from myself. Bro, accepting yourself and being confident in who you are is attractive af, others will see your light shining and come over to bask in in

TRUST ME.

#bisexuality #lgbtq community #lgbtq #bi #support bisexuality #pride #bi tumblr #bisexuality is valid #lgbtq pride #bi pride #support bisexual men #bisexual men #bi men #bisexual education #respect bisexual men #bisexual nation #bisexual men speak #bisexual community #bi community #team bi pride #bisexual pride #proud bisexual #bi guys #bi men exist #queer #bisexual activism #bisexual info #bisexual facts #bisexual icon #bisexual figure

[brown-spider]

Noir is the type to poetically monologue about a man from his youth that "had he been a dame, we would have been lovers" with such dramatic intensity you'd think he was talking about the love of his life

But then if someone asked Noir anything suggesting that he's attracted to men, he'd dismiss it like "Now don't get me wrong, that crowd is fine by me, but I'm not a homosexual. I like dames too much, haha."

And it drives the modern spider kids fucking CRAZY. They want to shake him and scream "BISEXUAL!!!" so bad but oh god he's wearing headphones, he can't hear them, oh my god 😨

#i DO think he has a strong preference for women but a lot of that preference comes from internalized homophobia and/or sheer ignorance #he's genuinely like “i know im sweet on dames so fact of the matter is i cant be homosexual” and he's so wrong #middle aged bisexual men who still haven't figured out that they're queer my beloved <3 #spider noir #spiderman noir #peter benjamin parker #into the spiderverse #itsv #itsv noir #across the Spiderverse #atsv noir #Spiderverse #Spiderverse 2 #spider speaks

[themoonking]

magneto saying the gayest possible shit he could say about charles xavier and how he misses him and then immediately hitting on rogue. girl there is too much going on right now this is not the time for a rebound.

#what’s the opposite of a bicon. Like a bi flop #magneto is bisexually flopping atm #i speak #x men 97

[xiao-lantern]

they are husband and wife to me. Deuce, watch out because you have a new stepdad

Deuce is the last one to figure out that Lilia is actually a centuries-old fae and it’s through the fact that Lilia has successfully rizzed up his mom. it’s just this meme except Deuce’s dad is in the TWST Afterlife and Lilia’s actually of-age

#ren speaks #lilia the bisexual little guy who likes pathetic men and milfs #i need everyone to see this #twst #twisted wonderland #deuce spade #dilla spade #dila spade #dira spade #idk what’s the accurate romanization of her name #lilia vanrouge #crackship #but not really

[the-daily-male]

Today's daily male is Howl Pendragon from Howl's Moving Castle!

#daily male #howl pendragon #wizard howl #howell jenkins #howl's moving castle #hmc book #hmc movie #diana wynne jones #studio ghibli #men #masculinity #mod howl #I'm sure y'all can see where the name comes from now #as a stalwart dwj fan I had to include the book as well #he's so trans gnc to me #who walks into ingary from Wales and immediately changes their name #also have you seen him #speaking of #bisexual #transgender

[tripthelightfandomtastic]

Jinkies!

#happy halloweeeeeeen #velma #danny stole my look #thats me #max speaks #wlw #bisexual #men need not interact <3 #for the gresties only

[jennrypan]

Manic: Oh yeah, I got a girlfriend

Sonic: What!?!

Sonia: You do !?!

Manic: Yeah

Sonic:

Sonia:

Manic:

Sonic: ...Well?? Tell us about her!

Manic: She's a brunette

Sonia: ..AND?

Manic: Pretty

Sonic: ..Dude- what's her name?

Manic: Thats too personal

Sonia: ..Are you gonna tell us about her?

Manic: Nah

Sonic: Why!?!

Manic: Cuz if I go missing or something..I want her to find you guys, and ask yall for help on finding me, yall can bond and joke on your adventure to find me and it'll be heartwarming

Sonia: ..You're not telling us about her cuz you want us to go on some damn adventure like in some movie?

Manic: Yeah :)

Sonic: ..If you go missing I just won't try to find you.

#j.p speaks #manic the hedgehog #sonic the hedgehog #sonia the hedgehog #sonic underground #manic will take his secrets to his grave 💀 #sonic: I thought you were gay. manic: lol bisexual actually but men wouldnt be able to find me if i go missing

[cloud-based-and-rainpilled]

“How do Aziraphale and Crowley not just communicate and admit their love for each other why do they make it so hard” you have never been in a lesbian relationship have you

#no im not headcanonning them as lesbians calm down #shoutout to gay men for having their shit together in that respect generally speaking smdh #these are all stereotypes pls ignore me #good omens #good omens 2 #ineffable husbands #lesbian #lesbians #bisexual #bisexual disaster #aziraphale #crowley #we’re not gonna make it bros #no this isn’t a personal post what are you talking about #oh pining for years isn’t normal?? sounds like a skill issue

[seastarlily]

My pride headcanons for the Seaworthy Six!! They all say bi/ace rights!!💗💜💙🖤🤍💜

#🌟 #SBSP #Icons #LGBT #SpongeBob SquarePants #Patrick Star #Squidward Tentacles #Sandy Cheeks #Eugene Krabs #Sheldon Plankton #These are all mostly based on canonical interactions these characters have had with members of the same and opposite sex... #... throughout the show’s run as well as things stated by the crew. #SpongeBob is canonically asexual as stated by Stephen Hillenberg himself. He has also outright shown tender affection... #... to both male and female characters - making him either bi or panromantic. #Patrick feels like a bisexual man with a preference for women - especially mermaids. #Squidward SCREAMS bisexual energy based on the fact he’s fawned over men and women alike on the show. #Sandy in my opinion comes off as a woman who loves her scientific work more than anything. It is implied sometimes... #... that she is crushing on SpongeBob and did once call Karen beautiful so that most likely makes her bi or panromantic. #Mr. Krabs has canonically swooned in the presence of male AND female characters on the show. Plus him being a navy man... #... should speak for itself on that front LOL. #Plankton is very much into women but it’s also implied he wouldn’t say no to men... #... especially “muscular tough guys who will do whatever he says”. #Plus I headcanon his wife Karen to be non-binary so that makes him bi or pan by default LOL. #Anyways those are just my thoughts on how I got to these conclusions. You are allowed to disagree - but don’t start any arguments... #... or hate. Anything accusatory/argumentative will not be tolerated. I come here for fun and merriment and expect it to stay that way. #And before any of you ask - yes you are absolutely free to use them. Forgive the size inconsistency - I don’t know what happened there.

[mattzerella-sticks]

I remember reading that there's a scene with Buck calling all his exes and so now I'm wondering, because of this quote -

- will Buck be calling all his exes to ask if they ever felt a 'vibe' from him about liking men, ask why their relationships fell apart, what it felt like when they were together and if what he felt means that he is attracted to women.

Buck figuring out where he falls on the sexuality spectrum.

#9-1-1 on abc #evan 'buck' buckley #bi buck #canon bisexual buck #oliver stark #buck calling all his exes: “hey so i like men it turns out.” #now I'd love for an episode where he speaks to all his past exes about this and they help him out

[lilflowerpot]

corporate wants you to find the difference between these pictures [lotor vld] [astarion bg3]

...................................................okay.........okay yes, I'll admit it, I'm an astarion girlie, of course I'm an astarion girlie, just LOOK AT HIM he's my type to a damn T, are you really surprised??

tall dark & deadly

inhuman

grey-moral bastard

intelligent beyond reason

powerful beyond being reasoned with

emotionally unavailable

can cut you with their stare alone

"is that a knife in your pocket or are you just h- that's a knife."

the prettiest bitch on the planet (may or may not have killed their competition to ensure this)

colour palette as chilly as their demeanour

✨gaslight gatekeep girlboss✨

could and would burn the world for their goals (and, more sentimentally, the people they love)

#odds are if a character has like 9/12 I'm in love with them #Aaravos / Alucard / Annabel Lee / Astarion / Brizzium / Daemon / Eris / Geralt / Ghirahim / Hordak / Hua Cheng / Lotor / Yennefer #feeling like a bad bisexual for the staggering lack of ladies in that list but when it comes to men I am //very// particular #like for the lads it's this or nothing #but women are.............. 💕✨💞women💞✨💕 yk? #[[insert deep wistful sigh here]] #the author speaks

[thetimelordbatgirl]

Okay no joke, when talking about Marvel deciding the straights need rep in Marvel Pride 2024 with a friend on Discord, I straight up joked: "god imagine its a straight x-men next to a gay x-men just, "see??? they allies!"" And low and behold...that's what Marvel's straight allies covers actually are: straight character paired up with lgbt+ character. They literally were so desperate to represent the straight characters, they didn't even think of how to do the damn covers themselves. Hell, remove the 'MARVEL VOICES PRIDE' writing from both and would you even know this was for pride??? You literally wouldn't, because there's nothing to show that, not even a flag at least.

#marvel #anti marvel #marvel critical #though i joked two x-men characters #these covers are just random characters combined together #like i am very behind on comics but uh i dont think daredevil and rachel summers know each other #and i dont know if northstar and spidey are on daily speaking terms #like its funny cause people said on twitter if they really wanted to do this it should have been the allies with you know #lgbt+ friends or relatives or kids even #showing their support for them and such #but...no #its this #also i see they trying to insist peter parker is straight still #sorry we claimed him as bisexual a while back

[radicalandmathematical]

Deciding not to date men is actually a huge decision and not as easy as people make it sound sometimes. You can read the arguments people make and realize that y e a h, chances are it's gonna go poorly and you'll be unhappy, but still want it. You can want a good relationship. You can still believe there are good men out there and you can find one and be happy, have a good healthy relationship.

Whether there are good men out there or not doesn't really matter, if you date in hopes of trying to find one you're going to encounter bad men. So in the end you have to realize that it's not worth it to even look. That even if good men exist, you may not find one. You probably won't actually. You'll end up with someone who seemed good, but then gradually got worse and now you're invested and it's hard to leave, or you don't realize how bad it is, even though 5 years ago before you started dating him you would have. It's hard to come to terms with this.

Everyday since before we can even talk, women and girls are bombarded with the message that we should desire a relationship, a husband. We're often sold a highly idealized version of relationships, and it's really easy to want that. To want someone who loves you and supports you. To want companionship and someone to have fun with. Someone to spend your life with, a partner. And you can say you can get that from friends and family all you want, but we are looking for a romantic version of these things, this is what we are being told to desire. Romantic, not platonic. It is incredibly difficult to receive this message for so long, to internalize it, and then give up on it, to give up on dating men.

It takes time. It takes realizing that chances are you can never have that, whether you choose to date men or not. it's an incredibly bleak realization for many women. It's hard to accept. Being told men are evil because look what these men did isn't going to magically make women decide not to date them, to give up on finding a good one.

It's denial. Surely this can't possibly be true, because then we can never have what we want. Yes these men did that, but surely not every man would do something like this. I will find one who doesn't!

And it's kinda true. Not every man is a rapist, men who don't watch porn exist, there are men who do most of the childcare, etc. We know this, and so we can imagine that a good man must exist, an intersection of all the ways in which an individual man may not be horrible. Except...if a man isn't horrible in one way, he's probably horrible in another. The intersection we're looking for is most likely empty, and if not, it's an incredibly small pool and finding such an elusive man is near impossible and not worth the search. It just takes time to realize this.

Just give women time to come to terms with this stuff instead of acting like a single solid argument should change our minds and convince us on the spot that there are no good men so we shouldn't date. That a few examples of men being awful means we should understand there are no good men to be found anywhere no matter how hard we look. Don't be condescending to women who aren't there yet. It just drives us further into denial.

So what does make it sink in? I can't speak for other women, but for me? Just seeing more and more examples of men being trash (without people being condescending about women who still want to date them). Making strong, fulfilling friendships with other women, especially women who are single and uninterested in dating. (Having happy relationships shoved in your face gives you an example of what you're "missing out on," and women who are looking for a relationship reinforce the desire for one.) Seeing other women, especially older ones, being single and happy, but not pushing it, just living their lives. All of this, over time, can help you realize hey, I don't need that in my life.

#speaking as someone who has chosen not to date men #this is intended for straight women #i would assume bisexual women would have different experiences with choosing not to date men #and i can't speak on them #radfem safe #radical feminism #radfem

[sheriffthompson]

tord. is so gay. the hentai addiction is a cover bc he lives in 2004 n thinks he has to be attracted to women. the crying woman in zombeh attack 2 was so tord would look straight (and bc its funny). other than kim n katya who were revealed to be lesbians and the two babes from a world without edd, hes never been seen attracted to a single woman ever. im telling you guys this man is terrified of touching a woman. its okay tord. its okay to be gay. you dont have to pretend anymore its 2024

#the sheriff speaks #i need to go to bed but i have to ramble about the gay tord agenda first #all the others you can argue bisexuality for but tord? nah. straight up into men #id also argue world without edd tord is still gay hes just even deeper in denial

[liketheinferno2]

I try to read berserk > I spend a lot of time looking at the way these dudes are drawn next to each other > I spend the evening contemplating my own gender expression in the context of a masc/femme relationship > I'm two hours into guts theme on repeat + rain noises > I try to read berserk

#having a hard time describing this but when every major character's gender expression is acknowledged by the world #and they're all illustrated with bodies that stretch and bulge and clothes that they actually wear #there's a kind of magnetism that men and women have in real life that isn't usually captured like this #tl;dr art so good I be bisexual #let him speak

[distraughtlesbian]

seeing as my other post on the matter is getting traction again, this is yet another reminder that “bi/pan lesbians” are inherently lesbophobes and should play in traffic. lesbians cannot be men, nor can they like men, and everyone who believes otherwise is actively causing harm to the lesbian community. you do not have a place in our spaces, your identity is fake, invalid, and harmful, and you are a bad person <3 trans women are women and so can be lesbians, trans men are men and therefore cannot be lesbians, and if you call any part of this “terf rhetoric”, know that you are a terminally online idiot tenderkweer and no one cares what you think <<<<<<333333

#maeve speaks #good fucking GOD. can lesbians get one day where people aren’t trying to erode our identity #guaranteed if any of these ‘mspec lesbian’ clowns said any of the shit they do to gay men there’d be a fucking uproar #but no one cares about lesbians and can’t comprehend not involving men in every single space ever. #i promise you that not everything is about or for men. the lesbian label is one of those things. #just say you’re unlabelled or queer or bisexual and go mouthbreathe somewhere else #anti bi lesbian #anti mspec lesbian #anti mspec gay