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rottmnt-residuum · 11 months

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Any other LGBTQ+ Headcannons that are canon is the comic??;)

*patiently awaits Cupioromantic Donnie*

hmm... had to think about this for a while and talk about it with co-author, but here's what we got. we mostly base this stuff on how plausible it is in show/if there's evidence for it. with a dash of personal experience. This only applies to residuum, btw. I have different personal headcanons for these characters outside the comic.

april: lesbian. this is mostly based off of the fact that most aprils get with their caseys & the comment she said to dale. which could be taken as disinterest in dale specifically, but she seemed more concerned with impressing that popular girl earlier and that reads as more... saphic, i suppose. or at the very least homoromantic.

raph: raph is just raph. we look at him and basically just *tv static*. go crazy. all we got is jokes or stuff that has too little evidence to support. so, yeah, he's whatever you want him to be i guess?

leo: trans. already said my reason in the other post. also, gay. if gay were a power source he could power the entirety of the united states for five months straight without a single power outage. failing power grid notwithstanding (< thats the actual word. its supposed to be mushed together like that. wack.).

donnie: as much as i'd like him to be ace/aro spectrum rep, he just doesn't have the evidence in show for us to apply it to him in this comic. it's funny, for being hc as ace so often he sure is the most outwardly romantic/sexual turtle in the show lmao. one! cherry: "you're so cute, but you're so mean! why do i always go for your type?" two! astrogirl?? (whatever her name is) he is very very romantic with her. he has a type y'all. also just look at those two, he's a leg man lmao (bootyyshaker9000 anyone? ha!) anyway. and with the bromance/instant chemistry he had with that one guy in the purple dragons... Pan. or possibly Omni as he does seem to favor... cute brutal femme... Yeah. Omnisexual.

(you have no idea how fucking bad i want this boy to be ace spectrum. hes got the colors y'all!! The Colors!!!!! but alas... i am bound by my canon plausibility creed for this comic)

mikey: ace. possibly ace/aro. he shows interest in literally no-one. we're aware that the common hc is pan but... we know a pan 13 year old, and let me tell you ahahahaha, kids going through puberty are very uncomfortable to be around sometimes, especially around their partners. or crushes. and mikey... well, that boy is ace behavior personified lmao. aces in the back you get what we mean right?? right??? anyway commiting to aroace

#residual asks #rottmnt #i really get a kick out of he/him butch lesbian raph and ghostbear-sexual raph #but i'd never use those seriously. or at least in this comic #co-author says what they get if they really had to choose for raph is ace homoromantic #but otherwise...#he's just raph #like we can't apply any identity to him. and we really mean ANY identity. not even straight or umbrella terms like queer #its a very odd feeling #i also really like trans april but we don't have enough evidence for it #in fact there's actually counter evidence- but don't let that stop your dreams y'all. it just stops ours :P #sorry for stepping on your donnie dreams anon #but honestly i think that label applies more to 2012 donnie imo #i really do personally prefer ace/aro donnie. but i'd make everyone ace if i were able lmao #co-author would also do the same thing ahaah #i just don't like depicting romantic relationships. or attraction ahahaah #with mikey... we get why people hc him as pan... but like its a fandomism stereotype #that literally every fandom applies to optimistic friendly characters. and honestly i really don't like the fandomism stereotypes #i just find them... unenjoyable i guess #cuz like y'alll... your sexuality isn't inherently determined by your personality or vise versa #cuz like i know for sure that in fandom spaces- if i were a character- i'd be stereotyped as pan or a hypersexual cis het #to which i am neither. at all.#and co-author would be stereotyped as the demure femme book lesbian #which they are VERY much not #and i know this because i've been fandomified by people in my life more than once #it is a very uncomfortable experience y'all #whoops rant in the tags #residuum #rottmnt residuum #residuum wb

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the-writing-mobster · 9 hours

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Hm. I don't think we should support this artist.

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bluespiritshonour · 1 month

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Broke: Mai is masculine, Ty Lee is feminine

Woke: Mai is dark feminine and Ty Lee is light feminine

#honestly #toph's the one who's not much girly #otherwise all of atla girls are girly #they're all girly and badass and i love it #usually the strong female character is masculine and they do it in a way that derides femininity #atla subverts it by having toph who's the tomboy #and all the other girls who are feminine #another piece of media that did the tomboy right #without deriding girly girls while writing a tomboy #is arcane #with vi #no one points out that she's masculine #her femininity is never questioned #and you have mel and caitlyn being girly and badass #and vi herself never looks down on women who're feminine #ty lee is obviously is girly #but mai and azula are too #i hate that that fandom thinks mai in particular is masculine #like damn y'all haven't seen masc presenting women have ya? (doesn't matter straight or queer)#atla #avatar the last airbender #arcane

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kayshurrr · 3 months

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Sometimes I do get a weird feeling of FOMO when it comes to my allo friends and their relationships but then I remember how much I love the care and comfort I give myself and the fact that living alone actually rocks my socks off and then I feel fine

#aromantic #lgbtqia #queer #aroace #asexual #aro #grey ace #no shade to alloromantics #i just literally do not underatand y'all #this is oversimplified #but hear me out

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loserchildhotpants · 11 months

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hello i am sooooooo sad and lethargic and sick and it would make me soooooo happy if you gave my exhaustively researched Titanic!AU w destiel and samwena, Three Princes, a read ; A ;

i didn't put warnings on it (for Reasons) but also jsyk do not STOP reading before the epilogue :)))))

but look! i made art for it and there's songs for each chapter and switching POVs and there's extensive smut and there's booze smuggling and dancing and tragic backstories and pining and all sorts of stuff!!!

is Cas a Russian priest? almost! does Dean have Stage 4 Mommy Issues? you bet! does Sam sweat loudly around a milf that could kill him w a glance? more than once! is Rowena complex and morally grey while still maintaining a likable charm? i - i mean, god i hope i worked really hard on this one, guys!!

if u give it a chance, leave a comment on it or let me know what u thought of it here or on the cursed bird app - my focus is shot rn bc of meds and illness so i can't really get any further w my current WIPs atm and i need external validation or i shall simply whither away to dust on the wind T A T

imma tag folks (if u want me to remove u from the list lemme know slkdhfj this feels a little brazen of me to tag people ?? but everyone im tagging seems so nice and supportive and im a poor little meow meow rn so)

@queerstudiesnatural @starcrosseddeancas @casblackfeathers @casdeanel @emeraldcas @castiel

#destiel #deancas #Three Princes #someonetoanyone #samwena #pls go read it u guys dont understand i know so much abt Titanic now #grabbing these blorbos who are so informed by their canon time period and shoving them into 1912 was a fuckin TASK #i had to study a 1900 accurate world map to figure out how and where people were trekking to and from #then i had to do cultural research on all those places to inform the characters language and behaviors and backstories #i know Author Chose Not To Use Warnings is frightening but have Faith in me my friends #also i hope y'all understand that the dead dove implications are like inherent bc of the... u know... tragedy of Titanic #like the Titanic DOES sink and inherently that's heavy #also it's 1912 and socially things were not... great #especially if u were poor and/or queer #im talking too much in the tags now #see? i am weak and sickly and pathetic

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lazykurocat · 3 months

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I know most of this has been said far better by others but holy shit do I need to rant! I find it really sad yet funny how people will still try so hard to claim they aren't antisemitic and then be like"Israel shouldn't exist" that's one of the most bullshit things I've ever heard anyone say, then there's "I hate Zionist" when clearly you don't have the first clue about Zionism, it is simply put: Jewish people wanting a safe place to live, they've always been outcast everywhere so why is it so bad that they'd have their place? they've always been there and always will be in Israel. if you are anti-Zionist you are anti Jew. I've seen people try to claim that Israel started Hamas...?? like? what??no... sis you good?. most people, even now still don't know which river and which sea and it's embarrassing! I know I often come at this topic from a queer lens as I'm gay and trans and not Jewish personally, but honestly I'm scared both for Jewish people, and my fellow queers, Jewish folk I know personally have said to me they don't feel safe I don't feel safe around a lot of people anymore aswell for my queerness, because they claim to be allies... but how can you be my ally when you support Palestine? they fucking hate LGBT+ folk there, we are not welcome there, we would be killed there so to say "I'm an ally" feels so fake to me. to be part of the LGBT and still support that living hell of a place and act as though Israel started this and Palestine only wants peace and freedom? are you mad??! are you insane?? I only feel bad for people who want to be free from Hamas rule. and for the poor children who are raised into thinking Suicide bombing is a good thing and they should do it. not those who willingly support throwing my people off buildings and burn our flags. I will never fucking support Palestine as it is now EVER. if more people started saying free Palestine/Gaza from Hamas that would be a great fucking start. I am so fucking pissed off with some people my fucking lord. and another fucking thing! stop acting like Israel started October 7th! Israelis were murdered over nothing, I watched videos of Hamas shooting and killing people and even dogs. They are monsters they are rapists! you are supporting baby killers! you are supporting the real genocide! NEVER FORGET THE TRUTH OF OCTOBER 7th, because Hamas want to kill us all, Jewish, gay, trans, Queer, non Muslim! they are terrorists, they want to do October 7th over and over and over and over until there are no Jews left! FUCK HAMAS

#i stand with israel #fuck hamas #free palestine from hamas #antisemitism #pro israel #free gaza from hamas #lgbtq #freedom for all my queer siblings out there!#AAAAAAAAAAAAH I hate people #So many of y'all who think this bullshit are brain damaged or something I swear #so frustrating #goyim do better #so done #I probably could have worded things better but holy fuck #one of my “friends” really reblogged from a pro-hamas blog and I don't know if I can even be their friend anymore... this is too much #I feel like I'll lose everyone I cared about because of this war #and I'm not even in the war... like? I just wanna cry

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gloriousmonsters · 1 month

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was making an annoyed joke about people who are like 'velvette is like vox and val's daughter!!' by saying that 'yeah, it's super normal to call your father 'darling' and give him kisses through the phone' and my housemate just Looked at me and I was like well ok. fair. In Valentino's world that is completely normal, but statistics out of Val's porn studio are outliers that should not be counted

#happy days in hell (hazbin tag)#i just have 0 patience for 'omg she's totally like their daughter i just get daughter vibes' at this point #even if you don't ship them they are three whole ass adults with a whole ass queer friendship #neither of them act like her dad #vox acts toward her in a different-but-similar way as he acts toward val #(i.e somewhat condescending but caring)#and we only ever see her and Val hanging out in a chill manner #or cuddling to advertise a sex drug #btwn this and people trying to shove every relationship into familial or monogamous-married in other places #i'm just gonna say that in addition to struggling with treating female characters as adults with autonomy #y'all just. straight up do not understand what friendship is #ok this got more ranty than i meant but god i am TIRED

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lucky-numberme · 11 months

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Award for the most chemistry-laden meet cute goes to Hades and Seph. Can't stop thinking about them 👀👀👀

Queer Book Draw Challenge 9/20 Drag Me Up by @rmvirtues

[ID: An illustration of Hades and Persephone in formal wear sharing drinks in his private box. Hades is standing and leaning on the bar and Persephone is seated in front of him. They both lean in slightly towards each other, glasses clinking and gazes locked. Persephone's expression is confident and slightly challenging. Hades' expression is intrigued and enthralled. Light fixtures shaped like pomegranate seeds hang above them both. Behind them, wall-size windows reveal the Khaos Falls cityscape at night. End ID]

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#do y'all ever start working on a piece and then before you know it you've put your whole pussy into it and it's too late to take it back out #me working on the lines: they deserve the classiest background. metal's classy. there's gonna be so much metal in this.#me rendering for the next 2 days straight: I HAVE MADE MISTAKES #also this series fucks so much. i am vibrating about the upcoming Patrochilles sequel #drag me up #gods of hunger #rm virtues #little museum #queer books #queer book draw challenge #book art #book fanart #queer romance #queer romance novel #trans romance

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satanicspinosaurus · 5 months

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Being a millennial trans-masculine person is wild.

Like, I have spent the majority of my life being perceived as a girl or young woman. I have been affected by systematic misogyny. I cut my teeth on it and grew to oppose it. I leaned into everything that brought me joy society told me was “wrong” for me to like - being covered in mud, math, rough housing, being loud, being assertive.

I wore the word “bitch” like it was a crown, because every fucker who hurled it at me was basically saying “I cannot break you and I hate it”.

So imagine my shock when I finally found words and help to make my body into a home (not some place I was forced to reside, to try and decorate the hostile walls best I could) AND now it’s the queer community slinging mud at me for being masculine.

I have been told my medication is “poison” by cis and trans people. I have been told to sit down, shut up and let the unprivileged speak. (You know a whole 3 months on hormones when I was beating my head against the wall because my legal name was still my deadname and I was tired from trying to get the majority of society to use my actual name and pronouns.) I have now been told my struggle with bottom dysphoria sounds like a prank from a trans support space volunteer.

It’s funny to me that now, in trans spaces, my body is the measuring stick. The one you can make jokes about. The one you can compare, insult, belittle, treat like a curiosity. Once again, my pronouns (he/him) don’t always need to be respected. Once again, my emotions are not valid.

Geeeee why does this all feel so familiar????

Fuck that. My gender is rebellion. The way I express it has changed, because the way society perceives me has (thankfully) changed. Masculine people being kind, patient, soft and affectionate is often seen as “less than” and GUESS WHAT I am all those things too.

Part of being kind is calling people on their shit. You cannot do this to people and not expect some of them to break. I openly weep for the cis men I know because at least I had a childhood of being told my emotions were valid before having to deal with this. I cannot imagine how hard it must have been to weather this without that. No wonder so many of you came to me crying one night. You told me people say they care and then turn around and hurt you for having emotions. Honestly, how are so many of you still here???

Like I am having a day trying to cope with this, and I am good at surviving shit. Right now, the kindest thing I can think of doing is giving myself space to process this and figure out how to talk about it without screaming.

I don’t have the privilege of yelling when people hurt me anymore. I might be scary.

#transmisandry #trans misandry #trans masc #ftm #queer community #lgbtq #Little tired of this shit tbh #Like I just want to be a big ol softie and enjoy life #Go yell at people abusing people #Instead of trying act like me liking the color blue is personally hurting you and ruining society #Stop trying to tell me the only good parts of me are the feminine ones #Shout out to butch lesbians #Y'all are rock stars and get it #like seriously #Butch lesbians have been so kind to me everytime I talk about this and I hope one day I have the chance to repay that #All I wanted to do today was try to cope with bottom dysphoria y'all #Now I guess it's time to address this

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juneviews · 11 months

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DAMNNN, they kinda popped off on step by step! would be a fair point to make if it wasn't itself a bl show profiting off lgbtq+ relationships but oh well ��

#axelle rants #step by step #step by step the series #like ngl I can never take shows that do this seriously lol bc how are you gonna call yourself out like that #to be fair step by step is a lot less exploitative than other bl shows so far but still #and to be fair it IS very much in line with pat as an actual queer character to say that so it makes sense why this sentence was said #I do really like the show though & this is making me think: is there a way to make bl shows non exploitative?#I guess not pushing the pairing in events & such but it's so embedded in thai culture atp idk if that's possible #ANYWAYS we're raising philosophical questions here lol #but anyways what do y'all think of step by step? I'm super enjoying the long episodes & the characters I'm very much into it #also LOVE how they're taking their time to set up the ship slowly even though most bl shows rush to hook fans in as early as possible #but also khun jeng asking pat to share his bed ON A WORK TRIP AS BOSS EMPLOYEE IS FUCKING INSANE #all of these boss employees shows are making me think: is there no hr in thailand? bc phi gun & khun jeng would've have been fired -#- a long time ago almost everywhere else LMAO

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icannotgetoverbirds · 11 months

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saw an exclusionist post so here's a reminder

specifically in reference to transmasc lesbians and trying to draw lines in the sand on who can and can't claim the lesbian label, about how being a lesbian is exclusive of loving men, with someone referring to the people they're attempting to exclude as "fandom gremlin transmascs and neo-mogai crazies."

I don't have the spoons for a proper response but i do feel like i need to make something clear.

on this blog we support fucky genders, fandom gremlin transmascs, and neo-mogai crazies. reblog if u love ur fellow fandom gremlin and neo-mogai crazy queers.

#tw ableist language #tw exclusionism #byrd chirps #oh and if you have a problem with this then feel free to sound off in the notes so i can block you #there's a fucking trans genocide happening right now i will NOT tolerate exclusionary politics around good-faith identities #also why the fuck do the labels matter? we're all a bunch of filthy queer degenerates to the people that want us dead anyways!#if you police good faith identities you're a fucking fed and functionally conservative #and yeah if we wanna work together on something basic and/or general i can play nice with you #but there's no way in hell that i'm just gonna allow y'all into our spaces just so you can try and push me out!#if you're a lesbian and you don't want to date enby/genderqueer/multigender folk that's fine!#nobody is saying in good faith that you have to date us! do you realize who you sound like right now?#gee i wonder who else argues for pushing nonconforming people out of their spaces because they think we're predatory -#- and expect them to date us? i fucking wonder!#if you can't handle gender fuckery then don't make it my fucking problem! i'm not out here making it yours!#and no me existing and sharing labels with you is not 'making it your problem'#look you have the general lesbian space. we have the subset of genderqueer/transmasc lesbian space.#you cannot claim to be supportive of enben (including nb lesbians) if that support doesn't extend to genderqueer/multigender folks!#anyways rant over im not here to fucking argue about my right to self determination #that is specifically what i came to tumblr to AVOID.#not gonna link op because i don't wanna put them on blast just.#op if ur reading this. skedaddle. to the person i was following that put it on my dash. skedaddle.#to the person who they reblogged it from. skedaddle.#out. now. i am sweeping you off my front porch with a broom. you are not welcome on this blog #oh and the person who i'm quoting from the notes? that goes double for you. out.#inclusivity #intersectionality

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xxlovelynovaxx · 11 months

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Hey all. So for Pride Month, I wanna talk some about butch and femme identities.

Specifically, the false dichotomy that's been made out of them.

If you've spent any time at all around multigender people, you know that manhood and womanhood are not oppositional or mutually exclusive. If you've spent any time at all in healthy general trans spaces, you know that masculinity and femininity aren't, either.

So then why are butch and femme (and futch, when it's remembered), treated as such?

My main identity is butch, because every aspect of my identity is masc in some way. It has to be, for me to feel comfortable and safe in it. When I am a gender in the feminine spectrum, I am masc in presentation, affect, performance, and other similar aspects. When I am masc-gendered, I actually tend to be more femme, though, because the mascness is safely cemented in my gender! When I am an abinary gender, it can vary and that's actually when I tend to be more neutral, but there is still less femininity than masculinity.

I could go into why (double dysphoria over people assuming both the wrong gender and the wrong sex, since I am intersex) but I will leave it other than that parenthetical. But even aside from being a system, on an individual level I am butch AND femme. Queer masculinity is a stronger part of my identity than queer femininity, but that doesn't erase the queer femininity. It doesn't erase the way I am so rarely a masculine man that I basically joke my two binary genders are femboy and butch. It doesn't erase how when my gender approaches one binary, my relationship with genderqueer expression and existence always queers.

To be clear, for some people individually, the two are separate and oppose each other. I'm not saying they have to adjust their understanding of their OWN identity, but just to recognize that theirs is not the "one right way".

I am butch AND femme. Both are important to me. Sometimes they are even contradictory. I'm multigender and intersex and a system and many other things besides. It happens. My identity doesn't have to make sense to everyone. But it is valid and deserves to be treated as such.

(Also, since it's been brought up that degendering or regendering typically masculine things still counts as butch - it absolutely does. Using anything you or anyone else considers masculine and queering it in any way counts as butch. I'm not a prescriptivist.)

#butch #femme #futch #btw the 'those are for lesbians only' crowd can fuck off #as can any other kind of exclusionary queerphobes #y'all will just be blocked I don't have time for your shit #anyway the thing about queer identities is that they are inherently not straight-forward #they're QUEER that's the POINT #also the disclaimer is for the one asshole who took my response to someone saying 'stop trying to make butch masc' out of context #they were like 'omg you can't define labels for other people ACKSHUALLY butch doesn't HAVE to do anything with masculinity #I'm like 'uhh I never said that couldn't be butch. you just wildly misinterpreted what I meant by 'masculinity' and put words in my mouth'#like I literally coined descrippunk bc I hate prescriptivism so much who do you think I am?#anyway long rant bc I have neurodivergent ✨trauma✨ from people assuming bad intentions on my part and misintepreting me #I hope that person has throttled internet speeds every time they try to post bs on the internet

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quinnick · 1 year

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One of the worst things tiktok has done is convince people that they are allowed to uncritically engage in other peoples business or culture or community. I am queer so I understand that the best but this definitely happens with other groups of people and their cultures for sure. But from my experience, cishet people (especially cishet women for some reason) think they can use homophobic slurs and homophobic stereotypes because they watches a queer person use them in reference to their own queer experiences. And since cishet people can't use them to refer to themselves, they use these homophic slurs and stereotypes to people in said community. As a "joke". It's not funny. It's not cute. And all it takes is actually listening to people in these communities when they tell you to stop to know not to do this. Cishet people have no right to call queer people slurs and joke about queer people by using bigoted language.

#I am still mad about what y'all do to evrry person who comes out as queer or queer characters in media or just in general #Not everything ever is for YOU #Not everything is about YOU not everything is about ME #If you find that you have done something that crossed a line #All you need to do is say sorry and not do it again #It does not need to be a huge argument #No one is arresting you if you say fruity and are cishet #Just be nice goddamn it #quinnick talks politics #<- ig

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v-tired-queer · 7 months

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Growing up, my family always told me that Jack-o-lanterns have scary faces to ward off evil or malicious spirits. I don't know if that's true, I haven't looked much into the history of Halloween since I was younger and there's a lot that I've forgotten, but I do remember that I took the time to memorize the Wiccan Reed when I was a Wiccan. There was one Samhain when I was doing a ritual and reciting the Reed before I started. When I got to the "When the winds blow from the west, departed souls will have no rest," part, I thought that maybe putting a Jack-o-lantern with a scary face facing the west of my house might really help ward off anything bad coming through the veil. I never tried it, I sort of forgot about it after, but I just remembered it while decorating for Halloween, so if anyone out there wants to try it to see if you feel or sense any extra protection, please feel free! 🎃🕯👻

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aipilosse · 10 months

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🔥6 and 7?

lmao are you my Maedhros anon? sending me asks because you sense our shared distaste?

ok. VIOLENCE TIME.

6. which ship fans are the most annoying?

Russingon of course!!! Caveat that I used to enjoy Russingon greatly and I have many beloved mutuals who ship Russingon and I don't think you're annoying at all <<<333

But.

LMAO the fact that people are so insane about the ship that they'll take offense if it's included as a non-canon ship? To the point where there is at least one event where implying it's not canon is taboo? The fact that people seem to legitimately believe it was intentional subtext from Tolkien and any minimization of it is homophobic? 'Chrissy T straightwashed the Silm' is something I have read with my own two eyes (and it had more than zero notes). The fact that I think like 75% of the long fic about it has the most god awful pretentious (and incorrect) lore documents to go along with it? The fact that they tie themselves in knots making terrible arguments to explain why their relationship is OK in canon (which... why does it need to be OK in universe? forbidden love is sexy. and why do you care what Tolkien the very conservative oxford professor thought about your ship? and why do you care about what a random anon thinks about your ship? THEY ARE FICTIONAL IMMORTAL ROYALS OF AN INVENTED SPECIES MODELED AFTER MILLENIA-OLD EPICS. why would modern sentiments apply at all?) instead of 'Yeah they're fucking half-cousins deal with it, bitch.'

I will put down the knife now.

And then pick it back up, because

7. what character did you begin to hate not because of canon but because how how the fandom acts about them?

lololol OK, now I have to put Maedhros for this one. There are still a handful of people whose Maedhroses I'll read, but for the most part 'gentle giant who never meant to hurt anyone uwu' has completely turned me off the character.

Though gentle giant might be better than the full on incoherent takes I've seen. People sometimes seem to give him the most brutal, violent, callous characteristics while keeping the same 'poor Maedhros didn't mean to hurt anyone' overtones while not realizing that that is so much worse.

lol now putting down the knife for real.

#if you want canon queer ships I have some real life queer authors to rec all y'all #queer readings are always welcome #but you aren't doing queer readings #you're still stuck in authorial intent!#you haven't even arrived at 20th century lit crit #it's the 21st century gents #Tolkien would have hated you and that's ok <3 #also I'm lying I've hardly read anything recently #it's very sad because I've seen things that interest me hypothetically #but I just have not been able to read fic idk why #hopefully some temporary burn out

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hazel2468 · 2 years

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Gender is weird because sometimes I want to be a soft masc butch who wears polos and button downs and looks like I work in an office, and sometimes I want to be an ethereal fairy-lady who wears flowy cotton dresses and looks like she lives near flower fields and grows her own herbs and veggies and teas, and sometimes I want to be a badass punk genderless person who wears a jacket with patches and carries a bat and wears weird earrings and has strong arms and shoulders, and sometimes I want to be an ever-so-slightly terrifying witch who burns offerings in her backyard and lives in the woods and dances in the rain in long black dresses with vines in my hair and SOMETIMES I want to be a cute housewife to my wife who cooks and bakes and wear aprons and frills and had hands and stomach covered in flour from kneading dough and I have a little cat who keeps me company.

Gender is fucking AWESOME all the time because hey! I can be LITERALLY all of these things whenever I fucking feel like and no one can stop me from being a woman one day, a not-quite-woman another, my gender is just straight butch next week, sometimes I don’t have one and sometimes I have all of them.

And no one can stop me from being ridiculously happy about it.

#queer #genderqueer #nonbinary #trans #holy fuck #i am having some major queer joy right now #I'm in a polo shirt y'all #and i feel SO GOOD #I'm gonna wear a SUIT to a wedding #Im just all kinds of giddy about gender today #honestly feeling a lil transmasc today?#which is like #struggling a bit with that because I still have some stupid rules to break out of #like can I call myself trans if I don't want to medically transition?#and i know the answer is yes #can i call myself transmasc if I'm not a man?#and i know that again the answer is yes #am i allowed to feel like this at all?#and when that last one hits me I stop myself and i ask #do you see how fucking happy you are?#how confident and comfortable and AT HOME you feel in your own skin?#fuck allowed #even if I wasn't allowed I still would #Because this feels so damn GOOD and RIGHT

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