#Tw self harm mention

[support]

Everything okay?

If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. There are many support services that are here to help. For 24/7 peer support and other resources, message KokoBot on Tumblr.

If you are in the United States, please try:

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255) The Trevor Project (LGBTQ youth, ages 13-24) National Eating Disorders Association (online chat, text) RAINN (National Sexual Assault Hotline)

If you are outside the United States, visit IASP to find resources for your country.

For more resources, please visit our Counseling & Prevention Resources page for a list of services that may be able to help.

#tumblr #counseling #prevention #self harm #psa #tumblr support #tumblr help #tumblr staff #depression

[borderline-culture-is]

BPD culture is getting an online friend and have I known them for four days? Yes. Am I obsessed? Abso-fucking-lutely. THEY TOLD ME THEY ARE PROUD OF ME!!! FOR SHOWERING!!!!!! I LOVE THEM QHFJFOJF!!! And I did promise myself to not get attached to people after my ex best friend(fp), whose name I still have carved into my skin, but… Also, said online friend could possibly have a personality disorder as well. AND THEY WROTE ME A FANFIC!!!! I don't see what the obsession with my old fp was about at this point tbh and I hope everything stays that way(it probably won't, but)

-💜🥀🔪

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#borderline culture is #borderline personality disorder #bpd culture #bpd culture is #bpd safe #bpd #actually bpd #actually borderline #fp #bpd fp #fp bpd #ex fp #tw self harm mention #cw self harm mention #- 💜🥀🔪

[starlightseraph]

house md will always be remebered as the most insane thing ever broadcast because of how unabashedly feral everyone involved was.

a short collection of things that happen on the show, just off the top of my head, not even scratching the surface:

- house shoots a random dead body in the morgue and then sticks him in an mri machine, which pulls the bullet out of the dead guy’s head and destroys the machine, costing the hospital millions

- foreman gets bitten by a person with rabies

- chase kills an african dictator

- cameron steals drugs from a patient after possibly getting hiv from said patient

- house induces a migraine and then takes a drug made by his arch nemesis (who he’s been stalking for 25 years) to get the drug taken off the market. he then takes lsd (in the hospital, in the middle of a case) to cure the migraine.

- chase goes into anaphylaxis after doing body shots

- house stops an elevator so he can perform a cavity (vaginal) search on a teenage heart transplant patient who’s in cardiorespiratory arrest

- they give a neurosurgeon mushrooms to cure his food poisoning, then they stick him in an operating room. the neurosurgeon strips in front of a health board assessor.

- kutner dies for gay marriage

- house sets an autopsy room on fire while trying to juggle flaming bottles

- house gets recruited by the cia

- taub gets held at gun point after diagnosing a stripper with skin cancer

- in almost every single episode, the team breaks into multiple houses

- house fakes terminal brain cancer so he can get drugs implanted directly into the pleasure centre of his brain

- house cons us immigration to get his fake wife a green card. he also uses his fake wife’s ukrainian food truck to spy on people

- house tries to get wilson, his closet case boybestfriend, into bed every few episodes. every other sentence out of house’s mouth is about wanting to rail wilson.

- taub has a kid with his ex-wife, after they divorce, at the same time he has a kid with his 25 yo side piece. the kids’ names are sophie and sophia.

- house and wilson have a bet on who can hide a chicken in the hospital the longest without anyone finding out

- house tries to kill himself like 6 times and always fails (insulin shock, overdoses, electrocution, jumping off a building, cutting, etc)

- house fakes his death to get out of a prison sentence after violating his parole so he can live out his bi love story with his gay best friend who has 5 months to live

#if people think r/okbuddyvicodin is insane they should see the source material #hate crimes md #hilson #hugh laurie #rsl #robert sean leonard #house md #gregory house #james wilson #hugh laurie biggest hilson shipper fr #rsl biggest hilson hater #r/okbuddyvicodin #tw sui attempt #tw self h4rm #tw self harm #tw self harm mention #dead poets society #dps #yes robert sean leonard aka neil perry from dead poets society is the second main character in this show #starlightseraph’s brainrot

[esf-art-and-design]

You wanna know something crazy?

I work for a LGBTQ+/Queer non-profit, I’ve had to sit in on training seminars on how to best support our community, how to create a space that is actually safe for everyone in the community, etc.

You wanna know the one thing that was emphasized by these professionals running these seminars (who are also a part of the community btw)

Telling queer people what their labels for their identity ought to be is extremely harmful.

Gatekeeping the community from other people who are figuring themselves out because of labels is harmful?! Shocker I know, but yes it is.

You know what this means right? It means that:

You don’t get to tell a guy experimenting with queer sex that he’s gay/bi/queer/etc if he ID’s as straight

You don’t get to tell a woman experimenting with queer sex that she’s lesbian/bi/queer/etc. if she ID’s as straight

You don’t get to tell aces who are hetero sexual/Romantic that they don’t belong in queer spaces

You don’t get to blame bi lesbians/m-spec women for creepy cishet men entering wlw spaces to hit on women (in an entitled way) (that’s called misogyny babes)

You don’t get to tell someone they are unlovable/not deserving of a relationship/etc. because of the label they use

You don’t get to tell people that actions invalidate their labels because “actions speak louder than words”

You don’t get to demand to know what labels someone uses because of their actions. (Or you don’t force someone to out themselves)

You don’t apply labels to someone from pure speculation (you could be outing someone and putting them in danger)

You don’t get to tell people their labels are “contradictory” or “don’t make sense” and demand they choose one label over the other

Other Labels cannot harm your own identity, and if you act like it can your wrong and harming the community

And ultimately, It means that according to actual professionals within the lgbtq non-profit space, the exclusionists in the community are wrong and are doing immeasurable harm.

Basically what I’m saying is that everyone is welcome here on my blog, policing identity is harmful, and yes, the exclusionists that told you that your identity is invalid or made fun of you for your identity we’re so fucking wrong.

Everyone who experiences sexual orientation, attraction, gender identity, and gender expression differently belongs within our community.

Gatekeeping only keeps people deserving of services away from the spaces where they can get those services. It keeps them away from peer support. And that’s not good, especially if you know the statistics for self harm and suicide within the community.

#tw suicide mention #tw self harm mention #bi lesbian #inclusive lesbian #he/him lesbians #gaysbian #ace #asexual #aromantic #aroace #aroallo #anti exclusionist #exclusionists dni #sapphic #bi lesbian positivity #aroace positivity #asexual positivity #aromantic positivity

[sysboxes]

[Text: This alter looks up triggering content as a way to self harm.]

Like/Reblog if you save or use!

#tw self harm mention #userbox #this user #system #system stuff #traumagenic system #did #osdd #anti endo #endos dni #mod wonder ❄️

[mikaikaika]

Tubbo appreciation post once again but it is so satisfying as a viewer how so many of our theories and Tubbo's past implications have come to this. Tubbo has been sowing the seeds since who knows how long and it is so incredibly gratifying to see it all culminate to something meaningful.

From a narrative standpoint, all those comments in the past of qTubbo not needing a house, him saying "he's been dead long ago", him missing his purpose, his constant attempts of harming himself and constant suicidal ideation - all of it reflecting in his last moments and the rest being continued and confirmed post his death. The weight that the line "he wasn't alive to begin with" is itself worth multiple essays.

Tubbo's been subtle roleplaying about all of this and if you don't watch him consistently you probably won't pick up on it. So sending this as an appreciation post for all the plot, themes, and motifs we have been aptly fed with and will continue to be. <3333

#Tw self harm #Tw self harm mention #Tw suicide #Tw suicide ideation #Tw suicidal ideation #STREAMER THANK YOU #And kudos #That's my kudos #qsmp #tubbo #Tub my beloved #Mika mumbles #Meta #BEST DAY TO BE A TUBBLING

[thebirthofvenusfly]

ISAT spoilers but

i do think it's really fascinating to go from

"haha here's this quiet, soft-spoken, chill little pun-loving rogue whose only notable issue is really being stuck in a sudden timeloop to save the country"

to "here's the party's quietest member, debatably most selfless, spending over 100+ cycles living the same 48 hours over and over with no end in sight, feeling death several different ways, watching those they love die before their eyes at times, crying because no matter how much they try to get the others to open up their friends' memory reset every loop so the closeness never lasts long, at risk of existential crisis if not already in one over the crippling realization they cannot remember their own childhood or culture or parents or language or even just. the name of their damn country. reminded to them every time they see the king (who they've watched kill them before), and hear the accent in their voice (possibly a reason they rarely speak up in addition to just being a quiet person), at times reverting to self-harm and suicide to force looping, risking their life endlessly to save a country they aren't from but are stuck with because of the extreme separation anxiety and fear of losing their found family and, by extension, losing themselves altogether with no one to love and remember them."

#in stars and time #isat #isat spoilers #in stars and time spoilers #siffrin #tw sui ideation #tw self harm mention

[a-sip-of-milo]

Do you have any advice on how to stop self harming for anyone?

I have a few different tactics that I personally use.

I use an app called Calm Harm. It gives options for distractions, comfort, ways to express yourself, ways to release the emotions you're feeling and other random activities. It describes what you're doing when you're using these techniques as 'riding the wave'. Also has ways to self monitor, different breathing activities and a streak function if that sort of thing helps.

Abdominal breathing. It helps immensely with anxiety and calming the body down. If you click the link, it'll tell you everything you need to know and give you a visual tutorial on how to do it. My previous psychologist asked me to do it for five minutes every day, six times a day until our next appointment. I was in denial at the time, but it helped so much. The best part is that you can do it anywhere.

There's another app that I use called Finch. You're essentially raising a baby bird by doing self care tasks. Every task is worth a certain amount of energy points, and if you get enough energy it'll go on an adventure and come back with new discoveries. You can also decorate its room, choose its pronouns/name and have daily conversations with it that grows its personality. There's also regular check-ins on your mood, and if you're not feeling great, it has a first-aid kit with things to help during a panic attack or when you you're feeling the need to self harm. (I love that it's got so many activities to do, quizzes to complete, ways to reflect and goal ideas)

The urge to self harm for me comes when I'm feeling out of control of my body, my emotions and the things around me. So, to combat that, I do things to prove to myself that I've made that choice. I've chosen to rearrange my room. I've chosen to take a shower. I've chosen to go on a walk. I've chosen to grab out a board game or go window shopping online. By acknowledging that you've consciously made this decision, it helps to reassure yourself that there will always be something you can control.

If you're doing it for the pain, I recommend getting a rubber band and using it to flick your wrist, or find some other way of inflicting pain without it leaving permanent marks.

I also do it for the visual affect, which I will fix by tracing over my faded scars with a pen or creating intricate patterns on my body until I've forgotten about what I originally wanted to do. There's also a web page called Fatal To the Flesh, where you're essentially cutting up a white screen and blood drips out of the cuts.

Similarly, there's a web page called You Feel Like Shit, where it helps you to identify what's going on by listing off a heap of self-care tasks you may or may not have done and asks you if you've completed them recently. I'm very forgetful when it comes to self-care, and this helps me to remind myself that there's things I can do to make things better.

Hope this helps, my friend:)

#ask #tw self harm mention #tw self harm #self care #npd safe #aspd safe #hpd safe #bpd safe #cluster b safe

[gachagon]

Yeah so let's talk about Kaiser's self harm here.

I read this chapter and was thinking about this last scene in particular just because it's very unnerving to think about Kaiser literally trying to deprive himself of air to "think" of a plan to beat Isagi. And since this is also the chapter where we are finally given the backstory behind his motivations, and where the Blue Rose tattoo came from, it puts into perspective just why it's on his neck instead of in a different place.

If the blue rose is supposed to be a reminder of how the impossible can be made possible to Kaiser, than I also think it's a representation of the actual pressure he puts on himself to do just that. He's literally choking himself out here to think, and deliberately putting the force over that tattoo because that's the center of his ideals, the reason he's even trying to do the things he's doing.

I also find it very ironic that Kaiser says he wants to be someone who can't be defined, the impossible. Because the crux of his issue is that he can't define Isagi.

He and Isagi are just so alike that even trying to understand him on a basic level when playing together is hard for Kaiser, and not because Isagi is some complex person but because he doesn't see that Isagi is a direct parallel to himself, a mirror in a way. Another observation I made is that in this panel and a lot of other panels where Kaiser is off the field, we can see that he has his hair tied back.

Kaiser keeps his hair in a specific way not just because he likes the style, but to show off that tattoo on his neck. So that it can always be a present reminder of what he's striving for. But you can tell in this panel that it's WAY shorter than it is now, and that it's grown out for a while now. At this point of the story, Kaiser probably had a healthy relationship with his own motivations and just looking at the rose was enough to satiate his ego and keep him going.

But as time went on, and he wasn't close enough to achieving the goals he set out the longer it grew (until it is what it is now) Kaiser's self harm (because that is what he's doing here in that panel) is in an effort to make him "play better". Not everyone self harms to "punish" themselves, it is pretty common for people to do it because they think it'll help them in their goals somehow, a way to think "clearer" like Kaiser is doing.

But it's not at all a healthy coping mechanism. A lot of the Blue Lock characters have their own little "training strategies" that they do after a game when they want to get better, or to simply just think. Isagi seeks out the advice of other people, Kunigami hits the gym, Chigiri likes to do his hair, Bachira likes dribbling, Nagi likes to play games etc.

And Kaiser's way of doing that is...well this. It makes you wonder if he's ever done this before, or if this is a first for him because even Ness seemed incredibly disturbed to find him trying to choke himself out.

#bllk #tw self h4rm #tw self harm mention #blue lock spoilers #micheal kaiser #alexis ness #kaiser needs therapy stat

[mangofanarts]

I'm begging for someone to stop Dapper from wanting to farm soul hearts again and Pomme wanting to be at his side, someone PLEASE stop these two, right now

#qsmp #qsmp dapper #qsmp pomme #tw self harm mention

[kadextra]

I literally gasped when dapper said he’s hurting himself to make the potions and almost died a few times because “it doesn’t matter, if im artificial i’m just a tool”

#qsmp #liveblogging #qsmp dapper #qsmp badboyhalo #tw self harm mention

[furiousgoldfish]

from the ‘List of Common Misconceptions’ on Wikipedia 

but also, unrelated:

People are just lying all the time, it seems.

#tw self harm mention #common misconceptions #child abuse related misconceptions #quicksand dismantled #bermuda triangle dismantled #i feel cheated #quicksand was a big thing #to this day every time i would sink down in some mud I'd be sure I'm about to die #and now it's just not true??? #damn

[theguardianace]

genuinely the most important headcannon to me is that rui has scars.

scars littering his fingertips. small accidents from when he first learned to create robots, scratches from kindergarten bug hunts, slices from papercuts from old books. larger cuts born from carelessness and apathy on a lonely rooftop, in a lonely workshop. he'll cover them up with gloves during performances.

scars along his wrists. none of them deep enough to have been lethal, none of them from a true blade, but there nonetheless. it's why mizuki made his show costume have shortened sleeves, why he's gotten in the habit of rolling them up casually now. his wrists are the one place he'll never get another scar.

scars along his chest. people are people and i am me. people are boys, and girls, and anything in-between. rui is rui. he's not afraid to be himself, because that's all he's ever needed to be.

scars under his eyes. purple bags permanently etched on from countless sleepless nights. why sleep when he can create? why sleep when he'll just go to the rooftop instead of class anyways? why sleep when nothing will ever change?

scars along his heart. though he knows he won't ever feel that way ever again, though he finally has a home, loneliness has borne its mark upon him. the memory, the phantom pain, echoes on. quieter, quieter, quieter, but ever-present.

new scars. scrapes along his knees from pulling weeds along the wonder stage. splinters from the old wood of the flooring. rugburn from a slip during rehearsal. a small burn from the paste of taiyaki split right down the middle.

a box of yellow, pink, green, and purple band-aids has recently made permanent residence in his workshop.

#tw self harm mention #<- please let me know if there is anything else i should tag with this #i have mentioned rui having scars in every fic of mine. this is why.

[cluster-b-culture-is]

BPD culture is really relating to "crazy" or "screwed up" characters who do bad shit and using them to fictionally deal with the scary dark urges that come with the disorder so that you only hurt imaginary things made of words and lash out at others even emotionally or self-harm.

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#cluster b culture is #anonymous #cluster b #mod orange #bpd #bpd culture is #actually borderline #actually bpd #tw self harm mention #self harm mention tw #tw self harm #self harm tw

[jfkisonthemoon]

mar 12 oh look at that it's sycamore sunday

another sycamore, another sunday

#this time with a hershel and a jean too! #tw self harm mention #professor layton #sycamore sunday #adamdontlookatthis #professor layton spoilers

[fella-lovin-fella]

CAN I GET A HELL YEAH?

#im having a badish day today #but i stay winning!!! #look!!!!! #evidence of me slaying!!!! #not mlm #dantes talking again #tw self harm mention #tw sh related #sh mention #self harm ment #tw sh