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straighttohellbuddy · 6 months
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thinking about Lovejoy describing themselves in three words as 'Aromantic British Noises'
thinking about Lovejoy describing themselves in three words as 'Aromantic British Noises'
thinking about how the idea of aromanticism isn't nearly as widespread as it is on Tumblr/various other corners of the internet
thinking about how most people would probably assume the use of Aromantic as a descriptor would imply a lack of any kind of love or romance or close interpersonal relationships in their music which is INHERENTLY NOT TRUE
thinking about Lovejoy choosing Aromantic specifically, confident enough in understanding the actual concept/culture of aromanticism to describe their entire band
thinking about the potential for there to be someone(s) in Lovejoy who is either on the Aromantic spectrum or has considered it as a possibility and has researched it to understand it (and maybe themselves) better
thinking about hard about Lovejoys songs and realising that despite a few having vaguely romantic or implied romantic connotations, you could absolutely do an aro-spec reading of their whole discography
thinking about Lovejoy becoming part of Aro Culture in my heart
thinking about being aro-spec myself, and how id consider the term 'lovejoy' to still very much be my vibe despite that.
thinking about self described Aromantic British Noises, Lovejoy.
thinking about Lovejoy.
💚💚🤍🩶🖤
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aromanticunt · 9 months
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“Love makes you human” actually what makes me human is a large amulet that I hid hundreds of years ago that’s slowly feeding me power so my mortal body can live on forever, but you do you I guess
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sapphic-sprite · 3 months
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I feel like this needs to be said, but some of y’all really need to start learning to mind your own business when it comes to alloaros. especially alloaros who are loveless or don’t perform aromanticism the way you want it to be. being exclusively aromantic isn’t a bad thing and the only reason y’all think it could be is because of amanormativity. sort that out on your own time and stop making aromantic people explain it to you when you are perfectly capable of looking it up. thank you.
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pansyboybloom · 2 months
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"There is no platonic explanation for this" actually there is. kiss your friends. fuck your friends. marry your friends. reject the idea that intimacy solely belongs to romance. go fuck your friends!!!
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genderqueerdykes · 2 months
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while we are definitely happy for everyone celebrating, as a romance repulsed aromantic, we will not be reblogging/posting any Valentine's Day content due to always having felt alienated from and disgusted by the holiday
instead, i'd like to say that i hope that every aromantic, demiromantic, greyromantic, cupioromantic, allo aros, and every other arospectrum person, especially those of us who are romance repulsed has a great day, and that they care of themselves and prioritize their own needs for at least today. i'd also like to remind you that it's okay to dislike this holiday and want to avoid it.
it is not for us, even a partnering aromantic like myself has never enjoyed or celebrated it. i've always been forced and obligated to by past partners, and it's always been a tiring, uncomfortable, expensive slog. you should never feel obligated to spend money on something you do not wish to participate in, remember that.
take care of yourselves today, fellow aromantic spectrum people. of course it's okay if you celebrate, but if you don't, do what you want to do, fill your space and time with what you want today. feel no obligation to participate in activities that don't benefit you, spend your money how you please. keep showing people that humanity is full of diverse experiences, and don't force yourself to bend to things that do not suit you. have a great day, fellow aros
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papercranesandpride · 4 months
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I am so pissed. The whole reason we're trending is that stupid poll about if a aro cisgender heteroSEXUAL man is queer. By definition, an allo aro. And STILL, even when the entire point is recognizing allo aros as important parts of the community who exist, aro just cannot be trending without ace and ace is automatically categorized by tumblr as going with aro instead of them being separate things. Gee, I wonder why allo aros feel alienated and unrecognizedand like we're not part of our own community when even aro positivity excludes us and says that we don't belong.
I'm sorry, I know we're all celebrating aromantic being trending and we're all supposed to be happy about it. But no. I'm pissed off. What is the point of aros being visible on this website if half of us aren't visible at all? Is it really a win if all it's really conveying is the never-ending belief that one cannot possibly be aro without being ace?
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positively-bi · 7 months
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being bi doesn't take away from my aro-ness and being aro doesn't take away from my bi-ness
I am a wholly bi and wholly aro and wholly awesome :)
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fallenrain40 · 3 months
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alloaro. bluestar.
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enbyofgore · 2 months
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the-delta-quadrant · 9 months
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hihi can you do alloaro for the moon phases lock screens?
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alloaro moon phase lockscreen!
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angelofmusings · 7 months
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petition to make aloe vera an aroallo symbol
pros:
- green
- ‘aloe’ sounds like ‘allo’ + ‘vera’ is two syllables with that /r/ in the middle just like ‘aro’
- kinda spiky
cons:
- ig people might think we mean the gel specifically, not the plant as a whole?
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aromanticunt · 4 months
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when I say I’m going to marry a celebrity and some miserable person has to respond with “that’s not aromantic” I hope everyone knows I mean marriage in the most sexual non-romantic way possible, there will be zero love in our hypothetical marriage only vibes and sex and money
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sapphic-sprite · 1 year
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I wish there was more alloaro content out there. So much aro content is exclusively aroace. It also feels so unfair bc there is no shortage of alloace content. It just feels like alloaros are always kind of left behind when it comes to the a in lgbtqia.
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aro-acethetic · 5 months
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Aroallo + bass guitar for the anon!!
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aro allo rights is indulging in sex and indulging in kink and indulging in fantasy and being unapologetic about it.
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papercranesandpride · 1 month
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Shoutout to alloaros with dysphoria around sex. It really, really sucks when the form of attraction you have is one you don't feel comfortable acting on. You're just as alloaro as anyone else, even if you don't have sex, don't have certain kinds of sex, have sex but don't like it enough, don't want to have sex, etc. (To be clear, that's true for people who don't have dysphoria, too). Being sexually active has never been a requirement for being alloaro. Wanting or enjoying sex has never been a requirement for being alloaro.
And also shout out to alloaros who really do want sex but that dysphoria is getting in the way. It sucks to like sex and want sex but unfortunately your physical form is stopping you.
In very related news, you know how dysphoria gets way worse once you stop being in denial about it and accept that you do want to transition? Yeah. And I can't even get a referral to anyone until my appointment with my new primary care on June 7, so... This post is mostly for me as I navigate the lovely feelings of being an aroallo who would quite like to have sex but does not like the equipment it is working with.
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