#anti-gatekeeping

[iiammrandi]

#girlblogger #gatekeep gaslight girlboss #girly stuff #this is what makes us girls #lana del rey #tumblr girls #girlblogging #girlhood #just girly things #2014 tumblr #cats #pink pink pink #sleeping beauty #pinterest girl #anti mansplaining

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

what happened

#max squawks #anti gatekeeping #anti exclusionist #anti exclus #critinclus #anti transmedicalism #anti transmed #anti truscum #bi lesbian #mspec mono

[retiredpawg]

wow almost seems like this whole romanticization of "girlhood" thing kind of revolves entirely around consumerisim. "little treats". 10 step skincare regimens. "girl math" as an excuse to be financially illiterate. be a good girl, don't think, just spend inordinate amts of money to conform to the latest tiktok microtrend bc that's all it means to be a girl <3

#cultural critique #cultural criticism #romanticization #girlblogging #gaslight gatekeep girlboss #girl math #little treat #tiktok trend #feminism #anti beauty industry #anti beauty culture

[hussyknee]

One thing you have to remember is that online queer discourse doesn't make a damn bit of difference to systemic queerphobia irl or LGBT rights. No amount of playing respectability politics by identifying the "real freaks" will ever lead to sexual emancipation or prevent sexual violence. No amount of trying to identify and cast out "oppressors" and "infiltrators" will ever make homophobes and transphobes respect the sanctity of your sexual identity. Not letting people have words and flags and colours is absolutely nothing except a weapon for online harrassment and clout-chasing wielded by white and Western weirdos who've drunk the colonizer Kool-Aid.

#queer discourse #gatekeeping #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #pansexuality #aphobia #arophobia #transandrophobia #mspec lesbian #online harrassment #respectability politics #purity culture #kinkphobia #western leftists #white queers #anti radfem #lgbtqia #knee of huss

[iamnmbr3]

Me writing meta about Tom Riddle: *checks the book 3 times for accuracy, extrapolates based on the text, clearly denotes things that are just headcanons not specifically supported by evidence*

Albus Dumbledore writing meta about Tom Riddle: lol yeah idk his vibes were just always rancid. no i don't need to "cite my sources" wtf???

#Tom Riddle: *breathes* Albus: clearly an irredeemable dark lord in the making. #not to gatekeep the fandom but uh... albus. ur meta skills kinda suck #humor #albus dumbledore #Harry Potter #Tom Riddle #if this is a joke do i need to tag #anti albus dumbledore #? #random musings #my post

[emxritus]

I don't know which new fan of Ghost needs to hear this, but you're not a "fake" or "lesser" fan because you got into the band because of the song Mary on a Cross.

#emxritus #ghost #ghost bc #the band ghost #ghost fandom #ghost band #mary on a cross #anti gatekeeping

[chaoticautie]

Me: I’m autistic

Person: Are you diagnosed?

Me: Well it’s been confirmed by more than one professional, my old diagnosis was written on paper for my IEP but it’s outdated now (Asp*rger’s), I’ve scored very high on almost every autism test out there, and a lot of my teachers, friends, and some of my family members have suspected it

Person: Okay, but are you diagnosed NOW?

Me: …No?

Person: Then you’re not autistic.

#smfh #autism #autistic #actually autistic #partially diagnosed #partial diagnosis #autistic adult #autistic woman #autistic enby #neurodivergent #autistic things #actually neurodiverse #stop gatekeeping autism #seriously #anti gatekeeping #pro self diagnosis

[padfootastic]

it’s funny that people write remus as this badass who’s almost rolling his own cigarettes and smoking joints in the common room or wtv when that guy gives me the exact vibe as those kids in school/college who would fake cough when walking past someone smoking while making full eye contact.

or, the scared kid who’s terrified of even being near smoker because they were a sickly child and they don’t want their lungs to shrivel and die + they’re terrified of their mom

#should i tag this anti remus lupin lol #i’m not even. shitting on him #i just—can’t see him as these uber suave individual #when he barely has adequate social skills #or atleast. positive social skills lol #he can gatekeep girl boss gaslight w the best of them of course #but otherwise. bit of a scaredy cat i swear #he’s got enough going on w his wolfiness/o adding other troubles to the plate #and he’s fully internalised that #so a remus who’s not only smoking but looking cool doing it….. #lol #just funny to me s’all #and i say that as someone who unequivocally finds smoking hot #half my makeout sessions have taken place *because* i find smokers hot #so rest assured i am not morally judging #just. remus? nah #pen’s notes

[ihhfhonao3]

A-spec gatekeepers are so stupid because like. Your entire identity is showing how complex and nuanced sexuality can be and you’re saying that this specific microlabel isn’t valid? Why? Because you said so? Because sexual trauma doesn’t count? Oh, be quiet, you don’t know jack shit.

#asexual #asexuality #alloace #aroace #aromantic #aromanticism #aroallo #aspec #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #fuck gatekeeping #anti gatekeeping

[antoin-ette]

fuck this clean girl shit. I wanna be a wreck. Smudged eyeliner, overlined lip stain. Messy hair, choppy bangs, uneven ends. I want to go from listening to Lana to Paramore in the span of like three minutes. I want to smoke and fuck and live my life like its a mess bc it is and I'm not going to live very long.

#female manipulator #gaslight gatekeep girlboss #femcel #girlhood #girl blogger #girl interrupted syndrome #coquette #just girly posts #lana del rey #girlblogging #anti clean girl #courtney love #lanadelrey #paramore #hailey williams #soft grunge #indie sleaze #gaslight gatekeep girlblog #girlcore #girl interupted syndrome #girlblog aesthetic #girl boss gaslight gatekeep #hell is a teenage girl #lana del ray aka lizzy grant #pinterest girl

[beepshroom]

not all kin are spiritual.

not all kin are connected to past lives.

not all kin have kin memories.

not all kin have phantom shifts.

not all kin have mental shifts.

not all kin have species dysphoria.

we’re all different and that’s ok :)

#otherkin #alterhuman #therian #therianthropy #otherkin community #anti gatekeeping #kin

[rewrite-canon]

its what i have always feared…. the media literacy has now disappeared bcuz the male actor is hot…

#bro is the worst ever like literally #tbosas #all these new snowjanus shippers PISSING ME TF OFF #i dont even have the words. i want to gatekeep this movie now like yall dont come near lucy gray or sejanus EVER AGAIN #thg #coriolanus snow #lucy gray baird #anti snowjanus #snowjanus slander #sejanus plinth #the ballad of songbirds and snakes #rewriting

[nullbutler]

something something identity something something culture

#jumblr #jewblr #i dunno if this is the kind of thing that really belongs on my silly blog but ive been wanting to draw it for two days #this is just about feeling connection to culture #and i dunno i know the whole 'is judaism considered a race' thing is iffy as all hell #because it IS an ethnic group and i see it in basically every bloodline person ive met #there is a familiar look #our grandparents and babies look the exact same #of course converts are lovely and welcome and i'm not gatekeeping #but so long of just being like 'who am i? ah. i am nobody #i am a white girl from california who knows nothing of nothing' is a drastic understatement #i've dealt with anti semitism since i was a child #it has been everywhere #not many people understand it because its just...well we dont look that different (to the people who matter) (bad people can tell right awa #the immeasurable trauma of the holocaust and the weight of our grandparents and everything else is just so crushing...AND we look caucasian #is there no fate worse??? lmao #not saying i'm not caucasian of course i think two things can be true at once #but i think meeting someone and realizing we have the same face and with it faced the same hardship is really really meaningful #because to just say i'm some 'stupid white girl from california' is a butchering undercut of everything i actually am

[never-forget-viva-la-pluto]

I'm high so here's another thing

I don't fucking care if you listen to every punk band the earth has to offer, or of you dress like the apocalypse is nigh:

PUNK IS, AT ITS CORE, ABOUT BEING ANGRY AT SYSTEMS IN PLACE THAT HURT PEOPLE! AND TRYING TO LESSEN THAT HURT BY DESTROYING THAT SYSTEM. BY ADDENDUM, HELPING THOSE HURT BY THE SYSTEM IS ONE WAY TO DEFY SAID SYSTEM AND THAT PART SHOULD NOT BE FORGOTTEN.

So if the cishet girl with hottopic and a Taylor swift album is voting in every election she can and you are not, then she is more punk than you are. And by extension, you can't even begin to be punk if you actively try to discourage voting irl or on social media.

Like I won't gatekeep a swifty if they are doing their part in their community and trying to be a kind person, but if you don't care about your fellow human then you aren't punk, you are just an asshole and it wont take long for you to lash out at the people in need. Reminder that conservatives are made, and we are all hurt in some way.

And this isn't to say that punk shouldn't have biting and smashing and all the rage a wronged man can muster, it should, but if all you do is punch homophobes then you end up with very few queer people getting back on their feet enough to protect themselves, or better yet, fight with you.

[Gif of a black woman with a large afro saying "Vote, bitch!" End./]

#punk #vote for the love of your fellow human #please vote #voting is so important #im super high and all i can think about is voter suppression #vote by mail #vote in person #punk rock #punk rage #angry punk #like ill respect a swifty who votes faster than i respect a fan of punk who doesnt #gatekeeping is stupid #dont trust any white 'punk' that wants to start a revolution #or tell you that votes dont matter #anti voters get blocked #no time for you

[adhbabey]

Just no more gatekeeping. I know it sucks when people pretend to have shit, but most of us don't have a widespread platform where you can spread misinformation willy-nilly, you can block most of those people.

But the further you try to conspiracy theorize about fakers and attention seekers and shit, the more that you hurt the community that you're in.

Most of us have wildly inconsistent and abnormal symptoms, different from a textbook definition. Sometimes we have regular symptoms and abnormal ones. Sometimes we just mask and hide it really well. Sometimes we have outrageous and crazy symptoms that are so strange that you'd think we're making it up.

And that's what some people say. That we're making it up when we're experiencing crazy shit. Or when we're being visible or open about our disabilities or symptoms.

You are hurting us. You are hurting the disabled community by searching for fakers and assuming that people are guilty until proven innocent! No one, and i mean no one, no one has to explain or justify their disability to you, and if you can't handle that, you're fucking ableist.

And sure, there are facts to how some disorders form and exist, and people spreading misinformation is harmful. But we have the power to educate others instead of focusing on gatekeeping resources. We have the power to inform and share and create spaces. We have the power to build a stronger community. Don't go wasting that on infighting and lateral aggression.

Fight against the oppressive system, but mind your own fucking business when you don't full understand someone else's experience. Stay in your goddamn lane.

#babey posts #important #actually disabled #disability advocacy #disability pride month #anti gatekeeping #fuck fakeclaimers #cpunk #madpunk #dyspunktional

[crow-collective15]

Hey there!

Being a gatekeeper, or a caretaker or protector is hard and like ton of work!

Remember to take some time to relax, however that may look for you!

Lots of love, Charlie

#🍓 charlie #endos dni #osdd #anti endo #traumagenic system #did #osddid #system community #positivity #system positivity #system gatekeeper #system caregiver #system caretaker #system protector