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chaoticautie · 8 months

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Me: I’m autistic

Person: Are you diagnosed?

Me: Well it’s been confirmed by more than one professional, my old diagnosis was written on paper for my IEP but it’s outdated now (Asp*rger’s), I’ve scored very high on almost every autism test out there, and a lot of my teachers, friends, and some of my family members have suspected it

Person: Okay, but are you diagnosed NOW?

Me: …No?

Person: Then you’re not autistic.

#smfh #autism #autistic #actually autistic #partially diagnosed #partial diagnosis #autistic adult #autistic woman #autistic enby #neurodivergent #autistic things #actually neurodiverse #stop gatekeeping autism #seriously #anti gatekeeping #pro self diagnosis

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galacticscrotum · 7 months

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Why can’t I just be like Mr. Potato Head and interchange whatever body parts I want for the day? I can’t use a binder or trans tape or bras because it’s too shitty sensory-wise. But I don’t want too surgery because my boobs are nice sometimes

#enby #queer autistic #autistic enby #non binary #nonbinary #genderqueer #genderfluid #genderfuck #multigender #metagender #gender confusion

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thechangeling · 2 years

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I think what bothers me about the "if an autistic person does something that bothers you or makes you uncomfortable you can't complain or else you're ableist" argument is that autistic people do plenty of things that hurt and offend other autistics as well and telling us to basically just suck it up kind of feels like we've circled back around into ableism.

Like sure sometimes people just accuse us of being creepy and we're literally just vibing or being honest, or communicating in a way that feels natural to us and not realizing how ot might come across, but that doesn't mean people can't be like "I'm not ok with that" and choose to not want to be around you.

I don't think it's respectability politics to acknowledge that there are some things that people naturally do that piss other people off or make them uncomfortable autistic or not, and everyone should have the right to walk away when they want.

It's also incredibly infantilizing and coddling to act like autistics are incapable of learning how to not cross personal boundaries and learn that No means No when told so. Like so many times I was harassed by autistic boys as a young autistic "girl" and my teachers and EAs were like "oh he's autistic he can't help it."

Meanwhile my autistic lesbian ass was HYPER aware of my interactions with other people, especially girls always trying my absolute hardest not to do anything to make them uncomfortable to the point where I would sacrifice my own comfort for the sake of others. Obviously neither of these is a good option, the ideal is probably somewhere in the middle. But the point is it is possible to teach us these things, these lessons just aren't being taught to certain types of autistics (ie mainly white cishet boys) because society seems to be fine with them exerting control over the rest of us and then using autism as an excuse if anyone complains.

This isn't me being like fuck autistic men btw. I have autistic men in my family and in my life who I love and respect. I think this issue as a whole comes from societal ableism and gender essentialism.

So yeah, there's nuance.

#i hope this makes sense. autism is a communication disability and sometimes i struggle with being understood properly.#actually autistic #autistic things #being autistic #autistic enby

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blueberrybubbleteah · 2 years

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Why u so obsessed with me?

#chubby #autistic enby #enby selfie #nonbinary #genderfluid #eyeliner

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theadhdgoblin · 1 year

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#adhd memes #actually autistic #goblin things #adhd #being autistic #enby things #adhdlife #adhd things #autistic burnout #adhd problems #adhd artist #actually adhd #adhd goblin

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the-foolish-ghoulish · 6 months

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I don't have much to say so here's a fun fact!

I usually draw my characters facing left because I'm biased and just kidding, I'm actually left-handed despite both of my parents being right- handed, what.

I'm basically in the top ten percent, no need to get jealous >:]

But, yeah, I looked it up once and one of the top search results said that a child still has about a 10% chance to be the opposite of the parents dominant gene lol

#i don't know how #it just happened #autistic enby #but anyway #have a good day

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genderqueerdykes · 1 month

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🏳️‍🌈 Severely disabled trans person in need of money for rent, bedding, necessities, & food after recovering from homelessness ♿

hello, i am a multiply disabled autistic trans person who was just homeless for 6 months straight. i am mstruggling with schizophrenia, PTSD, DID, hypermobile ehlers danlos syndrome, and arthritis0. i use a cane and wheelchair. i had to live in a hotel for 2 months almost exactly which ate through my f unds and sal es. i appreciate everything that has been done for me thus far, orders have resumed shipping now that people have aided with us getting a new printer

you can find these new pieces on our Ko-Fi shop, among others, even sharing this post does a lot for us. thank you, i really appreciate all of the support and kindness during this time in my life. you kept a disabled trans person housed for 6 months. we can't thank you enough!

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pocket-dragon · 3 months

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It's not cause their tieflings but she is on to something

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slut4maryjane420 · 1 year

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update: work is cool i think.

someone i went to middle school w is also working there! which was shocking tbh. but it made me so so much less anxious.

i really like my boss.

i have a shift tmr at 4.

i am so tired.

goodnight tumblr <3

#personal blog #mentally ill #anxiety #anxious #girlblog but im enby #girlblogging #autizzy #black autistic #autistic enby #black neurodivergent

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a-teacup-of-golden-cracks · 6 months

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Kink is when you start buying sex gear at non sex shops

#nsft #topposting #trans nsft #nonbinary nsft #lgbt nsft #196 #bottomposting #shitpost #shitposting #autistic nsft #enby nsft #kinkposting #the jolly writings

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nillinlore · 5 months

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I really need, just, like, more casual oral. Especially while I'm working. I just want to be writing my book while a trans queer cutie slowly, playfully sucks me off, rubs my thighs, and nuzzles their cute little gay face against my full balls.

And then once I'm all done for the day, and my cock is throbbing and dripping with their saliva, I can grab their cute little gay face and fuck their mouth until I spill my mess down their hungry throat.

Is that so much to ask?

#queer nsft #enby nsft #nonbinary nsft #t4t nsft #nsft t4t #trans nsft #lgbt nsft #autistic nsft #nsft trans #ftm nsft #nsft puppy #transmasc nsft

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festeringhorror · 8 months

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Oh to be fucked into oblivion by a horrifyingly beautiful Angel

Or to be this terrifying all-knowing being and playing with an adorable little mortal priest or nun like a doll, not paying any mind when they start to shake

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galacticscrotum · 4 months

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I feel like my sexual orientation and my gender identity are linked, at least sometimes. Either that, or I just feel like I have to change myself to others’ preferences at the expense of my own gender expression.

I’m abrosexual and genderqueer. I don’t shave my armpits or any of my body hair. When I hook up with someone, I feel this pressure to conform to feminine beauty standards and shave at least my armpits. So it makes me want to alter a form of my gender expression, my body hair, depending on who sees it. I want people to see me for who I am, but if there’s a hot straight guy who would be more likely to fuck me if I’m more feminine then I adapt. Ideally the hot guy would find me just as hot with or without the body hair, and like that I’m non-binary and not try to make me be a woman for them.