Weird little thought I had yesterday…
So Love Island, I’ve seen a bit, seen all of S03 and almost all of the latest one (Ekin-Su brings the entertainment) obviously I’m talking about UK since it’s the OG Love Island.
But what if
and bear with me here…
Love Island Celeb edition, imagine the fun! Imagine tons of celebs choosing to couple up with other celebs, I’d laugh my head off
I can’t be the only one wanting this now?!
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If I had a quid for every time a bigoted right-wing British politician who actively ruined thousands of lives during a difficult time had his actions forgiven by the British public because he went on I’m A Celebrity: Get Me Out of Here! and ate monkey testicles or some shit, I’d have £2. Which isn’t a lot but it’s fucking depressing that it’s happened twice
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reading through your hinote tags it was interesting to learn that Raf still likes preforming and even misses playing large shows, but avoids getting sucked back into it. As an adult, you'd think he could just return to preforming on his own terms and play any stage he wants. Does a fear of success keeps him away from it? Sorry if this was already explained somewhere and I missed it.
Sssorta haha! He doesn't want to gain too much traction and attract media attention, because it'll inevitably liken his current career/his current self to his past...And almost none of the things he had said about himself, very few of the views he presented in interviews and such, none of it was really him, what he believed, what he liked, or how he, himself, wanted to be perceived. He likes playing the character on stage, but hates the notion of that character following him and being projected onto him in day to day life.
On one hand, he doesn't want random people to see him and know him accurately--which is why the stage persona is so great. But on the other hand, the media personality his mother curated is too far removed from his own tastes and sensibilities, that it feels like an ill-fitting skin and makes him physically uncomfortable to be identified as and associated with it.
Increased visibility as a performer would kinda force him to contend with that in a way he really would rather not. It's not worth it for him. AND he does not want to attract his family's attention. He doesn't want them contacting him about his career. He wants to be as tiny and invisible to them as possible.
Secondly, and more acutely, though--his symptoms after a show--any show--really suck. He gets nervous leading up to a performance, but it's usually perfectly manageable. He's normally in relatively good spirits about it. Then on stage, he gets a nice little thrill and the feeling of "man, yeah! I need to let myself do this more often!"
But then, once the show is over, he's in the backstage bathroom vomiting, and spends the next week struggling to recover from a depressed hangover with 0 motivation, energy, or excitement for anything. He hasn't...figured out how to avoid this extremely consistent pattern. It's weird, because he feels fine during the performance, even if there's a break in between or some such. But as soon as it's properly over, the nerves hit him hard--and once the anxiety passes, he's just an exhausted, deflated, apathetic husk with a very, very low mood about it.
That's what kinda keeps him off the stage, and prevents him from doing shows on any kind of consistent basis. He can only really commit to doing them if he's feeling really good about things--and if he can afford the inevitable "crash" week that always follows. If that were less of an ailment for him, he might be more inclined to at least humor the idea of reinventing his persona and returning to musical performance on a more serious/professional/consistent basis.
Alas.
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Is Love Really Blind?
The famous Netflix series Love Is Blind has come back with a new season and it keeps proving itself wrong.
Love Is Blind is a dating show different from any other, in fact, you are supposed to create a deep connection with someone without the ability to see them, at least until you decide to marry that person. What happens after the capsules shows exactly how difficult it is to be with a person you could only fantasize about, in past seasons many had their difficulties associating the person they had before them with the voice that connected with them at a deeper level.
But is love really blind?
I personally love the concept and the idea behind it, loving a person not because of their looks, whether they’re considered beautiful or not socially speaking, but because of who they really are. In an ideal world, everyone is attracted to others because of their personality rather than looks, but unfortunately, humans don’t work that way and this show is the primary example.
There have been many participants in the past who have asked others about their bodies but this new season has set a new record with so many people going against the program’s whole philosophy.
From comments on the color of their skin to admitting to plastic surgery, it seemed like no one even tried to follow the experiment’s ideals.
The main example is Clay, he’s been very honest yet hypocritical. He asks AD about her physical appearance and when she replies confused, he admits that he, for once, had to be sure that he was going to be attracted to her physically to be able to propose to her. I’m not going to argue with his ideal but I don’t understand why he thought that participating in a show where you specifically have to propose to someone without seeing them first was a good idea.
Many of them, in fact, asked each other questions about their appearance, some of them were innocent and others were more serious, but Clay stood out because of how direct he was on the matter. It just goes to show that love is never really blind, surely there are cases in which the couples found themselves both emotionally through the capsule and physically once they were out, but that’s just a few of them.
I feel like the show should try to stop the participants from asking that kind of question and give them a penalty or something to better showcase their theory.
Another person that really stood out to me was Chelsea. She knew she was in competition with another woman for the same man and so she dropped the bomb “Sometimes they say I look like a celebrity, like that one, MGK’s girlfriend or wife” and, Jesus, the dude’s face as he realized that she was talking about Megan Fox, at that point he had associated the actress with her. She tried to make it sound so casual but it was obvious that she wanted him to know that information to make sure he would’ve been attracted to her more, I personally cringed a bit and thought it was a bit too much considering what show they’re taking part in.
That being said, their physical appearance indeed does change how they treat each other once they’re outside of the capsules, while for some people it worked out pretty well and they liked each other, there were a few couples that clearly did not have the same privilege.
Falling in love without seeing each other and without caring about the other’s aspect can indeed happen but most of the time love is not only an emotional connection but also a physical one, everyone has their own taste and can like whatever they prefer. It’s difficult to love someone if you don’t like them 100%, that being their appearance, personality, thoughts, qualities and flaws. I really enjoy being able to see how these people connect with each other without being able to see or touch one another, it’s refreshing and, in some ways, comforting. But the magic stops once they can meet up, after that Love Is Blind is just another superficial dating show filled with drama and behind scenes moments that are not shared with the public and, from what I’ve heard, they’ve not treated the participants with respect.
What do you think about it? Let me know with a comment!
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By the way the celebrity industry being infested with predatory contracts, homophobia, sexism, predatory power imbalances, manipulation, fake relationships/wealth/controversy and otherwise immoral and dangerous aspects is not a conspiracy theory ❤
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