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agassorg · 2 years

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#parents #parenting #parent #parenthood #children #parentalité #parentslove #dad #maman #parentingtips #enfants #chubbykids #parentlife #famille #mom #dads #dadlife #kids #fatherhood #family #enfant #grandparents #momlife #parentslife #papa #motherhood #father #parentsbelike #babyloves #teachers (at India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CePp9kBvEW5/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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cynicalsonya · 5 years

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"Grammy's not so nice" by Nic, 3rd grade

What follows is an essay written by my 9 yr old, Nic. They are an awesome kiddo: clever, thoughtful and kind. They are friendly and cheerful.

I grew up fat/chubby. My mom was a jerk about it (and a jerk about other things too), but she denies everything. She denies it so hard, and for so many years that I doubted my own memories. I didn't believe I was an abused child. I believed I was a bad child. Even now it's hard for me to acknowledge it was not my fault, and I will sometimes get the shivers or have rumbly tummy problems if I talk about her negatively. It's weird that I have a negative physical reaction to the truth, but when it comes to my mom abusing me, I do.

My mom has changed over the years, usually for the better. She's usually nice to my kids, especially Nic, who is by far the sweetest, most optimistic, most trusting child I have. Her language in this post gets a bit shocking, to any who know her well, but I think does a good job of showing how much this visit changed her.

My mom likes Nic, or at least she *did* like Nic before they also became chubby. When my kiddo came home after a visit with my mother with a list of bad behavior of my mom, I told Nic to write it down. I told Nic not to talk to my mother until they had written it down. I told them this because I believed my mom would tell Nic it had never happened (she did). What follows is Nic's account of their visit with my mother.

I no longer allow my mother unsupervised visits with my kids.

Grammy’s Not So Nice

My Grammy is not so nice and I don’t like that, but I do like telling people about my experiences. I am here to tell you about my unpleasant experiences with Grammy, in which she picked on me about health, math, and food. So, yeah, let’s get started.

It was mid-December. My family said that it was a good idea to visit my grandma’s (and last time it was fun), so I went. But I was wrong. It sucked donkey balls.

I’m homeschooled. So since she was public schooled, she thought she needed to test me on my smartness.

She Made Me Feel Bad About Math

She Pops Up Random Quizzes a Lot.

We had just gotten back from a shopping trip and as soon as I sat down to knit she asked “what is 2000 times 2000?” I got it wrong, so she got really mad saying stuff like “I knew it” and ’’I should have known’’. Somehow what she didn’t know was that I was in 3rd grade and could barely do single digit times tables. I had been in bed for a little while when suddenly she asked me again “what is 2000 times 2000?” Maybe she thought that I used my calculator. Probably not though, she wasn’t testing me on button pressing. She got mad…again. Later, we were at the mall and once again she asked ”what is 2000 times 2000?” She got mad…again and again and again and I was eventually too grumpy to care.

She Refuses to Explain More Than the Basic Question

We were at a restaurant and they did trivia there. One question had something to do with cubic feet and she thought that I knew it. I didn’t, so I asked her to explain it. She just said the question again. She didn’t explain it any further than the original question, but kept pushing me to answer it.

She Makes Me Feel Bad About Getting the Quiz’s Questions Wrong

One time, she gave me a quiz out of the blue and I got the questions wrong. Afterwards, she teased and belittled me and now I’m really mad.

She Made Me Feel Bad About My Health

She Said that I’m Too Fat

Grammy said that she was going to get me a dress. When we went to Children’s Place, she specifically got dresses that didn’t fit me, but were on sale. There were other dresses that were on sale that I liked, and that fit me. Mom had told Grammy my sizes and I know that Children’s Place carries them, because I’m wearing something from them right now as I type this and it fits great. But she got basically five or so of the same dress- the same size, just different colors. And she knew that it wouldn’t fit me, because it wasn’t the size Mom told her. Plus, after the first one, the second one shouldn’t have been a big surprise, ya know? And on top of everything else, she wouldn’t let me try on the clothes alone. She insisted on going into the changing room with me.

I tried on the clothes like she told me to, but they just didn’t fit. I’d get the dresses on as far as I could, and she’d tell me that I wasn’t trying hard enough and try to shove me in further. Like, even if it had worked, who would’ve wanted to wear something that was that horribly tight? Good grief, lady. So she’d eventually give up and sigh dramatically with each dress and tell me to move on to the next one, like it was somehow this big deal that yet again the same freaking dress didn’t fit. And when I made it through all the dresses, she was like “you’re just too fat, I guess. No dresses for you.” And we left. Well, you’re just too much of a jerk, I guess, Grammy. No hugs for you.

She Said that I’m Unhealthy

So we-by which I mean they- got Taco Bell and because I was ”so unhealthy’’ I only got a bag of green beans. They claimed that they were so healthy they got tacos. Grammy got two Taco Bell meals and didn’t give me any. She said that we were going to Taco Bell and got two bags of cinnamon twists and only told me that I wasn’t getting Taco Bell after we went. When I asked about my tacos, she pointed across the room and said “your green beans are over there”. So I stole a cinnamon twist. Bitch.

She Made Me Feel Bad About What I Eat

She Said That I Eat Too Much

So we were at home and they asked what I wanted to eat for lunch so I requested a meal and they thought that that was too much and they said “No you get a tiny p b and j sandwich” and she even took it away saying “you are eating too fast “so I took it and ate it quickly to spite them.

She Said That I Eat Too Much Chicken

We were at McDonalds and I requested chicken nuggets and they said “No you eat too much chicken already’’ and do you know what I got? A peanut butter and jelly sandwich.

We Got a Happy Meal and She Only Let Me Eat the Apple Slices

Grammy said that we were going to McDonald’s. I was super excited. But when we got there, the order was for two Big Macs and one Happy Meal. When we got to the table, both Robert and Grammy ate the Big Macs in front of me and then started to eat the nuggets and fries out of my Happy Meal. I asked what my food was and they said “apple slices”. When they went to the bathroom, I stole one nugget and one fry. My reign of terror cannot be stopped! Well, that and I was pretty hungry. They also got me the Happy Meal with the Minions toy and I hate Minions. But, like, hey, why not just buy me an apple at that point? I like apples.

In Conclusion

Thank you for listening to my stories and I hope you have better experiences with your grandma than I have.

I have an update! I just had a phone call with Grammy and she gaslit me a bunch. (Gaslighting means making someone think that they didn’t have a certain experience.) For one example, I talked to her about the green beans incident, and she said “I did not do that.” Well, it must have been ten thousand spiders wearing a hollowed-out Grammy suit, then, because it sure looked and sounded like you!

I also told her during that call that my gender is gender fluid. So she said ’’but you are a girl!’’ Now they are not mutually exclusive, because gender is a role and I think that she was referring to my biological sex, but she wouldn’t listen to me explain it. Plus, my anatomy really isn’t any of her business. I like to be called gender fluid because I don’t see myself as just having one role I have to stick to. I get to decide what roles I conform to from day to day!

#bad grandmother #badgrandma #abusedchild #child abuse #emotionalabuse #psychological abuse #chubbykids #chubby child #fat phobia #body shame #abusive grandparent #fat kid

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bettyohno · 5 years

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Japanese cucumber. Pretty tasty. Good plant. Fun variety. Cute chubby lil kids. 🥒 Not quite as sweet as marketmore but very fresh taste. Great with toasted sesame oil, chili paste, soy sauce, rice vinegar and toasted sesame seeds.

#japanese #cucumber #fresh #salad #garden blog #garden update #plantblog #food #chubbykid

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chubbykid11 · 6 years

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I want video chubby kid

#chubbykid

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emartsypants · 4 years

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Looking back at these pictures of myself I realized that I was a cute kid. I wish I would have realized that when I was younger. I wish I could have told her to stop trying to grow your hair out and just be bald and confident. It would have saved me a lot of tears and anger. All those years trying to “fix” myself when I should have been happy with myself. But that’s life you know. When your younger you don’t know better and you just want to be normal and belong. Well now I am not “normal” and I do belong. People like me for just the way I am. . . . #throwback #trichotillomania #littlekid #confidence #photography #belong #shavedhead #chubbykid #childhood #bebrave #ificouldturnbacktime https://www.instagram.com/p/B-tpvHNJabQ/?igshid=121bngt9j7t4v

#throwback #trichotillomania #littlekid #confidence #photography #belong #shavedhead #chubbykid #childhood #bebrave #ificouldturnbacktime

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im-nora-ephron-bitch · 4 years

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Mardi Gras feels. #fattuesday #throwbacktuesday #chubbykid https://www.instagram.com/p/B9As3VQBmjm/?igshid=1v76482mp1nh6

#fattuesday #throwbacktuesday #chubbykid

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howdoghd · 4 years

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Yallonthegruh? #memeart #artistfollow #digitalart #motiongraphics #animatedmeme #graffitiart #colorart #crazyart #dailymemes #dailyartwork #followartist #followforfollowback #strangeart #chubbykid #ymhpodcast #ymhstudios #artoftheday #wonky #adart #addmeonthegram #memes #cartoonistsofinstagram @ymh @seguratom @thechristinap @ymhstudios @josh_potter @yourmomshousepodcast #tomsegura #ymh #yourmomshousepodcast #christinapazsitsky #cartoonart #lowbrowart #weirdart #animationmeme https://www.instagram.com/p/B8ef0Ojjd5t/?igshid=bxbnkkreygvu

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honestlykeagan-blog · 4 years

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I don't see much of a difference in ten years but this will be the daily post. You're always changing and change is good. Just remember to be yourself and never let anyone tell your story for you. You are the only you out there. #tenyearchallenge #tenyears #wow #dailypost #winning #growingup #ifeelattacked #chubbykid https://www.instagram.com/p/B5NgcRUA2ax/?igshid=1zq02icp7esy

#tenyearchallenge #tenyears #wow #dailypost #winning #growingup #ifeelattacked #chubbykid

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ladislessia · 7 years

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#pool #swimming #underwater #chubby #chubbykid

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fatgirlsguidetodating · 7 years

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Pretty much since I learnt to write I've been writing stories and then novels. My first ever story has been kept by mum and is about a tiger the wind blew apart (don't ask, though this should have been a clue as to my adult fascination with crime and death perhaps?). I'm convinced Spielberg will make a classic out of "One Windy Day." Lately I've been trying to go through drawers, shelves, boxes etc in an effort to streamline. Clothes I've sent a lot to the op shop, most barely worn or even with tags on. You are probably wondering what my point is. Well I found a box of old diaries and notebooks and in them were many old stories. And in them I noted one super consistent theme. Most were written between 13-16 I'd say, give or take, and one thing I noticed that was prevalent in every single one of them was a description of the now adult me (always at least 18) and every single time the description included my blonde hair, blue eyes, my glasses gone or replaced by contacts and, most importantly, no longer the chubby child/fat teenager but transformed from an overweight bug in a cocoon to a slim, pretty (not gorgeous but averagely pretty) butterfly. Because my self-confidence always got stuck on being the "fat four eyed girl." Because that was how others saw me so it was how I did. (I remember once in year 11 having our school photo taken and one of the boys the row behind me saying well if we fall at least we will have a fat cushion to fall on. I said nothing but in that photo you can see a look of hurt on my face. Incidentally two years later I was studying legal at uni and he was working in the reject shop still with such bad acne nothing could make him lol attractive even though he'd been one of the popular group at high school.) My point is I've always thought if I lost the weight my life would miraculously become perfect. I'd get the husband, have money to travel, but a house and nice car, have a kid or two, and a white picket fence. But you know what? That's not true. Life will only ever be what you make of it. So far I've lost 16 kilos. I've got plenty more to go (I keep changing the goal weight down lower and lower but I know I'll have to stop at some point because being super skinny might have similar issues- albeit reversed- as being bigger) but I'll get there. I don't expect Prince Charming to knock on my door the moment those dreaded scales show me the magic number but I also know men will be more interested so perhaps I'll get my happy ending then? Fatgirl.

#blog #dating #love #relationships #fatgirlsguidetodating #fatgirlproblems #diaries #stories #transformation #happiness #diet #highschool #chubbykid #fatteenager #emergingfrommycocoon #butterfly

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agassorg · 2 years

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#parents #parenting #parent #parenthood #children #parentalité #parentslove #dad #maman #parentingtips #enfants #chubbykids #parentlife #famille #mom #dads #dadlife #kids #fatherhood #family #enfant #grandparents #momlife #parentslife #papa #motherhood #father #parentsbelike #babyloves #teachers (at USA and UK) https://www.instagram.com/p/CePp3X_v7zL/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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ustadhome1 · 4 years

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khyatidhankar · 5 years

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❤️ #zimmyzido #naughtykids #cute #lovebaby #cutekidsonly #cutekidsmodel #lovekids #babyloves #cutie #cutiepie #chubbycheeksforlife #chubbychubby #naughtybaby #fat #fatkid #fatbabys #chubbykids #babyshower #babycuteness #cutenessoverload #newborn #mytinyhuman #terriblytinytales #worldbaby #cutebabygirls #babyfashion #chubbyness #cutecute #funnyisfunny #funnybabyvideos (at Mumbai, Maharashtra) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0lx1wdjCkl/?igshid=1mjtm4y6zr8kp

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mxxnicky · 7 years

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Heavy Weights is on Netflix and I couldn't be happier!!!! If you haven't watched this movie and like some laughs, chubby kids, and the 90s this is perfect for you! 🖤🐘🖤🐄🖤🐳🖤🐋🖤 . . . . . #heavyweights #90s #movienight #netflix #chubbykids #benstiller #disney #90smovie #90sdisney #chubbyboys #fatcamp #1995 #favorite #my90skidisshowing #90skid (at Fremont, California)

#fatcamp #my90skidisshowing #90skid #chubbykids #1995 #heavyweights #benstiller #90s #disney #90sdisney #chubbyboys #90smovie #favorite #movienight #netflix

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mynatattoos · 3 years

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