#for cw or whatever

[machidielontheway]

this weekend was choir getaway weekend and one of the chorist (who sits behind me when we're singing) learned just after getting there on saturday that her husband is tested positive covid....

why didn't you know he was going to be tested. couldn't you wait / be late one hour to do a self test before coming to a place with thirty people breathing in the same room for hours on end

she put a mask on but was not told to go back home and ok, it's one hour of travel back home, it was the beginning of the day, fiiiiiiine

she still ate without her mask on the big table lol. i specifically took a table as far from her as possible. also no info was given i knew she was contact case just because i asked one of her friend

thankfully she couldn't stay after the afternoorn (planned beforehand) so she left then and wasn't there on sunday. all the people she spent one hour in the drive on the morning without a mask were still here tho.

4. she is coming tonight to rehearsal and i'm like ????? if you're still contact case you're NOT supposed to come. it has been said MANY TIMES in the group whatsapp (yes there is communication problems in this choir.)

and i don't know what to do like. if she has a mask on at least she has it but she's not supposed to come. and if she has not a mask on.... like what do i do ? just go back home when everybody saw me come ???

also we had fucking annoying and long term changes at work we learned about and i'm not in a very good mood so i don't know what to do

like what do you when people don't have the decency to respect and distanciate ? do i just send her a message "hey i'm one of those poor fuckers that still try not to have covid/again, are you wearing a mask tonight ? do you not live with your husband ? do you know you're not supposed to come ?" fcking

she's super nice as a person but this right now is INFURIATING ME

#3615 my life #by which i mean it makes me want to cry. #covid19 #for cw or whatever

[valeriapryanikova]

she kinda cryptid

#i was trying to do a very specific thing with lighting and i failed But i like the end result anyway so whatever lol #geminitay #hemitcraft #mcyt #fanart #blood cw #eyestrain cw #<- maybe? :P

[glitchdollmemoria]

please can we stop describing bigots as delusional. please. im so fucking tired. someone being sucked into a hate group surrounded by others who believe minorities should be oppressed and encouraging them to believe in conspiracy theories that the rest of the group believes, is fundamentally different from someone having a mental illness that causes delusions.

delusions, by definition, cannot be explained by things like cultural background - such as having a belief constantly reinforced by intentional attempts to rationalize it for the sake of maintaining power over minorities. yes, someone can be both delusional and a bigot, and yes conspiracy theories can feed into delusions, but the two are not fucking synonymous.

i did not spend my teen years convinced that i was being stalked by demons just to hear so many of you people equate my disability with incel behavior and genocidal propaganda. stop reinforcing harmful connotations about mental health struggles.

#ok to rb #mental health advocate #mental health advocacy #mental health awareness #ableism cw #sanism cw #madpunk #neuropunk #actually delusional #actually schizospec #im not gonna interact with the post that prompted this #because i do agree with everything that was said and dont want to sound like im defending the assholes discussed #but i also am still fucking pissed about seeing a bunch of misogynistic jackasses compared to a disability #which has caused me immense fear and suffering #and guess what! my delusions were never ''women shouldnt have rights'' or whatever else #bc thats not a delusion thats a tool of the partriarchy to maintain the status quo #genocide cw #to be safe

[theslowesthnery]

coughs

#fandom discourse cw #not strictly just fandom but whatever that's my tag

[asphelissorcery]

UTY SPOILERS!!!!

showdown

#undertale yellow spoilers #uty spoilers #uty #undertale yellow #starlo uty #starlo #north star uty #north star #cw eyestrain #can’t tell if i like this or not rn #but haven’t drawn in a month and a half so. whatever #also tumblr screwed up the image quality.. sorry bout that

[no-nightingalez]

I don’t understand the concept of sex as the natural progression of romance. I understand having sex, I understand how it can be romantic, I just don’t understand how it is seen as the only course that romance takes.

Like love confessions immediately turning to sex is always so ???????? to me. Like ok get it I guess but how did we get here???

#it’s just very confusing to me #i don’t quite get how romance and sex are connected #to me those are two very disconnected things #like yeah i could probably hook up with a hot girl at a club #but i don’t think id ever confess my love to someone and immediately #jump their bones or whatever #what even is love actually #might be aro #idk #asexual #aroace #cw sex mention #asexuality #cw sexuality #arospec #acespec #my txt

[collaredkittyboy]

Well it's come up multiple times today so I'll make a post about it.

I think the popularization of the word "twink" has ultimately been really bad for people in general.

I know it's hard to track the positive and negative effects of language but I don't think it's hard to see how creating a word for a group of people wherein the most consistent qualifying trait is "being skinny" is healthy for people's self image. Obviously people have lots of ideas about what it means to be a twink- gay, lacking body hair, feminine, beautiful, young, white- but the most consistent descriptor I've seen is "skinny." Hell, it's even a body type on Grindr; the size below "average."

So it kind of functions as a code word in the gay community: anyone can say that they're only interested in twinks and they don't have to look shallow by saying they only like skinny guys. It's such an accepted attitude that no one really bats an eye when they hear it.

I'm not even going to get into how it's become part of the larger issue of people turning "top" and "bottom" into gender roles 2.0, but that is closely related, because people with any internalized homophobia can look at a skinny, feminine man and turn off their fag alarms by viewing him as a woman or not a "real" man, and it makes twinks more acceptable to society at large.

No, ignoring all of that, one of the biggest issues is that gay men are taught by society that they are only attractive while they are skinny. Just having the label "twink" reminds a boy that people are looking at his body and judging it. There were countless times when I was growing up that people would tell me, "You're such a twink," or argue about whether or not I qualified as a twink because I had body hair. People around you, unpromted, judge your body and give you a label based on it, and that label has a large influence on whether or not you're seen as objectively attractive. I know many other gay people who say they wish they were a twink so they could be more attractive to guys.

So think, you have all these kids growing up being told whether or not they qualify as a twink, and then we have the gay community as a whole where it's completely acceptable to say you're only attracted to twinks. I think its because of all of this pressure to be a twink (in other words, to have a below average weight) that many of the gay people that I interact with struggle with a negative body image or eating disorders.

I mean, people talk about "twink death" like it's an actual event that makes a gay man much less attractive, and no one thinks that, maybe, it's harmful to tell a guy that the very day he stops being young and thin and pretty, he will stop being attractive and celebrated?

I'm not qualified to speak on fatphobia in physical queer spaces because I don't have the ability to frequent them where I live, but I can't imagine that these aren't issues at social gatherings as well. I also can't speak on my own experiences with weight discrimination because so far in my life I have had a naturally thin body, but I have experienced a lot of outside pressure to be thin that have caused me to pick up unhealthy eating habits to reduce my weight in fear that I could become fat later on. Thankfully that is something that I've mostly been able to work past. I'm not an expert, but idk, I just wanted to rant on my silly tumblr blog.

Obviously it's impossible for a word to be inherently bad. I'm not trying to imply that saying "twink" is a magic word with evil powers. Obviously the real issues at play here are fatphobia and harmful beauty standards and body shaming. But in my opinion, the popular use of the word twink has made it much easier and acceptable to express fatphobia, etc, in the gay community by turning "skinny person" into a "type of guy that you should try to be so you can be attractive."

#i know i sound annoying and woke but this is my blog and i can post whatever i want :3 #theres so much more to say but this is long enough as it is #no ones gonna read this anyway #gay #queer issues #fatphobia #cw ed mention

[pigeon-noises]

"You feel sick" That one line you could get after waking up had me thinking hard about some things

#in stars and time #siffrin #sketchbook #isat bonnie #isat mirabelle #isat odile #isat isabeau #none of my friends have played this game so I simply have to roll around in a corner by myself #also for whatever reason this won't show up on my dash or tags but I wanted to post it anyhow #cw blood #cw death #isat spoilers #isat #myart #fanart #sketches

[niinnyu]

Red in your hair.

#wooo first dungeon meshi post! #just wanted to redraw this panel since they didnt animate it... #her blood on her hands.. in her hair.. her hair that is very important as a mage... yeah #also just what a cool panel i had to take a deep breathe when i was reading oof #also sleep walking orchestra has been stuck in my head its so good #the one distortion when “or it's a demon” lyrics is on loop muah muah #i did hope bump of chicken would do the wha opening but this fits the vibe too yumm #anyway... marcille :D #marcille donato #dungeon meshi #dunmeshi #marcille dunmeshi #dungeon meshi fanart #also wth is delicious in dungeon... dungeon dining if you wanna keep the alliteration #but whatever #cw blood #niinnyu arts

[cheatsylu]

I saw your request thing at the bottom of your Hyrule and Wild drawing! Could you also draw Wars and Twilight being silly? I feel like they should get the chance to be idiots together

Who supplied them with the famous xxx beverage? I want a word with you

#linked universe #linkeduniverse #lu #lu warriors #lu twilight #yeah no i dont know what i was going for here #y'see i dont sketch these out and whatever happens happens #with this 1 i accidentally drew 2 ears on wars #and i was like 'oh yeah i know what'll be perfect' #you requested silly ya got silly! #thanks for the request anon c: #cw alcohol #just in case #doodle

[sollucets]

WORD OF HONOR || EPISODE EIGHTEEN

#wohedit #word of honor #wenzhou #cw flashing #userbon #baek1nho #lextag #tuserashinlae #userhanyi #tostrangers #rowan gifs #💜💜💜 #ive done my best to get over whatever happens in my brain and also in photoshop every time i try to gif word of honor #so i can try inflicting this particular tiny little moment on you all #sleep-deprived still-sick hormonal rowan nearly cried over this one second of smile

[wellfine]

"Five minute truce?" "Four minutes."

#one piece #opfanart #sanji #roronoa zoro #description in alt text #eyestrain #kicking my feet drawing my 43045859657th picture of zoro and sanji just Standing There. whatever #blood cw

[civetside]

i FINISHED NONA LAST NIGHT witch means i can finally look at the tlt tags on socials and such without fear of spoilers and i did it i survived (not unharmed my heart is broken and ill never recover)

#nona the ninth spoilers #nona the ninth #tlt shitposting #tlt #gideon nav #cw ianthe tridentarius #GIRL im so glad cam was in it a lot i love her sm kiss kiss #yes i did the same joke twice but i think now its double funny #do you think when harrow got back in her body she just started #throwing up pencil lead and erasers and rocks n whatever or like

[transjudas]

two crowds, almost 20 years apart. (x, x)

#gerard way #mcr #mcredit #my chemical romance #flashing cw #gonna tag this #f slur #cause for probably the first time on my page it's showing up that way #rather than me calling myself a jolly lil faggot or whatever

[solargeist]

if this is how i die, lord, why be left with no family and no friends

#my art #3rd life #trafficblr #cw blood #grian #IDK . wutEver. WHATEVER. doodle. #im listening to musicals again. feeling crazy. as always #this is b4 he jumps

[cherrirui-official]

@ohposhers I blame you for this

J*hn D*ry do NOT interact 😤✋

#JUST TO BE CLEAR THIS IS NOT THE DRAWING I MENTIONED IN MY PREVIOUS POST LMAO #i just saw the post and dropped everything to make this #clay on the cross rip bozo #this is the first time ive drawn clay can u guys tell? #i cant believe i dont post art for like a week(??) And then this is the first art thing i post after that #but this was too funny to pass up #one day I'll draw clay normally but today isnt that day ahaha #anyways yall enjoy this for now til my birthday art post in like two days and then it's back to business #do i even put this in the main tags????? fuck it whatever #trolls band together #trolls bruce #trolls clay #cw crucifixion #tw crucifixion #bro (clay) is NOT having it