#it's the lack of self‐awareness for me

[fuckmeyer]

Isabella Swan, Local Vampire Fucker & Werewolf Lover, wants you to know she's Cautious and Responsible

#LOVE THIS BITCH!!!!!!!! #this line made me literally lol #girl what the HELL are you talking about???????? you jumped off a cliff like 3 weeks ago!!!!!! get help!!!!! #the twilight renaissance #twilight renaissance #twilight #twilight saga #the twilight saga #bella swan #edward cullen #jacob black #twilight meme #twilight eclipse #fun fact! her lack of self-awareness is ultimately what denies Bella the chance to examine her relationship w/ Renee & by extension Edward! #which would be a cool detail if Twilight was lowkey aware that it's a horror saga but sadly smeyer does not acknowledge this at all... #eclipse read

[comradekatara]

stupid comic

#id in alt text #avatar the last airbender #atla #katara #zuko #sokka #mai #katara&zuko #mai&sokka #art #mart #i dont even know what this is #i drew that first panel so long ago #i think the katara zuko bestiesism lacking self awareness serve makes it even funnier tho #either way im pretty sure this is only funny to ME #whatever

[sirenium]

'Safequeer' mfers when people are queer in a way they don't like:

[GIF ID: a toy decor skeleton getting absolutely eviscerated in a blue shredder with silver blades. Said skeleton looks like it's thrashing and flailing about as it slowly gets consumed. End ID]

#tw discourse #how are you going to claim you're anti exclusionist but two lines later be like 'l*sb*ys are icky!' fuckin loser💀 #like that's blatant exclusionism in your 'anti exclusion' space hon idk what else to tell ya #the absolute lack of self awareness makes me feel like I'm seconds closer to an aneurysm every time I'm subjected to anti mspec les etc shi #oh yeah also 'safequeers' are against nontraumagenic systems so it's the whole nine yards of bs with them huh💀 #use hazardqueer instead cuz that label is truly anti exclusionism #queer #lgbtq #lgbt #mogai #liom #hazardqueer #mspec lesbian safe #lesboy safe #endo system safe #endo safe #friendly reminder that all system origins are valid btw. not just endo and trauma

[stop-breaking-my-heart-telltale]

What can I say? They're my favorite.

#twdg #twdg clouis #clouis #twdg clementine #twdg louis #sometimes they creep back into my mind and i'm like 'ah yes' like a crow admiring a pretty stone they found years ago and kept #also thank you pi for the screenshots. i used to have a whole folder full of them but that was when i was doing themed nights #the source for these is me i just have a random document full of dynamics and ship things i enjoy because.....i dunno i like keeping track #and so many of them apply to clouis but there's also an overlap of with clouis and rose/alistair [my warden from origins and alistair] like #alistair's romance route is like an evolved matured and extended version of clouis sksksks gee i wonder if i have a type #look you present me with a character who deflects with humor and isn't taken seriously by the rest of the group and the longer you know the #the more you realize how high they've built a wall around themselves and how *unwell* they really are and how they're not as sunshine #as they present themselves and also they avoid leadership and responsibility until they grow closer with someone who pushes them #and they end stronger and more balanced as a person while finding the affection they've craved #and also there's the daddy issues #present me with that character as a romantic option and i'm in no questions asked okay i don't want the mean broody one that's meh to me #i want the one that has every reason to be broody but chooses not to be because they have a completely different defense mechanism #and a warped sense of themselves and self-esteem issues they leave unaddressed until forced to face them #i'm just saying i'm aware that i have a type i'm always going to gravitate toward clouis nearly checks all the boxes #also the lack of clouis these days? my crops are thirsty and i have too many ongoing projects to do anything about it other than this sksks #so until i make time to finish my long ass louis/clouis analysis this is the best i can provide for now

[cupophrogs]

Charles had a puppet show!!!!

(Evil smile)

I’m already betting that Charles use to use poppet to make Rich laugh or bug him when he wants to see his husband smile when rich was grumpy 😂

Oh absolutely, he did! Silly is as silly does.

#they are literally everything to me #orange and blue gays frfr #well I guess it’s more orange and yellow now huh #gruff man with a heart of gold and the one who sees beauty in the most mundane things every #tbh they balance out each other super well #Charles helps Rich see more beauty in life and find the lighter side of the shittiest things #and Rich helps Charles slow down so he doesn’t hurt himself or others in his enthusiasm or lack of self awareness #(it’s the tism) #phrart #art #ask phrog #the three d’s #rich poppy playtime #Charles poppy playtime #poppet spring #poppy playtime #dogday #(technically not?? but also Rich is Dogday here so idk)

[uncanny-tranny]

I've been thinking about modesty from a specifically trans lense lately. I was taught that modesty indicates shame, that modesty means you're simultaneously ashamed of being human and having a human body, but also that you are "purer" because you adhere to a hegemonic idea of modesty. Frankly, I just don't agree with this, and it was very much steeped in the idea of specifically christian ideas of modesty.

Before I transitioned, I felt very unprotective of my body because it never felt like mine to begin with. I didn't really care what happened to it, and while I was modest by other people's standards, I certainly didn't feel it. Once I actually started transitioning (and especially on testosterone), I've found that I'm so much more "modest" because I've become protective of my body. There's this stereotype that trans people start "showing themselves off" after transitioning, but I honestly feel the opposite. I'm possessive over my body and exactly how it acts and appears because I actually like my body, and it finally feels like mine. I'm honestly kind of selfish about it, and I think I've earned the right to be.

I made this post because I think this is an interesting topic, and I think it's interesting the ways in which we internalize the influences that be. It's also a reminder that no matter how you feel about things like modesty, you should adhere to what makes the most sense to you and what you are most comfortable with. There are pressures to be modest in this way or that way, but what truly matters is what you decide with your body and yourself.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #modesty #like i was looking into swim pants to wear under my swim trunks because i don't want people to be able to see my legs for example #like... they're MY legs not yours. get your own legs dammit 😡 (joking) #and i found i have no shame about myself since being more 'modest' because i do it out of self-admiration #and personally i have no ties to the hegemonic christian sense of modesty and what i was taught living in a *heavily* christian area #that's not to say i have an issue with christians and what they feel is modest but it's more specifically the shame surrounding modesty #the idea that being modest indicates that you're a 'better person' than those who sin (wearing short shorts or swearing) #that's not inherent to the religion from what i understand but i don't agree with it personally #and i do not believe that modesty (or lack thereof) is an indication of ANYTHING about a person #it doesn't tell you anything about their personality or their interests or what they think #it only tells you how they feel most comfortable existing or behaving and even then you often won't know the complexities of that comfort #i have an issue with the ideas about modesty but i use the word because it is easily understood and it is the language i have available #if there's a better term or word for sure let me know but i haven't been made aware of it 👍 #ANYWAY. i just think it's interesting #and if you're experiences are different from mine i genuinely respect you for it and platonically love you #and i hope you feel beautiful/gorgeous/handsome/cool and i hope you are comfortable <3

[silvermoon424]

Bruh I've been watching Youtube videos on "lolcows"- most notably Chris-chan and Wings of Redemption- and it's fucking insane how demented a lot of their trolls are.

Chris and Wings aren't good people and they have a lot of issues, but it's fucking crazy how many people have dedicated their lives to harassing them and making their lives miserable because they think it's funny. Like idk how you can spend a huge amount of time stalking and harassing someone you hate and come to the conclusion that you're in the right and it's good for you.

I still like watching documentary-style videos on eccentric people, but imo that's where it should end. It's like being in a museum: look but don't touch. The fact that some people think it's acceptable and funny to ruin someone's life because they're "cringe" or whatever is disgusting.

#what also gets me is that these trolls have a CRITICAL lack of self-awareness #they think they're so funny and cool for harassing someone when in reality they're total fucking losers #trolling #harassment #internet culture

[apostate-in-an-alcove]

Ironic how the "progressive" anti-kink, anti-porn and sex negative crowd parrot identical talking points as conservative and evangelical Christians and yet will piss and shit themselves if you dare to call them out on it. None of these people are interested or seemingly capable of handling any subject with nuance. It's absolutely mind blowing to me; these people lie in the same bed as oppressive religious groups and yet want to fancy themselves superior and different than them.

#ex christian #if you find yourself agreeing with bigoted people you've lost the plot entirely #idk its insane to me how much of self labeled progressive liberal and leftist people are no different than Christians in their thinking #yet they happily bash christians #the lack of self awareness is stunning

[ball-of-butter]

i remember being genuinely scared to ship mareven because im a toddler that uses tiktok so my first intro to mareven shippers were just crazy maven stans who romanticise his mental illness. i remember one so vile i had to comment hate on it because they were bringing my bae mare into this like mare get behind me rn. and then they doubled down saying her rejection to maven made him more mentally unstable LIKE it was her responsibility???

#this is why most my mutuals are marecal shippers 😭 #i meam tumblr mareven shippers tend to have more self awareness thank GOD #had me defending marecal and mare AND cal individually on that app. it just wasnt pleasant #and then them chalking up his evilness to lie the blame at elara’s feet only. ewwwww ur misogyny is showingggggg #the lack of media literacy on that app is making me stress so much im going bald #fr was trying to not ship mareven bcuz i could not be seen with those embarrassing mfs. its why im on tumblr now lmfao #like why cant yall just ship mareven not in a platonic or romantic way but in the secret third soulmate way as intended why do yall have to #-be weird and rot ur brain when it comes to black haired blue eyed evil white twinks?? #red queen #red queen series #war storm #glass sword #kings cage #maven calore #mare barrow #mareven #this post started with mareven now i want to just rant about how bad those maven stans are at understanding his character #maven would hate yall irl #and they always treat mare as a self insert when shes such a strong character on her own. shes behind me and i have guns out blazing at yal #rewriting

[silkling]

Real question folks.

We all know Optimus’s motto right? Right?

“Freedom is the right of all sentient beings.”

Yeah, that one. You know the one.

But. Like. Issue.

Animals are sentient. Animals like dogs, cats, wild animals, they all have sentience. So like, what do we think the Autobots think about that? How do they feel about the fact that humans (and probably every other species in the galaxy) regularly domesticate, tame, and use other sentient creatures for their own gain? For things like. Entertainment, agriculture, pet-keeping. All that stuff.

Do you think they’re bothered by it? Do yo7 think they look at humans, with our pet dogs, and think

“Wow, this situation is kinda fucked up.”

I mean. Personally , I don’t think they take much issue with it. (Especially cause like there’s instances of them in canon not giving a shit. Buster in IDW. Fluffy Ears in Earthspark. Etc.) I think they understand the difference between sentient and sapient. Like. Humans are sapient. Cybertronians are sapient. Animals are….not? At at least not really. If you want to classify animals as sapient I think you can make that argument but even then you have to agree that their sapience is severely limited compared to like. Human sapience.

So. I don’t know. Do you think the bots get wigged out but human pet ownership, I guess. Because I know what Optimus’s motto is. I know what he says. But like. Do you think maybe he means sapient where he says sentient? Cause I think that makes more sense.

Cause like. He’s advocating for total freedom, right? Equality under law, ability to self determine your own life and destiny. But. Uh. That wouldn’t really work for animals? They’re sentient, yah, but they operate on an instinct level. Not an intellect level. Not that they don’t deserve protections and shit. That’s not the point. The point is like. Do you think Optimus (and the other Bots I guess) differentiate between sentience and sapience when they apply their beliefs. Because if not then they’d have to also be advocating for total animal freedom.

I do not know where I am going with this. But. Do you all see my point???? Please tell me you do. This has been niggling at my brain for years and I just. I cannot stop thinking about it. I don’t know why.

Sentience is not sapience. But the Autobots fight for the freedom of “sentient beings”. This is driving me insane. Do you think they care about a difference? Or do they see humans as monsters for our dominion over animals? Someone help I’m thinking too much about something that doesn’t even matter.

#silkling rambles #transformers #maccadam #also #for those who do not know the difference #sentient is the ability to think and perceive and feel emotions #sapient is the capacity for intelligence and complex problem solving and learning #a big part of sapience is also like. self-awareness. awareness of yourself in the world and your relation to thr world and people around yo #it’s kinda more complicated but that’s the simple version. #so like. a cat is sentient because it can think and feel. it can even learn a little. #but it lacks the higher self-awareness that’s necessary for true sapience #I am rambling again. #someone needs to stop me #why am I fixating on this on 9 pm a Thursday night #I do not know #I just. I just wanted to let my brain vomit out. this has been ratttling and sloshing in my head for years #anyway. thoughts. let me know yours #or don’t #I’m going to shut up now

[punkeropercyjackson]

"I'm too old to care about ships"Says the ironic title and bio fandom blogger as they proceed to write anti Sasusaku Sasunaru manifestos and bully minors in the Macademia Hero fandom for shipping Todomomo and not considering Dabi and Miruyumi their own instead sidedishes to the blonde bird cop

#like the lack of self-awareness.......at least me and the queer m/f hcs girlies are having fun i can SMELL y'all's misery please move onnnnn #sasusaku #todomomo #dabi #miruyumi #anti sns #anti hawks #antidabihawks #sasuke uchiha #sakura haruno #todoroki shouto #momo yaoyorozu #fuyumi todoroki #miruko #rumi usagiyama #trans sasusaku #t4t todomomo #t4t miruyumi #blasian sasuke supremacy #blasian latina sakura #half bangladeshi rei agenda #blasian latina momo #group:freezerburn wonder woman and jason todd #dadbi #pastel punk momo yaoyorozu #goth punk todoroki shouto #trans autistic swag #anime #💌 #summerposting

[lanaevyssmoved]

ok i feel calmer now so i’m just gonna say it frank. if you believe astarion was turned at 39, and use this as reason to call him a child or childlike or mentally a child, and still romance him and post about lusting over him, i hate you.

#fray.txt #this is so personally triggering to me #but even if it wasn’t i would still think poorly of you #i don’t know if it’s a lack of self awareness or you’re just outing yourself as an unsafe to be around red flag #but i hate you all the same #and i worded it this way as some believe the 39 was an error because with elf lifespans it doesn’t make much sense #this is the most Drama-y i’ve ever gotten but i just had a full scale panic attack over a post i saw about this so. yeah #feels important to say? idk. important to me

[altschmerzes]

listening to my mom on the phone and she's telling me about how she's listening to some podcast about how sometimes people will use writing as a way to process things, especially things that happened to them in their childhood you know, like, processing and grappling with difficult things that happen to them and boy maybe i'll find that interesting to hear from that perspective because, you know, "you're a writer and all!" and i'm like [looking into the camera like on the office] do they now. is that something people do. in writing. do they now.

#gav gab #the lack of self awareness is fucking incredible like it's legitimately funny #sitting there trying not to laugh on the phone while she's saying this to me bc she thinks i'll find it cool #like yeah lady i'm sure aware of that! for example i use writing to process YOUR abuse and neglect! #and everything else! it's incredible.

[snzluv3r]

i feel like my allergies have gotten worse overnight again but it’s freezing outside so there’s no way anything new is suddenly in bloom to set me off but i’ve gone from my normal level of sniffly and sneezy to multiple full blown allergic fits in public a day seemingly overnight

#maybe it’s something new i’m not aware of idk but i feel like it’s just dust #and whatever else it is that makes me sneeze on the regular #i’ve just been so sneezy lately #and so so so itchy jesus christ #my nose tickles all over inside and out i wish i could just scrub at it whenever i wanged #wanted* #i’m so itchy still even now #kinda self obs #my nose cannot sit still for lack of a better way to describe it #just twitching and flaring and scrunching and sniffling and sneezing all day

[mamawasatesttube]

yknow for as much as people talk shit about sb94, im gonna be honest. it is NOT the worst comic ive ever read. that dubious honor goes to either batgirl '08 (she would not fucking say any of that) or jeph loeb's run on supergirl '05 (which was SO bad i nearly gave up on the entire run as a whole).

#rimi talks #like idk. sb94 has its fucking issues dont get me wrong #but i feel like it gets an unfairly bad rep that makes people go ''can't read kon comics bc theyre BAD according to the comic bloggers'' #and i just think thats no good!!! i will recommend sb94 to people!!! #its completely lacking in any self-awareness about how well it depicts the predation and exploitation of vulnerable child star archetypes #is that not a fascinating and tragic backstory for a character???? #as opposed to jeph loeb just shitting misogyny and creepiness all over the page and calling it a comic

[front-facing-pokemon]

#drapion #for lack of more interesting things to say abt drapion i'm gonna tell you about my day today #today was my first day heading to a local elementary school and teaching some kids. and i don't feel like it went very well #i've never thought of myself as being very good with kids but today kinda solidified that. we went over time and somehow they all convinced #me that every single one of them won the game i tried to do and i just believed them. i guess. kids are very persuasive #i told the next group that and one of them literally said “we're kids‚ so” and i was like SHIT. THEY'RE SELF-AWARE #it was also hard not to swear in front of them just bc i am not very good at not swearing. typically i have very little filter