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This is essentially confirming something that has been on my mind after I realized I was a trans woman.
It explains so much why I never found romance with straight women (my wife is bisexual) and why I never fit in with "the guys". Even if you don't know you're not being your authentic self, on some level both you and other people can tell.
I have made so many connections socially since coming out. I have SO MANY queer friends and have been flirted with by cis lesbians and non-binary people and that is something that *never* happened before.
The bi women who pretend to be lesbians are at least funny to laugh at sometimes.
All of her videos are tagged "lesbian" or "lesbiansoftiktok" or "lesbiansover 30" she dated and slept with men for like 15 years, and I haven't seen her mention a girlfriend even once.
I actually thought one woman was her gf because she did a couple's trend with her. But then I scrolled down one video and she was talking about how she was gonna do that trend with her best friend and her ex boyfriend.
Scroll down a couple more videos and she's saying she can't give advice to women who want to stop dating men and start dating women because she's not dating right now. She never went 6 months without a boyfriend before all this tho.