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xxcalicofemmexx · 2 months
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ply straight wallpapers!
Ply Straight: Someone who identifies as poly(sexual, romantic, etc) and straight. An intentionally vague term, for a broad umbrella that community can gather under. Mostly used by multigender, genderfluid, and otherwise nonbinary individuals, though it is not a closed label. Also known as ply het.
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dragonpride17 · 1 month
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mspec hetero venn diagram edits!
using these (link) flags by @haunted-thing and this (link) straight flag!
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ryanyflags · 2 years
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Bambi flags :D !
bambi lesbian | bambi vincian / gay man bambi cenelian | bambi straight bambi/squirrel bi | bambi ply bambi omni | bambi/fox pan bambi m-spec | bambi abro
I originally just wanted to edit the bambi lesbian flag to include orange, like in the sunset lesbian flag, and ended up making others too. As such, all of these flags are based off of / inspired by the original bambi lesbian flag.
The colors meanings are pretty simple. The brown stripes and white stripe are for deer (or other animals like squirrels and foxes). The white stripe also represents trans and nonbinary people. And the last 3 stripes are taken from the respective orientation flags, and represent those. (Though I've simplified the amount of stripes/colors for some, that's not to take away from any meanings.)
I think these turned out pretty nice. I might make some more versions.
bambisexual flag here.
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entropy-sea-system · 11 months
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Happy Pride to Mspec Lesbians and Mspec Gays and Mspec Straights!!
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shk0lstun-flagz · 4 months
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Enbian
Used to describe nonbinary individuals attracted (exclusively or not) to nonbinary people
- alternative flag made for fun
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rainbowshade03 · 2 years
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Starry Mspec Gay Wallpapers!
Staright Gay/Straightcian/Pastel
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Bi Gay/Pastel
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Pan Gay/Pastel
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Ply Gay/Pastel
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Omni Gay/Pastel
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tadpolesonalgae · 3 months
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They get turned on when you’re angry — headcanons
a/n: thank you 🩰 for this thought, and thank you anon for requesting it 🧡💛 (this is ever so slightly unserious, please accept my apologies)
warnings: starts out suggestive, derails into smut :)
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Rhysand:
“You can’t keep insisting you’re the most handsome High Lord at the High Lord meetings, Rhys!”
You’ve got him sat on the edge of your bed as you scold him for his behaviour, Rhys waiting patiently as he watches you trying to ply the clips from your hair, your own patience wearing thin as frustration builds at their refusal to budge
“I mean really Rhys, I understand you’re no longer acting out a cruel persona, but a little tact, no? Just some discretion? Not cracking jokes left right and centre!”
You hiss as one of the clips snags on a strand of hair, cursing both him and the clip out under your breath
“Darling, will you please just allow me to—”
“Don’t you dare move, Rhysand.”
Colour warms the tan skin of his cheeks, eyes appreciatively running down the trail of your spine, heat gathering at the spankable curve of your hind. The tone you’d used…
“I know you think you’re charismatic and charming, but your arrogance is getting out of hand,” you continue, oblivious to the dark dip in his thoughts, “I suppose it���s inevitable when you have no one to keep you in check, but—”
“No one to keep me in check?”
You whirl on him, hair at last free and unbound, whipping over your shoulder as you turn to him
He’s undone the top most buttons of his shirt, leaned back on the bed, long legs parted—not at all ashamed of the reaction he’s having to the sharp, clipped tone you’d been using on him
“Rhysand!” You hiss, “I’m trying to…”
But he’s not hiding anything, arousal heating the glimmering bond that lies between you, skin tingling with awareness as warmth pools in your belly
“What was it you said again? That I have no one to keep me in check?” He muses, hand shifting over the muscle of his thigh to the obvious hardness between his legs. “No one to remind me of my place?”
“Rhysand,” you warn, “we have a dinner tonight, do not…” but you trail off when he palms himself through the fitted fabric of his trousers, a low groan coming from the back of his throat.
You pry your tongue from the roof of your mouth, delicately licking over dried lips, an action he marks eagerly. “I suppose you could serve being taught a lesson to two…”
Cassian:
“Cass, hurry up! We’re going to be late! Again!”
Really, you would have thought as a General he would have excellent time management skills and would never struggle with being late. And usually, that’s true. But something about going out to dinner to see his family just sends all of that training out the window
“Cassian?” You question, leaning over the banister to call up to your mate’s room. “Cassian, are you nearly ready?”
A series of knocks are landed to your front door, and you blanch, wondering if it’s another pair thinking of walking with you to the River House. But when you open it, you’re greeted with a proudly grinning Cassian, wings tucked in tight against the chill breeze
He must have flown out the window and round to the front again.
“Cassian!” You snap, “I was stressing! Why can’t you just please be on time and save me the anxiety?”
He opens his mouth, pride gleaming in his eyes at what he no doubt thinks is a clever trick, but the amusement has already seeped from your bones.
“For goodness sake,” you mutter, “you haven’t even—” You push up onto your tiptoes, leaning flush against him for support as you set straight a curled lock that was blown the wrong way, flopping to the wrong side of his head
You huff impatiently, settling back onto the flats of you feet, lightly smacking your hand over his chest as you reassess him. “Right. Good. Let’s go.”
“Sweetheart, don’t worry,” he tries, realising too late you’re genuinely bothered, agitation zinging down the bond. “They won’t even—”
“Cassian, I am not in the mood at the moment,” you snap sharply. “How many times have I told you. We need to be ready to leave half an hour before hand. You’re a General for crying out loud, put your knowledge to good use.”
You’ve never snapped like that before at him. He knows you get a little tightly wound when it comes to time management, but never anything like this. Maybe he shouldn’t have gotten your gears turning like that. But your arms have crossed over your chest, drawing his attention to the dip in the neckline, a little further than usual. The strict set of your brows, and the disapproving cut of your mouth…
He zones back in when you click your fingers in his face, “are you even listening to me? For Mother’s sake Cassian, will you at least pay attention when I’m talking to you?”
“I’m paying attention,” he manages, caught off guard by the arousal that’s stirring in his stomach at the terseness of your question. “I’m sorry, sweetheart, I didn’t think—”
“No, you didn’t. Now hurry up and let’s—”
“Don’t cut me off like that,” he breathes lowly, pupils dilated as he stares down at you. The rise and fall of your chest as you glare impatiently…holding your ground…
“Cassian!” You inhale sharply as his large palm snakes around your waist, pulling you into his heat, nosing at your neckline, his scent wrapping around you, and— “Cassian…” you whisper, back curving with arousal
“Where’d that attitude go?” He asks breathlessly. “Bring it back for me. Won’t you do that, sweetheart?”
“Cass…we’re going to be late…” you manage to get out, knocked off your feet by the abrupt display of hunger
“We won’t,” he murmurs, pressing hot kisses to your throat as he works his way down. “Besides, what were those thirty minutes originally put in place for?”
You flush at the reminder—at how frequently things like this would happen so you would both agree to prepare in advance in the case of certain appetites arising
“Though if you want to keep using that tone on me…” his hips roll against yours, pressing the hard outline of his cock into your tummy, groaning at how it feels. “I don’t think I’d mind…”
Azriel:
“Azriel.” You hiss, gripping his hand by the wrist, tight. “Don’t even think about it.”
The shadows scuttle away from beneath your skirts, while the others peer up at the painting Helion’s currently showing off.
“You can’t just put your hands on me whenever you feel mildly compromised,” you whisper sharply, hoping the others won’t notice how you’re lagging behind.
“He just invited you to his bed,” Azriel growls lowly, pupils contracted as he stares razors into the High Lord of Day’s turned back. “And you hardly mustered up a refusal.”
“I was being polite. And of course the offer wasn’t serious,” you hiss back. “Besides, he’s invited you to bed plenty of times, and you never see me getting all territorial about it.”
“I wish you would,” he breathes, voice roughening as he flicks his wrist out of your grasp in favour of gripping your hip lightly, pulling you a little closer. “At least then he’d get the idea.”
“He’s doing this because you’re making it so apparent we’re recently mated,” you snap, “obviously he’s going to enjoy at last being able to get a rise out of you.”
“I need him to know that you’re mine.”
Heat flutters between your legs, suddenly feeling breathless. Your tongue flicks out over dry lips, and that familiar warmth zips down the bond, still so new and sensitive to every change, keyed to one another.
“You keep that sort of nonsense in the bedroom, Azriel,” you manage to hiss to him. “I do not belong to you. I am your mate.”
You can feel even on your side how overpowering, how dominating those instincts are, made worse by the unwelcome and incessant advances from another male. Can feel how he’s straining under the urge to claim you in a very obvious way.
“You belong to me, as I belong to you,” he growls lowly, darkness thickening at his back as those great wings flare menacingly.
“If you belong to me then I command you to be quiet and behave,” you hiss, the crackling tension between you having you snap, frustration simmering beneath your skin as you’re forced to keep your hands off each other until this bothersome tour comes to an end.
It seems to be the last straw for Azriel, however.
He releases a snarl that sounds mixed with a groan, starving lust barreling down the bond as he’s no longer able to keep his side entirely concealed, large palm shackling your wrist as he drags you away from the others, too hungry to wait
The command had been his breaking point, arousal burning through his blood at the sharpness you’d used
He hopes you’ll use it on him again, even once the initial frenzy has at last faded…
Eris:
“Either make me cum, or I’ll find someone else who will,” you hiss, nails scraping over his scalp, gripping the silky locks in your fist
“I wouldn’t recommend that, fawn,” he murmurs beside your ear, pressing his body tight to yours, so you’re trapped between him and the wall as his thigh is pushed flush with your heat. “Besides, you’re already dripping all over me. You think you’ll be able to find anyone else who’ll give you the intensity of one I can?”
“I don’t care at this point,” you counter. “Either give it to me or I’ll have to use something else.”
The impatience catches him off guard. You’re usually so sweet and docile—he wonders where the spark has come from. It seems rather fun to tamper with
“Like your fingers? Your pillow?” He asks, voice deepening as he presses his hips to yours, grinding into the softness of your tummy as you try to rub over his thigh, to get some kind of pleasure. “I’d love to see you try,” he whispers breathlessly
“Fuck you,” you hiss, heat fluttering between your legs, mind turning dizzy with hunger as your arms wrap tight over his broad shoulders, leg weaving round his to try and get him closer—
“Quit it,” you snap, flame blazing in your eyes as your lip curls when he pulls his thigh back, leaving you without stimulation. “You’re being a fucking pain,” you hiss, tugging on his hair
His eyes flutter, hips bucking against you with hunger as he dips down, attacking your neck with kisses and nips, arousal having him firmly within its grasp at that demand
You moan at the sensations, back arching up into him as you feel the pronounced outline of him against you, twitching as he grinds against you
“Fuck, Eris…” you pant, so near the verge of pleasure.
“Get on the bed,” you whisper, hands shakily pushing him away, so he’s stood to his full height, looming over you
When he doesn’t move, you snarl, too impatient to wait for his games. “I said get on the bed.”
The intensity of his arousal hits you then, practically knocking you clean off your feet, both of you seemingly taken aback at just how heavily affected he is
“You like this?” You breathe, pulse spiking as you peer up into his eyes, irises almost fully eclipsed by hunger
He doesn’t need to answer as your hand slips between the two of you, cupping him, feeling just how hard he is, how hungry he is… You curse lowly
“Oh you’re going to pay for every damn teasing thing you’ve ever done to me,” you whisper over his mouth, pushing for him to walk back until his legs come into contact with the bed
“And you’re going to pay tenfold.”
Lucien:
“I just don’t get it, Lu,” you sigh frustratedly, pacing back and forth as he watches you from the plush armchair. “I’ve tried so many different things, she just seems to have it out for me.”
“Are you sure you’re not overthinking this?” He suggests wryly. “We both know you have a habit of assuming the worst when it comes to how other people perceive you.”
“I’m not overthinking this one,” you snap. “She blatantly cut me off and turned her back on me during tea the other day. I don’t know what it is other than she just dislikes me.”
“And wouldn’t it simply be the end of the world if one female didn’t absolutely adore you,” he drawls, stretching out in his seat, long legs crossing at the ankle
“Don’t take that tone with me,” you say sharply, spinning around to face him, glaring
Lucien stiffens under the fire in your gaze, the anger simmering away as you stare him down, surprised by how hot his skin feels beneath that look
“I know for a fact I haven’t done anything wrong this time—and I’m certain of that,” you huff, beginning to pace back and forth, allowing him a moment to grapple with the reaction searing through his body
“Why is she trying to bring me down? I don’t understand it. I’ve never done anything, said anything that could harm her standing in some way, so why is she trying to bring me down?”
He listens to the harsh puff of breath, the sharp sighs coming from your lips, the clean cut of your steps as you spin at the end of a pace—pulse increasing as he slips a long finger beneath his collar
“We females are already at a disadvantage,” you go on, brow tightening now with anger, “can’t she understand that? We should stick together to help one another, not step on each other to further ourselves. It’s so backward! Why are you fighting against me when the problem is with the males in charge? Do you see what I mean? Lu? Lu—”
A hot flush warms your cheeks, thoughts instantly fading from your mind, replaced by the view before you
He shifts uncomfortably in his seat, attempting to readjust the tightness of the already close-fitting riding trousers he wears. “Continue,” he manages thickly, “I’m listening.”
But you’re done with the conversation already. Done the second you looked at him, the outline of his arousal for you so clear and prominent
“I’m glad you are, but I’m certainly not,” you murmur, already walking over to him, putting yourself into his lap, straddling his hips as you pull your skirts up, feeling that delicious press between your legs
“I think I’m in need of a distraction anyway.”
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hoonvrs · 9 months
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ROUND AND AROUND — n. riki
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req for 1k event!
PROMPT  [ two, 9 ] picking you up and twirling you when they’re excited 
PAIRING riki x gnr
GENRE est. relationship, fluff
WARNINGS none
W. COUNT 0.6k
S. NOTE last but not least my baby riki. this is the last req from my event ( long overdue ik but shhh ) but I tried to make it a little special for my special boy and i genuinely had fun writing this so hopefully it’s good <3
also the title being one of my fave songs ever. jo yuri u will be punished for making it so so short
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the sounds of machines beeping and other teenagers screaming rang through your ears as you walked through the arcade hand-in hand with riki. walking past all the friends playing with the claw machines before you pulled him back towards one that caught your eyes.
“oh my god, how cute!” you said, digging through your pocket to ply one round before you felt riki push you away to take your place.
you see him slot in a coin as he bends down a little to grab the joystick, posture relaxed “i’m an expert, watch me get it on the first try for you.”
fast forward, it’s been over half an hour and still no plushie in sight. your competitive boyfriend refuses to give up after many failed attempts, something about not letting a stupid machine hurt his ‘manly’ pride. he was hunched over the control keys, knees bent, as he followed the claw using his whole upper body.
after another fail you begin to tug at the bottom of his shirt, “come on, babe. we all know they’re rigged, and you’ve already spent too much on it.”
you see him huff under his breath, annoyance starting to show through his face still adamant on winning. suddenly shooting up straight, startling you as he whips his head towards you. If there was a lightbulb above his head, it would’ve turned on, “hug me.”
“what?” you looked at him confused, seeing him looking completely serious.
“hug me, you’re my lucky charm,” he grabbed your arms, encouraging you to wrap around his waist, and how could you say no after all the effort — and money — he has used to discourage him now? so, slowly wrapping your arms around him wasn’t the problem, but the awkward situation it left you in with him slightly bending into you.
trying to ignore the questioning glances thrown your way by people just trying to walk past you two as riki goes back into focus with a deep breath.
you couldn’t see much of what was going on, having your view obstructed by your boyfriend's huge back until you start to feel him shake. he turned around so quickly you barely had time to register before you suddenly felt your feet leave the ground.
rikis excited about winning the plushie after god knows how much time and money manifested in him lifting you and spinning you both, “i knew you were my lucky charm!”
leaving no room for you to respond, he quickly places you down as he turns to retrieve the plushie, an almost jarring yellow duck with pink round cheeks and a puffy beak. presenting it to you like a cat would when leaving a dead bird at your doorstep, all pridefully accompanied by the biggest box smile on display.
“here you go, bae. why’d you pick this duck anyway?” he asked, the adrenaline of finally winning evidently still hadn’t worn off yet. you slowly raised the plushie to be beside rikis head, now having two ducks facing you.
you could see the gears turning in his head, but no dots were connecting as he slightly tilted his head with a pout on his lips. you could swear he was trying to copy the duck if you hadn’t known him well enough.
“no reason, just cute.”
shrugging in response, as he grabs your hand to pull you towards another game that wouldn’t suck your pockets dry. looking down to see the duck snug between your forearm and chest and looking up to see the boy you love who looked almost identical.
but of course, one of them is way cuter.
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oh-my-im-ply · 2 months
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This is another post which isn't completely ply focused, but I want to take a second to point out the overlap between people who are transmisic and people who exclude/invalidate mspec lesbians.
Last week, I made a post where I mentioned being a polysexual lesbian, and I made a few mspec lesbian pride flags. Yesterday, someone asked if I was polysexual or a lesbian.
On this blog, we have rules for interaction, as well as rules for mods to follow. At the very top, we have a rule against exclusion and invalidation towards good faith identities, and a rule against bigotry and dogwhistles. However, we will answer questions when they may have been asked in good faith.
So, I answered with this:
Both. I'm attracted to many genders, but not binary men, so I find that polysexual and lesbian both describe my orientation well. Other people may identify as a polysexual lesbian for other reasons.
After I answered, the mask came off, and they started being transmisogynistic and nonbinary-exclusionary, and weaponized the existence of bimisia against me. I deleted their comments and blocked them last night, so I can't copy what they said word for word, but I will repeat their key notes under the cut.
CW: bi erasure, exorsexism/nonbinary-erasure, transmisogyny, mentions of genitalia
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"This is what people mean when they talk about bi erasure. You're erasing bi people."
This is a complete misunderstanding of what bi erasure even means. Bi erasure is when you ignore (the existence of) bi people, or outright deny their existence. These are some examples of bi erasure:
Erasing or ignoring bi history.
Saying that bi people need to just "pick a side."
Saying that bi people are secretly straight/secretly gay.
Saying that bi is just "a transitional orientation" or "a phase."
Redefining the broad definition of bisexuality without the consent of the bi community, especially with the intent of telling people that they "aren't really bisexual" or replacing the bi label.
Saying that "everyone is a little bit bisexual," especially with the intent of erasing bisexuality as a distinct category. This can also be a form of erasure against people who aren't bisexual.
Note that "identifying as something other than bi" is not a form of bi erasure, even if you might "technically" fit the definition... Because that is a matter of personal identity.
But do you know what is a form of bi erasure? Erasing bi history. Mspec lesbians (particularly bi lesbians), have existed for decades. It is not a new identity, and bi women and enbies have a right to identify their attractions to women as lesbian attraction if they wish to. The exclusion of bi people from the lesbian label began as a form of bi erasure. It happened because of separatism and political lesbianism, and an idea that attraction to men "tainted" people, or was a "betrayal" to feminism. It happened because of bimisia.
The word "lesbian" has served as an umbrella term synonymous to "sapphic" for over half a century. You want sources? Here you go.
Miller, Trish. Lavender Woman, Vol. 2, No. 5. Lavender Woman Magazine, 1973. "What is a lesbian? To me, a lesbian is a woman-oriented woman; bisexuals can be lesbians. A lesbian does not have to be exclusively woman-oriented, she does not have to prove herself in bed, she does not have to hate men, she does not have to be sexually active at all times, she does not have to be a radical feminist." Ferguson, Ann. Patriarchy, Sexual Identity, and the Sexual Revolution. Signs: Journal of Women in Culture and Society, 1981. "Lesbian is a woman who has sexual and erotic-emotional ties primarily with women or who sees herself as centrally involved with a community of self-identified lesbians whose sexual and erotic-emotional ties are primarily with women; and who is herself a self-identified lesbian."....."[My definition] defines both bisexual and celibate women as lesbians as long as they identify themselves as such and have their primary emotional identification with a community of self-defined lesbians." Kafele, Dajenya Shoshanna (1991). Bisexual Lesbian. Archived from the original on July 25, 2022. Queen, Carol A.. Strangers at Home: Bisexuals in the queer movement,. 1992. "A great many bisexual women, particularly those who are feminist and lesbian-identified, have felt both personally and politically rejected and judged by the separatist sisters." Kafele, Dajenya Shoshanna. "Which Part of Me Deserves to Be Free?". Bisexual Politics: Theories, Queries, & Visions. New York : Haworth Press, 1995. ISBN 9781560249504. "Personally, I am unable to separate out the various ways that I am oppressed (as a woman, as an African American, as a bisexual lesbian, as an impoverished single mother) and say that one oppression is worse than the other, or that I desire one form of liberation more than another." Wyeth, Amy. "Don't Assume Anything". Bi Women: The Newsletter of the Boston Bisexual Women's Network. Vol. 5, No. 2, 1995. "Unfortunately, many of my experiences as a lesbian-identified bisexual woman have said to me that having an appearance or demeanor that diverges from the expected means I will not be accepted as truly belonging in the lesbian community. Despite my attendance at gay pride parades, dollars spent at gay resorts and in support of gay causes, and numerous attempts to participate in gay and/or lesbian groups and volunteer events, I have often felt unaccepted by this community." Holleb, Morgan Lev Edward. The A-Z of Gender and Sexuality. Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2019. ISBN 9781784506636. "LESBIAN — A woman who is sexually or romantically attracted to women. Lesbian can mean women who are attracted exclusively to other women, but it is also a broader term for women and femmes who are attracted to other women and femmes. This includes bisexual and pansexual women, asexual women who are romantically attracted to women, and non-binary people who identify with womanhood." Lesbian. The Trans Language Primer. Archived from the original on October 22, 2021.
Does this mean bi people have to identify as lesbians, or "aren't actually" bi, or can't just identify as bi? Obviously not, and I never said that was the case. That would be bi erasure, because that's policing bi people's identities and forcing them under labels that they may not want to be included under. But in the circumstance that a bi person also identifies as a lesbian, they have every right to do so. Bi-inclusive definitions of lesbianism have existed for at least 51 years, and still exist today.
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"Attraction to men, binary or not, means you're not a lesbian."
See above for why the lesbian identity is not always dependent on a lack of attraction to men, binary or not. But lets focus on the nonbinary part specifically:
Nonbinary people can people included in lesbianism and lesbian attraction if they want to be. Yes, that includes all nonbinary genders. Even if attraction to men inherently disqualified a person from lesbianism, nonbinary genders cannot be confined to binary gender rules (even when they're aligned with binary genders) because they're nonbinary. Treating nonbinary genders like they're "functionally the same as binary genders" is a form of nonbinary erasure, regardless of gender alignment.
Whether nonbinary people are included in lesbianism or not is entirely up to each individual nonbinary person regarding their own identity. It is not dependent on the gender label used; it is dependent on how each nonbinary person feels about it on an individual level.
The implication that manhood inherently dominates and erases the rest of a person's identity is also troubling. If you accept that nonbinary people can be included in lesbianism, you must also accept that nonbinary men can be included in lesbianism. A nonbinary man is still nonbinary; their manhood doesn't erase that.
As a pangender lesbian, I've had to deal with the experience of people not only erasing my enbyhood, but my womanhood as well, because they think my manhood is the only relevant aspect of my identity. This is misogynistic and exorsexist, plain and simple, and people use this misogyny/exorsexism to tell me that I'm not a lesbian.
With all of that said, nonbinary people (of any gender alignment) are not always comfortable being included in lesbianism. This is why I describe myself as both polysexual and a lesbian; the polysexual part of my orientation acknowledges that my attraction to enbies can't always be described with my more binary-aligned labels.
And funnily enough, while some people tell me that I can't be a lesbian and can only be polysexual, other people tell me the opposite. So clearly, there isn't a consensus on which label is "correct" for me.
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"If it has a dick, you can't be a lesbian."
This is just blatant mask off transmisogyny, and it's the main reason I blocked them. Do I even need to explain what's wrong with this? Even under a strictly monosexual definition of lesbianism, this statement is just false. Being attracted to people with penises does not equal being attracted to men. If a lesbian is exclusively attracted to women, including women with penises, that lesbian is attracted to only one gender and is not bisexual or mspec.
Any gender can have a dick. Lesbians can have dicks. Women can have dicks. The presence of a penis or lack thereof is not a defining trait of lesbianism, nor monosexuality. And for fuck's sake, maybe don't call your hypothetical trans woman "it"??
"Mspec lesbian" does not mean "lesbian who is attracted to vaginas and penises," and if you think that's what it means, you need to educate yourself. Yes, this includes any people who might identify as an mspec lesbian because of that transmisogynistic definition.
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genderstarbucks · 14 days
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Gayhet | Straight Gay
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Mspec Straight Gay | Bi Straight Gay | Poly/ply Straight Gay
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Pan Straight Gay | Omni Straight Gay | Abro Straight Gay
Villainpunk, also known as evilpunk, is a punk subculture dedicated to the reclamation of demonization, a rejection of the social norm of goodness, taking pride in identities that carry a stigma. It can be shortened to vilpunk.
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paladinkit · 10 months
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Tour de Fleece 2023
While I'm still spinning for the Tour de Femmes extra week, I thought I'd put my totals for main tour up here now :) @a-tour-de-fleece
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I completed seven projects (and made progress on several spindle projects as well). My completed spinning totaled 856g/ 1.9lb, and my finished skeins would measure 1405yd laid end to end, with yardage of individual plies totaling 3247yd. Individual project photos and totals below the cut!
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time for another adventure - 149yd/154g polwarth/silk/tweed Inglenook Bordeaux mirror-plied bulky rustic yarn. An experiment in thicker singles (some success, less evenness than I'd like) and my first time mirroring colors in a ply. surprised and enchanted by how the color turned out.
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transformation - 160yd/103g silk/rambouillet Fresh Lotus Designs silk lap plied to a Rambouillet singles -- this one was straight up a trans metaphor in the spinning. new and surprisingly challenging work (silk laps are a bitch to draft it turns out). gorgeous and worth it. stabilized when paired with work from my past (the rambo single came from deep stash). also it's pride colors c'mon.
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a long delayed dusk - 228yd/125g merino/silk/mohair/stellina home blended 2-ply DK yarn -- spun and plied entirely on the first challenge day. deep stash blended fiber I utterly failed to spin in 2019 (too many lengths!) but I achieved it now. @damnfool-of-a-took picked the colors in the first place and she still loves them
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underwater dreams - 294yd/100g Polwarth Cozy Hearth Yarn Works Island Time fractal 3-ply fingering yarn -- this is some of my dye work! it's not actually listed in the store bc I was trying for something else when I made it, but I did take notes so who knows, it may be listed someday. it turned out shockingly perfectly given this was absolutely the spin I zoned out on the most. literally my most even and exact and perfect yarn ever.
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as above so below - 199yd/150g BFL/merino/tencel/noil/angelina Ajem Fiber Arts Nebula & High Tide marled woolen aran yarn -- made me fall in love with batts again. SO fluffy and fun to spin! and this kind of color busyness is more my speed <3
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berries ripen in the gold - 72yd/134g BFL/muga silk Fresh Lotus Designs home blended thick and thin yarn -- my first blending board rolag project in a long while. next time I'll load less on each board, as these were tricky to draft and the spinning suffered for it, but I'm still really happy with the colors, and since it was a gift for my wife and she loves it, that's good enough :)
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the cool refreshing taste of being yourself - 303yd/151g Merino/tussah/flax Inglenook Cucumber z-plied 3-ply light worsted yarn -- it's a traditional 3-ply but backwards. it's the basic three fiber types drenched in a snazzy dye bath. it's absolutely being used for witchcraft.
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Merrascic Pride Flag
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Merrascic or merascic/merasscic: an umbrella term for those who are not attracted to men anymore; a label in which one's mascic attraction has partially or fully vanished.
Examples: errasexual or asexual folk who once was attracted to boys; taken/monofidelitous pluralians (i.e. bi/pan, ply/omni, tri) partnered with non-men; a straight guy/darcian who used to be attracted to guys, but realized he is het after all; a lesbian who has gone through comphet; an enbian/cenelian, enboric/teramoric or feminamoric/trixamoric folk who used to be pan; an abrosexual or sexually fluid folk; or otherwise nomascic person who once experienced attraction to men.
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[Image ID: A flag with nine horizontal stripes. The colors from top to bottom are purple, magenta, pink, gold, yellow, gold, pink, magenta, purple. End ID.]
paradoxian!
a term that is highly related to paradoxes in the users mind. the user identifies as a bi lesbian, a pan lesbian, an omni lesbian, a straight lesbian, a ply lesbian, a bi turian/veldian, a pan turian/veldian, an omni turian/veldian, a ply turian/veldian, a straight turian/veldian, bihet, panhet, omnihet, plyhet, a bi enbian, a pan enbian, an omni enbian, a ply enbian, a straight enbian, a bi gai, a pan gai, an omni gai, a ply gai, a straight gai, a strayt gai, a ply strayt, an omni strayt, a pan strayt, a bi strayt, a sapphic achillean, a lesbian turian, aroace, transmasc, transfem, transneu, multigender, agender, genderfluid, abro, and being filled with pride and love for yourself! (these things are not necessarily paradoxical but the user identifies with paradoxes and thus feels that their complex gender and attraction are connected to that)
coined for day four of @neopronouns 's 5000 follower coining event- a term with a long, highly descriptive and/or complex definition
tagging @mogaisunflowers @epikulupu @revenant-coining @radiomogai @genderyboy @cocajimmycola @lovesick-mogai @corbybug @liom-archive @hoardicboy @truthwithlight and @heart-valentin3 ( if you want to be added to the tag list/taken off of it, you can always tell me :] )
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M-spec straight vesil flags (* ^ ω ^)
MspecStraightVesi / VesiMspecStraight : a term under the vesil umbrella, in which many or all parts of ones identity are affected/defined by being m-spec straight.
BiStraightVesi / VesiBiStraight : a term under the vesil umbrella, in which many or all parts of ones identity are affected/defined by being bi straight.
PlyStraightVesi / VesiPlyStraight : a term under the vesil umbrella, in which many or all parts of ones identity are affected/defined by being ply straight.
OmniStraightVesi / VesiOmniStraight : a term under the vesil umbrella, in which many or all parts of ones identity are affected/defined by being omni straight.
PanStraightVesi / VesiPanStraight : a term under the vesil umbrella, in which many or all parts of ones identity are affected/defined by being pan straight.
AbroStraightVesi here.
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Like the other m-spec vesil flags, these are based off of pre-existing m-spec flags. Bi, ply, omni, and pan straight flags here, and m-spec straight here. Both are made by @forestcoric-mogai-fox.
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Vesil Masterpost
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inbox check!
genders:
janegirl + tomboy label
gnc janegirl + tomboy label
transneumasc janegirl + tomboy label
occunous + lectence
midrien (alt midtrinary) flag
gender related to rilakkuma bears, space whales, comets, celestial bodies, and cozycore
gender related to arcade carpets, cyberpunk cities, vaporwave aesthetics, and the polytela gloriosae moth
xenogender related to cinnamon oriental longhairs, green academia, apple pie, vintage teacups, cardigans, and the colors #6a7366 & #d9a988
gender related to panthers, synthwave, glitched-out lettering, thermal imaging, and a linked image
gender related to plush frogs, rainy day aesthetics, button collections, sprouting seeds, and the colors #565c41
jewish academia gender
gender related to being bisexual, bisexual history, and bi4bi attraction/love
nymboy + lovegender
azurboyless and rosgirless
jimmy mcgill/saul goodman + man chargendic
rosman version
azurman version
nonbinary man version
flamboric version
kim wexler + woman chargendic
azurwoman version
roswoman version
nonbinary woman version
casualic version
mcwexler shipgender
t4t version
bi4bi version
auti4adhd version
gender related to 'you first' by paramore, the lyric 'turns out i'm livin' in a horror film where i'm both the killer and the final girl', trauma, self-sabotage, moral complexity, and kim wexler
masculine gender related to grunge, horror, band shirts, etc. and also pastel things, cartoons, kidcore, etc.
orientations:
heartless romantic flag
free love flag
aspec term for one who experiences attraction so infrequently that they can't tell what genders they're attracted to or what form of attraction they're feeling
term for experiencing all monosexual attractions separately at once without them adding up to a multisexual experience
gay and strayt for men + gai and straight for women term
support cookie 4 magic cookie
alloplatonic4alloplatonic
platonic4queerplatonic
queerplatonic4platonic
demi subjattraction
term for not wanting one's attraction to be perceived as a category of attraction (gay, straight, etc.), just attraction
term for being obsessed with love and a hopeless romantic while being aromantic and not wanting that love for oneself
mad pride/plural/disability/etc.:
traits of npd flag (flag for inspo linked in ask)
bpd + hpd + traits of npd flag (flags linked in ask)
autism + ibs flag
aldernic/vesil/perspesque/etc.:
none
alterhuman/nonhuman/etc.:
none
uncategorized/multicategory terms:
term for refusing to use labels while experiencing queer things and being punky about it
edits/alt flags/combo flags/etc.:
ply transhet flag
genderqueer butch trans guy flag
translunar solian flag
flamboric/casualic boygirl flags
flamboric/casualic janegirl flags
flamboric/casualic tomboy flags
bigender androgyne flag
alt ainuline flag based on mogaicemetery's outherine flag
strayt julietian flag
thistle femme janegirl/tomboy flags
femme janegirl/tomboy flags
butch janegirl/tomboy flags
futch janegirl/tomboy flags
bat janegirl/tomboy flags
butch-presenting femme and futch flags
femme-presenting butch and futch flags
butch/femme/futch/soft butch/butchy femme-presenting flags
tomboy/femmeboy-presenting flags
rosboy/rosgirl/azurgirl/azurboy-presenting flags
orchellian julietian flag
orchellian bennetian flag
strayt + unlabeled + genderfuck flag
cis bi man flag
pokemon teams (currently posting these immediately instead of queueing them):
azurgirl with gen 4 and 5 pokemon
bigender lesbian
synthroin
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🌸Welcome to My Blog!🌸
🌸About Me!🌸
🌸Mod Sakura
🌸24
🌸Cis Woman
🌸She/They
🌸Demi aroace
🌸Radical Inclusionist
🌸Antishipper
🌸Intersectional Feminist
🌸Autistic + Anxiety
🌸Beginner Satantic Pagan Witch
🌸Beginner Tarot Reader
🌸Pro Palestine
🌸Side Blogs🌸
🌸Main/Discourse Blog: @demiaroacejolynekujo 🌸
🌸Tarot/Witchy Blog: @babybatwitchxxx 🌸
-Please continue with the rest of the post to read more about this blog, rules, and DNI before making a request-
🌸About Blog🌸
This blog is dedicated to making profile pictures/icons based on various Queer identities. This blog supports all good faith Queer labels, gender identities, and pronouns. This blog is not a safe space for those who wish to exclude people who identify with labels that pose no threat to anyone within the Queer community. The exclusion within the community is harmful and promotes fighting between Queer people, including promoting Queerphobia within the Queer community.
🌸Rules🌸
-You're limited to two flags for each icon you request. I can only do two flags on one icon as it's much easier for me to do so. I will open up to doing more than two flags in the future if I'm able to do it.
-Any requests of characters of media I refuse to use and flags I refuse to use will be deleted. If you PM me trying to convince me to accept your request (or make a post with me tagged in it doing the same thing), you will be blocked.
-If you're going to use my icons, please credit me beforehand. However, you don't have to ask me to use any of things. All the icons on this blog are free for anyone to use.
-Reblogs and comments will be turned off on my icon posts to prevent people from my DNI list from interacting with my blog. Anyone from my DNI list who tries to reach out/interact with me via a PM or a post will be blocked.
-Discourse of all kinds is forbidden on this blog. I have a discourse blog that is tagged at the top of this post.
-If there's a certain Pride Flag(s) you want me to do, please send it to me through a PM or askbox.
🌸DO NOT REQUEST!🌸
-Exclusionist "Pride" Flags (Battleaxe Bi, Longsword Lesbian, Gravity Knife Gay, Transmed Flag, ect.)
-Radqueer "Pride" Flags
-Lesbian Pride icons using the Labrys Flag or Lipstick Lesbian Flags (these Flags were made to exclude certain groups of Lesbians)
-Requests making Pride icons of canonically strictly aroace characters (unless I make them). This is to avoid people asking requests that are for the purpose of erasing the identity of those aroace characters.
-YouTubers, Celebrities, Actors, and Singers who are not Queer
-Two Spirit Pride Flag of non-Native and non-Indigenous characters (this includes if you headcanon them as Native/Indigenous).
-Mspec Lesbian Pride Flags of canonically Lesbian characters (just to prevent discourse)
-Mspec Gay Pride Flags of canonically Gay Male characters (to prevent discourse)
-Mspec Bi, Pan, Omni, and Ply Pride Flags of canonically Bi, Pan, Omni, and Ply characters (again, to prevent discourse)
-Lesbian Flag of cis male characters
-Gay/MLM Flag of cis women characters
-Pan, Omni, Ply Pride Flags with canonically Bisexual characters
-Bi Flag with canonically Pan, Omni, and Ply characters
-Lesbian/MLM Flags with canonically Bisexual, Pan, Omni, and Ply characters
-Cis "Pride", Straight "Pride", Super Straight "Pride" Flags
-MAP "Pride" Flag
-AAM Flag (stands for Adult Attracted Minor)
-Kink Pride Flags of canonically underage characters
-Pride Flags involving harmful kinks
Please note that I will accept any requests as long as what you want to request isn't on the DNR list. If you have any questions regarding the Do Not Requst line, please don't be afraid to ask. I will also be accepting requests using Neurodivergent and Disablity Pride Flags.
🌸Media I Will Do🌸
🌸JoJo's Bizarre Adventure (I will not be doing icons of Stroheim and Yukako as I absolutely hate these characters. I will not do any icons Joseph, including Bi and Polyamorous pride icons of Joseph as he cheated on his wife. On top of that, it's a harmful stereotype of Bi and Polyam people being cheaters)
🌸Star Wars (I will not accept any icon requests of Cara Dune due to her actress being an extremely terrible person)
🌸Demon Slayer
🌸Jujutsu Kaisen (I will not accept icon requests of Mei Mei)
🌸Marvel (I will not accept requests the MCU versions of Scarlet Witch, Starlord, Kang, Ant Man, Wasp, Iron Man, Doctor Strange, and Black Widow due to their actors being shitty people (let me know if I miss any MCU actors for this list). I will not do Pride icons on the character Sabra due to the fact she's a Zionist character, and she's named after a massacre. I will not accept any Pan, Omni, and Ply flag requests of Loki as he's canonically Bisexual.)
🌸Homestuck
🌸Naruto and Boruto
🌸One Piece
🌸Pokemon
🌸The Owl House
🌸Bob's Burgers
🌸The Amazing Digital Circus
🌸Chainsaw Man (I will not accept icons requests for Himeno and Makima)
🌸Attack on Titan
🌸Media I Will Not Do🌸
🌸Helluva Boss and Hazbin Hotel
🌸Hetalia
🌸DreamSMP
🌸Harry Potter and Fantastic Beasts
🌸Seven Deadly Sins
🌸My Hero Academia
🌸Soul Eater and Fire Force
🌸Neon Genesis Evangelion
🌸Supernatural (the TV show)
🌸South Park
🌸Family Guy, American Dad, The Orville, and anything created by Seth MacFarland
🌸Game of Thrones and House of the Dragon
🌸RWBY and anything created by Roosterteeth
🌸DC Comics
🌸Stranger Things
🌸DreamWorks Voltron
🌸Lore Olympus
🌸Five Nights at Freddy's (including the movie too. The creator was outed funding conservative politicians)
🌸Kill La Kill (it's basically "CP the anime")
🌸Shera and the Princesses of Power (only because I want to avoid the Catradora discourse and discourse about the show in general)
-If there's a character from a piece of media I did not put on the list of media I can do, please make sure it's not on the list of media I will not do before submitting a request. Please let me know if there's a piece of media that I should put on the list of media I will not do.-
🌸DO NOT INTERACT!🌸
🌸Racists, Neonazis, White Supermacists
🌸Anti-LGBTQIA+phobes/Queerphobes
🌸Ableists of all kinds
🌸Anti Self Diagnosis/Fakeclaimers
🌸Proshippers, Darkshippers, Comshippers, Anti Antis, Anyone whose Proship "Neutral"
🌸Anyone who believes that fiction cannot be affect reality
🌸 Exclusionists of all kinds
🌸Inclusionists who exclude certain groups of people
🌸Anti MOGAI
🌸Anti It/Its Pronouns and Neopronouns
🌸TERFs, SWERFs, Radfems, TEHMs (or any feminist appropriating fascists)
🌸Israel supporters and Zionists
🌸Anyone who believes that Jewish people have to be Zionists (Zionism is antisemitic)
🌸Antisemities
🌸Islamophobes
🌸Republicans, Centrists, Libertarians, Apolitical, Alt-Right Wingers, and Q-Anon Supporters,
🌸Harry Potter fans and JK Rowling Fans
🌸Anyone whose against Trans men being Lesbians
🌸Anyone who believes AMAB nonbinary people can't be Lesbians
🌸Anyone who thinks that Queer is still a slur
🌸Anyone who thinks that the R Slur can be a reclaimable slur
🌸Autism Speaks supporters
🌸Vivziepop fans
🌸Christians, Catholics, and anyone who practices under any of the Christian denominations
🌸Anyone whose against Paganism, Wiccan and Witchcraft, Satanism, and other marginalized religions
🌸Antitheists
🌸Autistic people who still call their Autism as "Asperger's Syndrome"/Aspie Supremacists (mainly the ones who know why the term is harmful)
🌸Any neurotypical person who still refers to Autism as "Asperger's Syndrome"
🌸Anyone who still using terms like "high/low functioning", "special need", "mentally challenged"
🌸Anyone who believes that narcissistic abuse is real
🌸Anti Kink
🌸Anti Porn and Anti Sex Work
🌸Anyone whose a fan of Amber Heard and Johnny Depp
🌸Anyone who believes that men can't be victims and/or can't suffer under the patriarchy
🌸Anyone who believes that women can't be abuser and/or can benefit from the patriarchy
🌸"Kill All Men" people
🌸Anti Children people (as in people who really hate kids and says shit like "fuck them kids". Not people who don't want kids.)
🌸Pro Lifers and Anti Choicers
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