#self reblog folks

[bloodsbane]

Hey guys! I have a Dungeon Meshi server!

It's very small at the moment, but I'd love to have more people join so we can talk about the manga and enjoy the anime together while it's airing!

Some notes on the server itself:

It's safe for anime-onlys; there are separate channel categories for those who are fully caught up on the manga and roles that will keep people out of spoiler-heavy channels.

It's meant to be a pleasant space for people to discuss things they enjoy about dunmeshi, share cool fanworks, and foster creativity. The vibe is meant to be kept positive and friendly, so there are no sort of vent or discourse channels.

All that being said, I really don't want the server to get overly-populated, nor am I interested in moderating a totally public server (scary!), so the link is never going to just be openly shared. If you're interested in joining, though:

Send me a message (NOT anonymous, obviously) asking to join.

PLEASE KNOW I won't be accepting everyone who asks; friends/mutuals/acquaintances and followers I'm at least a little familiar with will get priority.

The server is 18+ only, though I'd say ideally 21+. I'm most comfortable moderating servers for adults. Please don't ask to join if you're under 18.

#banebabbles #dunmeshi #me wanting to invite folks to join but no way in hell im just putting out the link aaa!!! so here is a gentle little invite #bro can i self reblog/bump posts if i lock the rbs... guess ill find out

[candyheartedchy]

I’m not gonna lie, as much as I want to interact with fandom blogs and join in on the discussions on my favorite shows and characters, the fact that I might make some of them uncomfortable due to being a self shipper make me anxious and sad.

#i know there’s some that follow me and I’m honored and greatful ❤️ #but honestly when some of y’all first followed me I was scared lol #i know other self shippers probably feel the same way too because we’re TERRIFIED of having fandoms know about our ships and stuff #and it’s a struggle #that’s why I rarely reblog other’s fanart because of this #it’s just you’re watching the fans have fun but your on the sideline too scared to make the first move #i just wish I was move braver to reach out more and interact with folks #but that fear of people knowing about you and your work and judging is real #vent i guess #💬 chy chatter 💬

[izzyspussy]

this might sound mean but. get better at reading. i know literacy education sucks. i understand. it's time to take it upon yourself. get better at reading. if you can't read well you're easy to manipulate first of all, but also on a more interpersonal level if you can't read well and you're doing a significant portion of your socializing through text you're making yourself miserable. it's a skill. seek out resources to help you improve. get better at reading.

#jack facts #reading process #just saw yet another post where someone picked a fight with op for something they did not say & the majority of reblogs falling in w that #so responder's upset and op's upset and everyone the now mixed message has reached is upset and i'm upset #it's no way to go about life folks #like genuinely improving your reading comprehension skills is self care #the same as like learning how to cook or whatever #i'm begging

[bestiesincrime]

nothing happened, i just find him rude and insensitive in his attractiveness.

#jeff satur #kinnporsche #kinnporsche cast #kim theerapanyakul #kinnporsche the series #worakamon satur #sir #please #show some form of self restraint #kinnporsche shitpost #meme i guess #if you're curious abt what prompetd this just look at my last reblog #kimhan theerapanyakul #kinnporsche bts #idk folks at this point i'm just letting stuff out #*cue keysmash* #bugs bunny meme *cheers and applause* #my post

[aeons-domain]

💖💓Hearts and Hugs!💕💗

#jjba self ship #jjba self insert #oc x canon #jojo oc #jjba oc #Cherry Ribbons | Madison x Kakyoin #JKLM | Jotaro x Madison x Kakyoin #original character #madison adams #creator draws #ok to reblog #i would've plugged comms in here somewhere bc i AM still opening comms in this style...but nah HJUDSHKSHD spotlights on the ship today folk

[altgoth-aesthetic]

Hiiii it's my birthday tomorrow! 🦇

#i know a lot of folks don't think bdays are important #but for me i didn't think i would live past 19 so i am celebrating still being around!!!! #still kickin it despite it all!!!! #me #my post #my face #my pics #my style #okay to reblog #birthday #self love #alt style #alt fashion #alternative #alternative fashion #alternative style #alternative girl #(i don't really identify as a girl lmao but for the tags it makes sense ig) #goth #goth style #goth fashion #goth gf #goth outfit #goth girl #pastel goth #pink hair #dyed hair #ootd #goth aesthetic #soft grunge

[idswolf]

Late night peek at a wip of mine I was working on :]

#jack o moon #fnaf #wip #late night post #not gonna self reblog in the morning #this is for late night folks only :]

[coffeecakecafe]

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#coffee talks #i keep getting followers that i watch like #go thru my two plus year old crossover fandom tag and like everything #and then follow #and it's like hi buddy hello #i am a stan account for my own dnd pcs these days and i haven't posted the content u are after #in over a year and a half #but also for the most part those folks aren't reblogging anyway so i guess it's a net loss on both ends #i had to stop making fan content for a while bc it was messing w like my self perception #and skewing my thought process for art towards a very transactional relationship #make thing get attention u know #and it was makin me sad #so this is better for my brain #but i have nothing for any of the like dozen or so newish followers that all came for fandom content #and very very rarely are those folks interacting w the stuff i am posting these days #which is chill like curate ur online experience #i get it #i just maybe don't get why you'd stick around here ha #anyway just some thoughts to ramble on for a bit #lil explanation ig if u were wondering why i dropped fandoms #might delete later tbh

[orangetintedglasses]

( me staring at other people's prompt memes, finding one I think suits our muses, then going '... mmmmno it'd be too presumptuous of me to send that in'

so if u ever wonder why I rarely send memes.......... gestures )

#( I have interacted with many folks who've reblogged memes today on more than one occasion and I'm still like ) #( 'ehhh is that being pushy' ) #( my therapist says I need to work on my self-esteem LMAO ) #( i am but a plate of anxious pasta ) #curtains down ✧〗( ooc )

[everyday-is-brighter-with-you]

there are simply too many posts with Images

#Dont rb #SORRRYY FOLKS THIS BLOGS PROBABLY GONNA STAY SLOW #CANT REBLOG EVERYTHING I DROP A LIKE ON... #I GUESS ILL PRIORITISE ORIGINAL CONTENT INSTEAD OF MEMES N STUFF #i say #txt #reminder to self #AND use the no id tag as well #Sometimes...its just too complicated 4 me #especially real photos

[imjustagirllolol]

Finally made the gift or @awakenthebeing

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REBLOG?? PLS??

#( 🍓 𝙾𝙾𝙲. / space ghost. ) #( 🍥 ) % strawbericc’s icons ! ^ ^っ ☆ #❪ * ☕︎ : it’s tea time folks ! ❫ #🐾 reblog 🐾 #🐾.txt #📂 %% — ★ . . uchuujin updates 💬 #★(🎂)★ % cak3 cuppi's %26 >o< ⊃ ♡🍥.. #★提供整套申请学校材料 #pizza tower #rain 🌧️ #┆ ° ♡ • ➵ ic #[ 🌙 ] ; self promo #Spotify

[klinejack]

i have written to them about this 10000 times and this is the first time i get this response.

THIS IS NOT EVEN TRUE BECAUSE MY SIDEBLOGS NEVER NEVER HAVE NEVER LOST THE TAGS !!!!!!!!!! NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BUT OH SO NOW SHE TELLS ME THEYRE DOING IT ON PURPOSE AND THERES NOWAY TO FIX IT WHAT THE FUCK

WHY WOULD I PUT MY FREQUENTLY TYPED TAGS IN THE FEATURED TAGS THEY ARE NOT FOR OTHER PEOPLE THEY ARE FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!!

SO NOW I CAN'T KNOW MY OWN TAGS EVER AGAIN?!!? EVERY MONTH I HAVE TO GO SEARCHING FOR THE CORRECT TAG OF SOMETHIN I HAVEN'T TAGGED IN ONE MONTH?!?! THE FUCK!??!?!?!??

#TUMBLR NONSENSE #ITS KILLING ME #AND I WANT TO KILL THEM FOR IT TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #WHY THE FUCKJ SHOULD I HAVE TO TYPE EVERYTHING OUT EVERY GODDAM N MONTH #BUT YOUR SUGGESTION IS TO PUT 24 FEATURED TAGS #AS IF I DIDNT HAVE 89345847894368345 TAGS THAT I USE ON A REGULAR BASIS #IM SUPPOSED TO PUT 'SELF REBLOG FOR YOU EVENING FOLKS' IN MY FEATURED TAGS?!?!! #GET THE FFFFUFUUUUUUCCCJJKKKKK OUT OF HERE!!!!!

[aeons-domain]

lunch and dinner with your husbands 💗😋🍽️

+ alt version

(ok to reblog! 💖)

#jojo #jojo's bizarre adventure #stardust crusaders #jjba stardust crusaders #jjba self ship #jotaro kujo #noriaki kakyoin #oc x canon #who is the oc you may ask? it's you dear viewer 😌 #KDFHKSDHF but yes a win for the self-shippers with my girl madison out of the picture both literally and figuratively LMAO #omgggg you're on a lunch/dinner date with the baes that's saur cuutteee ^o^ 💕💕 #ngl...not liking this piece folks but i'd get too worked up trying to fix it when i was almost done working on it :-/ #hopefully i can draw them better in the future! i swear they just look a lil bit wonky here hskdhksdf 🥴 #creator draws #ok to reblog

[toomanyacronyms]

I would love to get a formal Autism diagnosis.

I've ruled out BPD, Bipolar 1 and 2, and NPD. I was told repeatedly over the years that I must have one of those three, but I've taken tests, found anecdotes of people who do have those, and found the DMS-5 for all of them. I didn't fit any lf them. I was however diagnosed with ADHD back in 2020 and when I started meds for it, I knew they weren't helping everything. I was told by a sibling that they had thought I might be Autistic and I went from there; looking up the DSM-5, taking tests, and listening to others. Something in me clicked and the more I unmasked and started healing from my childhood trauma, the more my Autistic traits came back to the surface after a whole lifetime of unconscious (and unsuccessful) suppression and feeling off and different and broken.

Now onto why I would love to get a diagnosis but probably won't end up getting one. I am low supports needs/high masking. I'm the person who you would just think I'm quirky, weird, and/or rude at any given time. I'm in my 20s, I no longer get the benefits of insurance paying for an Autism assessment and I have other disabilities that make it hard to work a lot during the week. Also, I'm not going to pay a couple thousand dollars to be told I can't be Autistic because I was a good student in high school, I'm planning to go to college this fall, I have a job, I have more than one friend, etc, instead of looking at plenty of evidence to the contrary.

For my ADHD diagnosis, I had to go behind a previous doctor's back because they insisted I couldn't have it because I had been a good student in high school despite not wanting to hear about the struggles behind those good grades. If that's how it was for an ADHD diagnosis, I can just imagine how hard it is to get an Autism assessment done correctly as an adult. That being said, I don't go around demanding accommodations for something I'm not formally diagnosed with. The only people I told are my Dad (who I live with), my sister (who hangs out here frequently), one of my two friends (so they can understand me better), my therapist (for reasons), and obviously here on Tumblr (I need some form of support group).

I'm self-diagnosed because I was literally falling apart and self-diagnosing has kept me from literally killing myself because i think I'm broken beyond repair.

#i recognize the massive privilege i have with getting a choice in a formal diagnosis #i recognize that i my disability (while still a disability) doesnt interfere with my life as much as others #but i wish more level 1 formal diagnosed realized that they are the minority not the majority #especially since autistics of color arent as lucky as us white folks in any capacity #autism #self diagnosed autism #disabled #disability #feel free to come at me in the reblogs i dont care

[iwatcheditbegin]

I think one of the funniest things I remember about Taylor’s tumblr era was the immediate shift when she was online. I’m not talking about self reblogs. The way some of y’all would immediately go from making spicy posts to being full on angels in seconds 😭

#I don’t miss the self reblogs or attention seeking shit but that switch was always hilarious #y’all she was a teen too it’s okay I promise #but I legit felt uncomfortable at times it was that sane feeling you get when your mom is in your room or looking at your phone #it’s funny how nervous some folks got bc we’ve all seen her old MySpace lmao

[transgender-png]

fuck it. shout out to "high functioning" neurodivergents

the ones who can mask easily, the ones who can get social cues, the ones who have managed to go most of their life not even knowing they were ND because they didn't present as the stereotypical ND person.

the ones who can pay attention in class, understand social etiquette, who understand societial expectations

the ones who don't feel neurodivergent enough bc they don't struggle in the same ways/areas a lot of NDs do, or they can't relate to other NDs' experiences because they always understood these things easily

the ones with high empathy, the ones who DO get the joke, the ones who are constantly told that they can't possibly be neurodivergent because they don't act like what you'd expect a neurodivergent person to act like.

you are neurodivergent enough. you are valid, and so are your experiences. not struggling as much as others do in some places doesn't mean you dont struggle at all. your condition and diagnosis is valid. your symptoms are valid. YOU ARE VALID. not checking all the supposed boxes doesn't mean you aren't neurodivergent. you are enough. you are valid. you are loved. you are valued. you matter. you belong in neurodivergent spaces, you deserve to use whatever resources are available to you, you are allowed to take up space in these communities. and i am so, so proud of you.

feel free to, and actually, i encourage you to reblog this with your experiences. we belong in this community as much as anyone else. please also tag this w/ any neurodivergent conditions i may have forgotten 💙

since this is getting lots of notes I'd like to add, even if you're undiagnosed or maybe self diagnosed, for whatever reason, (i.e. can't get access to a diagnosis, not being taken seriously, or just not wanting an official diagnosis, etc.) this still applies to you. actually especially to you folks. don't think for a second you're not valid just bc you don't have the paperwork or whatever to say it

#neurodivergent #neurodiversity #nd #autism #adhd #ocd #dyslexia #dyscalculia #asd #autism spectrum disorder #tourettes #tourettes syndrome #dyspraxia #hyperlexia #synesthesia #down syndrome #sensory processing disorder #schizophrenia #borderline personality disorder #bpd